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You got to be kidding me, this shows how the society have deteriorated in terms of ethics, how can you even Compare being single and married, it can't be compared. The reality will start setting in as you age ... The play with lineage ...

lexy2014:
What does the freedom get u?

What are the things in marriage that u say u perpetually enjoy as a single?

Freedom gives me my peace of mind which is assured.

As a single person, you make your own decisions without having to consider how your partner feels about it.

As a single person, you have less mouth to feed.

As a single person, you can travel the entire world without your partner feeling abandoned.

As a single person, you get to have variety in sex without anybody accusing you of cheating.

Singleness is bae, again, most especially if you're a guy.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Family bonding

alphaconde:
the thread and its commenters have broken my heart

you rush go marry without consulting us... get well soon

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

Among all these coded olosho everywhere you are looking for the right person. Smh

I'm still asking myself this question...

Companionship or longtime friendship

With this thought, you are close to getting married

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

dawnomike:
You may not fully understand until you are married... Provided you are blessed with a lovely family and money is not ypur problem

I swear especially when married to your ride or die. Every single moment will be fun and the companionship is a bliss.

Blunttruth:
You feel so because people are now doing stuff that is meant only for marriage in relationships.

Thanks to feminists

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

COMPANIONSHIP. ASK A WIDOW OR WIDOWER FOR BETTER EXPLANATION

A lot is really going wrong in this our generation. Ask 2face today and he will tell you that he would have been more happy if all his kids came from his wife. Forget what this people makes you think, there is no joy in all this baby mama thing. Your children will be more happy and fulfilled if their both parents is living together. This broken homes is the reason for so many bad upriging we have today.
There is nothing as fulfilling as a good marriage. Though it has it own challenges but that's how life is.

You're just scared cos of the drastic decline in the number virtuous women. Where you see a married woman flirting around without any atom of shame and sense of dignity.
Women no longer have respect for their body. Almost everything that used to be sacred is now bared in the public. Gone are those days when seeing a woman's pant is almost like sleeping with her..

I think is not really being responsible but one will be seen as having the sense of responsibility. Which actually it’s true. Only the married can tell you the exact but no matter how one see examples of failed and successful marriages around still you can’t tell talk about the benefits of you are not into. You can only sound as MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER just like you did. No hard feelings anyways One

Ximenez:
They get public validation.
Among the ignorant black people, being married is equal to being responsible.

Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

God bless you...two bottles of Russia Vodka for you

Realmi:
Married people enjoy FAMILY

You cant get that with a baby mama or girlfriend

Family is very important

Family indeed

Realmi:
Married people enjoy FAMILY

You cant get that with a baby mama or girlfriend

Family is very important

Dom(fast and furious) is that you?

I have clearly grown more being married than when I was single.

phemmyfour:
Family bonding

Dangote, Jeff Bezos, wizkid, Davido don't have a wife at home are you happier than they are?

Having to pool resources together to achieve a common goal that would have been impossible or difficult to do by a single individual. This remind me of economies of scale in economics.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Mehn..marriage is beautiful. Seriously I really wished I did it early. I never wanted getting married.. till I met my woman.
Sometimes, when I am at home probably after work, and my wife not back..I jump up at the slightest bike or car sound I hear.
Mehn, I really don't want to wake up to hear my wife is no more.

She's so lovely.

When planning marriage, being a virgin should not be a cateria.

Just the way relationships crash, marriage also crashes.

My advice, get married to who want to be a wife/husband.
Get married to who want to be married and know what it means to be married.
For men, marry a woman, who sees u as her everything...most men do otherwise.

If your wife loves u, the chance of marriage lasting long is really high.

And before marriage, make sure u tell ur partner where u stand.
If u drink, tell them u drink.
If u smoke, tell them you smoke.

Marriage is really beautiful.

We expecting our first child..and it feels really great..its with a woman my child can call mum..not side chic.

ajayiopy:
COMPANIONSHIP. ASK A WIDOW OR WIDOWER FOR BETTER EXPLANATION

Someone whom have never been married can not be a widow or widower.

ajayiopy:
COMPANIONSHIP. ASK A WIDOW OR WIDOWER FOR BETTER EXPLANATION

Wisdom.
They've been both.

PointZerom:
If the elders ask you to come with your legally married wife, what will you do?

I will Tell them to grow up... this is 2022

bluefilm:
Freedom gives me my peace of mind which is assured.

As a single person, you make your own decisions without having to consider how your partner feels about it.

As a single person, you have less mouth to feed.

As a single person, you can travel the entire world without your partner feeling abandoned.

As a single person, you get to have variety in sex without anybody accusing you of cheating.

Singleness is bae, again, most especially if you're a guy.

Do married folks not travel the world together?

Do married folks not have peace of mind? Is peace of mind the exclusive preserve of singles?

Why should you have variety in sex in the first place? Do u think you will always have variety in sex your whole life?

So when you get old, would you still fancy being single?

MadeINchenzen2:
you rush go marry without consulting us... get well soon

not really bro

am married with two kids

my home is the best place to be for me

am broken becuase of how lots of people are not getting it right

Marriage with the right person is cool,
but it's worse than hell with the wrong person!

Currently, 2 married women are relentlessly seeking for a SEXCAPADE with me due to prolonged brouhaha in their various marriages....

One shockingly confessed to me that her hubby has not been intimate with her for almost 3 years now, yet they live under same roof! my jaw dropped!

The other one said she married the wrong person but choose to remain in the hellish union due to societal pressures!

bluefilm:
Marriage is overrated.

There's absolutely nothing you enjoy as a married person that you can't enjoy as a single person, most especially if you're a guy.

As a man, the worst thing about marriage is the complete loss of your freedom once you get married.

You will understand better when you 50.

ImoleNaija:
Marriage is sweet, but bitter with a feminist. Well, no one can practice feminism under my roof unless the bills are shared 50-50, then I would know we are just together to make kids. Aside that, don't try anything funny.

Suffer no de tire you?

Me I'm looking for a feminist, especially the ones that carry 50-50 shared expense for head like gala. I no like to get heart attack if I go broke, because madam sef broke and go follow me fight if I no get money.

50/50 feminist or no marriage

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Skin2skin

Goldbw122:
Yeah, being married create that opportunity of producing legitimate and not outcast offspring, while being single you are just alone, even when you go about enjoying and caughting all the fun you want.

U tried your best..but you ddnt make any sense..

What da fvck do you mean by outcast offspring

Na women dey enjoy marriage pass...left for men they can stay without a wife..because it's a burden to them