I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

So back to the question : what are your motives? Abi na chop and go ...?

Then use your brain

What else do you expect from a sane father? Every small thing una go create post on Nairaland. Nuisance. No man mentally mature enough to court a girl for marriage will find the father's statement strange or create a post about it.

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

Use your tongue to count your teeth. If you're not willing, decide now.

Damnnn niggar

Don't be scared niggar

Na threat...continue with your relationship with the girl.....bang her normally.....

Not all all relationship willl end in marriage or end well

If it doesn't end well...no problem...life goes on...move on to the next baby girl

Don't let anyone threaten you

Jashub:
So back to the question : what are your motives? Abi and chop and go ...?

I have good plans for her, honestly. But it's still courtship. The father scared the hell out of me..

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

I will tell any young man the same thing if and when he comes to see me concerning my daughter.
Why are u afraid?
Abi ur intentions no pure?

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

I don't see anything strange in this statement. Even if your girlfriend meets with your parents, your parents will still make this kind of statement.
@Op, by the time you have groom a girl child up to the age that is eligible for marriage, by then you will kwn better.

The man na Dodo , no level


Why u con de fear self , abi u get bad plan

For him to say such means some guys have been coming and going which might actually be his daughter's fault who knows but in his eyes it's all the guys fault.

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NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

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This post isn't necessary, so many kids on this forum

At 5 months it's too early to start visiting your girlfriend at her family house. However, it's really up to you and your intentions. If they are pure and true. Go ahead rock the relationship till the wheels fall off.

My preference is for the relationship to grow on its own before any outside distraction.

Dating for marriage is a big deal.

Here are checklists before you walk down the aisle

1. Discuss parenting styles and raising kids. What kind of beliefs that will be instilled in your kids.

2. Dealing with family members and load of emotions that comes with it.

3. Dealing and accepting your flaws as a couple. How your want to run your relationship. How you want to get this done. Would you like a push, babysitter or a caregiver in the relationship. This is the main one. How you would handle matters as a couple generally.

4. Discuss your childhood trauma, sexual, financial, spiritual, family and partner expectations.

5. Discuss in detail how conflicts will be resolved.

6. Discuss and investigate family health history, family mental history and overall family inclinations...... Some families are notorious for hard work and industry, others maybe lazy or stealing.

7. Discuss dreams and aspirations, careers and even political views.


8. Infact discuss any nuance that comes to mind

The op too get motive of hit and run and that is why he is scared

But alaye mi mafor, hit and run no get case for police station, na hit and run u do , you no kee person

Very Good father

Abi. Animals understand animals.

You fuckkked up bro.
You should have told the dad that you will not entertain threats of any kind.

That's a manipulative move by the father to make you stick with her daughter even if she misbehaves.
So if she cheats on you, you will stick with her because of her father's threats?
So if you get tired of her or she likes another man tomorrow and begins to display nasty attitudes towards you, you'll suck it all up and stay?

Oh! Perhaps you'll seek permission from her father before breaking up with her in such circumstances.

The ultimate measure of a man's courage is his ability to take decisions on his own and stand by it. The ability to protect himself and his loved ones from any threats whatsoever.

You should have instantly stepped up to such intimidation by telling him to his face that you will not entertain threats and you'll take decision solely based on your best interests.

Be a man bro. No man should entertain intimidation from his fellow man or any other person.
You sound like a simp. I hope you don't make stupid decisions, such as putting up with your girlfriend even when she start misbehaving, or maybe seeking her fathers decision to break up.

Be a man. Set your own rules and live by it. As long as you are not going against the law, no other motherfuckker should dictate how you live your life.

Swallow the Redpill bro.

PS: Remember, if she's from a damaged family, she'll likely be damaged. Do not invest!!!

See the way they wan manipulate u because of an over used pussy. A girl who has nothing to offer a man in a relationship other than her over used pussy.

We have said it over and over again that you don't date Nigeria girls. You only bang their pussy, dump them and move on.

OP, keep banging that girl, when you're done, dump her and move on. Girls full everywhere. No let anybody threaten you with marriage

So What do u want the world to do

satandeterrible:
You fuckkked up bro.
You should have told the dad that you will not entertain threats of any kind.

That's a manipulative move by the father to make you stick with her daughter even if she misbehaves.
So if she cheats on you, you will stick with her because of her father's threats?
So if you get tired of her or she likes another man tomorrow and begins to display nasty attitudes towards you, you'll suck it all up and stay?

Oh! Perhaps you'll seek permission from her father before breaking up with her in such circumstances.

The ultimate measure of a man's courage is his ability to take decisions on his own and stand by it. The ability to protect himself and his loved ones from any threats whatsoever.

You should have instantly stepped up to such intimidation by telling him to his face that you will not entertain threats and you'll take decision solely based on your best interests.

Be a man bro. No man should entertain intimidation from his fellow man or any other person.
You sound like a simp. I hope you don't make stupid decisions, such as putting up with your girlfriend even when she start misbehaving, or maybe seeking her fathers decision to break up.

Be a man. Set your own rules and live by it. As long as you are not going against the law, no other motherfuckker should dictate how you live your life.

Swallow the Redpill bro.

PS: Remember, if she's from a damaged family, she'll likely be damaged. Do not invest!!!

Omo

Never visit her parents if you know you are not ready for marriage .

This is an advice to other guys too . It’s either you get cursed or being attacked spiritually and physically . No sane parents will watch a young guy wreck the feelings of their daughter.

Just stay smart

Which kind talk come be that nah,

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

so what is your motive? U wan use and dump the man go break ya leg... If you're serious abt her u shouldn't av anything to worry abt

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

All papa will say same thing

Nobody want their daughters to give free doggy , so he's right

Na your hand e come dey to decide how you want am, i.e whether to regret your life or not.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Don't be scared niggar

Na threat...continue with your relationship with the girl.....bang her normally.....

Not all all relationship willl end in marriage or end well

If it doesn't end well...no problem...life goes on...move on to the next baby girl

Don't let anyone threaten you

I don send you a PM, brother reply am back, make we do something big together....

What a wonderful father!

Na dis talk no go even allow me marry the girl again. E go come be like say the father frightened me into the marriage

Don't worry it will end well

NeckingNgulping:
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 5 Months now. She's actually beautiful and hardworking. Our courtship is going quite well, and she seems like the right one, however, we're still getting to know each other better.

She had always wanted me to come to her family house where she lives with her parents. Sometimes, when i call her to come over, she'd rather prefer i come to her place. The pressure she put on me about coming there was so much that i finally succumbed, though I felt like it wasn't the right time for that.

On the day i visited her at her place, i met her parents. To cut the long story short, while talking with her father, he said i looked like a nice guy, and also said that if my motive in her daughter's life is to use and dump her, he's going to make me regret it..

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