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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Winn12: 3:49pm On Apr 08, 2022
Carot:
was your dick sucked
go ask your pops

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by ntipro: 3:49pm On Apr 08, 2022
Princeton92:
I've been sexually abused by my Uncle, a senior in school and neighbor's daughter

cry cry undecided lipsrsealed

How did it happen?

What message do you have for younger ones reading through because I believe some of them are here though they won't indicate

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Flamemignon1(m): 3:50pm On Apr 08, 2022
damosky12:


Somethings aren't funny bro.

A case happened in Zimbabwe where ladies infected with HIV tied down a guy and took turns on him. The torment was in the fact that he knew they were infected.

Also heard of cases where girls would spike a guy's drink to have him. It's either to infect the guy, blackmail him, or just mess him up psychologically.

Whichever the case, male rape is never fun. It's not what you see in porn. No male, no matter how sexually active, wants to be assaulted against his will.
Men like that idiot is the reason why people don't take men raped by women seriously. Just look at what the fool wrote. In my case, it was women who even sympathized with me while my fellow men laughed at me

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 3:54pm On Apr 08, 2022
I was sexually molested when I was still a kid by our neighbor, I don't think I can write it here, it's unpleasant and disgusting and I don't want to remember anything like that again.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Cujo007: 3:54pm On Apr 08, 2022
In order words, we shouldn't believe in female sexual abuse because if it was an abuse, why did the vagina stay open?!
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Prolific007(m): 4:01pm On Apr 08, 2022
Mine happened with my babysitter whom was a distant relative. She constantly played with my d*ck without remorse and I believe she told another female helper whom was a neighbor. On the faithful day this our neighbor locked me up in their house and raped me

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by BigRocky: 4:02pm On Apr 08, 2022
waseun007:



yarn dust ....lol.iyaebe he don do you, you too dey form overperfection, he be like say you no dey shit sef

No mind them.

Electronic feminist
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by LadyRosa(f): 4:06pm On Apr 08, 2022
O boy! I no go fit get maid o.I go fit pluck the eyes of anyone that molestsmy kids without blinking.Chai!

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by heniford2: 4:13pm On Apr 08, 2022
GenBuhari:
I cannot understand the harm. Is it that don't like puna? I am serious what is actually still upsetting you I am trying to understand.
mehn i love puna,but i can't still invade the psychology infect of her action sometimes when i dream about her i become a puppy she chokes me beats me up and i feel hopeless cry cry when i see her I'm so weak in my dreams cry hmm
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by WriterX(m): 4:24pm On Apr 08, 2022
If there is one thing I have learnt it is those abused have the tendency to abuse as well...those of you interested in house helps especially the females kindly do a proper background check on her previous work place, man don see something for life.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by blaqsainz(m): 4:27pm On Apr 08, 2022
my own na wen i dey 1 month old, thm jst circumcised me. the woman go lie say she dey rub am engine oil make e heal sharp sharp come dey roll my ballz reach where i nearly cum. i remembered everything but i neva sabi talk then. so wen my mama enter the room i dey try cut her eyes say them dey molest me but she no dey grab. small time she go carry eyedrops put for my eyes thinking say e dey pain me. very caring.
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 08, 2022
But that is just a dream, its not real so why you so hung up about it? If you love puna there is no real harm done. You are old enough to rationalize your dreams so I still cannot figure out why you still feel pained by the experience, which after all must have been pleasurable for you at the time.
heniford2:
mehn i love puna,but i can't still invade the psychology infect of her action sometimes when i dream about her i become a puppy she chokes me beats me up and i feel hopeless cry cry when i see her I'm so weak in my dreams cry hmm
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 4:38pm On Apr 08, 2022
blaqsainz:
my own na wen i dey 1 month old, thm jst circumcised me. the woman go lie say she dey rub am engine oil make e heal sharp sharp come dey roll my ballz reach where i nearly cum. i remembered everything but i neva sabi talk then. so wen my mama enter the room i dey try cut her eyes say them dey molest me but she no dey grab. small time she go carry eyedrops put for my eyes thinking say e dey pain me. very caring.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by ednut1(m): 4:41pm On Apr 08, 2022
GloriousGbola:



Dem see say you be mummy's boy with small prick tongue
muahahahaahh
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by victorazy(m): 4:41pm On Apr 08, 2022
Osebanjo:
Whole lot of 'em. The worst of it all s been disvirgined by a known street LovePeddler, I didn't even know I had came. Was barely 15, SS3. Knew nothing about s3x back then. Before that she'd play with my D Everytime she had the chance. Anyway if I had hymen, it would have been broken at age 5 Sha. Serially molested by some street aunty. Funny how the memory would never leave.

I'm not alone I know.

Oloshi lie lie
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by TwistDThinking(m): 4:41pm On Apr 08, 2022
Any man saying men can't be sexually abused is a just Hot virgin note that
Their ignornace is caused by too much sperm in their kokoluwa(brain) e choke for their thats y it's hard for them to think straight
Virgins that are always Hot all the time and are willing to do anything 4 that pu**y.
With that been said
Been sexually molested as a kid breaks a man I tell you
It forces out feelings that one might not be able to understand or control sexually
Makes one objectify girls a lot
No matter how hard you try to control it omo u go loose guard.
And if you try to hide it by all means you become very scared of urself for what you might do for the pleasure
Normalize having heart to heart talk with kids man especially when they up to the age of 15 it will help them be aware of those kinds of feelings.
I was a victim too once in my life. Am still struggling everyday to keep myself in check

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Badguy77(m): 4:42pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

So a woman been raped dont get wet ba??
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Patrick238: 4:45pm On Apr 08, 2022
ntipro:
Men are hurting deeply from their past experience of sexual abuse with househelps, relatives and even their fellow man. Their cases are more difficult to prove and the society don't just give a damn when the male child is sexually abused. It looks the world is made only to hear the cry of women. They even say real men don't cry...

