NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

PStacks:




What u wrote here is just pure truth.

Most of these African American girls have finished prostituting their bodies abroad, nobody to marry them abroad, they want to hide from their past and want to marry a fool who can't stand his ground to question them. A simp

I was dating a 35 year old African American girl from Chicago oo..

35 years old girl that told me she was a Virgin. I just noded my head. This one don see mumu. 35 years old virgin in America

Once you marry this kind girl ehnnn. You will here story of your life. I made you whom you are. I brought you to this country America and stuffs like that.

Next thing she start drama oo.

I Paid for her ticket to visit me in Nigeria.

We stayed 3 weeks in my house on my bed no knacking because she say she be virgin. Me Kuma was avoiding y because I knew it was a trap for me. I didn't want to show any form of desperation cos that was their own plan.


Never one day cooked, only eat out. Na bottle water sef she dey use wash teeth, expenses wan kill local boy

She tot she was deceiving me not knowing she was deceiving herself.


Next thing oo, a 35 year old girl not married says to me she was doing me a favour by marrying me :d

I just weigh my options, this one wey I never leave Naija, she wan turn controller general.. I cut my lose quick quick. Swear for her and her Papa.

Imagine, her father had started to tell me over phone that American girls call police for their husbands oo and I'm like is this what an African American father is already instilling in his 35 years old unmarried daughter?

I read in-between the lines, saw the writings on the wall and concluded to myself that a Lion in this African Jungle is better than a dog in the American city.

Africa is not Hell and America Is not heaven.

Hustle here till u can travel there on your own terms.

Once a man here married them there, you have signed slavery contract for life.

You see the problem, they just want to feel superior and special and that won't happen with any man over there like the Korra Obidi ad her husband story, so it's better they come here to look for a fool and dindinrin they would rule over.


I felt so inadequate in the relationship that lasted over 2 years oo. I felt like the woman and her the Man.

It was a fiance Visa kind of arrangement K1. At the point she had submitted documents to USCIS United States Customs and immigration services to pull me in.. I opted out even tho it was a very hard decision for me and I'm thankful for the peace and rest of mind I enjoy today

I felt like a commodity that was about to be bought off of a shelf from a store.

These girls are stack evil.

Don't let prevailing harsh economic realities in Nigeria allow you jump for such trodghan horse offers. It's actually moving from Frying pan to � fire

It looks sweet, but on the inside is death.

fykes:
A lot of guys in the tech field would want to marry African Americans...
For myself, I won't marry a Caucasian for anything, I I mean I struggle to date Nigerian fair girls talk more of full blown Caucasian and or Blondies.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

batistutajulio:


Everything is fine. Shey wetin I talk na true say na Igbo man you be and you dey command respect like how Fulani dey whip cow giving them orders.

I am sure you are a kid and that's why you are offering silly advices and shows your lack of wisdom and maturity that is common among all the people Yoruba people colonize and taught how to wear cloths 100 years ago.

If you don't know how to live with women, you will command respect and give orders to all the billion women in the world and trust me, you won't live long.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

CoronaVirusPro:
I believe they want problems and want to live long.

Only those ones looking for blue passport will settle for it. Or gold diggers.

Skip Jamaican, Haitians, Cuban, Mexicans and Puerto Rican, and jump all the way to African-American

It’s pure suicide mission.

virginprincess:
My dear sister pls if you are in america just look for an american to marry because africa men (nigeria men especially) are the worst set of men to ever get married to(though not all),most of them are only after what they will gain from you like money and free visa abroad,and also nigeria men are very good at cheating so pls if you don't want to get your heart broken avoid africa men(nigeria men) to avoid had i know.








Modified: I can see many nairaland males are pained by my comment, why are you guys bitters is it not the same thing you people do to women everyday, when your fellow man say derogatory things about women you cheer him up but when the table is turned you guys start roaring like a lion, if it was an america man that is asking for an africa woman to marry I'm sure you guys would have said worst about africa women, mind you I didn't generalized (not all men), continue barking I don't care afterall truth is bitter.

okoroemeka:
any African men wanting to marry an African American woman are just doing so for the chance of going to America, marrying a Nigerian girl is a 60/40 chance this days and you are talking about an African American woman that knows how to operate firearm and own it,na die be that

Sisora:
speak for yourself and probably your brothers.


Nigerian men may have their own bad eggs but there are millions of them you've never experienced.

If you have been having bad luck with them you should consider your choice of men not generalize it.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

KELVINXY:


It’s obvious that we have different definitions of RESPECT here,

Your version of RESPECT seems to be driven by fear, which says a lot about your personality.
While my type of RESPECT is derived from the act/art of love, if you love someone dearly, you respect him/her and know better not to fight for supremacy in public with your spouse.
You have nothing to prove to anyone out there and please stop showing the whole nairaland how churlish you are.

And YES I’m an Igbo man

Ify2023:
For me it doesnt matter, is a matter of choice, u can found live anywhere

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

womenareapez:
as you pulled out, didn't she start throwing insult and swears on you?

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

batistutajulio:


Igbo man trying to form grammar. Yoruba know the scope, keep deceiving yourself.

When you made the statement affirmatively and disrespectfully, your tone was clear but when I caught you. You were trying to come off as a sensible human being.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

okoroemeka:
any African men wanting to marry an African American woman are just doing so for the chance of going to America, marrying a Nigerian girl is a 60/40 chance this days and you are talking about an African American woman that knows how to operate firearm and own it,na die be that

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.