Stallionhorse:
A man wanted a male child so he choose to marry another woman!! More over its part of our culture to marry as many as we can take care of.. Happiness should be Paramount in life not what people think or expect from you.. Nobody holy pass!!? Congrats man!! May God bless and protect your family.. May God also give us the strength and courage to marry more than one too.. Amen!!

so your wife's happiness shouldn't matter to u.

grandstar:


She can still be his concubine and have more children for him. The joy on his face says it all

Yes he have thrown shame to the wind... Definitely we will be expecting more from him and other baby mama's. Ever since dude got involved with flavour, he was influenced and thought such lifestyle...lol
No be say you the find Child or something like that, Cheating can't be erased from the equation but it should result into bringing a life from an estranged woman.

cococandy:
Eya. The virtuous woman that stood by him when he had nothing in the university. Still gorgeous after years and years of marriage.
Now he has something he went for a light-skin babe.

Ndi virtuous women over to you.

I feel empathy for her. But she should divorce him ASAP and move on with her life

We don't know their story, their agreements, and what they've been through enough to conclude that one party betrayed another.

The fact that the public is just getting to know about a second wife implies that there are probably more that we don't know.

peepydelano:
Wetin choke? Where in the religious book was it written that men should be restricted to only one woman?

in the bible mr. A man will leave father and mother and cling to his wife not wives. You get it?

Obinnau:
Men are...

Men are men..

LilMissFavvy:
I used to admire Yul as a family man, and a successful actor. If the wife knows how to pray or what to do, he would pay dearly for this nonsense'. Karma exists, karma' is close to him.

What about this one? Same energy?

Sorry is this a mistake or a comedy?

You never truly know a man until he starts making good money.

Odogwu congrats

descarado:


Sighs.
You can never understand them.

Just look at a promising young lady settling for baby mama.

And I saw some idiots defending him up there.

Is it poverty mentality or what?

And tomorrow he will beg the first wife, she will take him in again. If you ask her, she will say she did it for the kids.

Our ladies need re-orientation.

re-orientation to what exactly, that being alone/single rocks
do you even know the difference between a house you build and the one you rent

Most times people refuse to leave the house they built ... upon bad roads, no light, church/mosque loud noise among other things ... is it poverty mentality or what

Annalise20:


So how would u feel as a man when ur wife of 17 years wakes up one day and she's like
"I need another man because u aren't enough" ?
If u still don't see any bad thing in it then I wish u her (May's) predicament.

If she needs another man,let her rent a house and move in..
Or better still,let her pack to her father's house.

int0x80:
You never truly know a man until he starts making good money.

Not true. The problem with you guys is that you all formed funny perceptions and opinions about celebrities and people you all don't know. Because Yul and his wife upload one photo per month on Instagram, some of you, at your own discretion and will, painted a perfect picture of their marriage. Na who send una?

This is no news to Mrs Yul and the parties involved.

Annalise20:


I wish u a life of Solomon

Big deal..
Ned Nwoko says hi.

Why do Nairalanders get shocked by such news?

Acidosis:


We don't know their story, their agreements, and what they've been through enough to conclude that one party betrayed another.

The fact that the public is just getting to know about a second wife and a second child implies that there are probably more that we don't know.

right. Because her saying God should judge him is a perfect example of a woman who’s happy about what she’s going through. Smh

Senoye:
It is the *my second wife* that shocked me. The declaration without any iota of remorse has shown he is undermining his wife and kids. Why do you have to cheat on your wife...and as if that is not enough, you didn't use protection..as if that wasn't enough, you are making announcement that is senseless. People will see fire and put their hands inside it.

What was he actually looking for? The real wife has 3 boys and 1 girl


Modified


To people saying he has right to marry more than one wife, I don't disagree with you. However before you enter into an agreement or relationship with someone, most of these things would have been sorted out and I believe with the comment of the wife, this wasn't part of the agreement. Did you hear Alaafin of Oyo's wife complain about marrying more wives? If your wife doesn't know and support you from the beginning that you intend to marry another wife later in future, then it means you have betrayed her trust.

So what should he do if the wife doesn't want him to marry another wife?

Youngqueen:
so your wife's happiness shouldn't matter to u.

No. The Bible forbids them from considering their women’s happiness. Only their sexual needs matter. That’s actually what the Bible exists for. To give them reasons and justifications for such behavior

Alika

alizma:

She can bring in the divorce papers and move on with her life.
The problem with you people is that you don't want to accept your destiny. woman is created for man not man for woman. The earlier you understand this, embrace it and make good use of it, the better your home.
Some men decide to keep to one wife not because some set of people said so but because the woman respect her place and the man find himself ok with that one woman

cococandy:


right. Because her saying God should judge him is a perfect example of a woman who’s happy about what she’s going through. Smh

And she had to wait for her husband's IG post to render her displeasure to the public?

descarado:


Sighs.
You can never understand them.

