being:
Sounding woke & cool but absolutely no iota of wisdom.. she should channel d rejection to something gud.. Just imagjne

cocolacec:


That was unfair and unnecessary exposure to harm.Why dehumanise your own daughter?
What if she developed pneumonia or got raped that is how she would have turned to a street girl.
Parents raising their children fails to understand these children are peer pressured in schools and the environmemt they find themselves.All you needed to do was have a heart to heart talk with her not master/slave relationship most Nigerian parents have with their children.Africans parents only thrive in destroying their erring children not correct them in love and kindness.
I will never treat my daughter like that.

KanwuliaBaby:


Oh yes!
The yeye fowls that can’t distinguish between abuse and discipline.
Jobless police force. As they wasted my time. I wasted theirs wella wella!
I gave them real work!
They will never forget me Lai lai.

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

KanwuliaBaby:


I thought about NIGERIA many times.
But ever since I saw that story of that beautiful Chidimma-KILLER, I had a rethink.
Her mother had not seen her since she was 10 or 11! Then surfaced on the news for killing a business man in a hotel room. Life imprisonment at 19 abi na 22?

Nigeria with the level of poverty there? Tufiakwa!

My niece is 20! Lives in Nigeria. She has been temporarily disowned by my brother till she is 25, married with her own kids.

Wetin she do?
She left medical school and went to camp in Oyakbilome’s church in Lagos. . . To be doing “ASHAWO-in-Christ” for dia! While in the cult, they BLOCKED ALL FAMILY MEMBERS PHONE #s from her phone. She refused to talk to any of us.
That was it. Her father, my brother has dashed her to the church. He has vowed not to have anything to do with her till she is 25. We have dashed her to her mother’s people!✅

PossibleG:
if this is your daughter she looks ugly

KanwuliaBaby:


Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house?
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL?

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” in this complex. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers roaming aimlessly around here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno commit crime? You see anybarry dey waka with leg for hia? Before you reach here 50 neighbors don snap you with RING camera. CCTV nko? Plus where everyone is FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck!

khreus:

In a nutshell everyone should do what works best which I’m actually agreeing on. But what about finding yourself in such society with different perspectives on how to raise your kids, places where you can’t raise your kids the africane way. I believe that’s what being discussed here sir

Nauttyprof:



It is in USA you hear of crazy crime conducted by teens in high school. Have you heard any Nigerian school where a teenager walks into the school and starts shooting at fellow students?

Nigerians are quick to appreciate whatever will see over there without also looking at the bad side of whatever they practice. Both systems are not perfect.

Shokoloko:


School shootings is a USA problem. It is minimal in other western countries. See below

chiedozie198100:


most of this kids are traumatized by the AMERICAN experience.
the level of hate and bullying and racism these innocent kids face on a daily basis right from infancy is scary, mostly in school.
can u imagine where a 3 year old faces racism from everyone around him/her, even from so called adults- the teachers.
and who do they blame for this, the parents that yanked them from their normal existence in Africa n dumped them in the abroad, all in the name of greener pastures.

sadly we don't seem to realize this PANDEMIC going on in the African community.

i have taught in the American school system, it's heart wrenching the way African kids are treated in American schools. i faced my own dose of bullying, racism and passive aggression, even as a teacher, an adult. then u can imagine what these little ones go through.

KanwuliaBaby:
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN CALL THE POLICE ON JHOOOOO!

6. Ok! You have posted bail and you are back with the kids who sent you to JAIL!
You still have to take care of them-hahahahaha

You have no job, you can’t pay your bills AND YOU NEED A GOOOOOOD DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ATTORNEY!

What do you do? Your court date is 6 months away. The bills are piling up, no help from ANYONE- your savings fastly drying up.
You consult several attorneys and they are charging $1500 - $3500 to represent you.
CHECK THE REVIEWS OF ALL THE ATTORNEYS BEFORE YOU HIRE ONE. CHEAPEST IS NEVER THE BEST!✅

Depression sets in!

Chi-Ching!
Kasala Don Busssssss!✅

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

babajeje123:

Pervert

KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke.
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me?

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh?

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out.

No one wants to call police any more o!
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE!

tekjansen2:


Western countries apart from the USA have very strict gun laws.

PossibleG:
baba I no lie the woman self know ,pervert in what sense?

KanwuliaBaby:


Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house?
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL?

