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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by seyoops4u: 10:24am On May 08, 2022
Lol... You should learn how to use the word "SOME" and stop generalizing.

You have your own opinion about them. And that's what will keep coming to you because the law of attraction.

Like say some Americans don't cheat.




virginprincess:
My dear sister pls if you are in america just look for an american to marry because africa men (nigeria men especially) are the worst set of men to ever get married to(though not all),most of them are only after what they will gain from you like money and free visa abroad,and also nigeria men are very good at cheating so pls if you don't want to get your heart broken avoid africa men(nigeria men) to avoid had i know.

Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by VULCAN(m): 10:25am On May 08, 2022
You are ready to marry someone you haven't even seen her picture?

Yet you claim you have a good job and are not a liability.

Lollz. Bro. It's only yourself you are fooling.



kenodrill:





I'm ready if you are also ready.please don't get me wrong,I have a good paying job so don't think I'm a liability.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by babadee1(m): 10:25am On May 08, 2022
KELVINXY:
Before you consider dating and marrying an African man,
Are you willing to be submissive?, irrespective of your social and financial status.?

What you guy’s call LOVE over there, is what we African men call RESPECT over here.

Just one of the major things to consider,

Good luck out there!

How many African women are submissive these days though? Very few. It's a lost part of the culture.

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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Sunnymatey(m): 10:26am On May 08, 2022
I understand your fear but we still have genuine guys that will marry you for pure love.
If l like you as a person, why not? If you don't meet my test even if you're Biden's daughter, omo, l no do.
I don't love for freebies or green card.
A part of my family is there already, it's my choice to stay here for now.
If you're game, let give it a trial.
Can connect you to my brother in NY he'll tell you more about me.

gracematey88@gmail.com
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Henz81: 10:27am On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.
With your money you can find reasonable one like me.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:28am On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Life not just balance.

Marriage has turned to be "TWO GOOD PPL IN BAD MARRIAGE" , Which doesn't make dem bad person, didn't jus work. But most time GOOD PERSON END UP with WRONG SPOUSES.

Lastly 2 TYRANTS get MARRIED and make BEST OUTTER MARRIAGE.

There are still GOOD ones out there. But 1st check yourself so you won't DAMAGE a good person out there.

Because doing so, you jus SPOILT another MAN'S DREAM. NEVERTHELESS, PRAY YOU ARE LUCKY as WELL too. MANY mad MEN out there as well with LOW IQ & immaturity. Many women have spoilt LOVE with FANTASY.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by KELVINXY: 10:28am On May 08, 2022
batistutajulio:


I know you must be from the East, they command respect as if they are gods when they are bush people that was shown civilization by the 100 years ago by Yoruba.

Your culture of respect is called stupidity and is outdated, you better learn to live in the modern world like Yorubas do.

Wow
How are you today.?
I hope everything is okay over there.? undecided
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Drsnives(m): 10:29am On May 08, 2022
Aridunnuoluwa:


I will marry you if you arr serious... i am a divorced single Father of 1.... and i am ready if you are q good woman... i dont need your money or anything and we will both stay and live in Nigeria Lagos to be precise or we go back to my village
Sense will not kill you
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by dr25: 10:31am On May 08, 2022
Mail me sweetheart we’re both made from heaven i am in Orange cove California hit me up�❤️
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Powersurge: 10:32am On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

I have met a couple of AAs online. Especially on Naijaplanet. Most of them are very arrogant and felt they are doing you favor.

Use websites like Naijaplanet. Never be in a hurry (scammers are in hurry). Establish friendship with him. Know everything about him (scammers are always available. They are not busy. They are only busy online). Do video call. Know what he does. Ask about his vision for the future. The genuine ones are not as common. Some are scammers. Some are after migration and are looking for a ladder.

