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Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:you be pikin which kind useless question be tho one? 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by NwokoloOwa: 9:08pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
How many times una go ask this question. Una dey find my mouth. I dey my mama house, So? 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by GUNITGuy: 9:09pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
But 99% if women commenting would sleep in dangotes son or itedolas son house ...... Don't get relationship advice from women they only reason based on the kind on people they meet broke, struggling middle class..... Once they manage to break thru they forget all this principle they kerp |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Whiteways: 9:11pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
With above comments, I give kudos to my beautiful in and out woman |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Gambit1(f): 9:11pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Omicron123: My sis married her husband when the guy was still living in his father's house. He was a Msc holder but jobless at the moment, after the wedding, they rented their own house, after 6months thet processed my sister's admission in the UK and they both went. Now they have 3houses in Nigeria, one in lekki, one in ibadan and one in our hometown. They also have a house in Manchester, with three lovely children. Don't look down on any man. 5 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:14pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Lamanii22:Correct woman! No matter wat, be moving on with ur marriage! Dont mind doz single, small Girls dat always feel dey know too much! Many have no experience wat Life is about! 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by GUNITGuy: 9:16pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
deltateam:My brother Abraham, isaac, except Jacob liver in their Parents house and most Patriarch of old did.... The leave and the cleave is a subject of debate because most couples in the Bible weren't far from their origin as we have this present age.... I will prefer couples to leave outside their parents house but if they are happy with that arrangements there's no need making feel awkward 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Gamesmart: 9:17pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
What a purely stuuupid question. What is the business of someone still living with his mother with marriage? To add responsibilities to existing responsibilities he can't handle yet? |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:18pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Vinnie2000: Continue responding to people responding to me. That one no mean say I go stop to dey quote you. If it is AGAINST your culture and tradition and it's an abomination for a man to move to his wife's house, then it is NOT about the fact that he is an only child. Because all your conditions WILL NOT apply to an only female child. So what nonsense were you saying about if he's an only child or a heir? You should have just that, 'O, this is gender-specific.' 'Anythihg I say applies to all men only and not women.' I painted a simple scenario. Yes, women generally don't inherit. BUT that is changing and laws are backing it up. There are cases of a woman being left as a beneficiary of all her father's properties and companies and houses. It does happen. I always say men are intimidated by successful women, but IF YOU KNOW IT IS NOT A LOW SELF-ESTEEM ON YOUR PART, if you happen to "snag" a babe wey be say her papa big, her papa come leave a big estate house with 7 bedrooms for am, before e die, watin you go do? Answer! O n so fun mi pe I'm putting up baseless arguments. Simply answer. If your fiancée who is an only child, in a rare case, inherits a mansion, will you want her to sell the house or live in it and take care of it as a service to her dead parents? E be like say you no do any Logic course for that university wey you go abi? Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by E2000: 9:20pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
I observe that in India movies billionaire family live together in one very big furnished house or Estate. I see nothing bad in leaving in the same Estate with my parents so far we are mega rich but I will like to have my own separate quarters. It all depends on individuals and how you were trained and wired mentally. I advice if you want to marry someone very important in a billionaire home were they already live together be careful not to try separate him from his family. They will see you as a treat to their unity and revolt against you. 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by snoopz: 9:21pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
If getting a house will make your aza enter debit mode, wey you go dey relapse in other house duties as a husband, if your mama no dey complain, siddown o 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:21pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Gambit1:Wow, wat a story! Let some of NL's 'Oversabi' Girls learn frm dis!. |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:24pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Vinnie2000: Keep running kitikiti and katakata, attacking an imaginary oversabi lady. My questions are there, staring you in the face. Go answer them, Man. 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nyascobar1414: 9:28pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Now I really understand why the call you girls fish brains 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nyascobar1414: 9:31pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: This clearly shows that your husband to be mom has to be dead already... Cos if she's alive, they will be chaos.. If only your man is simp he will stand by you and throw his mom to the ditch.. But if he is wise, the reverse is the case..... Note! Y'all ain't special |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by GUNITGuy: 9:31pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Cutehector:No Matter how rich a single lady is even with a good job she can't stay alone but would be angry when a man who gets his acts together stay with his mum or siblings ..... There's so much double standard here |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Cutehector(m): 9:32pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
