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Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:25pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beremx:You are too Savage.. That boy and his group of clowns need serious help.. Been a while..hope you are doing great? |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Beremx(f): 7:39pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:they are all mad. Stupid sons who bring shame to their parents. I am doing great. Happy Mother’s Day to us Lalasticlala, and Mynd44 happy Sunday o! |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 8:00pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beremx:Aunty Berem, this is why mothers should always pray on their pregnancies that may they not give birth to useless children, or children that will disgrace them. In this woman's mind she has a son, not knowing the so called son is on the internet calling her a whorë and encouraging other foolish males to hate their female relatives. As for the Moz22 person, it is someone that can publicly call his mother an ashawo that he is pallying with. He will soon graduate from beating his mother to calling her names in public as well. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Zonefree(m): 9:02pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beremx:Not available. 1 Like |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by FERNANDEZISBACK: 10:09pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beremx:Thank ya Beremx.. seriously can't stop giggling reading your comment.. 1 Like |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Moz22: 10:55pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Ishilove:sigh! U guys barely know me and then u judge me this much? Na wa o... You think I don't know my left from my right? I could remember saying here that I regretted my actions almost immediately after I hit her as I would never have imagined that I would hit a fellow human not to speak of my own mother.. you can do better.. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Moz22: 10:55pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beremx:You are really a toxic fellow, sensed that from your first comment on my thread.. but it's all good. Definitely not different from my mom 2 Likes |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Nobody: 3:02am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Moz22:You have to avoid some of this mentally deranged female folks on NL with few nuerons left in their brain 1 Like |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Maobichek: 7:33am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Ishilove: Good morning, not just praying during pregnancy but proper home training/upbringing; most parents don't flog their children again because we are in the modern world. The flogging/ discipline i got from my parents both dad and mum really helped me till date and anyone who insult my parents (dad or mum) will not be comfortable with me because i don't insult peoples parents, thank you. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Beremx(f): 8:11am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Moz22:I am old enough to birth you. I will talk harsh on you because you are a bad son. A son who beats his mother deserves to be cursed for life except he apologizes. Btw, have you apologized to your beloved mother before Amadioha sends thunder to strike you? |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by kayperry: 9:16am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Beremx: Pele iya rainbow, even if he apologizes to the mother does it resolve the situation fully ... the problem here is why must one party feelings alway be irrelevant, a mother feeling hurt should also know there is a root cause to that child abominable act cos no child will ever want to slap his/her parent, how about identifying the root cause of the problem, so that both parties can admit there errors and apologize to one another, that will go a longer way than one party sucking up & the other feeling like demi-God the parent & society needs to acknowledge that even children can feel "offended" after all no one is immune to "hurt' |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Dreadlock69(m): 9:19am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Nah only you hate your mama |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Moz22: 11:19am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Beremx:maybe my last brother, definitely not a man in his 30s. You are unwell |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Moz22: 11:21am On Mar 28, 2022 |
AgirlsNightmAre:it's sickening.. trust me |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by TheGidRedpiller(m): 11:41am On Mar 28, 2022 |
Moz22:They simply do not care about you, everything that seems to matter is your mother simply because she is a woman! If it were your dad you talked about, trust me, they would have supported you. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Moz22: 12:36pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller:hmm |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Prettygirl200(f): 4:19pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller:There is absolutely nothing wrong with his comment, speak for yourself if u don't love ur mother it should be ur own cup of tea!! They are people who do!!! |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Prettygirl200(f): 4:21pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller:This boy please go and rest please!! Life is too short |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Alienhunter: 10:10pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
