Beremx:
My sister ehn.... May we not have sons who will send us to untimely graves.


Zonefree, report here immediately!!

You are too Savage..
That boy and his group of clowns need serious help..
Been a while..hope you are doing great?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

You are too Savage..
That boy and his group of clowns need serious help..
Been a while..hope you are doing great?

they are all mad. Stupid sons who bring shame to their parents.

I am doing great. Happy Mother’s Day to us

Lalasticlala, and Mynd44 happy Sunday o!

Beremx:
I am telling you. The Op is a cursed bitter soul whose ideology is to deceive young men like him to hate women including their mothers. I pity the deluded ones like Moz22 who have started beating up their mother.

Foolish things

Aunty Berem, this is why mothers should always pray on their pregnancies that may they not give birth to useless children, or children that will disgrace them. In this woman's mind she has a son, not knowing the so called son is on the internet calling her a whorë and encouraging other foolish males to hate their female relatives.

As for the Moz22 person, it is someone that can publicly call his mother an ashawo that he is pallying with. He will soon graduate from beating his mother to calling her names in public as well. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.

Beremx:
My sister ehn.... May we not have sons who will send us to untimely graves.


Zonefree, report here immediately!!

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Beremx:
they are all mad. Stupid sons who bring shame to their parents.

I am doing great. Happy Mother’s Day to us

Lalasticlala, and Mynd44 happy Sunday o!

Thank ya Beremx.. seriously can't stop giggling reading your comment..

Ishilove:

Aunty Berem, this is why mothers should always pray on their pregnancies that may they not give birth to useless children, or children that will disgrace them. In this woman's mind she has a son, not knowing the so called son is on the internet calling her a whorë and encouraging other foolish males to hate their female relatives.

As for the Moz22 person, it is someone that can publicly call his mother an ashawo that he is pallying with. He will soon graduate from beating his mother to calling her names in public as well. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.

sigh! U guys barely know me and then u judge me this much? Na wa o... You think I don't know my left from my right? I could remember saying here that I regretted my actions almost immediately after I hit her as I would never have imagined that I would hit a fellow human not to speak of my own mother.. you can do better..

Beremx:
I am telling you. The Op is a cursed bitter soul whose ideology is to deceive young men like him to hate women including their mothers. I pity the deluded ones like Moz22 who have started beating up their mother.

Foolish things

You are really a toxic fellow, sensed that from your first comment on my thread.. but it's all good. Definitely not different from my mom

Moz22:
sigh! U guys barely know me and then u judge me this much? Na wa o... You think I don't know my left from my right? I could remember saying here that I regretted my actions almost immediately after I hit her as I would never have imagined that I would hit a fellow human not to speak of my own mother.. you can do better..

You have to avoid some of this mentally deranged female folks on NL with few nuerons left in their brain

Ishilove:

Aunty Berem, this is why mothers should always pray on their pregnancies that may they not give birth to useless children, or children that will disgrace them. In this woman's mind she has a son, not knowing the so called son is on the internet calling her a whorë and encouraging other foolish males to hate their female relatives.

As for the Moz22 person, it is someone that can publicly call his mother an ashawo that he is pallying with. He will soon graduate from beating his mother to calling her names in public as well. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.

Good morning, not just praying during pregnancy but proper home training/upbringing; most parents don't flog their children again because we are in the modern world. The flogging/ discipline i got from my parents both dad and mum really helped me till date and anyone who insult my parents (dad or mum) will not be comfortable with me because i don't insult peoples parents, thank you.

Moz22:
You are really a toxic fellow, sensed that from your first comment on my thread.. but it's all good. Definitely not different from my mom

I am old enough to birth you. I will talk harsh on you because you are a bad son. A son who beats his mother deserves to be cursed for life except he apologizes.
Btw, have you apologized to your beloved mother before Amadioha sends thunder to strike you?

Beremx:
I am old enough to birth you. I will talk harsh on you because you are a bad son. A son who beats his mother deserves to be cursed for life except he apologizes.
Btw, have you apologized to your beloved mother before Amadioha sends thunder to strike you?