GUNITGuy:swears. I hate the mentality of Nigerian women. It stinks. 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nyascobar1414: 9:33pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
SilentQueen:When I was a kid, I thought females dont love sex... But I've unlearn... Women and sex be like 5and6. |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nyascobar1414: 9:35pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: the greatest achievement for a female is marriage... You cant beat this! Its y'all saving grace... |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by olaadenigeria(m): 9:35pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
It depend on view of the lady toward her mother in-law in living with her at the beginning,she will definitely know because nothing is wrong in it |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by sircatherine45(m): 9:36pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
If the guy is an only son, the DEFAULT is for him to look for an apartment. But when situations above his control e.g sick and dependent parent, and getting a househelp is hard, then that's an exception. Many African families are kith and kin, so it would be hard to convince a guy to bring a wife to his parent's house or convince a lady to marry to guy living in his parent's house. |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Nyascobar1414: 9:37pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
[quote author=seemegold post=112018049] Sorry o, I can feel your pain bro. It not easy coping with a useless mother and sisters is not easy at all. But take it easy sha so when you start having daughters you can make them useful and not useless like your mom and sis. [/quote You are clearly Useless.. Cos the message really dealt with your conscience.. Truly, you are useless |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by sircatherine45(m): 9:38pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Magnoliaa, I want to get your opinion: What if the guy's mother is sick or needs special help, and with the current economic and security challenges hiring a househelp, how you you view the scenario? |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Vinnie2000(m): 9:39pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Your question is TOO SILLY to be answered! No matter how Rich a bride is, She still goes to the groom's house after marriage! Even Rita Dominic will stay in her new hubby's house and not vice-versa! Pls I dont have time for Nonsense! Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Mindlog: 9:45pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
radna2: Is that the Psychiatric hospital in Benin city? |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:46pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Vinnie2000: No, they are not too silly. You just don't have a tangible response. If you did, you'd be responding. Because you want to tell me you don't know or haven't heard of big babes who get to inherit big houses from their parents. Even, say I agree with you that it is the lady that always move, then that means you expect an ONLY FEMALE CHILD with a sick to mother to move to her husband's place inspite of that. There is a gender reality at play here and it is coming from you. What an only son can do, an only daughter cannot do. Simple?? 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Magnoliaa(f): 10:00pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
sircatherine45: What if the lady's mother is sick or needs special help, and with the current economic and security challenges hiring a househelp, how you handle the situation? I rarely support a one-size-fit-all for couple issues and dynamics. So let a couple do what's best for them and cost-saving and sensible. What I speak against is the imposing of a cast role for women all the time. "She must do this or get out." I mean, do you think a lady cannot easily be in such a position? She could have a blind mother too. Or have a house bestowed to her. Or a legacy she has to managed. Is it logical to tell her to forfeit all of that just because of marriage? Or... I don't get. I'm not saying nobody shouldn't take care of their parents when it is absolutely necessary. I am not getting married or starting a family soon, so I cannot say this is exactly what I'll do, but if my mother is sick, the top priority on my mind would be getting her back to great health or at least achieving some level of comfortability and financial stability before I'm going to be getting joined to somebody else. But, if it comes to it that I have to get married and then care for an ailing parent, for myself and for my partner and whether the parent is mine or his, we'll do it. Together. If they absolutely have no where else to go or who to stay with, they'll live with us. Because if not, why did we get married to each other? 2 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by Kelvin3476: 10:02pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Vinnie2000:Something must be wrong with our dear sister 3 Likes |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by osazsky(m): 10:06pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
E2000:if u watch zeeworld na woman they pay groom price the man is at liberty to live with is inlaw.. but cuz of too many family members its prob upon prob and d bad members keep succeeding in thier evil |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by NorthSerious: 10:06pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Kelvin3476:Fair play to her she colorizes her comments. Just helps me to quickly scroll pass them. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by BestLife22(m): 10:08pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: LADIES: Can You Marry A Guy Who Still Lives With His Mother? by sircatherine45(m): 10:12pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: What if the lady's mother is sick or needs special help,and with the current economic and security challenges hiring a househelp, how you handle the situation? For me, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. |
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