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Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by zmpp(f): 2:44pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Ishilove: The Isioma truly sounds like you as you claimed. But one now wonders how your denial of your people being Igbo and your publicly acclaimed hatred for the Igbos have bettered your life since at close to 43 years, no sensible man has shown interest in marrying you. Someone like nairaland MejiLoyon whom you were forcing yourself on throughout last year still dumped you after uselessing you at different hotels. lol. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Ishilove: 2:51pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
zmpp:Buhahahahahahahaha!!!! Ehen, are you serious? Tell me more I'm 45, not 43. Get your facts right. I am also a divorcee with 3 children, and I and Mejiloyon uselessed ourselves in Sheraton and Dubai 8 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by zmpp(f): 2:54pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Ishilove: Only in your dreams the hotels he took you to in Ondo State would be like Sheraton and located in Dubai. I guess you do not know the reason why MejiLoyon deactivated his account here after everything, lol. Meanwhile, butt implant might help brighten your chances with sensible men for a keep, because as a woman, it is terrible that despite lacking in almost every other thing, you are still not physically attractive, no thanks to your flat butt like a tilapia fish, lol. And sorry for your depression, I won't worsen it, I promise. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Ishilove: 2:58pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
zmpp:Excuse me! The hotels were 5 star. Let me list them out- Radisson Blue- We did doggy here Sheraton- We did snake in the monkey shadow. When we finished I had to use aboniki balm to massage my swollen punny Transcorp Hilton- We did hanger style. He used preek to dislocate my ribs Should I continue? 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ygowon: 3:29pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Ishilove: If you are not tired, continue. If you are tired, don't continue 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Ishilove: 3:33pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
ygowon:zmpp is a notorious troll, and I too am in the mood for idiots this afternoon 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Ishilove: 3:48pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
zmpp:Lwkmd! You keep editing your posts. Bastard son of a thousand fathers. If you know you have madness why not come out with your real moniker so I can send you home to the sewer rats who raised a misbegotten subhuman like you. All you idiots do all day is trawl the internet looking for people to troll, but I keep saying that the baga who can successfully bully me has not been born. I'm waiting for you. I have time for trolls today. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Kobojunkiee: 3:49pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AlexBells:imagine if we all had to spend approximately 3 years to discover these simple things which could have been easily hashed out during the early faces of dating? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by AlexBells(m): 4:00pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:That's why it is called a heartbreak, dude, I don't have strength for this whole things you are digging, I told you for some reason we didn't meet for a year and shes more assertive in her religious stuff now than three years ago, by the way if we all completely understand our partners many there could have been no divorce, love is blind, e shock you abi, I don't have strength biko 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Kobojunkiee: 4:15pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AlexBells:Well, you at least know what to screen for at the door into your next relationship now. People don't become intolerant overnight.... they are usually that way from the beginning, you just weren't paying close attention to them or their words is what. You insulting her the way you did in your response didn't help your supposedly more "tolerant" image at all at all. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Tallesty1(m): 4:46pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
SilentQueen:What she wants may not be a big deal but how she goes about it is a bigger problem. Accept Jesus or forget about me? Who you? Relationship never even start but she don dey use blackmail to get her wishes..... It's a no no for e. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by AlexBells(m): 5:12pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:I never said I was tolerant, actions and reactions are equal and opposite, however I don't like infringing on people's human right, my religious view is my right and if she can just wake up in the morning and make that statement knowing that it would hurt, you are not expecting me to be the only one getting that feelings, at least let it be mutual, most women appreciate a touch of brutality, that one is even very mild there was no insult there, You know how a heart feels right, I might laugh and monkey around with my pals but deep down, I'm hurt, I'm broken she should feel it too, let's see who gets over it first, she will go to church to unwind and and I will go to club with my friends, I'm not even the alcoholic type, at the end, we both get over it when I with the girl in the club and she gets positive words from the brother in the church, let both party go astray since love is not enough, I just want a good bad girl and she just want a bad good boy, she won't find me in the church neither would I find her in the club, the loser here is love, nothing to regret here, once I was heartbroken, I spoke to my mentor who is an octogenarian, he said I should join the club of losers in love, I'm not a first timers, getting close to a veteran. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Kobojunkiee: 5:38pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AlexBells:1. Hold up a second... so you are not yourself a tolerant individual so why have an issue with your ex's intolerance? She didn't in any way infringe on your religious right at all. All she seemed to indicate instead is she desires to be in relationship with one who shares the same belief as she does, so why were you fuming at her when what you wanted instead was someone who instead agreed with your religious views? Most women appreciate a touch of brutality...? Ogbeni, I don't know which kain Doobie you dey smoke but it is bad. 2. No matter how good you think you are, you will never be good enough for many people out there and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, so don't beat yourself up over this or anything else. She is simply saying she wants a Jesus-lover like her, and you just happen to be it. Yes, it hurts to be rejected but you can't please everyone. Just that you waited 3 years to find that out is all. 3. Don't hate her and don't hate yourself for any of it abeg! If love were east, we would all, including the gal, be happy in it by now. Take the lessons you learned from this experience and the pain that resulted to heart in helping make you a better person and bring you closer to what love really is as opposed to what you thought when you first approached this lady. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Mcslize: 6:03pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Our problem in this Nigeria is tribalism. But any way, we can only love one another if only we understand these bitter psychological truths about love no one wants you to know. You will be shocked what you will discover about love in this video no one has ever told you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F599C0kbpyY 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by LILTJAY: 6:09pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
