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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by zubito(m): 10:47am On May 08, 2022 |
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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by batistutajulio: 10:48am On May 08, 2022 |
KELVINXY: Everything is fine. Shey wetin I talk na true say na Igbo man you be and you dey command respect like how Fulani dey whip cow giving them orders. I am sure you are a kid and that's why you are offering silly advices and shows your lack of wisdom and maturity that is common among all the people Yoruba people colonize and taught how to wear cloths 100 years ago. If you don't know how to live with women, you will command respect and give orders to all the billion women in the world and trust me, you won't live long. |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by 79733139(m): 10:48am On May 08, 2022 |
Go to events, trade shows and meet ups that are organised by Africans. There are quite a number of English speaking Africans (Nigerians, Ghanaians, Gambians) in USA. Make friends with African women in your neighbourhood in the guise of wanting to learn how to cook African food. If they like you, they would want to push their brothers, nephews and cousins to you. Online dating is full of scammers, so I wouldn't recommend that you do it. NurseMaryUSA: 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by jaxxy(m): 10:51am On May 08, 2022 |
NurseMaryUSA: Make friends with them 1st, be slow to get into a relationship with them, ask questions, know their history and most importantly know how to extract the truth. Many of us don't really want marry African Americans cos of what we hear about them stress their men out bt I believe relationships come down to an individual basis thing. So if u meet the right person u might consider it. 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Abiliboi: 10:53am On May 08, 2022 |
Come down to Afriland maybe vacation, socialize and meet your match. shikina! You must not reveal your background earlier. A friend of mine married African American here in Ghana. Happily married with a son now. Social media love na scam 90% 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Bahamas95(m): 10:53am On May 08, 2022 |
I am 100% sure this OP is a man. He just wanna catch cruise......Fvcking fake niggar! 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Pakwel(m): 10:53am On May 08, 2022 |
PStacks:Guy. It's not all of them oh. My fiance nah American. I sent her morter and pistol .last two months. This girl dey cook African food like crazy. She dey do any food you like 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by PStacks(m): 10:54am On May 08, 2022 |
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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by PericomaNwankwo: 10:55am On May 08, 2022 |
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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by lugado: 10:59am On May 08, 2022 |
African American men are worse than naija Men Ask the Op |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by castrokins(m): 11:00am On May 08, 2022 |
What's Life Without Hustle? Pakwel: 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by PStacks(m): 11:03am On May 08, 2022 |
Pakwel: Just wait till you go there na. Na hin you go know say All-Over and Over-All no be the same. No full blown African Man that values African Culture and Traditions would tolerate these girls one bit They have Aculturised to western cultures, in the West, the Woman is the King. The western Society is for Women. Look at the Jonny Deep story going on. Look at Will Smith with his fame l, good looks and money, one woman that is obsessed with Tupac wants to shatter his life. Look at how Kim Kardeshain keeps divorcing husband like say she dey change cloth. This is their culture. The Man never wins. It's impossible. These women will frustrate the living day light out of you Did you hear of the medical Doctor African Man in Texas that took a gun and shot his wife and two daughters before shooting himself? Ask urself, what level of depression would push a man to commit such? Brother, you never Jam Woman wahala, pray not to Jam it oo. A girl that doesnt look back, that has no conscience, can set you up and it's her own story they would believe over your own story, devil bless you, you have kids and a court case comes up, you pay child support all your life. My friend's mother in-law told me that if my friend dares contemplate to leave his wife, that it's Child-suppourt they would use to ruin his life. Not all that glitters is gold oo. If some of these guys abroad tells u half of what they are going thru ehnn, u will prefer to eat ur egusi soup in peace in that ur village here in Naija. Anything that takes ur peace isn't worth it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by ss1930(m): 11:03am On May 08, 2022 |
Find a friend first!!! NurseMaryUSA: |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by LoveJesus87(m): 11:03am On May 08, 2022 |
okoroemeka:seriously my brother. You talk am finish. It's almost a no go area especially if you are not serious. Na die be that |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Odebayo4010(m): 11:04am On May 08, 2022 |
Online dating is a scam,best thing for you to do is to stay off from online dating,if you don't want to end it with tears, know this and know peace |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by HiFive: 11:06am On May 08, 2022 |
virginprincess: Virgin |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by saintobing: 11:06am On May 08, 2022 |
[quote author=NurseMaryUSA post=112622758]With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us. [/quote Let be serious dear, I'm interested |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Ibkrichie(m): 11:06am On May 08, 2022 |
Try to bring your shoulder down,, you will see good african man to marry... |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by lugado: 11:07am On May 08, 2022 |
With the experience, most Nigerian men are always loyal when they get abroad. They always try to avoid troubles and they try as much as possible to make enough dollars to support families At the end of the day it's the woman that takes advantage of their gentility and starts disrespecting them. The OP should not start playing innocent Women over there are so powerful That's why most black men avoid them. But one thing i know for sure is that any naija man that goes for such arrangement always have a woman here in naija |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by LoveJesus87(m): 11:08am On May 08, 2022 |
NnamdiN:lmao �. I no wan talk before but you don talk am. Na green tinz o |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by saintobing: 11:10am On May 08, 2022 |
