TenQ:

You must be single/unmarried!
The average married woman put her phone in her bag. The phone might ring like 5 times before she picks it.
Secondly, you are not one of her inner circles of gist mongers therefore you will not receive priority in call-back.

Sorry bro!

Just see how you stup!dly defended the woman.

bigcee:

Just see how you stup!dly defended the woman.

Your lack of judgement is evidently displayed!
Simple english language is your problem if you see my post as defending "the woman"!

yes ! it's painful.
you call someone for information , she won't pick, nor call back, even when the person sees you , she will behave like she didn't even see your call.
but when she calls , she expect you to attend to all her problems. with your church mind you will answer her.
the next day , you call her she won't answer ,,, isn't that wickedness ?

Samyyorn5050:


But do I care?
Yes you really care bro that is why you are here
E pain you well

Ndibuna:

Because here is a faceless forum

still, you brought it

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On point.

enonche85:


I think he's just trying to make her his work buddy which she's not reciprocating and he never mentioned likes her. there's nothing wrong in having a work buddy be it male or female.

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Majority of the time work buddies usually end in tears. As far the person is not your blood relation forget it, them go run you local.

Samyyorn5050:


But do I care?
Yes you really care bro that is why you are here
E pain you well

Stupid people with stupid sense of reasoning

donsheddy1:
You people just pick your phones cos you can afford 20MB and start typing trash.

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What's trash in the statement? Someone no send you and you keep pestering the person. No be juju be that?

Voldoz:


I agree with you bro, women are very difficult to understand.

Some today there see you smile greet you, tomorrow you will try to do smile assuming you guys are friends and they will bullshit you.

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Till today I don't know why they usually have mood swings? Having a lady as close pal in a work place is highly risky.

Very simple, block her out of your life. No time for negative people

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

Onpon all d problem in NIGERIA, talking with someone is urs.

timocruzcmbb:
You did the right thing son,you are now a grown man,law of growing up is take care of those who take care of you and show concern of those who do the same.unless he or she is feeding you or paying your nepa bills,those are the two life support that want to kill a Man in this Buhari government.

Lol, comrade that nepa bills na real life support.

@OP what do you expect from those stingy fellows.They need help from MEN.They can never be of help to a MAN.They have this ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY as if the world revolve around them.Forget the bitch.from the look of things hope you.not having feelings for her because she might turn the table around one day accuse you of disturbing her friendship even RAPE CASE.from your explanation such women can be dangerous.Concentrate on your work mind your business.

TenQ:

Just check out married women, they all seem to carry big handbags as part of fashion and most times their phones are imprisoned in those bags. Being single was not meant to be an insult bro!

Wft is wrong with you? You keep mentioning handbag as an excuse. Brain no dey your head

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

You served her what she served you. Just maintain your lane

bigcee:

Wft is wrong with you? You keep mentioning handbag as an excuse. Brain no dey your head

The problem of speaking with babies in intellect on NL!
Apart from being dumb, they are rash!

if yu know you know

9japride:
It seems you have feelings for her . The earlier you understand that your work colleagues are not your friend the better for you. They can run you down at anytime just to get ahead in the company and also try avoid office politics.

Nice one,,you deserve an award.

TenQ:

The problem of speaking with babies in intellect on NL!
Apart from being dumb, they are rash!

See who is talking about intellect

Ignore her.

If i am in your shoes, i will blast her first and stop picking her calls.

Also, is she the only one that can give you information? why not other people, especially the guys?

bigcee:

See who is talking about intellect

oOo

let her stay blocked as ice! U don't romance "Frenemies" at your backyard!, get another reliable source for ur information

Ejanla11:
if yu know you know

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Segzy19:
Like an objective adult, get to talk to her physically and let her know that it's all about the work you both are employed to do, and nothing more... Tell her your observations ( don't accuse her o, otherwise you may make things worse), and also aks her if there is any problem or if she has any issue with your calls. If there's anything, she should be able to tell you. Also let her know the effect of her action on your own ability to work effectively


It is unofficial for her to make herself unavailable to you when you need work information or updates from her to be able to perform your job duties.

It's not like you are calling her for gossips or gist... It official communication.

Just make sure that you are not calling her during at some odd hours like late nights, her weekends or very early in the morning before 8am.... and also avoid making such call to frequent except if it's very important, urgent and absolutely necessary.

If she still keeps up her negative ways despite your discussion with her, then you may find another colleague to mediate. If that fails, find a way to do your work without her... Otherwise report her to the HR or her manager ( as the very last resort)

oga all this things u wrote here is the necessary way to look for trouble, In this 21st century, violence should be as a last resort! Avoid useless Confrontation that leads to nowhere, life is short, use ur energy, time for important things

Bimpe29:
You really shouldn't have blocked her. Be magnanimous as a man.

really so she can be playing him like a soccer ball .you see it's not everybody you can be magnanimous too

Samyyorn5050:


But do I care?
Yes you really care bro that is why you are here
E pain you well

you made no sense

dalass:


You could have asked all the same. Hear what she's got to say. After hearing from her and you feel the reasons aren't valid enough, then you can do whatever you want to do.

I missed someone's call twice today not because of anything but I prefer my phone to be in silence due to me avoiding distractions while I work... I may miss many, things are not always what they seem to be....

Maturity is important bro

Wow u missed his calls 2x , just kukuma say he's not valuable than talking this nonsense, just like the other person said if it was ur brother/parent u would pick the call no matter how engrossed in ur work u claim u re! so the real question is ? is he important enough for me to pick the call ? and the answer is no he isn't, so u let the calls go on and on

dalass:


You could have asked her gently when you called her. It could be something worth hearing and if one had too many missed calls, sometimes you miss out on one or two. She could have apologized if you called her attention to it...

Guys of these days sha... This vengeance and unnecessary do me I do you, redpillers, NL attitude sef tire me

redpill is the reall deal bcus of it most guys are now getting wiser haha no more female manipulation

I'm out of this thread, seeing a lot of idiats defending the woman's action

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

Kid, na im you be

How you sure say you no ko ja aye before

Ndibuna:
So this female colleague of mine doesn't pick my call when I need to get information of the happenings in the office yet I pick hers and always ready to give her reliable information concerning work.
I urgently needed her one day and had to call again, she didn't pick my calls, she didn't apologise afterwards. I had to block her. So she needed me again and called my number and it wasn't going through. When she saw me she reacted negatively and wasn't talking to me. But do I care? She's not useful to me but want me to be useful to her

You are a wussy and that is why she doesn't call you.

Today, I've had over 20 missed calls from some ladies.

I derive so much enjoy in not picking their calls. I prefer follow guy men calling me to women.