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Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by abduly4: 5:21pm On Apr 21, 2022
Candidlady:
So you can't fight for who you love undecided what kinda fake love is that lipsrsealed
.....pls is there original love.....
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:32pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95

And he might be red demon piller on Nairaland simping away over a girl in real life ogrin
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:34pm On Apr 21, 2022
Raysleek:
What is love when you just chicken out at the slight opposition. Go to the police. Spend money hire lawyer set him up, fish him out. You have every right to fight over a girl that loves you. Not a girl that doesn't love you and is being threatened. Protect her
Red demon pillers will not like you.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by ecomm(m): 5:36pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence.
Easy tiger .. easy!

One must always know what he is up against. You can do otherwise but only if you have access to a multitude of resources.

Do you have these answers.

Who is this guy? His fullname, school of study, course of study.. who his father, and his mom.

What about friends .. gangs, cliques, umbrella's cool!

Do some recon! You don't just walk into a policestation.. you neeed to come with facts.

Do some more due deligence. You will uncover a lot. And, use it to select the best form of attack.

You want to strike the viper at the head!
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:36pm On Apr 21, 2022
Tmberwolf1:
Simple solution.
HUNT HIM AND KILL HIM.... Or permanently render him incapable of doing anything. No one threatens my life and gets to live.
Onahi95
Don't listen to this one o, na red demon piller them.
Na how to destroy people happiness them sabi.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:37pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
The only time I ever fought for a lady was when a guy tried to molest my under aged sister, I don't see myself dying for any lady not even my wife... I just want to take preventive measures for my own safety, if it makes me a coward then so be it.
See him simping away to impress red demon pillers.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Heavensent01(m): 5:41pm On Apr 21, 2022
defend the babe and get killed then the owner still have the girl



dont know wetin dey worry you guy, babe u no meet virgin you won die for her, better leave the babe and GBE body e, many babe are there to open puna for you
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:43pm On Apr 21, 2022
Ximenez:
You go soon pay for wetin you no buy.
Oyibo movie kinda love indeed.

Discretion is the better part of valor.
Even if you survive it, you'll become an ex sooner or later.
Lies!

Lies of a red demon piller, it shall not come to pass!!
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Bfly: 5:43pm On Apr 21, 2022
You too guard yourself.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 5:45pm On Apr 21, 2022
oilmane:
Run Intel on the guy, know his location and fav hangout spots, go there with your guys, leave your guys outside and go in, buy yourselves drinks and discuss with him, make sure a bottle is close to you, tell him you were with the girl when he called you and you really don't like the threats he made, tell him to move on as you're now with the girl and you don't intend leaving her anytime soon, you guys will resolve the issue peacefully if he's a real guy, break the bottle for he head if he won jump make you and your men run enter him and anybody way come out for am, make sure your guys tight sha, nor b who go run leave you as e set.
Onahi95 this is not a good advice.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by galantjoe(m): 5:46pm On Apr 21, 2022
Never fight woman with a man. The end is always disastrous
Please avoid this tragedy. Women are serpent and deceitful.

By the way, beautiful ones are not yet born
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Ojukwu007(m): 5:46pm On Apr 21, 2022
grin
Realmi:
huh

U want to fight a guy just because u dont want to be seen as a coward...... over a girl that is not ur family member, just a girl u met few months ago....

Infact....goodluck to u....I am using my advice, I dont have any spare one to give
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by youngcizzy(m): 5:50pm On Apr 21, 2022
I’ve been seeing fight for the the girl if you love her , yen yen yen yen , y’all are Simps . The girl should handle her ex and you should hit on her , enjoy while it lasts because she will still cheat . Don’t go fighting for a lady that ain’t your wife
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by malvisguy212: 6:04pm On Apr 21, 2022
Candidlady:
Jack died for love TITANIC
Jesus died for love HUMANITY



ain't you a man? Can't you die for love! Cowards everywhere
Na crime if you die for love Also ?
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Ximenez(m): 6:06pm On Apr 21, 2022
Tradegood:
Lies!