[quote author=NurseMaryUSA post=112622758]With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us. What's up me 09131058530 |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by LoveJesus87(m): 11:11am On May 08, 2022 |
Aridunnuoluwa:
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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by laladre: 11:11am On May 08, 2022 |
My dear, one bad orange they say spoil a basket full, the bad guys have labelled the good ones bad and the bad ladies out there have labelled the good ones bad, all in all you have to use your head before your heart...am a man and its not so easy to get a good woman, vice versa... be smart and vigilant, there are so many predators out there looking for a prey... jara e. 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Odebayo4010(m): 11:11am On May 08, 2022 |
PStacks: Wow this is deep oh,I stay off jor |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by laladre: 11:15am On May 08, 2022 |
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Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Dyke15(m): 11:16am On May 08, 2022 |
My uncle was 73 plus and he was buried this past Wednesday. He married his German wife far back as 1975 or so. He went to Germany to study medicine and surgery and met the wife at the University. He proposed to her and even gave the parents of the gal condition dat his wife must relocate with him back to Nigeria when he's done studying and they agreed. They came back with their kids and enrolled them to a school here in Enugu and he even set up his own private hospital. To crown it all, the gals mother also came back with them and told my uncle that she wants to be buried in my uncles compound in the village when she dies and which my uncle did coz she died in d year 2000 or so. My uncle lived happily with his wife and kids in Nigeria up till my Uncle fell sick and wz buried dis past Wednesday. His wife German wife is a member of the village women meeting and she cooks Igbo food wella and as well speaks d language fluently. In all, Oyibo wey no be racist no get wahala and they love with all their heart. My uncle's German wife made me develop a soft spot for Oyibo galz and my uncle didn't marry any other woman apart from her. They re blessed with kids and many grandchildren 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by optimusprime2(m): 11:18am On May 08, 2022 |
NurseMaryUSA:Go to any African church in the US and ask that question... 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by favinvest: 11:18am On May 08, 2022 |
@OP, My village people do say.. u can't catch a fish staying in the Bush.. u have to go to the river side.. If u want to get one of the few good Nigerian husband material.. try this is (its 50:50 chance).. (1) Try and come to Nigeria ( lagos due to security reasons) (2) learn pigin English ( try to limit that American accent) (3) join a church or good NGO (4) make ur self friendly.. After a while there are high chances that mr.good right will come around u.. And to u single Nigerian Men, don't behave like 90 day's financee Mohammed from Tunisia when u get to the abroad..! cos u will b closing doors against alot back home.. 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by Nobody: 11:19am On May 08, 2022 |
NurseMaryUSA:The same principles that apply to finding a mnn in your own country apply to finding an African man. 1. You should share same belief/faith. 2. Your passion should be similar 3. A similar passion gives birth to a similar vision. Things to ignore because you can change them: 1. Outward appearance because a small amount of money (not the entire amount of money in this world) can be used to redesign anyone. 2. Education level, if the person has a strong desire to learn. But if the person does not show any passion for education, forget it. Just like how men in your nation behave irresponsible...same applies. But not saying education is the big factor to success in life. You should ask yourself the following questions: 1. Can you adapt to a multicultural culture? 2. Are you a good cook? Can you learn cooking African dishes? Or are you able to devote your time to supervising cooks? It's difficult to find a Nigerian man who can cook (there are some), and they believe women should cook. At the very least, you must be able to supervise cooks who will prepare meals for the family. Your African man has a complex in this area that you must cater to. 3. Can you visit his country with him on a regular basis if his mind is always there? 4. If he visits frequently, can you also appear as his wife at the events he attends? If you don't show up, his family will start pressuring him to remarry a woman they can see. This is the truth. Points to Consider: 1. It is easier to marry someone who has decided in good faith to accept his relocation there. Those who keep talking about Nigeria, on the other hand, will cheat on you if you do not follow their dream to Africa with them. So, do you see yourself sharing his African dream? 2. Those who keep mentioning moving back home are only there to hustle. Their thoughts are in Africa. Do you have the same vision? Do you see yourself relocating to Africa if he chooses to? Cautions 1. Do not marry a man who is already married. Can you spot one? 2. Do you have the ability to avoid being overly aggressive while looking for evidences he is single? 3. Background checks on Africans are difficult but not impossible. Do you have the necessary skill? Otherwise, you will offend him and he will begin to play you. 4. African men keep their private lives private. You should not make them open up, but make them trust you first. If an African man begins to reveal his personal information, you have successfully arrested his soul. Even if he is a liar, he will shake if he hears your footstep without you saying anything. What works You should be his friend and spend quality time together while you open your eyes. Goodluck! And I pray God fulfills your desire. But the way you sounded ... like someone I know. Blessing! 1 Like |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by deewhy0711: 11:19am On May 08, 2022 |
KELVINXY: Well said ���� |
Re: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by SocialJustice: 11:20am On May 08, 2022 |
NurseMaryUSA:If you're interested in a very sincere relationship, I'm game, not dating, we could get stuck at friendship. Chat me up. Let's just talk. For the issue of guys acting a certain way, I can't blame anyone. Desperation to leave Nigeria is high. Also American women are viewed as cash cows. Believe me, they created that impression. I live in a town that the economy is virtually sustained by American women. Such scenario is replicated throughout Nigeria. You see the situation. |
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