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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by vectorhills: 10:59pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
I use to be in that same position.. I'm 29 right now and I look like 19(confirm pictures @believe victorhillside aniekan @facebook)...I pull through by killing such feelings and let my self esteem do the talking.. I associated with people of my age and above and I learn to wear clothes that suits my age..and projects my age not my size..try wearing natives etc...don't know if it helps though but that's what I merely did....#believe |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lilmaydee(m): 11:39pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
vectorhills:glad I'm not alone in this. some people thought I was seeking attention, but no, the thing is real. I have tried the native attire thingy, but it didn't work. |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lilmaydee(m): 11:46pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
for picture go to this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/5106683/thanks-everyone-advice-im-grateful#77104443 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by viktor88: 11:53pm On Mar 29, 2019 |
Zzyy:Don't be 2 sure, it helped me |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Electdbahdguy(m): 12:44am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by chuggy(m): 10:18am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Forget the body. Grow serious beards |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Fumiex(f): 11:04am On Mar 30, 2019 |
lemme share my own story, though am a female. I had this slow growth and I wasn't tall but I wasn't a dwarf. I was 19 but I look like someone who was still in primary school. I gained admission and everytime I was going to class I wished I never gained admission cuz the ridicule was just too much. I never had any friends, sometimes I was even scared to go out coz I felt everyone was mocking and laughing at me. I got a boyfriend that made matter worse. he always insult me because of my height and body size and said I was a fine gal but I was cursed with being short. I received insults from him and endured everything because I felt no one was going to accept me for being short. even my family too mocked me because I was short, but I don't wanna talk about it. there was times I sat down on my own and just cry. I cried so so much that I never felt what happiness looked like. I was depressed and there were times I felt like committing suicide. was it even d church I attended? every Sunday d pastor's wife will lay hands on me and said I was too short and ridicule me. one day I stopped going to church, stopped school for a while, disengaged my self from any friend or boyfriend and after about 3 months, people started telling me I looked bigger. it's not like I look very tall now but if u see me now ehn, am a living testimony o. anybody that knows me before is always shocked when they see me now. they are like what did I do? but I discovered the secret to looking big and healthy is happiness from within. even a friend of mine walked pass me coz he couldn't recognize me. everyone just says I look different now. my hips got bigger, it's like I just started growing. right now, people want to mingle with me but I can't get over my introvert nature. I have no friends now or boyfriend but am fucking happy. I still cry sometimes when I remember all people have done to me but have decided to move on. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by happYFingers(m): 1:05pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
[quote author=generationz post=77071111] sorry dear There's a guy on nairaland who went through the same thing you went through but now has the keys to unlock many ladies hearts ilegend or iclef ( his two monickers) He can mentor you on how to build your confidence and how to pick girls up. Just don't become a player when you learn everything. for your weight gain use apetamin. It works. it won't make you fat it would increase your appetite ×5 You must take if twice daily and eat up to 5- 6 times daily. Yes bro he is telling you to GO & COMMIT FOODcide ! |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by happYFingers(m): 1:07pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
generationz: So he should start committing foodCIDE eh kwa ? |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by CoolJul: 2:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
optimusprime2: are u kidding me! this is really blessing in disguise 1 Like |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by AbleChuks1(m): 6:21pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
viktor88:I need the link bro Thanks |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Cormung: 11:31am On Apr 10, 2019 |
Poor thing! I feel so sorry for you! I am convinced you should forget about all your disadvantages and start to change yourself. Go to the gym and don't be afraid of anyone. If you want to get fast results you can try peptides from https://gopeps.com/ Then it will be easier. |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Femi316: 11:33am On Apr 10, 2019 |
lilmaydee:Sorry oh.....you need plenty of milk......? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by MikkySexy23(m): 1:04pm On Apr 10, 2019 |
Ihsan6: I tell you am seriously enjoying it now oh...I look like mid-20s now too...Women, esp those we grew up together, exclaim that I haven't aged at all..The major things I work on are my build, my skin and looking the part too..lolzz |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 1:49pm On Apr 10, 2019 |
czarina: He doesn't need to gym. Just take a look at his other thread where he posted his pic. He's smallish in stature and no height but not a dwarf. Adding muscles to his stature will make him look ugly like ninja turtles kind of look. @ Lilmaydee a little push up every morning to tone ur muscles would be better and maybe sit ups if u want tone the abdomen but what u really need is to dress good and groom your looks to suit your age. No serious gym or special diet needed |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Burgerlomo: 2:41pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Go and join Nollywood and thank me later |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ItsTutsi(m): 11:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
I have been trying to gain weight for awhile too without any success.. I just came upon ur comment, how effective is "apetamin" pls? generationz: |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by generationz(f): 11:22pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
ItsTutsi: I've seen many Instagram models say they used it to gain weight. |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ItsTutsi(m): 11:53pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
are u serious!!?? viktor88: |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ItsTutsi(m): 12:10am On Dec 23, 2020 |
do u know anybody personally that ever tried it? generationz: |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by generationz(f): 12:00pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
ItsTutsi: It's just 2k. If it doesn't work, fine. |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ItsTutsi(m): 12:27pm On Dec 23, 2020 |
do u know anybody personally that ever tried it? generationz: |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by grandstar(m): 1:57pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
lilmaydee: A dead giveaway to someone's true age is white hair. Many who have it go to great extents to hide it, from dyeing hair black or even maintaining a clean shave permanently. Find a way to dye some parts of your hair white. Try and get it done in a way that it looks natural. Next time someone sees you and talks down to you, you tell them, "I am not a small boy. You no see my white hair. I'm even a graduate, pls show some respect." |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:41pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
lilmaydee:any improvement now? |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by dontrulee: 3:03pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
I look small physically but I command a lot of respect because I don't allow my stature to define me. All the girls around me are very big and tall girls, how I do the magic I myself aren't aware. I am well respected everywhere I go. They call me small but mighty, but I don't give a fu*k! |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by dontrulee: 3:09pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
Many times, many people who look younger than their age come to me and ask how to deal with inferiority complex. I never suffered from Inferiority complex, I have never been bullied. Right from secondary school, I had the big muscular guys as my bodyguards. The bullies were my bodyguards. In the university, while there was a few people who "mocked" me because of my stature, I always had people who were ready to defend me. The tall and beautiful girls in the class were my harem, to the extent that "big/bad" boys were coming to ask for parole from my hand. They ask me which charm I use. Hahahaha..... I enjoyed life and i am still enjoying Life. One rule that helped me is this: "whatever you do, never put yourself in a position of disadvantage" |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lilmaydee(m): 6:23pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Holluwhakemmy: Yes, there's been loads of improvement. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lilmaydee(m): 6:26pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
dontrulee: Can you please explain the above quote? |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lilmaydee(m): 6:29pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
grandstar: This is a joke right? Anyway, thanks |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nyenatetan(m): 9:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Jcole1985: |
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by dontrulee: 8:11am On Apr 10, 2022 |
lilmaydee: If you do nothing, life will put you in a position of disadvantage. Consciously change your position everyday |
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