To me I believe the reason why southerners are afraid of marrying northern girls is due to the amount of koboko they will receive from the northern elders during the wedding ceremony. No body wan collect body pain because of babe

The Laws are too much to handle.

Imagine getting flogged to marry a Fulani lady, Cultural Differences, Religious Differences and some of their doctrines which contradicts ours.

Moreover we don't even see them to date sef, they are always caged and reserved even in the universities.

Hausa girls are usually pretty. The problem is that majority of the ones up north don't like southern guys maybe due to their religion. But the ones in Abuja and down south are open minded. Religion should be scrapped. One of the major issues in causing a dysfunctional society in Nigeria is religious intolerance amongst the two major faith. Both religion are guilty in the aspect of relationship.

zionmade:

Hope you can link me to one fair beautiful hausa Christian. I won't mind I can send her to learn how to cook a afang, oha and the rest

send her where, u will cook it urself naa in time, she will learn if interested. Re u marrying for cooking sake?

SmartPolician:
The cultural gap between the north and south is wide. If you date an Hausa girl and invite her to your house, can she cook the regular meals we eat in the South? Will she like our kind of music? There are many factors one has to consider before dating a girl. Everything should not be about s3x and vibes.

so there noother trait toloom out for other than cooking really Dis goes to show d patriarchy of Nigeria men & how lost they re as a people. Smh

newdawn2017:
send her where, u will cook it urself naa in time, she will learn if interested. Re u marrying for cooking sake?

Lol
My family won't look like all these rubbish we see today. She will cook, feed me and the kids, I will bear the major financial burden though we can help each other our when necessary

. That's the way it has always been meant to be before social media came to destroy these values

I just want to ask though, why do most people on nairaland assume all Hausa male/female are Muslims?
There's actually a sizeable number of Hausa Christians.

I’m looking for one incase you see pls holla lol

I had many of them as female friends, while growing up, Their dressing alone sef is a turn off, even as hot as Adamawa state weather dey be, you will always see them with hijab and their long gown.

Some of their girls are cute and very naughty sha.

boxer022:
To me I believe the reason why southerners are afraid of marrying northern girls is due to the amount of koboko they will receive from the northern elders during the wedding ceremony. No body wan collect body pain because of babe

They don't practice such thing now unlike before

SmartPolician:
The cultural gap between the north and south is wide. If you date an Hausa girl and invite her to your house, can she cook the regular meals we eat in the South? Will she like our kind of music? There are many factors one has to consider before dating a girl. Everything should not be about s3x and vibes.

kind of music no they listen to circular music well, probabaly you haven't attended their wedding party. on food visa vise

No now you just made it look like hausa girls are kunu sellers ,I know most of the times that what you see on TV sets young girls selling stuffs on The street ,alot of ladies from the North are very educated and well to do .

Sweetplum:

Hausa/Fulani girls too dey crush. It's their religion that's caging them. Christianity that's popular in the south have more freedom. While Islam that's popular in the north restricted the women so much that they can only be regarded as full house wife materials.
So don't blame out girls cos their socialisation has positives too. A well educated working class lady is an asset to her husband. Better than a kunu seller from the north or a northern girl that has the education but was unable to practice due to Sharia or any law there.

Delight2014:

They don't practice such thing now unlike before

Well I am just saying because no guy is ready to collect more than 40 strokes of their koboko in the name of marrying their daughter.

JONSYN7154:
I was born and brought up in the north and I have dated core Muslim ladies. They are neat and good on....

When they love you, they love with all their heart.

Some Fulani Ladies neat too.

Its not all what you heard about Hausa Ladies are true.

you grown up in north that means, you are used to them and their language even food but not like us here in south, I am scared of those people, their doing are weird to me.

I can't date nor marry those people.
Language
Foods
Dressings
Shows we are differs.