Just look at a promising young lady settling for baby mama.

And I saw some idiots defending him up there.

Is it poverty mentality or what.

And tomorrow he will beg the first wife, she will take him in again. If you ask her, she will say she did it for the kids.

Our ladies need re-orientation.

Guy go rest,polygamous is an African tradition..

Annalise20:
Women need to value themselves
Shebi she was pregnant in university and Yul couldn't pay their hospital bills.
In his mind, he might be forced to marry her.
Now his first born is in University his consolation to his wife is to marry a "second wife".
E chooke oooo

He needs a male child. To me there is no problem as far as he did not divorce anyone.

DamianX:
This generation is something else
Indeed, did his father marry 2?

Wetin concern him,concern the father?

GooodHardDick:
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I don't exchange words with emotional creatures, most especially Nigerian girls.

Look for a SIMP man and chat with him. No quote me again!

Violence fatality!

Acidosis:



And she had to wait for her husband's IG post to render her displeasure to the public?

Yes and so?

Oh I forgot it’s you.
Find ways to blame the woman will you? What did I expect?

Richy4:
Hope he didn't force himself to do this because of presidential aspirations... He's declaring his 'assets' already to avoid backlash

Just Imagine it was the wife that gave birth to a baby for another man.. And she announced it like this

The wife can go and marry another man and give birth to kids,no be crime..

Jchi9876:
Bastard wants to be president too msheew

Na your Stupid drunkard of a father be bastard..
On top another man's life?
God punish you there..
EFULEFU

Kingcalls:


It can't happen cos men don't go for over used products ... she has no value again

Does she even have the money to do it

NairaMaster1:


He needs a male child. To me there is no problem as far as he did not divorce anyone.

Needs which male child? The first wife has three boys and the last boy is only about 3.

But If Na The Wife Carry Belle Outside And Born For Another Man The World No Go Rest Until Dey Chop Off Her Head But Since Na The Man Do Am See As Everybody Dey Celebrate Am, Nobody Even Care About How The Wife Feels. I'm A Man But This Is So So Painful. Congrats Anyways! The Boy Is Cute.❤❤❤❤

Do you read your Bible or you are just assuming what it's supposed to look like?

subsidywise18:


The women solomon married were wives given to him by neighbouring kingdoms and by kingdoms under his regime usually as part of agreements to guarantee peace and seal alliances

That was how it was done until recently. Ya think that Queen Victoria of Great Britain married her eldest daughter to the first son of the then emperor of Germany for fun or because they loved each other?

Plus the king was supposed to look after them. Nothing like wife going to work to bring kudi for house. Infact, wives of kings were kept apart from other men

WoundedLamb:
Cute baby.

I have no issue with polygamy provided you didn't promise the first wife monogamy. Luring a woman into marriage with the promise that she'll be the only wife only to go and get married to another lady afterwards is a scam and should not be legal. It is wickedness and there is no justification for that. People have plans for thier lives, don't ruin it for them just because you live in a country where your gender is seen as superior. These things should be stated in the contracts you sign when getting married.

Nobody ever promises the wife monogamy. But you expect it

I had this cousin in school. Engineering student. Very hot chick. Also very disciplined. She had friends who wilded out, but she was not like that. Basically dated this dude right through uni and married him after her masters.

The guy was in a different school for that matter. Could only come by once in a while.

I was so shocked to hear recently that the guy took a second wife. I was like wtf? Fine wife, college sweetheart, abroad educated (masters) , bringing home the bacon, did not even contemplate cheating on your ass when we were in school, but yet here we are.

Na real wa.

Awon boiz sha. We see small illusion of money and our dicks start wandering.

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EdwardRandy:

Lol I tell you bro.. And come to think of it; most women misbehave in their marriages because they don't have anyone competing with them. But a situation whereby a man has two or more wives, before any of the wives will misbehave or nag she will advice herself because she knows the man has options. Infact all the wives will be competing for who will win more favors from the man.

Lollll your so misinformed. I grew up in a polygamous home so I have first class experience. The wives do not struggle to please any husband, instead the competition is for their children to do well and become successful. I feel polygamy favours women more than men, because the wifes concentrate on their children and their work/business. Then when old age comes, the wifes will feel no obligation towards the man. Polygamist is on his on in old age.