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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 1:38pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
being:You should study some more. It is possible to channel rejection into something good. Some links are below. 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 1:39pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
cocolacec:See, this heart to heart talk doesn't work most time here. I have a 3 year old girl that will be running around and rolling on the floor everyday each day we arrive her school. I have talked and talked without any change. Aunty borrowed herself brain the day I took a small stick from the floor and I told her in yoruba that I will whip her. 17 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Mariangeles(f): 1:39pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby:
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra:if this is your daughter she looks ugly 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by mmsen: 1:44pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: I know girls who were born and raised abroad, girls who aren't even Nigerian who are members of Christ's Embassy. They're doing much the same as your niece. My point is, being 'abroad' does not mean all will be well. You have to put in a lot of work to raise children no matter where you are. Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 1:48pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
PossibleG:Pervert 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by CrEaToRmalden(m): 1:48pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Looks like you live in the most famous GTA San Andreas neighborhood Modified: From your picture attachment KanwuliaBaby: 1 Like |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by SIRTee15: 1:49pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
khreus: Read my text well. I mentioned asians in western countries who still raised their kids the asian way compared to caribeans who adopted white parenting and had their kids whole messed up. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Nauttyprof: Nigerian teenagers cannot easily access guns. In America, one can buy guns easily. In Nigeria... 6 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Shokoloko: Western countries apart from the USA have very strict gun laws. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Mariangeles(f): 1:51pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
chiedozie198100: This thread is indeed an eye opener. It’s a must read for anyone planning to start/move their family abroad. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by cocolacec(m): 1:52pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby:Dont they have legal aid council in the US providimg legal services to low income families?Every country has this even Nigeria.
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra:Please, kindly take off this picture at this point. If she sees it, she wont find it funny. Please. 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by chatinent: 1:53pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Whether in America or Nigeria, as my child, if you misbehave, you must collect in the same wotowoto degree as the disobedience. Go and call police. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
babajeje123:baba I no lie the woman self know ,pervert in what sense? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by femijay8271(m): 1:55pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Only u police... Haaa 1 Like
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Hotzone(m): 1:55pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Parents use violence to their wards as a way of relieving selfs of frustration they felt either as single parents or as parents who couldn’t cater for the welfare of their kids or spouse especially when the kid couldn’t not yield to their intimidation. Spare the rod has different perspective Most parents are worst than their kids and their kids are learning from them Apply dialogue and they derail from an expected good standard, practice good moral and ethics at home. Mind what u say around ur kids. Chose ur words always. Say no to any form of bully 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 1:57pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
tekjansen2: So the problem is not discipline which is the topic of this thread. The problem in your comment is "gun laws". Totally different from the discussion. By the way, did you see Nigeria there? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by babajeje123(m): 1:58pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
PossibleG:What were you thinking before saying a teen is 'ugly'? You can be behind bars and get relieved of your job if you are working with kids and teens in a sane clime. 9 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by rickleye: 1:59pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Cobb Country !!! Atlanta beautify place . Love the Mayor . Dislike the gun culture but that's a story for different time and place. Didn't Pastor Creflor Dollar have an Incident with the cops and his daughter a few years ago. ? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 1:59pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
mmsen: You have summarized the matter Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
babajeje123:hehe so the truth is now a crime ,do you really have to think of anything before saying the truth? |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Ugaboy: 2:02pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Africa blood they your body... This is your own way of discipline your child or children. One thing I have realised,there is no sure way of discipline your child in this social media age. What ever way you can help to carefully train your child...do it... don't let anyone interfare. I know wetin I for don become...if my parents didn't get me out of SURULERE early. The influence of SURULERE on child was something every parents struggle with (try an interview parents living there) irrespective of class, poor or rich. You see smoking, touting, cultism, abuse, womanizing, ganging...I truly escape all this. Later exposed to competitive kids... I that couldnt even speak or contructs complete sentences in English correctly...begin to develop habit of learning... because I won't want to be laugh at by my pears. Teenagers are the most difficult age group to supervise, even some adult regret over the habit developed at teens... So many things we become today was early exposure... early discipline. See if its takes calling Army, Superman and wrestlers do it. God will bless you for your effort...make I wish u Happy mother's day... though it was yesterday 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by cocolacec(m): 2:04pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
babajeje123:Did you find out if she was being bullied/abused at school or find out the reason for always running or rolling on the floor everyday at the school? Canning only makes children internalize pains and sufferings,you are already breaking the bond between you and your child.Sometimes we overlook children’s reaction till the problem turns into a different dimension You will wonder where the disciplined children of yesterday became cultists who dont have human feelings anymore.Pain and violence is part of the Nigerian discipline system.Violence only breeds contempt,Stockholm Syndrome and Narcissicism. We are not on the slave plantation where white masters flog slaves.Our children are not slaves to be beaten/maimed but our precious mini me to be guided with love,attention and utmost care. 6 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:04pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: Madam, you guys are lucky it wasn't Ur husband mettling the punishment. The police may have handled it differently 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Mindlog: I can assure you that Nigerian parents are not the only ones that discipline their children by using the cane or pain 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by gadgethead: 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
baby124: You and your siblings are a rarity. We have also seen girls who started out wearing skimpy clothing and ended having underage sex or worst still, getting pregnant. One rule doesn't fit all 5 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Children turn to be spoilt or rebellious when parents aren't united when training them. It is called child upbringing. If you bring them up well, they will turn out excellently, but if either one of the parents is not up to the task, children tend to come out terrible. This is why they say children from divorced homes suffer the consequences. If truly the parents are Christians who hear from the Holy Spirit, there is no way their children will be rebellious. Pastors who aren't devoted to their homes but choose to focus solely on God's work are the ones their children end up bad. There is no need to be extremely harsh on children. Parents whose 13 yr old daughter or son is starting be rebellious should check themselves first fast. Either the man, woman or both are the problem. They may be weak in taking charge of the authority they have as parents (the children have seen the weakness and they decided to explore it), or one of them might be over strict. Children come out exactly how tou train them. Doing "the disciplined dad or mum" after they are spoilt is just a show off which is nemesis after death. Children are to be shown love and corrected from the day they were born. No matter where they live, if you train them well in unity with your spouse, they will come out well. I repeat, if both husband and wife are united and the love in the home is genuine and strong, their children cannot come out terrible. 7 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: This you comment is way too low of U. But U say it cos U don't have a experience. Sorry but children learn things too from school, peer group and other means 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Shokoloko(f): 2:08pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
kingreign: Says a person who lives in Nigeria. From Nigeria who want to know what is truth and what is a lie in another country. I said that the typical Nigerian is violent to anyone who does not share his/her point of view and you just proved it. I know it cannot happen in Nigeria but in other countries see your proof below 2 Likes
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Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by Mindlog: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
drnoel: Of course I know that but I am focusing on Nigerians, who we are. |
Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Madam, this your comment is also uncalled for. I know people who grew up in Ajegunle, Munshi, Oshodi and it didn't affect their upbringing. Let's stop this stereotype. 5 Likes |
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