I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

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HiFive:
I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

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Quit drinking son!

It's not good for your already deteriorating health which has been damaged by tobacco

Yo!

I can relate. It's so difficult these days seeing that girl that really clicks.

nothing wrong here, you are just someone who gets easily tired of people, and in due time, you will find the right person that will make you more interested.

There's dff btw love and lust....

Keep trying. You would meet someone you cannot live without someday

MAGG0T:
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Quit drinking son!

It's not good for your already deteriorating health which has been damaged by tobacco[/s]

The day egg will grow out when you plant it, is the day you'll have sense.

same to me boss.

It seems you are not mature enough to be in relationship.

How you come take they cure konji . Quit soapy and your life would change

HiFive:
I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

what's your zodiac sign?

You have seen what you looking for, why wouldn't it fade

Your life, your problem.

That is my nature too OP...
You will eventually find the person you love when the time comes...

Sureplug123:
what's your zodiac sign?

Gemini

Rubyjade:
You have seen what you looking for, why wouldn't it fade

Yea it seem I've seen it.

But wait, is DAT u in de profile?

Mine is worse.
I easily loose interest in girls because I have so many around.
Just yesterday, one complained that I don't even have time for her, that I don't pick her calls, etc. I just blocked her. A few minutes after blocking her, a new girl messaged me on WhatsApp and we clicked almost immediately as we had similar interests in diverse areas. I just finished one love episode and another is starting almost immediately. Jeez!

Am tired, I need a break. These girls are too much on my neck. I can't run out of data or airtime, these girls sub for me from the money their boyfriends give them.

Oga those girls that call u that u abandon them are just after whay u have to offer if i meet babe wey like u abandon her na that time she the hustle u pass as in she go find u come domot and try everything to make u understand that she value u.


All those u done troway me or somebody don collect u from me over the phone the find one or two cues to tell u send me card or am hungry.

HiFive:


Yea it seem I've seen it.

But wait, is DAT u in de profile?

Face your front biko.. you never solve your problem finish, you wan still shift that red pant..

MAGG0T:
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Quit drinking son!

It's not good for your already deteriorating health which has been damaged by tobacco

What concerns what he wrote up there and this trash you vomit?

2ndchildhood:
Face your front biko.. you never solve your problem finish, you wan still shift that red pant..

Wetin man go do.

OP, u just have infatuation for all those ladies U've met
When u meet the one u really love nobody go tell u in fact ur name fit change to SIMPLE MAN just because of her

You are broke that's why. Sorry.

HiFive:
I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

You've already had sex with them.


That's why you lost interest.


It's the game

HiFive:


Gemini

thought as much. It's a Pisces and Gemini thing.
You are a flirt.

HiFive:


Gemini

go for Aquarius or saggittarius

HiFive:
I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

OP, first, you mentioned that you have feelings prior to exchanging numbers. With all due respect, you don't have feelings for them. It's just lust because you like what you see. You're seeing them for the first time, how can feelings develop in such a short amount of time? Nothing is wrong with lust or having a connection, just wanted to clarify that point.

Second, you're a bit vague about why you lose interest and this is something you alone can pinpoint. Is it because the conversation is lacking? Is it because you realize you don't share the same interests? Is it because she may have said something that turned you off without realizing it?

Third, the women who are calling you to complain that you've lost interest should be avoided, in my humble opinion. You're not dating them, you're not in a relationship with them. You're just talking. You don't really owe them anything and vice versa. If people were emotionally mature about this whole "getting to know you" phase prior to dating, why would anyone call to complain about someone not calling enough? They would just move on to the next potential partner. If they do happen to call you in the future and you're not feeling them anymore, you can something like, "You seem like a nice person. But I think this is going down a platonic friendship route. Have a good day."

Good luck, OP.

Infactuation.

HiFive:


Yea it seem I've seen it.

But wait, is DAT u in de profile?

No, it's my twin

I wish this could be me, but I no sabi talk with woman for long (like I'm inexperienced about the facets of talking with them)

Sureplug123:
thought as much. It's a Pisces and Gemini thing.
You are a flirt.

Damn