₦airaland Forum

Bobmarie:
’m as civil as the next nairaland male.

You don’t know what good manners are or you’ll remember you have females in your family before typing trash about women.

Most of you can’t even try this with your real life accounts before you will get fried. This is a haven for frustrated males to pour out the bile.

I didn't talk trash abt women, i said good women aren't everywhere.

Bobmarie:
You know what I wonder about you men, you all have each other’s back blindly on social media but not in real life, why is that? I literally gave an example to another person, but you are feeling the anger personally like I’ve already created the page.

I wasn’t talking to you, so you can’t comprehend the point of this conversation. It’s simple though.
Stop insulting women all the time for no reason because of their sexual choices and calling them bad, women are saints compared to men. We are beings not sexual objects, what we do with our bodies is not your business except it’s your girl’s. We are not properties that spoil once a person touches it. I don’t see you as useless because you had sex with a girl, extend the same to us. WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS.
Because if women complain about the bad things Nigeria men do half as much as men talk down women, SOCIAL MEDIA WILL BE SCARED OF YOU EVERYWHERE.


I won’t open such a page because it will definitely go viral because of the videos.I have a fiancé, two brothers and a dad who never talk down on women because they have women in their families they respect.
I won’t let your immaturity ruin the worlds perception of them.

lol...u don't want people to have opinions about how u use your bodies...

it's funny...

it's also funny you said I'm angry...angry about what...?? I'm just trying to tell you there's no big deal in all of this...if you want to do same.. it's doesn't change anything cos there are bad people all over the world...

u are just bitter over silly rants...i mentioned there are good women everywhere and what men say can't change that...but u pretended not to see it.. and took the context that suit you playing the victim card ....

look madam..

u can't change people's opinion or day they can't talk about what you or your gender does that they find weird or absurd... there are bad women and there good women...men talk about both... so deal with it...

JovialJune:
See this one trying to turn things around and failing woefully,

When have we ever said women don't cheat

When have we ever said men make women cheat

"Only bad husbands have bad wives" this is what every human admit to accept at any point in time, so what exactly is your point

my point is that you women cry over silly rants online too much...its like you just don't want men to talk about you...and it's not like what men talk about is a lie or something.....

Bobmarie:
You lot only have knowledge from the Bible. It’s not your fault, it’s your educational system.

You don’t know what a hymen means and you still believe these are the last days where one man will have 6 women. Lmao


Sorry, mentioned you wrongly


Luvyaself95 this is for you

Am not talking about population between the two genders you get me wrong.
The thing is OP is talking about Good women are hard to find for marriage,
but he doesn't know Men are many than women and yet most of us are not ready for marriage.
Many women are ready for marriage while most of men are not.
even the men that are married want out.

Bobmarie:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA


Are you even literate? luvyaself95, come and see.

Was the OP question talking about population between the two genders

luvyaself95:
Am not talking about population between the two genders you get me wrong.
The thing is OP is talking about Good women are hard to find for marriage,
but he doesn't know Men are many than women and yet most of us are not ready for marriage.
Many women are ready for marriage while most of men are not.
even the men that are married want out.

You are absolutely right on this one.

I apologize for replying without first understanding the context.

advanceDNA:
lol...u don't want people to have opinions about how u use your bodies...

it's funny...

it's also funny you said I'm angry...angry about what...?? I'm just trying to tell you there's no big deal in all of this...if you want to do same.. it's doesn't change anything cos there are bad people all over the world...

u are just bitter over silly rants...i mentioned there are good women everywhere and what men say can't change that...but u pretended not to see it.. and took the context that suit you playing the victim card ....

look madam..

u can't change people's opinion or day they can't talk about what you or your gender does that they find weird or absurd... there are bad women and there good women...men talk about both... so deal with it...

Its your sisters and female family members that will suffer the negative impression by foreigners made from these ‘harmless comments’. If you don’t know, people from other African countries already think all Nigerian women are prostitutes, foreigners too.

Do whatever you like, please get out of my mentions.

Bobmarie:
You are absolutely right on this one.

I apologize for replying without first understanding the context.

Okay apologize accepted

Bobmarie:
Its your sisters and female family members that will suffer the negative impression by foreigners made from these ‘harmless comments’. If you don’t know, people from other African countries already think all Nigerian women are prostitutes, foreigners too.

Do whatever you like, please get out of my mentions.

you are just being emotional or being razz..are you from the gutters??....what have u gained for cursing my sister's and family members.....

...lol...u can curse all you want... it doesn't move me .....just as I expect all these male rants not to move you....