Good luck in your search.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by KELVINXY: 10:32am On May 08, 2022
newdawn2017:
which submissive nonsense talk us that? undecided Dis is d same "submissive " that toxic patriarchal African men re using to cheat, oppress & enslave their wives. That such an unfortunate woman has no say, always fearful looking at her husbands face for signs of rage, intimidation or approval. Its the man that will be submissive dis time. Nonsense! undecided

You obviously need help my love.. embarassed
Have you ever considered counseling.? cry
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by qtguru(m): 10:33am On May 08, 2022
NnamdiN:
you haven't even seen her picture neither do you know anything about her and you're ready? Omo shocked

The power of US Visa my bro
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Mattwillz: 10:34am On May 08, 2022
I'm really interested.Hit me up
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by KINGOROOLA: 10:35am On May 08, 2022
I have my brother for you. He is ready for marriage too.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by cosade(m): 10:36am On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Another scam loading!
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Avast(m): 10:36am On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

If you don't mind being a second wife.....
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by calmandwild101(m): 10:36am On May 08, 2022
Really ? U mean If she ask u to move to America u won’t ?
Aridunnuoluwa:


I will marry you if you arr serious... i am a divorced single Father of 1.... and i am ready if you are q good woman... i dont need your money or anything and we will both stay and live in Nigeria Lagos to be precise or we go back to my village
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Avast(m): 10:36am On May 08, 2022
cosade:


Another scam loading!


You get the scope
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by dr25: 10:36am On May 08, 2022
Your pictures please�
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Tzar(m): 10:37am On May 08, 2022
African men want to marry African American women, but there are challenges that make them think twice.
The culture isn’t the same and the trade off is too severe.
1. They can’t retain their pride with a submissive wife.
2. Unlike with a white, they don’t get the same access / breakthroughs in America.
3. Some black women in America are just as lazy & entitled as Africans (especially Nigerian women).
That is why most African men will rather go for whites ( they lose item 1 above, but gain on 2&3).
Or they settle for African women and most times gain 1, but lose 2&3.
With African Americans, they lose 1,2&3 most tomes.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by PStacks(m): 10:38am On May 08, 2022
TaminaliaCatapa:
I don’t blame her. If not for the bad leaders in Africa, why should any African man think of marrying an African American who is probably:

1. Lazy to work and on various government schemes like EBT, unemployment

2. Very rude, impatient and dangerous (could burn ur car, docs or even use a firearm on you)

3. Loves eating only cheese, and other unhealthy “burgers”, they consider our spicy goat/catfish peppersoup as nasty.

4. Can not cook shit.

5. Will call the police on you at will and may land a child support case on your head.

6. Again very rude and have no culture, hence will disrespect your gentle parents.



If u don’t wanna kill your parents, don’t marry an African American.


I’d rather marry from another African country than settle with any African American.

Not sorry!



What u wrote here is just pure truth.

Most of these African American girls have finished prostituting their bodies abroad, nobody to marry them abroad, they want to hide from their past and want to marry a fool who can't stand his ground to question them. A simp

I was dating a 35 year old African American girl from Chicago oo..

35 years old girl that told me she was a Virgin. I just noded my head. This one don see mumu. 35 years old virgin in America grin

Once you marry this kind girl ehnnn. You will here story of your life. I made you whom you are. I brought you to this country America and stuffs like that.

Next thing she start drama oo.

I Paid for her ticket to visit me in Nigeria.

We stayed 3 weeks in my house on my bed no knacking because she say she be virgin. Me Kuma was avoiding y because I knew it was a trap for me. I didn't want to show any form of desperation cos that was their own plan.


Never one day cooked, only eat out. Na bottle water sef she dey use wash teeth, expenses wan kill local boy

She tot she was deceiving me not knowing she was deceiving herself.


Next thing oo, a 35 year old girl not married says to me she was doing me a favour by marrying me cheesy :d

I just weigh my options, this one wey I never leave Naija, she wan turn controller general.. I cut my lose quick quick. Swear for her and her Papa.

Imagine, her father had started to tell me over phone that American girls call police for their husbands oo and I'm like is this what an African American father is already instilling in his 35 years old unmarried daughter?