i hate igbos too.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by KosiGee(m): 6:10pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AlexBells: Stay away from that relationship and away from that girl and her family whether it’s simple or not. You are about to make yourself so SIMPle for her to exploit. There is no love in that relationship. You are just infatuated with the girl. Her stubbornness and stance in certain issues excites you but it’ll end in tears. That girl ga afonye gi na akpa. She won’t tolerate your family and this would inevitably create friction between you and your siblings and other family members. Nwanne gaa ya iru one time. umu nwanyi agwube na Nsukka. You don’t beg a woman to marry you and stop tolerating nonsense at this early stage…The fact that it disturbs you enough to bring it to social media seeking advice should tell you that this individual isn’t for you. Stop embarrassing yourself. Laa nwata nwanyia ezigbo ôtû and move on sharp sharp. Wtf. 13 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Yampotatocarrot(m): 6:36pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Na wa o... How old is this OP? Person tell you the kind of man she is, you don't fit it, isn't walking away the wisest thing to do? You dey find who go give you liver to walk away? The girl Na good girl sef, she suppose chop you wella without giving you sex, then break up with you... When you complain, she'll just say, "I've always told you that I want someone that goes to church regularly"... Then you'll start begging her that you'll go to church she shouldn't break up with you 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by AlexBells(m): 6:43pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Yampotatocarrot:Person wey never collect my shishi sef, sometimes I would buy something from her, tell her to keep the change, she will jejely go and find my change for me, you think say every girl want your money lol, I had not spent even a penny on her, not like I don't want to but she won't collect, Her family is fine and the father is a minister in one of these deeper life churches, however aside her apparent dislike against my tribe and our religious differences, shes been a nice girl. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Truvelisback(m): 6:44pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:Na people like dis dey use 2hrs dey share testimony for Church. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by Yampotatocarrot(m): 6:46pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
AlexBells: Na why I say the girl Na good girl. Well, my advice Na for you to walk away, since you don't totally fit the type of man she wants 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by AlexBells(m): 6:55pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Yampotatocarrot:I can even overlook the church, however I can't overlook her intolerance for my ethnicity, even my upbringing was one of diverse faith, My grandma married a Muslim and converted, my parents were catholic, my elder brother is a deeper life pastor and I have some close relatives who are traditionalist in all of these, I eat ram in my late grandmothers house during Salah, my elder brother who is a deeper life pastor would demarcated his side of the compound where we alcohol gulping infidels shouldn't cross, I still enjoy chicken, goat etc. with my traditionalist relatives, so religion is not something I take serious, If you want me to be real, I can attend churches if that's what it takes but the bigger picture is that this woman have no tolerance for my tribe and this could cause friction in our home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ygowon: 7:02pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Now u get it my brother. That dislike for Igbo is deep rooted in her that any fault from any Igbo person would be attributed to the tribe by her. She may not flow well with your family members. You might later not enjoy the togetherness. One musician sang that when you fall in love, e dey sweet like sugar. When u face reality, e go begin bitter. Bro, just cloud your mind with her bad side and delete her numbers and just see her like ordinary person. You will meet your partner and when that time comes, u would be glad u never got entangled with this girl that's not giving u peace of mind. Always learn to accept reality bro. The girl will give u wahala wella AlexBells: 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by AlexBells(m): 7:26pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
ygowon:It feels like I saw it coming however when it is here I figured out I'm not prepared at all, she use to make my stay in Nsukka feel like home, I just don't know how long to feel this way, she's my best friend here, this is not about pride or something if it were minor issue, I will go down on my knees and beg her, but her seriousness with these things is of concern for me, It would only be a matter of time and any time I hurt her or something, she's going to have that gut feelings that Igbo effect, I have another male friend back in Enugu who is from Kwale, a fight almost broke out one day becuase he made an anti Igbo statement where we are gathered and one of my friend slapped him immediately an intense fight was averted, I don't want this type of situation in my home. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SHINJA: 8:55pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
zmpp: Jesus 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SHINJA: 8:58pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
I support that your girlfriend..I don't like Igbo's too . I will never advise any girl from another tribe to marry an Igbo man.. 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ygowon: 9:05pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
SHINJA:True, this guy is just a SIMPle guy. Person character dey show u say she no like your Igbo tribe and you are hear opening thread for it. Even if the OP turns born again just to marry that girl, it won't work because the girl hates Igbo just like every other Igbo hater. I love Igbo mehn! I don't care if any nonentity hates my tribe. If you like, commit suicide because of that sweet tribe called Igbo. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SweetVibe: 9:36pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Ishilove:Omo!!!! you the whine me!!!!
