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Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! / I'm 29 Yrs Old, My Parents Died When I Was 16yrs Old And This Happen / My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now (2) (3) (4)

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Howmon: 10:52am On Mar 29, 2019
Go and make money, you won't even be bothered about it. How do I know this, I have a small stature too, but I speak in better places than would have ordinarily been for my stature.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by UdemeJoshua(m): 10:53am On Mar 29, 2019
this make me to remember something, look my friend, what money can't do , too much money can do! the problem is that you don't av money ,go an make cash, look good, like in good apartments, get one mad car, people will respect you.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by joiade(m): 10:54am On Mar 29, 2019
Bros your stature does not determine your destiny o, Aki and Pawpaw are a very good example of what you're talking about but capitalize on their short comings and take advantage of it, today those guy's are big boy's money fame ladies all running after them, so go out there and take advantage of your destiny it's in your hand.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by prinsam30: 10:54am On Mar 29, 2019
I pity those guys giving u advise instead of them asking for ur picture so they can knw what's really wrong with u and knw what kind of advice to give.... Infact I pity u join them
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by flexxyworld(m): 10:55am On Mar 29, 2019
I wish you have seen the vice president in real life. . he's so small but commands respect of even the biggest men.. size has nothing to do with respect.. stop having complex.. you ain't less human.. wizkid looks small and doesn't even have beard yet controls even people's wife and matured babe.. get a life Bro. . you'd be fine

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ogaofficer(m): 10:55am On Mar 29, 2019
EmperorKpee:
Some of us are even praying to look 10, the beards won't allow us. Every 3 days shaving just to look young. So many can relate.
You have a valid argument but still thank God that in a country that ages citizen quickly like Nigeria, you still look teen. No be small something

You are very right bro. That shaving don tire me. And here he is trying to force some beards out. All the same we thank God.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by DabuIIIT: 10:56am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.
put your picture nah,Haba.


Just be confident,that's all. This shouldn't be a problem,what should be problem to you is having your degree,job,you know,such stuff,have friends, colleagues, church,and your wife will come along.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Hedonisst: 10:57am On Mar 29, 2019
Kai. People get plenty different kind problems for this life. I don tire.

Make Jesus do come quick make world end so that everybody go rest. Wahala too much.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by lastempero: 10:58am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:

I went to gym for a while but I stopped due to low self esteem. I had to wait for all the big guys to finish their workout, so that I can unload all the irons to the weight I can carry. but that usually take a lot of time before they finish.

You can arrange your own gym,wont cost much.just pick the stuffs you need little by little and b4 you know it,u will have a gym set in your crib and save money as well.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by letout: 10:58am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

I’m sorry to laugh but this is funny. You can start working and eating bulk gainin meals. Trust me when you’re 50 and look 20 you will be thanking God
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by XhosaNostra(f): 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
Sounds like it's more your demeanor than your physical appearance that's making people to disrespect you.
You don't have to be big & intimidating to give people an attitude adjustment.
You come across like a pushover. Strengthen your spine & learn to stand up for yourself.

Let them know! tongue

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by goingsolo: 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
Op u don fvck before? If yes, Na small girl or older person? Abi u dey go olosho. We need more info pls.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by NamelessOGBENI(m): 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
germanized:
Post your pictures...
Seconded.
Before I draw my conclusions.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Clean2016: 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
decatalyst:
Look beyond the physical shortcomings.

Equip yourself...read a lot, when you talk it would be filled with substance and people would be amazed and respect you.

Lastly, surround yourself with people of substance and like minds.

Peace.


That's it
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Originalsly: 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
Bro... your problem is not your boyish look.... your problem is you accepting you. Soo many people don't like their natural black colour .... so they find a million reasons why they have to bleach..... the one beauty queen ...after winning the title... didn't think her bum was enough.... in trying to add more..she died.... same with Kanye West's mother.... wanted to be shapely... tried...died in the process. What's common?... not contented... not happy with their natural self...not accepting their natural self.... trying to make changes by force. Ask yourself.... are you any different from them? You are like a Toyota Corolla wanting to be a truck by force... add on to the car body until it looks like a truck... same engine... was it designed to haul all that weight? Add muscles to your body by force...was your heart programmed to push that much blood? Be mature in your speech...ladies will rush you.... then choose carefully.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by akevic: 11:00am On Mar 29, 2019
Make use of that stature. it is for a reason. ask akin and pawpaw they will explain better
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by STRENGTHesq(m): 11:01am On Mar 29, 2019
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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ChrisAb1: 11:02am On Mar 29, 2019
Emotionss:
Op I can give you a Natural remedies that can make you Add some real flesh and get the respect you deserve.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by fiercehillz(m): 11:03am On Mar 29, 2019
Blessing in disguise bro.
Was like you some years back but now things don change.
Go out more often, eat well, consider that apatemin people are talking about, continue going to the gym, Google search "what fits small stature men the most", smell nice (lol),
make money, associate more with people of your age group, always look neat, wear sweatshirts when necessary, always put on good shoes and wrist watches, find your vibe, a nice haircut is not bad, make sure your apartment is topnotch, talk to the female folks at will, they won't bite, if you are the churchy type join the choir, or a Catholic join the layreaders, learn new things, read books, steer clear from porn, always have confidence in your every action, stop feeling inferior and make sure you double your hustle.