Nigerians are doing exploits abroad regardless of whatever anyone thinks or say

.there are bad people everywhere....so stop playing victim card saying what nairaland men say will make the world think all Nigerians women are prostitutes.....what kind of this king is that..

.if it upsets you guys that bad...mayb you start preaching to your gender to change for the better..instead of playing victim...

selling one's body for money is actually a bad thing ...

advanceDNA:
my point is that you women cry over silly rants online too much...its like you just don't want men to talk about you...and it's not like what men talk about is a lie or something.....

You men cry every single day on silly baseless rants about women, when ladies counter your stupid silly rants and cries, that is when you guys come up with excuses to water down your constant cries, saying it's just mere rant, isn't that stupidity?

Keep talking about women now, keep wailing and gnashing your teeth like we are the air you breath, we will keep countering you all until you get sense Las Las, so keep it up you hear.....

JovialJune:
You men cry every single day on silly baseless rants about women, when ladies counter your stupid silly rants and cries, that is when you guys come up with excuses to water down your constant cries, saying it's just mere rant, isn't that stupidity?

Keep talking about women now, keep wailing and gnashing your teeth like we are the air you breath, we will keep countering you all until you get sense Las Las, so keep it up you hear.....

exactly..thats the spirit...

let's roast each other..its nothing...
we still marry each other on Saturdays...

there's no bid deal

czarr:
It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wanting to be around her all the time. When you imagine your life without her. There's a physical pain in your chest.

That is a toxic life. And no woman should have that much power over a man. That is what the bible call giving your strength to a woman. It never ends well. Because women ultimately seek power, and if they can drain your energy they will, and they'll go look for another challenge. That is another energy to drain.

Nuff said.

Are they, the devil?

Or are they the devil's incarnate?

Victerica:
Are they, the devil?

Or are they the devil's incarnate?

They(women) are not bad people, it's just their nature to act a certain way. Just the way a lion is not a bad animal if you enter it's territory and it mauls you to death, it was designed that way by nature. Contrary to what many people think we don't hate women we only understand them and act accordingly to protect ourselves from the toxic part of female nature.

I created a thread, expressing how I miss my baby, but Nairalanders turned it to a battle ground.

advanceDNA:
you are just being emotional or being razz..are you from the gutters??....what have u gained for cursing my sister's and family members.....

...lol...u can curse all you want... it doesn't move me .....just as I expect all these male rants not to move you....

Nigerians are doing exploits abroad regardless of whatever anyone thinks or say

.there are bad people everywhere....so stop playing victim card saying what nairaland men say will make the world think all Nigerians women are prostitutes.....what kind of this king is that..

.if it upsets you guys that bad...mayb you start preaching to your gender to change for the better..instead of playing victim...

selling one's body for money is actually a bad thing ...

What do you gain by cursing random people’s mother and sisters?

You want me to ignore silly rants about Nigerian men because they’re true but you don’t want to ignore my silly rants about Nigerian men? Why are you so defensive and angry? Your hypocrisy is alarming.

You are most likely a rapist, ritualist, kidnapper or fraudster. If it upsets you guys that bad...mayb you start preaching to your gender to change for the better..instead of playing victim.
It’s just a silly rant, take your own advice and escort your bitter self out of my mentions. Sounding like 10 crying babies.

czarr:
They(women) are not bad people, it's just their nature to act a certain way. Just the way a lion is not a bad animal if you enter it's territory and it mauls you to death, it was designed that way by nature. Contrary to what many people think we don't hate women we only understand them and act accordingly to protect ourselves from the toxic part of female nature.

Lol.

If women are toxic, I wonder what men are.


Go back to history and see for yourself who the real predator is. When did women at start being more than properties of men? You must be really obtuse.

Bobmarie:
Lol.

If women are toxic, I wonder what men are.


Go back to history and see for yourself who the real predator is. When did women at start being more than properties of men? You must be really obtuse.

Men are not innocent either, infact men have never been innocent, but everyone knows that. Why we seem to focus on women is not that men are innocent is that a lot of guys don't move around with the consciousness that women are just as terrible, if not more, and they always put down their guard because "Na just woman, wetin she fit do" and they set themselves up e.g the CEO Ataga who was stabbed, I bet he underestimated the girl. That's why we bring men to the understanding of female nature so they don't get caught unaware. That is all.

We were raised and conditioned to see women as angels and victims, women were raised to see men as beast and predators. But women are also beasts and predators in their own unique female way. Maybe not as outwardly aggressive as men, but just as bad.

For example where a man would strangle someone, a woman would poison someone. Women would do their evil in a such a way that they are not put in physical combat because they don't have the strength. Look at the way women treat people who are not physically stronger like house helps. You'd know that if women had the strength of men, the world would be worse because they are emotional creatures. God did not make a mistake.