Tonypens48:
Make Alhaji send boys come raid you abi

zionmade:

Lol
My family won't look like all these rubbish we see today. She will cook, feed me and the kids, I will bear the major financial burden though we can help each other our when necessary

. That's the way it has always been meant to be before social media came to destroy these values

she will work a bring bread to d table too, her life will not be ur life by proxy. She shall archive career goals of her dreams just like u, own businesses & socialize with life long friends just like u. U both will simultaneously cook for d family & care for d kids while bringing home e d bacon side by side ogh my dear u want to be d sole financial back bone of d family thereby making a full fledged woman adult completely dependent on u & powerless, so u can move mad at will even when unwarranted right?? D women re wise now capt. Ahab

HAUSA BABES; WHETHER U MARRY DEM OR DEM MARRY U, U MUST TURN 2 MUSLIM. DATS OUR MAJOR PROBLEM

I have dated one and men, she was humble as f u c k.
I got to meet here through her brothers.

She was the best lady i ever met aside my mum and sisters. She took the relation thing way seriouse than i had expected, she no longer talk to guys etc.

Her snr brother asked me to let her be though for my own good and hers.

It wasnt easy for her that period. They was this day she even called to tell me that it will be always be her like she is cheating on me even if she marries.

Back to question the answer is their PARENTS! esp their FATHERS. If they are wealthy? Forget it! Unlike in the south, in north wealthy marries the wealthy, every wealth father has a wealthy friend that has a son that will marry their daughter, its their way of life.

You can marry the poor one aka zamfara grade = mgbeke in igbo land and suliyat in yoruba land .

those one's are the pure defination of TURN OFF.

enough said!.

But remember SHARIAN LAW e nor dey joke o .

newdawn2017:
she will work a bring bread to d table too, her life will not be ur life by proxy. He archive career goals of her dreams just like u, own businesses & socialize with life long friends just life u. U both will simultaneously cook for d family & care for d kids while bringing home e d bacon side by side ogh my dear u want to be d sole financial back bone if d family thereby making a full fledged woman adult completely dependent on u & powerless, so u can move mad at will even when unwarranted right?? D women re wise now capt. Ahab

Am sorry dear
I hate such arguments neither am I looking for a weakling who will be 100% dependent
A man is the HEAD of the family and to me it's simple as that, I don't need another equal.

This so called wisdom and bla bla bla will keep destroying homes so I don't give a damn about it.

And so you know I will only marry a woman who has a strong career

Patrioticbreed9:
I have dated one and men, she was humble as f u c k.
I got to meet here through her brothers.

She was the best lady i ever met aside my mum and sisters. She took the relation thing way seriouse than i had expected, she no longer talk to guys etc.

Her snr brother asked me to let her be though for my own good and hers.

It wasnt easy for her that period. They was this day she even called to tell me that it will be always be her like she is cheating on me even if she marries.

Back to question the answer is their PARENTS! esp their FATHERS. If they are wealthy? Forget it! Unlike in the south, in north wealthy marries the wealthy, every wealth father has a wealthy friend that has a son that will marry their daughter, its their way of life.

You can marry the poor one aka zamfara grade = mgbeke in igbo land and suliyat in yoruba land .

those one's are the pure defination of TURN OFF.

enough said!.

But remember SHARIAN LAW e nor dey joke o .

You deserve some chilled beer
In Hausa land daughters of rich men are not that spoilt as we have here and they are always groomed for sons of rich men. So the humility will always remain there.

zionmade:

Am sorry dear
I hate such arguments neither am I looking for a weakling who will be 100% dependent
A man is the HEAD of the family and to me it's simple as that, I don't need another equal.

This so called wisdom and bla bla bla will keep destroying homes so I don't give a damn about it.

