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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by freedi(m): 10:15am On Apr 24, 2022
this very wrong

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by LaSenior: 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Edyice: 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by DryMouth: 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022
Lol. Na ashawo you marry so

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by manontree: 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022
Sad. For her to do this and even the changing of clothes somewhere else suggest premeditation

It is highly likely her conscience is bothering her about something she did that day. She felt by telling you half truth, she would ease the burden on her conscience

She hasn't told you the entire truth and forgiveness should be the last discussion at the moment

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:16am On Apr 24, 2022
..... grin grin
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by zinaunreal(m): 10:17am On Apr 24, 2022
This guy already knows the kind of woman he married . Yet again another mumu here again seeking advice when he knows what best be done. Even if he sees 1 million good advice he will not attempt anything. Goat

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by royalfly(m): 10:18am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Dont forgive, how do men succumb to this nonsense. Except u have been unfaithful too. Oh God of isreal.. protect the good men.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by GloriousGbola: 10:18am On Apr 24, 2022
Why is it that the bet9ja, hacker, sign and other hustler spammers never spam these ediatic threads?

Is it professional courtesy?

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by freedi(m): 10:19am On Apr 24, 2022
just follow your instincts bro
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by zedegit: 10:20am On Apr 24, 2022
OlawaleBammie:
if u no catch her cheating red-handed just do ur own part as the good husband.

But if u catch her den discharge her without blinking the eye, else u would have ursef to blame

Are you married? You think it's boyfriend/girlfriend ish?

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Penguin2: 10:20am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Forgive her joor.

Or you will make her stop telling you things.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Dawn91(m): 10:21am On Apr 24, 2022
lalasticlala on overdrive these days with creating fake topics grin

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Angelfrost(m): 10:21am On Apr 24, 2022
Lemme say this for the umpteenth time...

Leave marriage for those with balls and brains!

It is not for SUCKERS!

Some of you even compel ladies and guys to marry you, later you start disturbing us with sob stories!

Chin up or get the fvck out!!! Enough said!
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by seguno2: 10:21am On Apr 24, 2022
Kobojunkie:
She is your wife, so you shouldn't be asking us whether you should forgive her or not. undecided

You alone know why she is your wife, so the decision as to whether to forgive her or not is yours alone to make. This is your life! undecided

She is however right that she is not a child for you to monitor ... she is a full grown adult and does not need you monitoring her movements. undecided

So why is she not single so nobody has to monitor her? Na by force to marry without being ready for the responsibilities

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Chyma231(m): 10:22am On Apr 24, 2022
Mugu , your wife Don go knack outside !!! Then cover it up with cinema...or maybe the ex bleeped her inside cinema self .....God knows if na me ....she is gone the next morning. Some women can be a fool sometimes!

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by OlawaleBammie: 10:22am On Apr 24, 2022
zedegit:


Are you married? You think it's boyfriend/girlfriend ish?
kpele, am married sir.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Sltp: 10:23am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.
Just shut the Bleep up

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by EgunMogaji2: 10:23am On Apr 24, 2022
There are no more men in Nigeria. Divorce lawyers must be starving in this country.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by mosaicafrique: 10:23am On Apr 24, 2022
She is cheating, she cheated on you. Please send her away for not being a wife

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by seguno2: 10:23am On Apr 24, 2022
royalfly:
Dont forgive, how do men succumb to this nonsense. Except u have been unfaithful too. Oh God of isreal.. protect the good men.

Maybe his gentleman moniker is synonymous with SIMPleman

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by royalfly(m): 10:23am On Apr 24, 2022
ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". grin

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

God and u got likes. What has happened to this world. Wow, if u are married and ur advice works for you then u must b supper human.. whats going on? Maybe there is a sacarsisim i did not see here. Wow, truly i should not have married.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by EgunMogaji2: 10:24am On Apr 24, 2022
Chyma231:
Mugu , your wife Don go knack outside !!! Then cover it up with cinema...or maybe the ex bleeped her inside cinema self .....God knows if na me ....she is gone the next morning. Some women can be a fool sometimes!

Gone with no trace of her in my life within days.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nyanabo(m): 10:24am On Apr 24, 2022
The sad truth is that you are closer to your grave than you think.

In my culture, a promiscuous wife doesn't cook or sleep in the same house with her husband. If she does the man would die in no time.

For me I can accommodate anything but never a promiscuous wife. God forbid.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobicove(m): 10:25am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Yes, sneaking clothes in bags. She's 26 years old.

She still be small pikin grin
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by jaxxy(m): 10:25am On Apr 24, 2022
Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

so its a crime for,a married man or woman to go to the cinema with a friend?

I think the major thing is that she informs u of her movements bt why she didn't informed u is the big question.

Do u oppose her movement with her friends or is she just shaddy or secretive?

why does she do the wrong thing then confess and apologise when she knows doing the right thing would be easier?

Only forgive if she agrees it won't repeat itself. marriage is about forgiveness on the right grounds.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by BRATISLAVA: 10:25am On Apr 24, 2022
Misogynists are on their double steam train of fiction production. Anyone who believes the recent threads hitting the FP needs their literature collection updated.

Only men are cheated on and jilted. Only men are so emotional. Only men must make threads endlessly.

What's the gain? Gay agenda? Or embittered agenda?

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Adjovi: 10:26am On Apr 24, 2022
Well someone told you already. Be romantic plan dates ,go to cinemas. Stop all this old school boring marriage life of mummy and daddy. Be her best friend and husband and vice versa.

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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Heavensent01(m): 10:27am On Apr 24, 2022
she's apologizing


she's confessing and she's telling you to stop telling her not to go out without informing you that she's not a kid?



all these contradict each other, someone apologizing/confessing don't argue, she get the blames and take responsibility but here she's telling you she's not a kid


is either someone is trying to blackmail her and she's trying to get a soft landing before she will give you the real confession or she's trying to manipulate your policing to justify her adulthood



just hold on for the real confession, you should have cloned her WhatsApp or Facebook account for the real gist, this will lead you to your final conclusion

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