Acidosis:



Now you see how dumb you sound when you compare people on the basis of their distinct gender? Are you superior to your father?

Why are angry now that I borrowed your own limited mind and thought. You are the same person who said that women are not equal to men, meaning that men are superior to women, while I continue saying that both women and men are equal. I am not superior to my father, but you are sure superior to your mother in your limited mind.

To think that you are well-known on this forum for living off women starting from when you were always asslicking Idwo... back then around 2013 up to now that you have a new catch could claim superiority over women is laughable.

Bye-bye uninformed clown.

Acidosis:


No, I didn't say that. We are talking about married women who commit adultery and the reasons for such act. Asides from multiple sexual experiences, I cited other reasons.

But to clear the doubts, having multiple sexual experiences certainly increases the likelihood to cheat. It applies to both men and women. You can't certainly tell me that a man who cheats and sleeps with anything under a skirt before marriage will be as faithful as a timid guy who rarely approach women.

This is not a virgin Vs nonvirgin issue, but go and check the stats of women who complain about their husband's cheating habit. How many of them married virgin men?

You have a way with words I'll give you that, you twist words to suit your narative by inserting both genders as your point, so as to be seen as fair, whereas your previous comment I quoted was mainly about women who have had several sexual experiences being solely the adulterous ones, you are right anyway.

Heiterkeit:

Why are angry now that I borrowed your own limited mind and thought. You are the same person who said that women are not equal to men, meaning that men are superior to women, while I continue saying that both women and men are equal. I am not superior to my father, but you are sure superior to your mother in your limited mind.

Direct me to where I made this statement? These are your own words based on your personal insecurities. I never at any time claimed that men are superior to women. I don't use those words (superior, equality, etc.) in my "limited mind".

Ladies like you who have failed at being women are the ones seeking validation from men. Love yourself as a woman and if you're too insecure so much that you need to be weighed on a scale, pick up role models from your gender and get yourself validated. Your being equal with a man on paper still won't get you the fulfilment you seek until you learn to love yourself as a woman.

To think that you are well-known on this forum for living off women due starting from when you were always asslicking Idwo... back then up to now that you have a new catch could claim superiority over women is laughable.
Bye-bye uninformed clown.

LMAO This is the best you can come up with?? I know you're hiding under a strange moniker to vomit the nonsense in your head but I won't give you that chance.

How can Acidosis, a traditional guy (as you people call me here) live off women?? You dey madt?

Please don't tell me it hurts you then to see Idowuogbo and I relate on Nairaland?

Biglittlelois:



You have a way with words I'll give you that, you twist words to suit your narative by inserting both genders as your point, so as to be seen as fair, whereas your previous comment I quoted was mainly about women who have had several sexual experiences being solely the adulterous ones, you are right anyway.

That was intentional.

Acidosis:


Direct me to where I made this statement? These are your own words based on your personal insecurities. I never at any time claimed that men are superior to women. I don't use those words (superior, equality, etc.) in my "limited mind".

Ladies like you who have failed at being women are the ones seeking validation from men. Love yourself as a woman and if you're too insecure so much that you need to be weighed on a scale, pick up role models from your gender and get yourself validated. Your being equal with a man on paper still won't get you the fulfilment you seek until you learn to love yourself as a woman.



LMAO This is the best you can come up with?? I know you're hiding under a strange moniker to vomit the nonsense in your head but I won't give you that chance.

How can Acidosis, a traditional guy (as you people call me here) live off women??

Please don't tell me it hurts you then to see Idowuogbo and I relate on Nairaland?

As you already know, I am happily married to a real man. So, I should be the one to pity you in that department.

Everyone here who has known you over the years know that you are not the kind of man any sensible woman will take serious because you are like rainbow with seven colours always speaking from both sides of your mouth.

So, now we agree that women and men are equal, good that I have knocked sense into your head again.

Meanwhile, do you still use ruler to measure yam? Stinginess and poverty are bad.

Oh, you still remember Idowuogbo, I am glad that she later saw through the real you like others did.

Uninformed clown, always posturing and seeking validation.

Let me pity you for today. Final bye-bye for today.

Acidosis:


Direct me to where I made this statement? These are your own words based on your personal insecurities. I never at any time claimed that men are superior to women. I don't use those words (superior, equality, etc.) in my "limited mind".