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by haslaw(m): 10:22pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
You yeebos should stop deluding yourselves that people hate you because of what she has been fed with as if the lady has no mind of her own. You think to the high heavens of your own tribe and got irritated when she refuse to accept to be your tribe but instead is very proud of her own tribe, You are the one that is highly intolerant because you want everyone to be Igbo like you. The real reason people hate you yeebos is because of your heartless character and evil ways. I have lived and worked in both northern and southern parts of Nigeria and have seen the wickedness of yeebos in these regions. There is a Hausa landlord in Zaria, Kaduna state that has practically been chased out of his own house by the tenants who are majorly yeebos. They gave the man hell on earth and nearly everyone blamed him for renting his house to yeebos. This same scenario I have witnessed in both Lagos and Ibadan. This same characters (My sister told me) are being exhibited by yeebos in America. Same thing my colleagues told me was happening in Malaysia You can never transact business with an Igbo man and he would not seek to cheat you and in some cases be very wicked to you. I avoid yeebos as much as I can because of their heartless and evil ways cc: AlexBells MoneyGoDrop 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by ogashman(m): 11:05pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Baba free that gal before she make u go crazy.. There is nothing u can do to change her biased mindset against igbos, which was planted in her at a tender age by her parents. I once dated an akoko edo lady that would not have any meaningful conversation with me without talking about Igbos in a demeaning way... Yet, she wanted me to marry her. Whosai! She never knew it was a turn off for me. I bailed. I hate it when people paint their tribe as righteous/saints and others the devil I used to tell people, Every tribe has good n bad persons. Do not judge someone by his tribe but by his individual character. Leave that girl for ur own sanity 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by SHINJA: 11:16pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
haslaw: You are right....I hate Igbo's too... Igbo's should ask themselves why do every tribe hates them.. Most tribes in southsouth hates Igbo. My akwaibom frds hate Igbo's also.. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by MoneyGoDrop: 1:48am On Apr 05, 2022 |
[quote author=haslaw post=111653561]You yeebos should stop deluding yourselves that people hate you because of what she has been fed with as if the lady has no mind of her own. You think to the high heavens of your own tribe and got irritated when she refuse to accept to be your tribe but instead is very proud of her own tribe, You are the one that is highly intolerant because you want everyone to be Igbo like you. The real reason people hate you yeebos is because of your heartless character and evil ways. I have lived and worked in both northern and southern parts of Nigeria and have seen the wickedness of yeebos in these regions. There is a Hausa landlord in Zaria, Kaduna state that has practically been chased out of his own house by the tenants who are majorly yeebos. They gave the man hell on earth and nearly everyone blamed him for renting his house to yeebos. This same scenario I have witnessed in both Lagos and Ibadan. This same characters (My sister told me) are being exhibited by yeebos in America. Same thing my colleagues told me was happening in Malaysia You can never transact business with an Igbo man and he would not seek to cheat you and in some cases be very wicked to you. I avoid yeebos as much as I can because of their heartless and evil ways cc: AlexBells MoneyGoDrop Wow you speak with so much vile in your heart yet all the examples you gave are all hearsay and not personal experiences. I hope you find a way to free your mind of all these hate. Please don't mention me again 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Intolerant Both Religious And Tribal by MoneyGoDrop: 1:50am On Apr 05, 2022 |
[quote author=SHINJA post=111654574] You are right....I hate Igbo's too... Igbo's should ask themselves why do every tribe hates them.. Most tribes in southsouth hates Igbo. My akwaibom frds hate Igbo's also.. Spoken like a typical yoruba man. Try and move out of Oyo state and enlighten yourself. 7 Likes |
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