Pele iya rainbow, even if he apologizes to the mother does it resolve the situation fully ... the problem here is why must one party feelings alway be irrelevant, a mother feeling hurt should also know there is a root cause to that child abominable act cos no child will ever want to slap his/her parent, how about identifying the root cause of the problem, so that both parties can admit there errors and apologize to one another, that will go a longer way than one party sucking up & the other feeling like demi-God

the parent & society needs to acknowledge that even children can feel "offended" after all no one is immune to "hurt'

Nah only you hate your mama

Beremx:
I am old enough to birth you. I will talk harsh on you because you are a bad son. A son who beats his mother deserves to be cursed for life except he apologizes.
Btw, have you apologized to your beloved mother before Amadioha sends thunder to strike you?

maybe my last brother, definitely not a man in his 30s. You are unwell

AgirlsNightmAre:

You have to avoid some of this mentally deranged female folks on NL with few nuerons left in their brain

it's sickening.. trust me

Moz22:
it's sickening.. trust me

They simply do not care about you, everything that seems to matter is your mother simply because she is a woman!

If it were your dad you talked about, trust me, they would have supported you.

TheGidRedpiller:
They simply do not care about you, everything that seems to matter is your mother simply because she is a woman!

If it were your dad you talked about, trust me, they would have supported you.

hmm

TheGidRedpiller:
You are very stupidd for commenting this rubbish. What are you trying to do? Throw it on our faces that we are left out GET LOST!!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with his comment, speak for yourself if u don't love ur mother it should be ur own cup of tea!! They are people who do!!!

TheGidRedpiller:
Search And Follow @TheGidRedpiller On Twitter ASAP!!

Most of you thought it was just me and of course also thought i was taking to advantage of the engagements but as of late, there are more and more males coming out here to speak up and pour their hearts out so they don't point a gun to the forehead of their mothers and pull the trigger when they can't contain themselves anymore!!

IT IS SCARY!! I thought my situation was rear, many of the males who talk about these things actually send me mails thanking me for giving them the courage to share their stories, BECAUSE I POSTED FIRST!!

I recently talked to the one who posted very recently, Moz22, you all should know him because he actually hit front page like i did, after i finished talking to him, do you know what he said? "....PERFECT!!" i didn't even really expressed my points to him like i wanted to but he already related like i was living in his head the whole time!
Young Men Are Going Down IN TRAUMA!!

Still Typing...

This boy please go and rest please!! Life is too short

TheGidRedpiller:
Search And Follow @TheGidRedpiller On Twitter ASAP!!

Most of you thought it was just me and of course also thought i was taking to advantage of the engagements but as of late, there are more and more males coming out here to speak up and pour their hearts out so they don't point a gun to the forehead of their mothers and pull the trigger when they can't contain themselves anymore!!

IT IS SCARY!! I thought my situation was rear, many of the males who talk about these things actually send me mails thanking me for giving them the courage to share their stories, BECAUSE I POSTED FIRST!!

I recently talked to the one who posted very recently, Moz22, you all should know him because he actually hit front page like i did, after i finished talking to him, do you know what he said? "....PERFECT!!" i didn't even really expressed my points to him like i wanted to but he already related like i was living in his head the whole time!
Young Men Are Going Down IN TRAUMA!!

Still Typing...

Funny, some people read this and immediately conclude that whoever wrote it has issues. Well, of course they do. That's the whole point of his venting. But instead of judging, why not try understand his pain first. I do not yet know why he/they are angry at their mothers, but I am sure that there's a reason, and I would be willing to understand that reason first.


Generally speaking, why is this person angry? Probably because his life got messy at some point and he traced much of his emotional struggles back to his mother. Is this possible? Absolutely, a boy child can be severely scarred by his mom just as a girl child can be scarred by her Dad. And if society scolds the angry boy for being angry, you can also scold all the abused girls for being mostly dysfunctional women. Is that not victim shaming?


You see, society is pathologically biased towards the male folk. It does not even acknowledge their real pain, talk less of address it.