TheGidRedpiller: Funny, some people read this and immediately conclude that whoever wrote it has issues. Well, of course they do. That's the whole point of his venting. But instead of judging, why not try understand his pain first. I do not yet know why he/they are angry at their mothers, but I am sure that there's a reason, and I would be willing to understand that reason first. Generally speaking, why is this person angry? Probably because his life got messy at some point and he traced much of his emotional struggles back to his mother. Is this possible? Absolutely, a boy child can be severely scarred by his mom just as a girl child can be scarred by her Dad. And if society scolds the angry boy for being angry, you can also scold all the abused girls for being mostly dysfunctional women. Is that not victim shaming? You see, society is pathologically biased towards the male folk. It does not even acknowledge their real pain, talk less of address it. Now , to the op: As I said, I do not know your personal beef with your mother. There could be a thousand reasons, and it might even be deeper than what you believe on the surface. I do not hate my mother; quite the contrary. But I admit that she has given me enough reasons to hate her. Much of that was due to her selfishness, insensitivity, and poor judgement. But in her defense, she has gone through a lot in life before becoming who she is. So I cut her some slack. I do not judge her by her actions/bias/reasoning, I simply set boundaries so that she cannot keep harming me with those things. A lot of mothers have directly caused the downfall of their sons (career choices, love life, and overall happiness) while thinking that they want the best for you. A lot of them are extremely selfish and illogical, and would rather jeopardize your well-being for their own satisfaction. Of course, none of this is intentional. If such a mother could understand what she really did, what she caused, I assure you she will break down in tears. So instead of hating and punishing her for her weaknesses, try a more loving approach like talking to her as a friend. Go back to the roots of your anger and address the matters together. Sadly, many mothers will ruin that effort with their I-am-your-mother egos. But still try. If she ruins your efforts, then move on to boundaries. You can distance yourself and demote her from that "mother" position in your heart. Make her just another regular chic in your life. Yes, that is you taking the power away from her; she can no longer hurt you. But DO NOT DISRESPECT YOUR MOTHER. A great responsibility was given to women since the beginning to time. To this day, majority of them have no clue what it is. They feel like the weaker sex, act all insecure, and cause almost all the problems in the world. Of course, they blame men for the problems. Only a few remain unspoiled and wise. These ones properly represent the divine female of this universe. And if you knew who that is, you will maintain maximum respect for all women regardless. Even if a clueless lady/mother decides to be a pig, you will refuse to get into their mud. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by bullabong(m): 4:25am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ishilove:But he is obviously saying the truth. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 6:28am On Apr 02, 2022 |
bullabong:No, he is not saying the truth because there is no way to measure the percentage of individuals who have a strained relationship with their mothers. I am not saying that there aren't men out there who despise their mothers, but saying 'an increasing' number of men hate their mothers. How did he come by this statistic? |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 6:31am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Alienhunter:Anyone that publicly calls his mother a bitch, a slut and a whorë cannot be taken seriously. There are boundaries that must never be crossed, not matter how terrible a mother she is. However, you have written wise words. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by blinking001(m): 7:23am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ishilove:Why are you taking it so personal? Are you guilty of those things the Op is talking about? Are you a sl..t? |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 7:24am On Apr 02, 2022 |
blinking001:Go and ask your ancestors. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by blinking001(m): 7:43am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ishilove:Trash!! You still haven't given me a definitive answer. Madam stop ranting all over the place, take a chill pill and get busy. Don't you have a husband or a family to be with? Get busy and get the f.ck out of nairaland. if a woman misbehaves, she must be held accountable for her actions and be made to face the consequences. The Op once stated how his mom brought different men to their house and slept with them all, spending her little resources on these strange men totally neglecting her responsibilities as a mother, all you lots could come up with was that he sluut shamed his mother for something she clearly was. I put it to you that you're a Hypocrite. You're a very disingenuous person filled with ego. I feel sorry for the people around you. Life itself already has taught you a lesson but you've refused to be reasonable, you've refused to turn a new leaf. Prepare yourself for what's coming ahead. Have a nice day. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 7:46am On Apr 02, 2022 |
blinking001:I didn't read this crap. Get yourself together and stop ranting. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by blinking001(m): 7:57am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ishilove:Another Trash coming from a senseless woman. I'll pass. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by JUMO95: 8:13am On Apr 02, 2022 |
isaiah4life:Don't use the bolded. Speak for yourself. Don't use we 1 Like |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Ishilove: 9:17am On Apr 02, 2022 |
blinking001:Resorting to insults, ehn? Shows your rock bottom mental and emotional maturity. I was on my own when you came to meet me, now it is paining you that I refuse to indulge your incoherent ramblings. Fvck off forevermore, you ripe pimple on the ass of humanity. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by blinking001(m): 11:36am On Apr 02, 2022 |
Ishilove:Say this to your Ancestors. |
Re: There Is An Increasing Number Of Men Who HATE THEIR MOTHERS!! Be Very Aware!! by Nobody: 2:35am On Apr 08, 2022 |
The fact that your mother bleeped up does not mean the same for my mother and other men out there so stop the projection of false equivalence and maybe, grow some balls, be a man and move on with your damaged life. My mom was the most loving person on earth to me and supported all of us kids with an unconditional love. Was a great pillar to my dad as well. I love her to the moon and back. 1 Like 1 Share |
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