Bobmarie:
What do you gain by cursing random people’s mother and sisters?

You want me to ignore silly rants about Nigerian men because they’re true but you don’t want to ignore my silly rants about Nigerian men? Why are you so defensive and angry? Your hypocrisy is alarming.

You are most likely a rapist, ritualist, kidnapper or fraudster. If it upsets you guys that bad...mayb you start preaching to your gender to change for the better..instead of playing victim.
It’s just a silly rant, take your own advice and escort your bitter self out of my mentions. Sounding like 10 crying babies.

abet no vex...clearly u don't get me...
it's clear you are hurt about somethimg I don't know.....im sure I ddnt insult or lay curse on your mother and sister...but if i did that to you ...no vex...kapish

I never told you to ignore silly rants..i only suggested that silly rants be treated as silly rants and not like theres a global or international crises like you making it look..

czarr:
Men are not innocent either, infact men have never been innocent, but everyone knows that. Why we seem to focus on women is not that men are innocent is that a lot of guys don't move around with the consciousness that women are just as terrible, if not more, and they always put down their guard because "Na just woman, wetin she fit do" and they set themselves up e.g the CEO Ataga who was stabbed, I bet he underestimated the girl. That's why we bring men to the understanding of female nature so they don't get caught unaware. That is all.

We were raised and conditioned to see women as angels and victims, women were raised to see men as beast and predators. But women are also beasts and predators in their own unique female way. Maybe not as outwardly aggressive as men, but just as bad.

For example where a man would strangle someone, a woman would poison someone. Women would do their evil in a such a way that they are not put in physical combat because they don't have the strength. Look at the way women treat people who are not physically stronger like house helps. You'd know that if women had the strength of men, the world would be worse because they are emotional creatures. God did not make a mistake.

Well, when you put it like that, you are absolutely right on this one.


I agree women would be just as bad if they had the physical strength of men.

advanceDNA:
abet no vex...clearly u don't get me...
it's clear you are hurt about somethimg I don't know.....im sure I ddnt insult or lay curse on your mother and sister...but if i did that to you ...no vex...kapish

I never told you to ignore silly rants..i only suggested that silly rants be treated as silly rants and not like theres a global or international crises like you making it look..

You also sound hurt and traumatized from your mentions. I pray you find healing.

Again, take your own advice and ‘Treat my silly rants as silly rants’

Bye!

Bobmarie:
Well, when you put it like that, you are absolutely right on this one.


I agree women would be just as bad if they had the physical strength of men.

Phew!!
Finally was that so hard?

czarr:
Phew!!
Finally was that so hard?

What do you mean by this statement?

Bobmarie:
What do you mean by this statement?

You guys never agree on common sense. Always have to respond. I'm shocked that you are able to step out of your emotions and agree to logic and common sense.

Nice one.

czarr:
You guys never agree on common sense. Always have to respond. I'm shocked that you are able to step out of your emotions and agree to logic and common sense.

Nice one.

You don’t know me at all. Posterity should tell you that if I could do that here, it’s my real personality.

Also, it’s not about women. Most illiterates are that way. It’s a sign of unintelligence and a lack of education sticking to your opinion without thinking critically about others.

Bobmarie:
You don’t know me at all. Posterity should tell you that if I could do that here, it’s my real personality.

Also, it’s not about women. Most illiterates are that way. It’s a sign of unintelligence and a lack of education sticking to your opinion without thinking critically about others.

good for you.

mikezuruki:
Guys, I greet una o. Especially all these single people.

If you don marry and your spouse correct, continue to thank God. Because e no easy.

For me, presently I find it hard to move on from my situation. Despite the many advise I got from men here. And kids too. Lol

Next month is my birthday, and to be honest, my wish was to have celebrated it with my woman. And it's not happening.

I know they say time heals, but it is finding it hard to heal me. I hope my girl sees this. I miss you so so much.

Make I go before I start to cry.

Xx

the title should be "I miss my ex that dumped me"

Premiumwriter:
the title should be "I miss my ex that dumped me"

E choke

Sex is life bee.. will you be my woman?

Jeon:
GOOD WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE...
YOU MEN LIKE THE BITCHY ONE'S. and AFTER FINDING THE GOOD ONES YOU WILL LACK INTEREST BECAUSE SHE CLAIMED TO DECLINE SEX.. OR NOT UP TO YOUR VIBES.

Bobmarie:
Yeah. She’s not just attracted to you if she refuses sex. Except she’s a virgin.

A man’s touch will always open legs if the legs are attracted to the sight. Basic biology.

am following u asap