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Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 10:34am On Apr 28, 2022

Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Boogyman557: 10:45am On Apr 28, 2022

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waiting u want make Dem ask..

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by GingerbreadMen(m): 10:46am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

But this is a good question to ask a guy,right??

It's crazy the number of girls that don't know how to converse either and think they are just too good to be the first to say 'Hi' or start a conversation!

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by MAGG0T(m): 10:47am On Apr 28, 2022

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Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 10:48am On Apr 28, 2022

GingerbreadMen:
But this is a good question to ask a guy,right??

If you tell a guy that you are just a student, that's the end of the chat

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 10:49am On Apr 28, 2022

MAGG0T:
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Guy that lady is very right,I've seen some mumu guys asking a lady you just met silly questions.
Learn from the post,that's not how to start a conversation.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by czarr(m): 10:50am On Apr 28, 2022*

Guys should know that chatting should be very brief. Chatting is not an avenue to entertain girls, and try to make them like you. It hardly works. Chatting is a place to arrange a meet up. If you have already introduced yourselves. Ask her if she wants to meet up/hang out. If she gives excuses stop chatting with her. Don't block her stop chatting with her.

A lot of girls are looking for jesters/clowns to try to entertain them during chats even when they know they don't plan on meeting you or sleeping with you, they just want someone to make them laugh. Don't be that guy. They'll dangle the possibility of sex over your head but they always find an excuse not to meet up.

While you are trying to be entertaining Via chat, the guy pounding her out is not even responding to her chat. so she comes to the Simp online to make herself feel better and wanted. She uses her online simps to build self esteem so she can go fvck the attractive guy who doesn't care to chat with her.

Nuff said.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Premiumwriter: 10:54am On Apr 28, 2022

Says the gender that can't start a conversation with a guy.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by GingerbreadMen(m): 10:55am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
If you tell a guy that you are just a student, that's the end of the chat

Nobody wants to date a liability, I'm sure you've heard this from a few female mentors

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by MAGG0T(m): 10:55am On Apr 28, 2022

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lexy20I4:
Guy that lady is very right,I've seen some mumu guys asking a lady you just met silly questions.
Learn from the post,that's not how to start a conversation.

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Only low life bitches should be chatted with such lines, career and intelligent women, you don't need to force the conversation, it flows freely......

You go try to create conversation with an average Nigerian girl, her only response would be Ok, lol,yeah,nothing..... Thereby making the environment more boring

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 28, 2022

MAGG0T:
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Only low life bitches should be chatted with such lines, career and intelligent women, you don't need to force the conversation, it flows freely......

You go try to create conversation with an average Nigerian girl, her only response would be Ok, lol,yeah,nothing..... Thereby making the environment more boring

Wahala, you don weak my spinal cord oga.
Outta hia. grin

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Highman56: 11:19am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

Shut up you think it's easy? Girls dat are boring as Bleep

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by PerfectStranger(m): 11:20am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
If you tell a guy that you are just a student, that's the end of the chat

Nobody wants a liability. I'm happy guys are getting wiser. You act like a liability,we japa grin

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by anonymousthug(m): 11:49am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

Speak for yourself sweetheart I’ve never asked anyone if they’ve eaten (that’s one is their business if they haven’t) and i hate it when i was asked the same question, plus i get these girls asking me that. They think asking me that shit is romantic. Na girls they even do weytin you just accused us of right now.

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by alphaNomega: 11:57am On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Is it just me?
Most guys haven't grown up. They don't know how to make or start conversation with a lady.

You guys should be creative.
For instance, a guy chatting with a lady for the first time and asking if she has eaten.

Have you eaten?
Hope you have eaten?
What did you eat?

If I haven't eaten, what will you do about it? Will you order me food?
What did I eat? Are you asking because you are hungry?

Another thing
Asking what did you do for a living?
I don't understand, are you broke? Do you need money? Are you looking for a sugar mummy?

Lastly, send me your full pic
For what?

It's an advice tho

It's an advice

I advise every guy to find out what the lady he is trying to woo does for a living.

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:09pm On Apr 28, 2022

lexy20I4:
Guy that lady is very right,I've seen some mumu guys asking a lady you just met silly questions.
Learn from the post,that's not how to start a conversation.

Some will even ask, are you a virgin?
I don't understand angry

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:11pm On Apr 28, 2022

GingerbreadMen:
Nobody wants to date a liability, I'm sure you've heard this from a few female mentors

They should know who they are chatting with, not all girls request money from a guy

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:12pm On Apr 28, 2022

PerfectStranger:
Nobody wants a liability. I'm happy guys are getting wiser. You act like a liability,we japa

Not all girls ask guys money

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:13pm On Apr 28, 2022

Highman56:
Shut up you think it's easy? Girls dat are boring as Bleep

Mechonu too sad

Its because you are boring

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 12:14pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Some will even ask, are you a virgin?
I don't understand

Na mumu dey worry them. grin

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by PerfectStranger(m): 12:15pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Not all girls ask guys money

Story

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 12:19pm On Apr 28, 2022

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:20pm On Apr 28, 2022

PerfectStranger:
Story

Seems all the ones you are meeting na urgent 2k

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 28, 2022

Matters up on matters

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Akinfemmy(m): 12:43pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
Not all girls ask guys money

Are you looking for a bf too or a sugar daddy?

Will you also date a guy that's not doing well financially?

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:46pm On Apr 28, 2022

Akinfemmy:
Are you looking for a bf too or a sugar daddy?

Will you also date a guy that's not doing well financially?

I am looking for a husband
If he no get today, he go get tomorrow

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
I am looking for a husband
If he no get today, he go get tomorrow

e shock you cheesy

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Shadysen: 12:52pm On Apr 28, 2022

Plenty of girls I know are so boring , they can't hold a conversation.

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Uniquetani1(op): 12:52pm On Apr 28, 2022

christianjoy:
e shock you

No, not even moved

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 12:56pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
No, not even moved

most guys are like that they love to please girls cool

Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Nobody: 1:00pm On Apr 28, 2022

czarr:
Guys should know that chatting should be very brief. Chatting is not an avenue to entertain girls, and try to make them like you. It hardly works. Chatting is a place to arrange a meet up. If you have already introduced yourselves. Ask her if she wants to meet up/hang out. If she gives excuses stop chatting with her. Don't block her stop chatting with her.

A lot of girls are looking for jesters/clowns to try to entertain them during chats even when they know they don't plan on meeting you or sleeping with you, they just want someone to make them laugh. Don't be that guy. They'll dangle the possibility of sex over your head but they always find an excuse not to meet up.

While you are trying to be entertaining Via chat, the guy pounding her out is not even responding to her chat. so she comes to the Simp online to make herself feel better and wanted. She uses her online simps to build self esteem so she can go fvck the attractive guy who doesn't care to chat with her.

Nuff said.

nice write up

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Re: Is It Just Me? 21st Century Guys Should Grow Up by Oturatetuala(m): 1:02pm On Apr 28, 2022

Uniquetani1:
I am looking for a husband
If he no get today, he go get tomorrow

I smell the lies coming.

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