Lies of a red demon piller, it shall not come to pass!!
Be like say you dey high.
When did i tell you I'm a redpiller or whatever?
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by NemoDatQuod(m): 6:06pm On Apr 21, 2022
You need to be extremely careful and make a decision immediately. When I hear" if I can't have you, no one else will", it almost always leads to disaster/death.
Secondly, all you have narrated here are reported speeches and conversations. This guy has not come directly to you to harass or intimidate you. He has also not sent you any direct threatening messages. All of these were reported speeches and events narrated to you by your girl. Be very careful of that girl. You do not know the veracity of all she's been telling you.

My advice to you is to cut her off immediately and forever. There is something to be said for a woman who is not able to forthrightly end a relationship, regardless of what she tells you about how hard she is trying to end it.

Surely, your life must be worth more than a p.ssy to you!


Onahi95:
My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence, unfortunately the girl recently started using an iPhone so she was finding it difficult to locate the record option while he made the threats, she got him to call on another phone but he suddenly became calm. He has a history of threatening and scaring off any guy that çomes close to the girl, one of the reasons she left him. I've been waiting for him to call me like he does to others but he haven't so far.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Alabaintprice(m): 6:08pm On Apr 21, 2022
Why didn't you wait until they break up.
A girl tells you her relationship is complicated does it then mean they have broken up.....

Na you carry wahala put for your head Na....
Na wetin woman talk you dey follow
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by blackparadise: 6:18pm On Apr 21, 2022
Guy please I beg you in the name of God, don't stress your self about the issue ladies,.. she ain't your wife just girl friend .. don't trust ladies , remember she has someone before you and you just meet her few months back.. you have not no the type of girl she is ..relax and play neutral, she still loves her ex..I have experience this before ..my girlfriend later go back to his ex and they are happily married she later came to apologise..it a long story..

Never disturb your self coz emotions, pkekus plenty yanpia, this kind story then happen in my school, the ex of my friend girlfriend is a cultist and killed him Bec my friend was dating the girl ... after his death.i learnt that the girl later went back to the said ex..

Just be neutral, remove love .. ladies can pretend to be an angel and you won't know..but nah money wey I get I give. You, don't stress your self, let me continue the threat so far he didn't come to you,

Your business is the girl , you should warn her ..Me I do question girls a lots before dating them,...if I detect anything , I cancel the relationship..

Because I no want wahala...

Guy reason to make money and enjoy your life..life is good and important to enjoy ..


As I am typing now, I am happy without girlfriend or wife ,I am just having sexmate not love until the love of my life will show,


I have experience heartbreak from ladies so it makes me stronger,...

A lady was passing by with huge curvy ass,

I ignore her, though I admire her, but I will never be shaking for such banny..

Be your self..you haven't pay her bride price, so why are you stressing ,why did her ex get your number from....?
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Ojukwu007(m): 6:18pm On Apr 21, 2022
Alabaintprice:
Why didn't you wait until they break up.
A girl tells you her relationship is complicated does it then mean they have broken up.....

Na you carry wahala put for your head Na....
Na wetin woman talk you dey follow
DON'T MIND HIM JARE!! I DON'T KNOW WHEN COMPLICATED BECAME A SYNONYM TO THE WORD SINGLE.

IF A LADY USES THE WORD COMPLICATED, WISE MEN FLEE ASAP. NONSENSE!!!!!!
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Tradegood: 6:20pm On Apr 21, 2022
Ximenez:
Be like say you dey high.
When did i tell you I'm a redpiller or whatever?
See red demon piller wey dey pretend say him no know himself o.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Farfalla(f): 6:24pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
......they come screaming simp at any given issue while they are the real SIMPs always hiding behind new monikers to complain of how their girlfriends are treating them like shit.

Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Jamesbiodun(m): 6:26pm On Apr 21, 2022
OP if you die na one spanner loss angry
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Atticusxsz(m): 6:38pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.
Fear Fear! I comprehend your situation and I've gone through something far worse in relation to been threatened by someone's ex.