1. Me at 26
2. Me at 28
3. At 30

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Rollitout: 11:04am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Is it possible you upload pictures of your face and body so that I can give you the best advice on how to really look good, if privacy matters then you can send me your pictures personally
Provided genotype is not a risk factor

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by AnanseK(m): 11:04am On Mar 29, 2019
Size isn’t everything, an elephant is big enough to catch a rat, but hasn’t caught any yet.

And remember that you are what you know , the key is knowledge and it naturally comes with courage. My hero El-Rufa’i is one of the most powerful governors in Nigeria today despite his stature.

And you know what El- Rufai has 3 happy loving and beautiful wives who are proud of him.

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 11:05am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

Bro where is your picture, You may be overstating the whole thing & blowing it out of proportion.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by MakeItBiz: 11:05am On Mar 29, 2019
Just learn to live with it and you'll be alright.
Being alive is a privilege. Having complete body parts is also a privilege. Be grateful for who you are.


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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Worksunlimited: 11:05am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
I am 29 years old but if you see me, you wouldn't believe me, because I look like a 13 year old boy.

People naturally disrespect me because of this. There was a time I and my nephew were living together, he is well built and as such dates ladies older than he is.

So one day, a lady came to visit him, she met me at home and asked of him which I told her he wasn't around. Then she called him on the phone. But what pained me most was that she said " hello baby, I'm in your place now but I met one small boy who said you weren't around. My nephew had to call me back to apologized and also told her that that's his uncle oo, but the silly Lady just said how come he looks so small.

I can't approach mature ladies, for fear of being embarrassed. All these small girls, that I decided to ask out, after one week will begin to disrespect and cheat on me. Even employers do exploit me. I remember, one employer like that that said what does a small boy like me wants to do with money, just because I told her I can't accept the amount she offered to pay me.

Please how can I put on more weight and look more mature, that is, look my age, because people don't respect me a bit.

Eat more, add fruits to your diet, rest well, think/worry less and work on yourself more..

Size doesn't matter, it's demeanor that does.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by ibietela2(m): 11:06am On Mar 29, 2019
generationz:


sorry dear

There's a guy on nairaland who went through the same thing you went through but now has the keys to unlock many ladies hearts
ilegend or iclef ( his two monickers)

He can mentor you on how to build your confidence and how to pick girls up. Just don't become a player when you learn everything.

for your weight gain use apetamin. It works.

it won't make you fat it would increase your appetite ×5

You must take if twice daily and eat up to 5- 6 times daily.

I need weight gain o
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by larryking540: 11:06am On Mar 29, 2019
my brother wen u feel discourage of your self or body just imagine this list of people,

1 , Adams oshomole (formal governor of edo state,his late wife and d new wife are both beautiful, short devil
2 ,our vice president (osibanjo)

3 ,olaminde (check is first album,and his latest pic ,dat guy enter gym though he looks small,but he blends them with his sneakers)

4, our sweet wizkid,that guy is actually small for real
zeroes,
5 ,davido,

7 .the list goes on ,just the popular ones dat I can remember,


my guy have confidence on yourself, go and make money, and money without confidence is zero,

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Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Elxandre(m): 11:06am On Mar 29, 2019
lilmaydee:
how do I overcome the low self esteem? I have read a lot of self-help books ( it only gave me temporary boost), I tried to grow beards ( the thing no gree come out), used a lot of things like ( wate-on, casilan 90, complan, dexamethasone, etc,), e no work. started wearing shirt and trouser, before I know them don begin call me pastor, changed to native, so I could look more mature, people started saying I lacked fashion sense, that why would be putting on native attire Monday through Sunday. I don taya.
Let me get this straight.

Are you of normal height, and just not muscular enough as a guy?
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Nobody: 11:07am On Mar 29, 2019
Howmon:
Go and make money, you won't even be bothered about it. How do I know this, I have a small stature too, but I speak in better places than would have ordinarily been for my stature.
Oga make una help us too nah. I need a job please. I'm a degree holder, second class lower
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by kennypedia(m): 11:07am On Mar 29, 2019
Grow beards, hit the gym and correct anybody messing with you immediately. Don't force people to stay, those who want would.
Re: I'm 29 But Look 13, I'm Depressed, The Disrespect Is Too Much! Please Help Me by Sterope(f): 11:07am On Mar 29, 2019
Your demeanour, style of dressing, speaking voice and the way you carry yourself matter a lot. Why don't you take look at those and see if it will change things?


lilmaydee:

I thought so too until a female friend I asked out told me that if she goes out with me and we meet her friends, how would she introduce me, as her bro or man?

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