Ladies like you who have failed at being women are the ones seeking validation from men. Love yourself as a woman and if you're too insecure so much that you need to be weighed on a scale, pick up role models from your gender and get yourself validated. Your being equal with a man on paper still won't get you the fulfilment you seek until you learn to love yourself as a woman.



LMAO This is the best you can come up with?? I know you're hiding under a strange moniker to vomit the nonsense in your head but I won't give you that chance.

How can Acidosis, a traditional guy (as you people call me here) live off women?? You dey madt?

Please don't tell me it hurts you then to see Idowuogbo and I relate on Nairaland?

Outside your discussion with Heit....

@bold:
This is solid gold!

NOBODY can make you inferior or below without your permission.

Heiterkeit:



But in your post I quoted, you said otherwise.

Can you point the exact line I said 'men and women are not equal' ma'am?

Biglittlelois:


Of course

Why else? Sex is the end game here, or if there is another reason, let's hear it.

Events have overtaken this beht I do not believe women cheat only because the sex in-house is not good.

Heiterkeit:


As you already know, I am happily married to a real man. So, I should be the one to pity you in that department.

Everyone here who has known you over the years know that you are not the kind of man any sensible woman will take serious because you are like rainbow with seven colours always speaking from both sides of your mouth.

So, now we agree that women and men are equal, good that I have knocked sense into your head again.

Meanwhile, do you still use ruler to measure yam? Stinginess and poverty are bad.

Oh, you still remember Idowuogbo, I am glad that she later saw through the real you like others did.

Uninformed clown, always posturing and seeking validation.

Which Idowuogbo again? The one your father sent PM on my behalf or the Idowuogbo that your broke uncle helped me to woo?? Shey na your papa date Idowuogbo on my behalf ni, egbami?? And which others? That you date people all over Nairaland until you became useless doesn't mean we all do that. I don ever send your papa any PM here?

You're one hell of a frustrated woman, trying too hard to get me on the defensive side with "facts" that exist only in your head.

Me wey no dey eat yam don dey measure yam on Nairaland Was it the yam your le.prous boyfriend stole at the village market and begged me to measure ??


Wait, you're married?? Oh that's a good and a bad news. The good news is that you're married and can now bear a Mrs. title. The bad news is that you're a frustrated woman. Your stability in that marriage would only be based on your husband's ability to tolerate your lies and frustration.

Bobloco:
I don't think men are being "talkertive" here per say rather these men have found a platform where they can really express themselves.

Exactly.

In real life, it is expected that men should not complain and man-up but women can do. Now on oscial media, the reverse is the case since women can bare their mind in real life.

Fresno:
When you tell men that their wives should never have male besties they think we are joking . There is nothing like bestie in any friendship between male and female , 98% of the time besties are usually their fvckbuddies.

It's just so bad that women are very promiscuous this days , I myself have had my fair share of married women, God have mercy on me. I'd still blame the husbands though because when this women narrates what they go through though the narration might be one-sided.

No care, love attention, sexless marriage are some of the things married women go through, their husbands are no where to be found, am talking about well to do women not paupers , but all the same husbands in the house let's love our wives and show them care and attention, if they begin to look outside trust lots of young Guns like me are ever-ready to give them what they want.

At the bolded.......abeg dey fire dey go. Person wey wan fvck make she fvck.
A man is not in this world to serve and kill himself because of a woman.
All those ones are flimsy excuses.
People who want to cheat will cheat and they will always have an excuse for their actions so as not to feel guilty.

LadyRosa:




I bet you enjoy every bit of it knacking someone's wife .Im not the one to judge as long as it's a mutual affair

But your citations are true with married men's dispositions towards their wives.Lack of love and care tops it all.Many marriages are just too terrible to look at, nothing attractive to make the single get hooked.Little wonder the trend of baby mamaism[b].I see lots of women who are trying to get out after a kid or two and when they finally do,few years later they are swimming in money they lacked when they were married.[/b]

We always see what we want to see.
All you see are bad marriages, struggling marriages, women who want to run out of marriage and enjoy their lives.
You actually think women being in marriage are doing men a favour with your statement........few years after divorce and they are swimming in money.
That is all you see. You didn't see the ones who are struggling after divorce, you didn't see people who are depressed for being single.
Women pulling out of men's life are just doing men favour because the average woman is a liability to a man. A woman will never come into your life and your account increase, it will always decrease so shying away from marriage is even a welcome development.
Most men will live longer and most women cost of living will go up.