And so you know I will only marry a woman who has a strong career

head of family is a spiritual thing, it not physical. It means u re responsibility to raise ur family in d ways of d true God's teaching them Godly values & they should know Yahweh d true God. Not what u greedy, selfish, demonic & toxic Nigeria, Ghana, Togo, Niger, congo & benini men portray head of family to be. She is an independent human being just like u. She has her own individuality. Values & morals. She has what she like too etc. Ahab d wicked man

newdawn2017:
head of family is a spiritual thing, it not physical. It means u re responsibility raise ur family in d ways of d true God's teaching them Godly values & they should know Yahweh d true God. No what u greedy, selfish, demonic & toxic Nigeria, Ghana, Togo, Niger, congo & benini portray head of family to be. She is an independent human being just like u. She has her own individuality. Values & morals. She has what she like too etc. Ahab d wicked man

I don't know who put u in this bitter condition but I am very sorry for u. U are very much damaged work on that, look for a proper therapy before that bitterness destroys you. It's not you or your type I want to marry, I will marry who I choose to marry and who has my type of ideology.

You are truly finished, take time and work on yourself to avoid bigger damages

As for God, you don't know him, he is not a God of bitterness and foolishness

@Op, what's your obsession with Hausa/fulani (northern girls in general)?

zionmade:

I don't know who put u in this bitter condition but I am very sorry for u. U are very much damaged work on that, look for a proper therapy before that bitterness destroys you. It's not you or your type I want to marry, I will marry who I choose to marry and who has my type of ideology.

You are truly finished, take time and work on yourself to avoid bigger damages

As for God, you don't know him, he is not a God of bitterness and foolishness

Ahab! Ahab!!! How many times did I call u?? Do change dis ideology of urs

Southernigbo:
I just observed that most southerners hardly approach, court or marry hausa, fulani or even Northern ladies in general. A friend of mine was even telling me that hausa ladies are so insatiable in bed, and problem of hygiene. But then I beg to disagree, hausa women can't really be as hot in bed as most Southern tribes- from my own estimation. I may partially agree on the issue of hygiene, because the northern part of the country has a very hot climate, hence the issue of excessive heat, smells, water shortage, so one's level of hygiene has got to be top b4 one can be at optimal level

I d find one sef..seriously!

zionmade:

You deserve some chilled beer
In Hausa land daughters of rich men are not that spoilt as we have here and they are always groomed for sons of rich men. So the humility will always remain there.

I have came across many humble and decent southern ladies too with characteristics almost on par with the northern folks. It just depends were stay. heavily wealthy asokoro based southern family will have more decent females than a jabi based southern family or middle class lugbe southern family.


But not all northern babes are doves! Crows are also among.

Life is not a fairy tale, certainately not africa, twice for nigeria.

At the end good and bad ladies are found everywhere.

newdawn2017:
Ahab! Ahab!!! How many times did I call u?? Do chande dis ideology of ur

Thank you Esther
Now run along with your bitterness

Patrioticbreed9:

I have came across many humble and decent souther ladies too with characteristics almost on par with the northern folks. It just depends were stay heavily wealthy southern asokoro famijy will have more decent females than a mid-wealthy jabi family or middle class lugbe family.


But not all the north babes are doves! Crows are also among.

Life is not a fairy tale, certainately not africa twice for nigeria.

At the end good and bad ladies are found everywhere.

I understand
We are just doing a comparison though
We have good ladies everywhere but the fact that Brazil is better than Nigeria in football doesn't mean that every Brazilian can play ball better than me

True

chatinent:


I disagree. For sb who stayed in the north, yes, there may be a visible caste system or religious difference between a southern Christian and a northern moslem since their religion permits they marry themselves but if they fall in love with you, na beg dem go dey beg you make you leave them. And they are rather shy not unapproachable.

For the Hausa christians, they love like you will vanish tomorrow.

And they are tremendously beautiful ladies in the north.

zionmade:

I understand
We are just doing a comparison though
We have good ladies everywhere but the fact that Brazil is better than Nigeria in football doesn't mean that every Brazilian can play ball better than me

True!.

zionmade:

Thank you Esther
Now run along with your bitterness

how is ur mother jezebel??