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” in this complex. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers roaming aimlessly around here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno commit crime? You see anybarry dey waka with leg for hia? Before you reach here 50 neighbors don snap you with RING camera. CCTV nko? Plus where everyone is FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck!

mmsen:


I know girls who were born and raised abroad, girls who aren't even Nigerian who are members of Christ's Embassy. They're doing much the same as your niece.

My point is, being 'abroad' does not mean all will be well. You have to put in a lot of work to raise children no matter where you are. Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong.

babajeje123:

What were you thinking before saying a teen is 'ugly'? You can be behind bars and get relieved of your job if you are working with kids and teens in a sane clime.

KanwuliaBaby:


Good to see you madam B!❤️

Thank you!
I go show dem ke.
Dem go call police TAYA!

I told the police to please take anyone who can't tolerate the home rules. Do you know what the stupidd cops told me?

They said their “books” are full and there is no space in “the system”! Oh?

It got to a stage I filed a complaint against the police dept for RACISM! Arrrrrrrgh, they started sending only BLACK COPS to my house o!

If ANY CHILD DISOBEYS, I CALL THE POLICE!

I wore them out.

No one wants to call police any more o!
I became an EXPERT in calling the police.

If you nor wash plate- POLICE!
If your nor brush teeth- POLICE!
If you disobey curfew- POLICE!
If you nor do homework- POLICE!
If you use foul language at home- POLICE!

The police were tired of me o! I taught them and the children a gravvvve lesson.

Now, I can parent in. PEACE!

babajeje123:

See, this heart to heart talk doesn't work most time here. I have a 3 year old girl that will be running around and rolling on the floor everyday each day we arrive her school. I have talked and talked without any change. Aunty borrowed herself brain the day I took a small stick from the floor and I told her in yoruba that I will whip her.

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

Mindlog:
Nigerian parents who are convinced that hitting their children is part of nurturing them, are better off staying back in Nigeria where it is normalized and should not migrate to Countries that are strongly against such form of "disciplining" because those Countries' systems function without hitting children and we can't force them to accept the "Nigerian way'.....stay back in Nigeria, where childhood "brain resetting beatings" has produced Nigerian adults who are more respectful, more law-abiding, more hardworking, more empathetic, less tolerant of corrupt practices etc

baby124:
Lol. Let me talk as a child that wore short shorts in Nigeria. I did not spoil or do bad things. Neither did I get derailed in life. My parents let us and none of me and my sisters got pregnant outside marriage. I think a harsh reaction makes kids do things you say they should not do. She can buy the short things and hide in her bag, look decent at home, when she gets outside she will change clothes. Have a talk with her and always tell her why you want her to dress more to your taste. That you dressed decently so your child must is not enough explanation these days.

At that 13 is when they have entered teenager stage. The boyfriends stage. This is where the real fight begins. But I think if you get to them first before the boys, especially their father, they will come out fine. If their father teaches them how to handle boys, no boys can deceive them. The makeup ties into that dating and looking attractive stage because, she is hitting puberty. Despite my indecent dressing, I did not have any sexual relations till much later. Most of my friends from strict parents started between 13-15. My father played a role in that, nothing man fit tell me that will make me off pant till I was ready to experience it. That was solely my decision, no one pressured me.

Growing breast and yansh and they see their peers doing it. In fact their peers teach them how to apply the makeup. They are also seeing relationships going on around them in school and they want to be attractive to the happening guys. Now is the time you need to sit her down and have the birds and the bees talk plus consequences of that. She’s very brilliant and people like that, all the forces on earth can try to derail them at a young age if you do not get ahead of it. You need to start talking to her and spending time with her Kanwulia before her friends and those Hot boys succeed. Don’t be too harsh with her please.

1Sharon:


I'm sorry I'm your daughter is dressing provocatively at 13, isn't that a highlight of your parenting?

And what if she got raped while she was outside in just her underwear?

kingreign:

Who’s this unfortunate lying scum?

drnoel:


I can assure you that Nigerian parents are not the only ones that discipline their children by using the cane or pain

KanwuliaBaby:


Explain further please.
Highlight of whose parenting?
Na only me dey parent am? Im papa nor dey house?
Did you ever see me dress like an ashi on or off NL?

We don’t live in places like Ajegunle or “Banana Island” in this complex. This is a private residential area. We don’t have Alaye-Slayers roaming aimlessly around here in COBB COUNRRRRY!
Thank you!

Na for this kain neighborhood you wanno commit crime? You see anybarry dey waka with leg for hia? Before you reach here 50 neighbors don snap you with RING camera. CCTV nko? Plus where everyone is FREE to own a GUN? Kam try ya best luck!