1. Exposure: the women of old were mostly housewives and homebound. Todays women are exposed academically socially, and technologically. Most married women in the course of their daily hussles will always bump into very attractive males "who knock them off their feet". Some can overcome such temptations, while others fall. That's why some insecure* husband's refuse to allow their wives to work.

2. For financial gains: I personally knew a young married lady who was having an affair all for the greed of money.

3. Revenge/payback: it is very natural for a woman who has an unrepentant cheating husband to get weary and succumb easily to another man, in her mind she will always feel justified, after all her husband is doing same.

immortalmortal:
Most ladies these days go into marriage for the wrong reason. They rush into marriage either because of pressure or for financial stability. They realise afterwards, that its not all "happy-ever-after". Married Women cheat for so many reasons, Some for fun, some for emotional gratification(mostly with their ex or someone who has captured them emotionally), some cheat for money, most who cheat do so because their husdand cant satisfy dem sexually. If its okay for a man to get what ever satisfaction with another woman, i see no reason why a woman should not do same.

At the bolded..............Nobody says a woman should not fvck all men from egbeda to iyana ipaja, all we are asking for or saying is that IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH AND MATURED ENOUGH TO FVCK AROUND, THEN YOU SHOULD BE OLD ENOUGH AND MATURED ENOUGH TO PAY YOU DAMNNNNNNNNNNN BILL...... Stay alone and fvck all the dicks you want, nobody will query you.
The men who are sleeping around are not collecting the money from their women............hope you get that. They woek for their own damn money.

Acidosis:
This is bound to happen na. Someone slept with more than 20 men within 25 years, and you expect that same person to stick with one partner for 70 years because of wedding band? Kolewerk na.

Go to a typical university campus and see what young girls do with their bodies. You can't have a body count of 30 before age 30 and expect that same body to adjust to one count for life because of vow. The raging hormones you failed to put under control do not give a fvck about your vow or whatever it is you did on your wedding day.

The decision to remain faithful to one partner MUST begin in your teenage years. You can't possibly train your body to remain faithful few weeks to your wedding.

Old wine ALWAYS taste better

Gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

emmaodet:


We always see what we want to see.
All you see are bad marriages, struggling marriages, women who want to run out of marriage and enjoy their lives.
You actually think women being in marriage are doing men a favour with your statement........few years after divorce and they are swimming in money.
That is all you see. You didn't see the ones who are struggling after divorce, you didn't see people who are depressed for being single.
Women pulling out of men's life are just doing men favour because the average woman is a liability to a man. A woman will never come into your life and your account increase, it will always decrease so shying away from marriage is even a welcome development.
Most men will live longer and most women cost of living will go up.

I see all that you see,and even worst even for both.Infact, to be honest it favours the women most if they have kids.Kids hardly leave a mother behind.
A woman don't need to be in your life for your finances to swing.Id advice men not to waste their time getting married IF they can't cope with all the negativities they complain about women,as I actually think it ain't by force.We go dey alright laslas.

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postmann:
I choose to respond to this particular question rather than the one in the main topic.

You're right about Nigerian women evolving but what you didn't pay attention to is the fallout of such evolution.

With more financial freedom and exposure, women are exploring their sexuality. I like to call it harlotry. They become more unsubmissive and seek to take control of any relationship they may have with a man. Now, except for spiritual and socio-cultural interference, most men are Alphas and won't cede such authority to a woman. So while the woman enjoys her new sets of freedom -- financial autonomy and all the bells and whistles that come along with it, she becomes more rebellious. Her job also has a toll on her as well. Making more fatigued and less sexually active.

These are much an alpha would be willing to put up with for much longer and would naturally turn to younger, barely legal girls, freshly crossing the red gate of adolescent into green shoot adults. These freshies have minimal toxic exposure compared to their older female counterparts and would yield naturally to the male sheer power and dominance, making the alpha to dote on her. She becomes the object of envy amongst her peers and older ladies alike.