Now , to the op:

As I said, I do not know your personal beef with your mother. There could be a thousand reasons, and it might even be deeper than what you believe on the surface. I do not hate my mother; quite the contrary. But I admit that she has given me enough reasons to hate her. Much of that was due to her selfishness, insensitivity, and poor judgement. But in her defense, she has gone through a lot in life before becoming who she is. So I cut her some slack. I do not judge her by her actions/bias/reasoning, I simply set boundaries so that she cannot keep harming me with those things. A lot of mothers have directly caused the downfall of their sons (career choices, love life, and overall happiness) while thinking that they want the best for you. A lot of them are extremely selfish and illogical, and would rather jeopardize your well-being for their own satisfaction. Of course, none of this is intentional. If such a mother could understand what she really did, what she caused, I assure you she will break down in tears. So instead of hating and punishing her for her weaknesses, try a more loving approach like talking to her as a friend. Go back to the roots of your anger and address the matters together. Sadly, many mothers will ruin that effort with their I-am-your-mother egos. But still try. If she ruins your efforts, then move on to boundaries. You can distance yourself and demote her from that "mother" position in your heart. Make her just another regular chic in your life. Yes, that is you taking the power away from her; she can no longer hurt you. But DO NOT DISRESPECT YOUR MOTHER.

A great responsibility was given to women since the beginning to time. To this day, majority of them have no clue what it is. They feel like the weaker sex, act all insecure, and cause almost all the problems in the world. Of course, they blame men for the problems. Only a few remain unspoiled and wise. These ones properly represent the divine female of this universe. And if you knew who that is, you will maintain maximum respect for all women regardless. Even if a clueless lady/mother decides to be a pig, you will refuse to get into their mud.

Ishilove:
The moderators of this section are not doing their jobs. AT ALL. This bullshit would not have survived during the era of sexkillz

But he is obviously saying the truth.

bullabong:
But he is obviously saying the truth. You know how much I hate my mother don't you? It is as a result of discoveries I made about how my mum manipulated me and my siblings to hate and abandon my dad unto death. Truth hurts really....

No, he is not saying the truth because there is no way to measure the percentage of individuals who have a strained relationship with their mothers. I am not saying that there aren't men out there who despise their mothers, but saying 'an increasing' number of men hate their mothers. How did he come by this statistic?

Alienhunter:


Funny, some people read this and immediately conclude that whoever wrote it has issues. Well, of course they do. That's the whole point of his venting. But instead of judging, why not try understand his pain first. I do not yet know why he/they are angry at their mothers, but I am sure that there's a reason, and I would be willing to understand that reason first.


Generally speaking, why is this person angry? Probably because his life got messy at some point and he traced much of his emotional struggles back to his mother. Is this possible? Absolutely, a boy child can be severely scarred by his mom just as a girl child can be scarred by her Dad. And if society scolds the angry boy for being angry, you can also scold all the abused girls for being mostly dysfunctional women. Is that not victim shaming?


You see, society is pathologically biased towards the male folk. It does not even acknowledge their real pain, talk less of address it.

Now , to the op:

As I said, I do not know your personal beef with your mother. There could be a thousand reasons, and it might even be deeper than what you believe on the surface. I do not hate my mother; quite the contrary. But I admit that she has given me enough reasons to hate her. Much of that was due to her selfishness, insensitivity, and poor judgement. But in her defense, she has gone through a lot in life before becoming who she is. So I cut her some slack. I do not judge her by her actions/bias/reasoning, I simply set boundaries so that she cannot keep harming me with those things. A lot of mothers have directly caused the downfall of their sons (career choices, love life, and overall happiness) while thinking that they want the best for you. A lot of them are extremely selfish and illogical, and would rather jeopardize your well-being for their own satisfaction. Of course, none of this is intentional. If such a mother could understand what she really did, what she caused, I assure you she will break down in tears. So instead of hating and punishing her for her weaknesses, try a more loving approach like talking to her as a friend. Go back to the roots of your anger and address the matters together. Sadly, many mothers will ruin that effort with their I-am-your-mother egos. But still try. If she ruins your efforts, then move on to boundaries. You can distance yourself and demote her from that "mother" position in your heart. Make her just another regular chic in your life. Yes, that is you taking the power away from her; she can no longer hurt you. But DO NOT DISRESPECT YOUR MOTHER.