Anyways, have you had this experience? Freely share. It's part of the healing process and it will go a long in educating the public.


This is the major reinforcement of sexuality confusion among men...
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Ayula911: 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2022
It happened to me, but it later happened to dem. ∆ {}
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 08, 2022
What is there to deal with? Please educate me.
masks:
3 times i have been sexually abused at a very tender age. Memories still in my head till date. But rather than hurt me. I teach people especially guys who have suffered same fate how to deal with it
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by heniford2: 4:48pm On Apr 08, 2022
GenBuhari:
But that is just a dream, its not real so why you so hung up about it? If you love puna there is no real harm done. You are old enough to rationalize your dreams so I still cannot figure out why you still feel pained by the experience, which after all must have been pleasurable for you at the time.
i have a partner and i have three kids now so sex is not the issue, how old are you they are some event in ur life u cant ease,i have eased it but i do once in a while have nightmares of it in an unpleasant way, have i overcome it yes! I have.
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by tivhador: 4:59pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
Men no do me anything for past Oga, I don't keep boyfriends , I'll keep only fiancée at the right time but that does not stop me from saying the truth all the time
tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue cheesy
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2022
I agree that if there is erection they must have been arousal and probably pleasurable feeling at the time. The torment that some sexually abused males claim to experience is hard for me to understand. I could only speculate that it is mainly from reflection through their adult eyes. I wonder if there is some sort of agenda going on on this thread, I mean how so many havebecome experts of female physiology during rap.e
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse, if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Shevchenkko: 5:24pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?
Don't say that. Rape is rape
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Missionaire: 5:26pm On Apr 08, 2022
I've been there.

An older female relative would play with my pee pee when I was about 7 I think. I still remember.
She was usually in charge of giving us food since she was the oldest amongst us and my aunt who we lived with then wasn't usually around.
She would threaten me with hunger and spiritual stuffs just to get me to do stuffs to her or allow her to do stuffs to me.
I never forget.

Another was an older lady in the police barracks I grew up in.
Maybe this is why I am more attracted and attractive to ladies (sometimes 6 years) older than me than ladies younger than me.

Another one was an older guy. Bros almost sodomized me if not that we were caught while I was still in Primary school. Was in I think Primary 2 or 3. Made me do shit before we were caught.

I hate sexual molestation of any kind and by anyone with all my heart and with passion. People who take (sexual) advantage of vulnerable people deserved to be dealt with without any iota of mercy.

Sexual molestation is bad. Very bad and evil.
To me, it is worst than death. When a person is dead, he or she stops feeling anything.
But the same is not for victims of sexual molestation.
You as a victim are alive. Feeling the pain every time you remember and everytime you see the person.
The molester would have long moved on but you the victim still remain stuck in the past; you still remain stuck in those moments of hell, reliving the painful and degrading experience over and over again.

You lose your dignity, your identity and end up having a big void of darkness in your life that can lead you to substance abuse and even irrational sex just to fill that void of emptiness; of loneliness. No one can understand you and you might begin to feel further alienated by the society and those around you.

Make nobody quote me with further questions about this biko.
It is well.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Missionaire: 5:28pm On Apr 08, 2022
GenBuhari:
I agree that if there is erection they must have been arousal and probably pleasurable feeling at the time. The torment that some sexually abused males claim to experience is hard for me to understand. I could only speculate that it is mainly from reflection through their adult eyes. I wonder if there is some sort of agenda going on on this thread, I mean how so many havebecome experts of female physiology during rap.e

So because a lady moans or experiences orgasm during rape it then is no longer rape right?

May you not experience this and may those around you never. May you not and may they never.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Bifas1: 5:28pm On Apr 08, 2022
I can't forget what some big aunties did to me when I was in Primary School. Being a cute boy brought me nothing but pains and sorrow.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by SweetDipBenny(m): 5:34pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?
Is like sayin she got wet or had an orgasm therefor is not rape grin or is it

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by blacknoir: 5:36pm On Apr 08, 2022
BabaJideAFONJA:
Silly Nairaland Robot. Unmarried old Slay queen. I dn waybill your package Use fucck urself. What's wrong with your mental health?
Buahahahah u have won the best comment

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Johnlegacy57: 5:37pm On Apr 08, 2022
many young boys are still being molested today. sometime ago I saw a video of a mother twerking in front if her son. That is pure sexual molestation like the boy is seriously f*cked up but women won't believe. They don't know what goes in the head of this little kids. experiences like sexual molestation can never be forget, it always hunt the victim.

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Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by effort1: 6:04pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
Men no do me anything for past Oga, I don't keep boyfriends , I'll keep only fiancée at the right time but that does not stop me from saying the truth all the time

But this one you wrote isn't the truth. It is a lie
Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by Robertjones442: 6:05pm On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

I am a victim. I recall too well even though its over 25 years ago. It was by my aunty so if you dont know you can ask and just talk about you alone.

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