Now, these old, financially independent women being pushed down from the perking order find themselves either as 2nd wives to way older men, or get entangled with a simp their age or become sugar mummies. Most end up getting married eventually but not to the men of their preference and are far more prone to engage in extramarital affairs.

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All these captain save a schmuck sef, as usual, you will get burned sooner or later.

bukatyne:


Events have overtaken this beht I do not believe women cheat only because the sex in-house is not good.

Ok.

LadyRosa:


I see all that you see,and even worst even for both.Infact, to be honest it favours the women most if they have kids.Kids hardly leave a mother behind.
A woman don't need to be in your life for your finances to swing.Id advice men not to waste their time getting married IF they can't cope with all the negativities they complain about women,as I actually think it ain't by force.We go dey alright laslas.

Infact, to be honest it favours the women most if they have kids. Kids hardly leave a mother behind. - Who cares? men have always been living life solo from ages. We have always planned our lives without relying on children. Women do that not men.

A woman don't need to be in your life for your finances to swing - Likewise the woman who thinks after divorce she will be swiming in money. Her finance can nose-dive too.

Id advice men not to waste their time getting married IF they can't cope with all the negativities they complain about women,as I actually think it ain't by force - Don't worry about this, it will happen naturally. There is gradually a change in mindset of the modern man towards marriage than their predecessors.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free.
Women sell values, men bring resources............and since women have thrown total caution to the wind with values dropping everyday, there are no incentives to make men go into marriage.

emmaodet:


Infact, to be honest it favours the women most if they have kids. Kids hardly leave a mother behind. - Who cares? men have always been living life solo from ages. We have always planned our lives without relying on children. Women do that not men.

A woman don't need to be in your life for your finances to swing - Likewise the woman who thinks after divorce she will be swiming in money. Her finance can nose-dive too.

Id advice men not to waste their time getting married IF they can't cope with all the negativities they complain about women,as I actually think it ain't by force - Don't worry about this, it will happen naturally. There is gradually a change in mindset of the modern man towards marriage than their predecessors.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free.
Women sell values, men bring resources............and since women have thrown total caution to the wind with values dropping everyday, there are no incentives to make men go into marriage.

It's a free world bro.We complain too much and expect too much.Who no want marry,make he no marry.Who no longer want to marry ,make him divorce.All in all, everyone should live and let others live.

RightToReject:
It has always been happening long before this new era. It has only gotten worse in this new era, however, due to the following mentioned and unmentioned factors:

- Easier access to information, contact, and connection.

- Nonsense philosophies being propagated by small-minded elements in the name of wokeness, for example, most men now want to be chosen by women for a relationship/marriage; wanting to be loved by the women in their lives rather than being the ones to love their women and having them reciprocate through submission as that's where their forte lies.

- Most women now mistake equality/liberty for rights to unscrupulousness, while having some men supporting the same in the name of wokeness.

God bless you for this, as a kid who spent his entire primary school life in face me I face you, I see and heard things an older me was able to comprehend later in life, our landlord was allegedly sleeping with a tenant's wife, who himself has another wife and several other concubines as he worked in NITEL then and had cars, but he died poor.
Another tenant had a wife, and the wife is a friend to a single mother, both had daughter of same age and same name, LOLA... The wife always gist her single mother friend about happenings in her family especially when she has issues with her husband and she listens to advice from her until she packed out one day and few weeks later, the single mother moved into the room of her friend's husband, the man's biological daughter was made to go learn a trade while her own daughter was sponsored to school by the man. The other woman's daughter became an object of sex for landlord's children and she got pregnant finding it hard to determine who got her pregnant.
So many other youths get their story and these people are in their 40s and 50s now, or is it one married man that will not allow other people's wife to rest... More population and easy access to information makes it look like it's a new thing.

emmaodet:
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At the bolded.......abeg dey fire dey go. Person wey wan fvck make she fvck.
A man is not in this world to serve and kill himself because of a woman.
All those ones are flimsy excuses.
People who want to cheat will cheat and they will always have an excuse for their actions so as not to feel guilty.

Just for clarification, just like you right? Cos you've admitted to cheating countless times and still ongoing on the red pill thread.