While serving in asaba in 2017, there's a girl residing at okwe close to DDPA corper's lodge where i resided. She and her friends took a liking to me like I've never seen before. She had an ex who's also a cult guy but he's in the military and do come around once in a while. They dated for 6 years and she almost died when they finally broke up because she took some unknown substance but she's revived on time by her fellow colleagues working with her at a filling station known as B2 where she worked. The issue casablanca in the area then. There's no one that didn't hear about it.

Then, i came along and she's all over me due to my young facial features and calmness, also me being a serving corper. At Op, girls sarara 4 the unit but it's her that caught my fancy due to her being bold enough to open up clearly about how she felt 4 me and due to that, i had to just keep others coming as just casual female friends.

There's a day i was accompanying her home and someone behind us shouted at her to stop but b4 that she was acting all fretful and strange... i never knew her ex was around. So, i thought it's her elder brother/relative and when he walked past me to meet her, i greeted politely but he went ahead to slap her.

Oboy! I was damned aware of my environment and i had to put my phone inside pocket since i was putting on my tracksuit and a fanciful night singlet. He then question her if he hasn't warned her to tell me to desist from following her about and that he's back to continue from where he stopped and also saying that no one will ever have her if not him and him alone. It's as if i was in a trance because i never thought about something like this ever happening since she clearly told me they weren't together anymore.

Military man waka come to slap me and i dodge and he threatened me and was about to call up back up aka niggas around the hood, it's there and then i pushed him with a force i never knew i had in me, after all, na normal doings 4 PH and it ain't something new to me. Na so my man go fall inside gutter and his phone disappeared from his hand.

I wanted to rush him but the girl stopped me and was begging me not to fight him and was crying profusely. The nigga panicked and told her why would she be begging me and i answered him by saying was he the one she should be begging when it's obvious that i was the one pained and angered at the moment and would literally finish what he started since he thinks I'm just someone he believes he'll do away with anyhow. My blood was already boilt to a degree i never knew existed.

She pleaded with me to go but b4 i left i told him that as a pitakwa boy, i was going to come at him in whichever way he wants it since he already said no one was going to have her except him alone and that she's his investment.

I and my lodge mates at the corper's lodge almost died with laughter that night while my mamo and some of my close female friends pleaded i leave Emilia since she wasn't the only available girl that took a liking to me there at Okwe but i never paid attention since i believed i wasn't in the wrong.

I kept a diary of my experiences on what transpired back then but lastly, i gained my respect and i freed Emilia to him since she outrightly knew from onset that i wasn't going to end up with her due to me having someone i so cherished. Although, she's still optimistic about we ending up together.

So, at Op... if you're threatened, you can choose to fight or scamper for safety because all fight ain't just physical.

Are you even ready to fight for your supposed girl?

Are you sure she'll be able to stand by you when it matters the most and is she trustworthy at all so as not to enter one chance o.

Mine happened in a faraway land where I'm not an indigene unlike the military dude/cult guy who's from the community itself, what can you say about yourself, any backup if it goes haywire?

I can go on and on but you alone will feel the heat when the battle commences.

The battle can go your way or your opponent's way but are you ready for what's to come?
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Chidi2022: 7:06pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.
First off, How does the said guy get the phone numbers of any new guy your girl goes out with? if you truly sure that your girl has nothing with him, get one of your girl brother to go make an entry to the police, the guy will be picked up, then you can come in from there...
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by davedoe: 7:24pm On Apr 21, 2022
Candidlady:
So you can't fight for who you love undecided what kinda fake love is that lipsrsealed
Love kill you there if e die now na ppl like u go shout why e no find anoda girl blablabla
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Klebsiella: 7:27pm On Apr 21, 2022
Unfortunately, you fvcked up already. NEVER get involved with any woman that tells you her status is “complicated”. She has probably been double dating the both of you all along. How did he get your number?

It’s not too late to quit the “relationship”. Next time, go for ladies who you are sure are single and ready to mingle. E get why.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Acidosis(m): 7:28pm On Apr 21, 2022
Do not joke with death threats. Get him arrested ASAP and quit that relationship.

Don't go and invite trouble into your life because of someone else's bad decision. Na she date agbero/murderer. She should resolve her issues before starting a new relationship.