A great responsibility was given to women since the beginning to time. To this day, majority of them have no clue what it is. They feel like the weaker sex, act all insecure, and cause almost all the problems in the world. Of course, they blame men for the problems. Only a few remain unspoiled and wise. These ones properly represent the divine female of this universe. And if you knew who that is, you will maintain maximum respect for all women regardless. Even if a clueless lady/mother decides to be a pig, you will refuse to get into their mud.

Anyone that publicly calls his mother a bitch, a slut and a whorë cannot be taken seriously. There are boundaries that must never be crossed, not matter how terrible a mother she is.

However, you have written wise words.

Ishilove:

Anyone that publicly calls his mother a bitch, a slut and a whorë cannot be taken seriously. There are boundaries that must never be crossed, not matter how terrible a mother she is.

However, you have written wise words.

Why are you taking it so personal? Are you guilty of those things the Op is talking about? Are you a sl..t?

blinking001:

Why are you taking it so personal? Are you guilty of those things the Op is talking about? Are you a sl..t?

Go and ask your ancestors.

Ishilove:

Go and ask your ancestors.

Trash!! You still haven't given me a definitive answer. Madam stop ranting all over the place, take a chill pill and get busy. Don't you have a husband or a family to be with? Get busy and get the f.ck out of nairaland.
if a woman misbehaves, she must be held accountable for her actions and be made to face the consequences. The Op once stated how his mom brought different men to their house and slept with them all, spending her little resources on these strange men totally neglecting her responsibilities as a mother, all you lots could come up with was that he sluut shamed his mother for something she clearly was. I put it to you that you're a Hypocrite. You're a very disingenuous person filled with ego. I feel sorry for the people around you. Life itself already has taught you a lesson but you've refused to be reasonable, you've refused to turn a new leaf. Prepare yourself for what's coming ahead.
Have a nice day.

blinking001:

[s]Trash!! You still haven't given me a definitive answer. Madam stop ranting all over the place, take a chill pill and get busy. Don't you have a husband or a family to be with? Get busy and get the f.ck out of nairaland.
if a woman misbehaves, she must be held accountable for her actions and be made to face the consequences. The Op once stated how his mom brought different men to their house and slept with them all, spending her little resources on these strange men totally neglecting her responsibilities as a mother, all you lots could come up with was that he sluut shamed his mother for something she clearly was. I put it to you that you're a Hypocrite. You're a very disingenuous person filled with ego. I feel sorry for the people around you. Life itself already has taught you a lesson but you've refused to be reasonable, you've refused to turn a new leaf. Prepare yourself for what's coming ahead.
Have a nice day.[/s]

I didn't read this crap. Get yourself together and stop ranting.

Ishilove:

I didn't read this crap. Get yourself together and stop ranting.

Another Trash coming from a senseless woman. I'll pass.

isaiah4life:

I think you should speak for yourself. We that love our mothers plenty.

Don't use the bolded. Speak for yourself. Don't use we

blinking001:

Another Trash coming from a senseless woman. I'll pass.

Resorting to insults, ehn? Shows your rock bottom mental and emotional maturity. I was on my own when you came to meet me, now it is paining you that I refuse to indulge your incoherent ramblings.

Fvck off forevermore, you ripe pimple on the ass of humanity.

Ishilove:

Resorting to insults, ehn? Shows your rock bottom mental and emotional maturity. I was on my own when you came to meet me, now it is paining you that I refuse to indulge your incoherent ramblings.

Fvck off forevermore, you ripe pimple on the ass of humanity.

Say this to your Ancestors.

The fact that your mother bleeped up does not mean the same for my mother and other men out there so stop the projection of false equivalence and maybe, grow some balls, be a man and move on with your damaged life.

My mom was the most loving person on earth to me and supported all of us kids with an unconditional love.
Was a great pillar to my dad as well.
I love her to the moon and back.