LadyRosa:




I bet you enjoy every bit of it knacking someone's wife .Im not the one to judge as long as it's a mutual affair

But your citations are true with married men's dispositions towards their wives.Lack of love and care tops it all.Many marriages are just too terrible to look at, nothing attractive to make the single get hooked.Little wonder the trend of baby mamaism.I see lots of women who are trying to get out after a kid or two and when they finally do,few years later they are swimming in money they lacked when they were married.

they will eventually spend the money on fvck boys who in turn fvck them and the promiscuity circle continues...

talk2hb1:

Big Lie!
If a woman earns equal with her husband she sees herself above her husband,
I am yet to see a woman who is willing to marry a man below her.

a woman trying to beat the female biological cycle clock perhaps

LadyRosa:



I earn more than my man.

There are several men who gets bullied, disrespected and disvalued by their own 'housewives'.

devalued

In keeping it brief, I'll point out that harlotry is when a woman offers invitations to random dudes -- whether in the guise of having a crush, infatuation, love or attraction -- to her honey pot.

I may not address most of what you opined but I wanted to make clear why more men will be going for younger women than before.

LadyRosa:



I believe harlotry is for women who get paid for SE.x.Or do you intend your meaning generally for women who have random sex but have good paying jobs or those who are just prostitute? Speaking on the former,I argue that financial freedom in Nigeria in most cases are seen as an attribute for rebellion by women.Funny is how so many men on here cry about a broke cheating girlfriend.its kind of funny and I don't think cheating is same as submitting.

Not in all cases are grown women sexually inactive.Anyone who works hard physical and otherwise may have his/her game affected in a way, sometimes even considerably.There many instances where I just wanna _4ck to relieve the accumulated stress of work.Alas!My partner is snoring in the day after a night of office stress.So while one may be sleeping it off,the other may want to "_fuck" it off.So it depends...

[b]Now,this is not it!I think I disagree with this.Girls unfortunately want to grow big,you know when I was 15 all I do is watch Beyonce, Rihanna,try to wear my aunties stilettos and wigs,and red lipsticks and paint my god damn face.Sometimes I want to kiss a boyfriend and do things matured ladies do.So it may be that the younger girls envy the older,more independent ladies above their teens and more...Again,there are more younger guys, ofcourse I really don't know wtf is happening who look way matured than their age.Till date,I still find it difficult telling the face from the age.Many Nigeria guys will stand next to me and yet would pass for an elder brother or husband.I'm older than my partner,funny thing is he knew I was.He jokingly and spitefully told me more than 8 months into the relationship.For weeks I kept blinking my eyes in utter disbelief! What?!
So you see, I don't think there's any envy at all as long as preferences matters to individuals."Alpha" like you call yourselves don't think age.They play their game.A "small" girl can now slice throat better than an evening "newspaper".Street is a jungle,learn early,succeed early is the code.While the code for the late papers might be to settle and make babies,the younger wants to make money and abort babies.
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Young girls marry old men,it's as old as man.its not new,for financial gains, protection, religious cum cultural reasons and sometimes by choice.Even celebrities from well to do homes still get entangled with older men.Infact being a second or third wife is old fashion now trending...I guess the freedom to still have time to do other "things" while the Alpha feast on other wives shouldn't be underestimate or ignored.There many "unforseen' things going through the tiny brains of many Nigerian wives.Dont be surprised to read they think more about the future than the men.While the men work towards it,they solidify it to their own advantages.
Finally, you'd be surprised why women go into marriages.I don't think majority of Nigeria women marry for love right from the onset.It more often than not what is meritable and available.[/b]

tiswell:
they will eventually spend the money on fvck boys who in turn fvck them and the promiscuity circle continues...

To balance the equation,the male also spend money on harlots and then harlotry becomes even more attractive and it doesn't stop

LadyRosa:


To balance the equation,the male also spend money on harlots and then harlotry becomes even more attractive and it doesn't stop

I think you view from hypergamic lenses.

tiswell:
I think you view from hypergamic lenses.

In what way? One man's Kobo could be another's value for naira.Anyone can get high irrespective of the cost or brand of alcohol.So?

LadyRosa:


In what way? One man's Kobo could be another's value for naira.Anyone can get high irrespective of the cost or brand of alcohol.So?

in other words, if a man cheats,the woman should also cheat to balance the equation and have her own pound of flesh ba?