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Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:10pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
I am shaking right now .. This is what men go thru in the hands of the other gender.. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
abbey621:1. Again, those who think their quality of life worth less than their investments in what turned out a toxic relationship remain in it with the hope that the situation will magically change for the better and this an illogical reasons. 2. Again, once an environment becomes toxic, the best is always to leave such an environment. If you and your spouse decide afterwards to seek professional counseling or ways to resolve issues after your heated argument, that's OK too. But in every case, once things turn toxic, exit to avoid "had I knowns". |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by OlawaleBammie: 11:15pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
abbey621: Lol, well, u might be tinking am saying rubbish but my woman sef knows me, even her father knows me well, her father is even afraid to call me. I am a cool guy, not heavily built wen it comes to body but wen i get angry i always want tins to spoil so that there would be mark, a reference mark for reference purposes. I have bn praying to God to quench that spirit from me sha, but i hate nonsense. I cant torture my woman no matter what so also i dont expect u to torture me, And d moment u start developing some ment or malaria den i will av to administer u the antidote That pikin wey u talk na simple tin, if he ask me i wil tell her her mother is in correctional center to reset her factory settings (e get how u go talk am) laslas 3 to 6month she go graduate and d pikin no go know anything sef, and if hin no na hin wahala. Tho i am not praying for these ooh and it will never be my portion but as i said, i dont condone nonsense all in the name of... Na woman she be(a no like to dey hear that nonsense and manipulative line) Well sha, my woman knows me sha and i thank God say she no dey misbehave, so i love my woman. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Slynation(m): 11:26pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Jeon:Is that all you have to say?? But if it's the other way round, you would fill up 80leaves exercise book with your epistle... |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 11:36pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: HA........OMO TIMES 1 BILLION......TUALE BABA
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Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Jeon(f): 11:38pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Slynation: Stop crying.. or you want me to start my regular madness... ain't you happy with the way I commented calmly? I have the right to say anything that come up my head to a particular gender and at a particular time.. or you want me to tell him he's a weak man? allowing woman to dominated him in a gruesome manner? or should I said he is at faulty.. or he is useless that was why the woman was violence? or he should just close his eyes and forgive because she know not she is doing or tell him he's a man and need to display him masculinity? pick one 2 Likes |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by oshorstan(m): 11:43pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
It is good u ended it. Many women are bad. Social media is their new courts of Justice. If u see what men are facing in their marriage, u will hate women. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 11:44pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: But you haven't defined toxic......What exactly is toxic? Is it an heated argument or an insult? Is it physical or does it start with the woman putting too much salt in food because the husband vexed her? How about the man working too much and forgetting anniversary? I'm just trying to understand what the metrics are for toxicity or do we just make it up as we go along? As a man, I get upset at least 2 to 3 times a week at my wife most times na just small stuff like high spending or letting our boy go out and play without any supervision. Then there are more serious stuff like when she quit her job out of the blue because she wanted to pursue her passion of social media influencer . Can you explain to me which of these scenarios should I consider toxic and JAAPA? Counseling and pep talks are only useful if everyone knows the rules and guidelines, we can't just be making stuff up now can we |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Slynation(m): 11:51pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Jeon:I wouldn't know, I just thought I should point out that your post was too brief, because matters like this requires epistle... |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Jeon(f): 11:53pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Slynation: YOU SEE MOST TIMES I DON'T USE MY BRAIN.. NEXT TIME I WOULDN'T FORGET TO MAKE HASTE TO REACH YOU, SO THAT I CAN MAKE USE OF URS IN TERMS OF EPISTLE.. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Slynation(m): 11:55pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
oshorstan:I believe the men chose to suffer, cause at every point in time, we are presented with lots of choices to make... |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 12:00am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621:1. According to verywellmind.com Atoxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. On a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time 2. People get upset with each other in relationships regularly. So long as you are in relationship with another individual, it is expected that your buttons will be pushed every so often. We are each also endowed with an internal alarm system that alerts us to when the conditions even within a relationship become highly stressful, and usually as a result of actions perpetrated by the one we are in relationship with. In such cases, if one is still uncertain whether the relationship has become toxic at that point, it is advised that one withdraw for a bit and seek counseling. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Slynation(m): 12:00am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Jeon:Lol...Then I guess you are about to make one of the best choice in your existence |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Idzitari1(m): 12:10am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Hahahaha don't know what to type |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Asianjollof007: 12:12am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Sureplug123: No mind the mumu replying comments without addressing the main issue, by their comments you shall know them. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by OlawaleBammie: 12:14am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621: See, dont do it u re a man, dont do that u re a man... All these are just manipulative statement to tame men, tho men have to be tamed to fit a woman but that is wen the woman hersef is a tru definition of a weaker vessel, but if i tame mysef for u and u con dey use my eye see shege....aaahhhhhh a go dey happy to revenge, na dat kain revenge dey sweet pass Before my woman moved in with me i told her several ttms, madam pls i know say women get skuchi for head ooh, yes, even my mama sef get so am not expecting u to be different, but whatever u want to do, dont outdo it to me, if u dey give people outside hot hot dont do it to me, always accord me my respect and i wil respect u back. Do u know why?? Because my forgiving spirit get malaria, he no well, so a no dey too much forgive. So my woman no me, she no dey find my trouble and a dey always cherish her, she be my second mother ooh |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 12:23am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Atoxic relationship is one that makes you feel unsupported, misunderstood, demeaned, or attacked. On a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time So basically the very institution of marriage is TOXIC! Since we all know 99.9% of all marriages will have an argument or misunderstanding at least once in 3 months and the crazy ones will have one every other day. Furthermore, if these so called counselors were truly effective why does 25% of those who seek their help end up in worse situations and about 38% end up divorced in 4 years or less? Don't even get me started on the financial burden, this is why people prefer to go to their pastors or alfas Finally, how does Mama Nkechi and her husband living in a one room home with 3 children afford to see a marriage counselor? What of Iya Ibeji and her vulcanizer husband? I've always had this problem with theoretical analysis for relationships, it sounds so wonderful on paper but when it comes to implementation it falls flat because the solution reads from a script rather than customizing each solutuion based on the presented circumstances, reminds me of university days learning about Basic and C programming without touching a computer...... 1 Like |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by solexyy: 12:50am On Apr 19, 2022 |
WHEN WILL DIS MARRIAGE THING END SINCE NO ONE WANTS IT ANYMORE? |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 1:15am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621:1. Counselors aren't magicians who can help you repair irreparable damages already caused your marriage, and counselors cannot help you both resolve issues you aren't ready to resolve as a couple. Counselors serve instead as mediators to help guide both couples towards the best fit path or next step in their relationship. If a couple believes it has to be divorce, the counselor can only help them in achieving that without all the abuse. 2. Couples who are not able to afford a mediator in the marriage have no one to blame for that. So your mama Nkechi and vulcanizer man are out of luck if they can't afford to pay to have the stress involved even when seeking the end of a relationship significantly reduced via a mediator. And this is no fault of any others. The solutions applied by counselors are industry-tested conflict resolution solutions to help partners safely resolve issues in a way that best benefits the parties involved. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 1:18am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Just sad when you think about it, the proposed solution works only for those financially buoyant.......Seems the world only caters to certain people....shame! |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 1:24am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621:Marriage is not for everyone. 1 Like |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by jimcaddy(m): 1:25am On Apr 19, 2022 |
This can never be an African or Nigerian man. Wife beat am ke. Baba will beat nonsense comot for him wife. Nigerian men and beat ehn, five and six. |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 1:30am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Thank God say my mama and papa no meet you dem for no marry because shin shin no dey back then, mama had no job and papa dey work for NEPA. . |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 1:31am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621:Marriage is,again, not for everyone! 1 Like |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 1:32am On Apr 19, 2022 |
jimcaddy:And baba will go and join the many Nigerian men in Jail who in regret wish " had I known". 1 Like |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 1:42am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Unless there's money....Dey talk am finish no dey disguise |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by Kobojunkie: 1:45am On Apr 19, 2022 |
abbey621:If you no get money or you know your worth as an individual, or you are not mentally disciplined, you are not marriage ready. But really, marriage isn't for everyone. 1 Like |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by abbey621(m): 1:47am On Apr 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Fixed! |
Re: Man Leaves His Marriage Because His Wife Beats & Abuses Him by RussellRutherfo: 1:59am On Apr 19, 2022 |
A man better than his pedophile prophet Muhammad. If he had followed Muhammad strictly that bad wife would have suffered very well. Islamically, there is really nothing like marriage in the first place. |
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