I read in-between the lines, saw the writings on the wall and concluded to myself that a Lion in this African Jungle is better than a dog in the American city.

Africa is not Hell and America Is not heaven.

Hustle here till u can travel there on your own terms.

Once a man here married them there, you have signed slavery contract for life.

You see the problem, they just want to feel superior and special and that won't happen with any man over there like the Korra Obidi ad her husband story, so it's better they come here to look for a fool and dindinrin they would rule over.


I felt so inadequate in the relationship that lasted over 2 years oo. I felt like the woman and her the Man.

It was a fiance Visa kind of arrangement K1. At the point she had submitted documents to USCIS United States Customs and immigration services to pull me in.. I opted out even tho it was a very hard decision for me and I'm thankful for the peace and rest of mind I enjoy today

I felt like a commodity that was about to be bought off of a shelf from a store.

These girls are stack evil.

Don't let prevailing harsh economic realities in Nigeria allow you jump for such trodghan horse offers. It's actually moving from Frying pan to � fire

It looks sweet, but on the inside is death.

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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Jaqenhghar: 10:40am On May 08, 2022
superCleanworks:


show me where in his comment that gave way to percentages rather than generalizations.

and what has feelings got to do with anything? we are talking facts here you are talking feelings. now i can see you are reading with your laptop (or phone) upside-down.

your inability to read and comprehend is not my problem. please face your sunday.


Being angry doesnt make you right. I ask again people bei g able to travel abroad, is that the general rule or an exception, you are perambulating and getting hot. This is a country where going to even Ghana is seen as a big boy thing. Abeg shift

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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by castrokins(m): 10:40am On May 08, 2022
OP, I Am Seriously And Genuinely Looking For An African-American To Marry.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by imagrg(m): 10:41am On May 08, 2022
I don't expect you to trust or believe me but I'm for real.
You can check my Facebook status too to partially confirm my identity.

I'm 58. Widowed. In fact, I lost my lovely wife to cardiac arrest a year back. I need a wife that will show me true love.

If interested, please chat me up using the WhatsApp number on my signature below..

Scammers, please keep off!
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by darkstar6971(m): 10:42am On May 08, 2022
Shey u fit get me african American babe to marry
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Worldlegend(m): 10:44am On May 08, 2022
Send me email @talk2ambless@gmail.com
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Pakwel(m): 10:44am On May 08, 2022
It's no big deal dear. I met my fiance on facebook. We talked and got along real good. 21st of this month. We will be getting married.. I took my time to teach her my culture. We haven't met but she can speak pigin English. Like nah her papa invent am. But my dear. You have to be open to try new stuffs. If you do that. Then you can win any African mans heart. Forget does saying submissive. Just be open to new stuffs . Also always call him. Video, audio. Anyhow you can to keep an eye on him
My girl did it. I knew it was her intention. To always check up on me to see if I was cheating .
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Pakwel(m): 10:46am On May 08, 2022
castrokins:
OP, I Am Seriously And Genuinely Looking For An African-American To Marry.
.
Lol. Una don turn am to hustle now. .that's what scares this beautiful black sisters from Nigerians.
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Pakwel(m): 10:47am On May 08, 2022
imagrg:
I don't expect you to trust or believe me but I'm for real.
You can check my Facebook status too to partially confirm my identity.

I'm 58. Widowed. In fact, I lost my lovely wife to cardiac arrest a year back. I need a wife that will show me true love.

If interested, please chat me up using the WhatsApp number on my signature below..

Scammers, please keep off!
Abi nah you won scam her
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by superCleanworks(m): 10:47am On May 08, 2022
Jaqenhghar:



Being angry doesnt make you right. I ask again people bei g able to travel abroad, is that the general rule or an exception, you are perambulating and getting hot. This is a country where going to even Ghana is seen as a big boy thing. Abeg shift

so from where you are you can detect anger? you must have super powers.
you better use this your special power and go back too english class, it will help you.

abeg carry your illiteracy problems elsewhere. it is not my fault that you can not read.

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