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nuggarito:
I think from all the bullcrap I've read about guys becoming simp this is the biggest simp I have ever seen, biggest mumu.
You give girl money to remove pikin wey your friend put inside and the girl still dey straff your friend. Na goat born you abi na human being?

nwachukwu9:
the original poster did not insult your parents, take time and insult with love

UYEMDO35:
Am in love with the wrong girl and can't help myself out.
My Story goes like dis, I love dis girl so much and can't really do without her, well before I met her I never believed in true love but it hurt me so much to be suffering all in d name of love.
First, I dated her all because of my emotional trauma, I love her so much I can't denied d fact, I did a lot of crazy thing just to prove how much I love her....... Though! I am in my mid-20. And I know what I want in life.
She has done more harm than good in which I have tolerated enough. I think it's time to kiss her good bye.
Like i said before she did a lot of crazy things to me which is unforgivable, but still yet. I can't breakup with her.
She took in and lied to me dat am responsible for it and I was very sure that am not responsible for it, I carried out a research and later discover dat it was a friend of mine who helped me in wooing her dat got her pregnant, I even went to d extent of confronting my friend which he admitted to be true and pleaded that I should forgive him, which I did.. Funniest part, I gave her money to get rid of it becuz my friend couldn't afford it. I also confronted her about the pregnancy of a thing, she never admitted d truth.
I let everything died down and never bothered asking her again.
Thought! She played fast one on me, I still continued loving her..... What trigger me most recently....I saw her with a ring, I was shocked.
I asked her about it and she told me that it's just a promised a ring, dat it was her boyfriend who gave her and not that she love him, he force it on her. (Yes) am aware of the guy. But d girl parent do not approve of their relationship but dey are still in touch.

She promise to stick by me that I should give her sometimes to get rid of d guy first, dat d guy happened to be her first love and is going to take time to get rid of him completely.

I kept moot about it.......

From a close friend of mine, I heard she's still in touch with dat friend of mine who got her pregnant.... Dey are secretly dating.

I have spent a token on her but I regretted ever dating her.


Am thinking of breaking up with her today.{ that's if I had courage to do so}

Guys! How do I go about it? I see myself as a weakling

nuggarito:
A mugu will always defend his fellow mugu. Dont quote me again.

UYEMDO35:
It seems she using love portion on me, I just couldn't breakup with her.... She was here at my place and I couldn't say what is bothering me.

nwachukwu9:
I have no time for you, in real life, you may not even be up to my level, I don't have time for children play

nuggarito:
I think from all the bullcrap I've read about guys becoming simp this is the biggest simp I have ever seen, biggest mumu.
You give girl money to remove pikin wey your friend put inside and the girl still dey straff your friend. Na goat born you abi na human being?

Slynation:
Oga keep kwayet, nothing like love portion, you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

I even found this laughable that you are even thinking of breaking up in a relationship you have been dating yourself for long now, you are just that simp helping out financially...

If they no value you, atleast value yourself...!!

UYEMDO35:
you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

U see am talk well, I just wanna feel belong DAT is why am still with her.

Palema007:
Wow!!!

Please Op cut off all contact with the lady. Honestly you deserve better! Control your mind to see her as someone dangerous to you ( which she really is anyways) and flee from her.

You have paid too much for a feeling not worth it. Overcome your obsession with her, put yourself first and stay away from anything that has to do with her.