No go die because of woke people's slogan -- "it's her/his past". Don't let someone else's pasts destroy your future. I don't joke with people's pasts. People who have dated cultists, murderers, and yahoo boys shouldn't be in the list of your prospective spouse.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by cooooooks(m): 7:30pm On Apr 21, 2022
Let her lay the complaint.

Why are you paying any complaint?

Onahi95:
My plan is to lay a complaint to the police first but I want to get hard evidence, unfortunately the girl recently started using an iPhone so she was finding it difficult to locate the record option while he made the threats, she got him to call on another phone but he suddenly became calm. He has a history of threatening and scaring off any guy that çomes close to the girl, one of the reasons she left him. I've been waiting for him to call me like he does to others but he haven't so far.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by may320: 7:44pm On Apr 21, 2022
This Op, Onahi95
Pls for the sake of your parents who suffered this far to raise you up, leave that lady!!

The boyfriend already said no one will have her aside him.......which other part of the message didn't you understand again?

His calmness now is to re-strategize!
To even make matters worse, you said you've never seen him before, so you don't even know what your rival looks like?? So you're fuming on top shadow or what?? I laugh you in Swahili.....

Well, maybe you just cooked up this story just to trend........na Una way.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by OmoJubrila: 7:44pm On Apr 21, 2022
I am too. The guy is desperate.
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by Deenillah(m): 8:20pm On Apr 21, 2022
OGaaaaaaa...
Somebody dey threaten your life untop woman matter and you dey find advice on wetin to do?

Okay, go like this

Enter market obtain one correct cutlass, give those aboki way dey sharp knife make them sharpam for you.
Then tell this girlfriend of yours make she arrange make you and this baba way won kill you meet.
Carry this cutlass follow body and when una finally meet, givam make him just kill you and this your girlfriend then bury una for there.
Then una both go go heaven go do una Romeo and Juliet in peace.


Mtchwwww.. nonsens.

no go report for police station. Love kee you there
Re: I'm Receiving Death Threats From My Girlfriend's Ex by countryman13: 8:36pm On Apr 21, 2022
Onahi95:
Good Morning Fam, I've got this pressing issue that I would very much appreciate your wise counsel to help me solve.

I met a lady about three months ago and we bounded pretty quickly, this oyibo movie kinda love story that the dating starts without anyone doing the toasting and all. I asked her about her relationship status weeks later and she said it was complicated, citing how the relationship has been toxic and she wants to leave but the guy won't let go.

I shaa told her that I won't get involved so let her handle it herself. The guy backed out for a while but has resurfaced recently hell bent on getting the girl back. From the WhatsApp conversation and call recordings the girl sent me she has made it obvious to the guy that she's moved on with another guy but the young man is having none of it. She even offered to return everything he's ever given her but no way.

Now he has resorted to threatening me and the said Lady with death. I've never met this guy and I don't have anything to do with him either. The last thing I want to do is fight over a woman that is not even my wife with another guy reason why I've never interfered in their issues. I have it at the back of my mind that I might still breakup with the girl anytime in the future.

He keeps telling the girl that its either he has her or no one will, that she and whoever is attempting to steal his joy away is playing with their lives. The whole issue is making her scared and confused. I asked her to get a recording of the guy making those death threats so I can use it as an evidence in the police station but he has stylishly been evading it despite the girls best efforts. He suddenly became calm and all apologetic now saying he will pray to God to destroy who ever wants to destroy his relationship after all his investments.

How do you guys think I should handle this issue amicably, I find it embarrassing when men bicker over a lady and never imagined myself getting involved in such. I've considered the option of leaving the lady for him but she really loves me likewise me. In as much as I don't want any issues with anybody, won't it be cowardly of me to hide in a closet while a fellow man threatens me with death.
My brother dt na laziness dey worry am. U don't have to be afraid of any threat from his side because U have done no wrong. If he try to slug it wt U physically,try as much as possible to curtail him n treat his fulk up.
NB: All d aforementioned remains valid so far Ur hands are clean.
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