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How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 25, 2018
There's this female colleague I met at my work place when I joined in June this year. She was giving me all the green light but I just settled to be her bestie because I don't like office romance.

Now the issue is she's 29 and still single and she confided in me that most of her relationship always go sour and its the men always breaking up with her. She's just an average lady in terms of looks but too slim, she doesn't have much flesh. I've advised her to eat well. She has anyway but she just added Weight a little. From what I understand..it's like she acts too desperate for marriage for any man that comes her way and some of the men use it to their advantage by wanting to sleep with her. Her mum is also on her neck to get married ASAP as she's the only daughter and she's way depressed.

I've told her often to face other things and look up to God but she said she's lost hope in God and she doesn't even attend church on Sundays.

Please I need your contributions on what I can tell her for her to be focused or else one day I pray not..she may do more harm to herself..

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by MJBOLT(m): 8:19pm On Oct 25, 2018
help her by getting married to her

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by CreepyBlackpool: 8:24pm On Oct 25, 2018
promise her marraige

fvck the living daylights out of her

clean mouth and run away






if she kills you lalasticala them will move the news of your death to fp for us grin

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 25, 2018
MJBOLT:
help her by getting married to her
lol.. sorry I can't and I told her wholeheartedly

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 25, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
promise her marraige

fvck the living daylights out of her

clean mouth and run away
Bros Na sam office we dey o..i no fit






if she kills you lalasticala them will move the news of your death to fp for us grin
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by jnrbayano(m): 8:53pm On Oct 25, 2018
Use a pair of gloves to handle her

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by kazvid(m): 8:59pm On Oct 25, 2018
Since you can't get married to her, do her a favour by introducing her to some of ur single friends.
My one cent

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by chiommy123(f): 9:33pm On Oct 25, 2018
Just 29. Some are 35 and living their life.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by joseo: 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2018
Just get her back to God...... He will do the rest for her

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by CivilzedTyger(m): 9:53pm On Oct 25, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
promise her marraige

fvck the living daylights out of her

clean mouth and run away






if she kills you lalasticala them will move the news of your death to fp for us grin
Your wickedness is like peak "it's in you". This wickedness is too much for one soul cheesy

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nacoss25(m): 10:32pm On Oct 25, 2018
LET ME TALK TO THE SINGLES
It is obvious that we all want to have a taste of marriage. We wish to marry and have our own kids. Many singles are really praying for this marriage even when they have no clue about it. Remove sex and romance out of marriage and most people become confused about what marriage is all about.
Look here, marriage is not where you rush to like it is an award night.
It is not a company that you are free to employ a manager to help you take care of it while you sit in your chair, with your legs crossed and a glass of wine on the table as a CEO.
You want to marry right?
But can i ask you some questions? These questions are for both the bachelors and spinsters.
1. What is marriage? Can you explain to us without making it look like a primary school topic and definition gotten from the syllable?
2. How good are you in management? I mean home management, emotional management, time management, Etc.
3. How patient are you?
4. What can you offer, outside sex and making babies?
5. How emotionally, spiritually and intellectually equipped are you?
6. Are you ready to keep your marriage secrets away from your parents? Definitely, they never told you everything that took place in their own union.
Some single ladies soak their panties for more than one week without washing them. Is that one wife?
Some men find it difficult to shave their armpits, their moustache is so bushy and unkept. Is that one the husband to be?
From year to year, you can't change your boxer, wear an ironed cloth, look neat and attractive but you want a neat woman who is talented and skilled.
With your bushy and smelly armpit?
You attract your match.
That is the truth.
Iron sharpens iron and not ceramics.
Whatever you want, you must be.
If you want a neat woman, then be neat because that neat woman you are crushing on is still looking for a neat man who is her match.
Marriage is not all about sex, you can get it anywhere!
It is not all about children, you can adopt!
It is not all about the change of name, the Government can help you change your name if you want!
It is beyond what you call it. You call it marriage, but i call it a union!
It is a new covenant with an individual from a different background and staying with this individual as a new family member.
So what is your reason for marriage?
The wedding gown?
The traditional marriage look?
The name "BRIDE'"?
To have free access for sex?
To just make babies?
To get the ring and flaunt it?
To face a new beginning and responsibility?
Your reason for marriage has a lot of influence on your marriage.
So think well before you move in.
Those who rushed in, rushed out too.
I bet you don't want to rush out.
Have a clue, it helps equip your heart.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by tossie101(f): 10:33pm On Oct 25, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
promise her marraige

fvck the living daylights out of her

clean mouth and run away
if she kills you lalasticala them will move the news of your death to fp for us grin

LMAO.
Ur last line have saved u from lashing though.
some u nairaland guys are just mad. grin

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by vislabraye(m): 11:15pm On Oct 25, 2018
ikihealthplus:
There's this female colleague I met at my work place when I joined in June this year. She was giving me all the green light but I just settled to be her bestie because I don't like office romance. Now the issue is she's 29 and still single and she confided in me that most of her relationship always go sour and its the men always breaking up with her. She's just an average lady in terms of looks but too slim,, she doesn't have much flesh. I've advised her to eat well..she has anyway but she just added Weight a little..from what I understand..it's like she acts too desperate for marriage for any man that comes her way and some of the men use it to their advantage by wanting to sleep with her. Her mum is also on her neck to get married ASAP as she's the only daughter and she's way depressed..I've told her often to face other things and look up to God but she said she's lost hope in God and she doesn't even attend church on Sunday.. please I need your contributions on what I can tell her for her to be focused or else one day I pray not..she may do more harm to herself..
Mods.. lalasticlala..fp things

May be you should talk to her mother. Part of the problem lies with her mother who keeps pressurizing her to get married. Once she removes that desperation from her life, she will be better.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by GrabHisBalls(f): 11:41pm On Oct 25, 2018
Nacoss25:
LET ME TALK TO THE SINGLES
It is obvious that we all want to have a taste of marriage. We wish to marry and have our own kids. Many singles are really praying for this marriage even when they have no clue about it. Remove sex and romance out of marriage and most people become confused about what marriage is all about.
Look here, marriage is not where you rush to like it is an award night.
It is not a company that you are free to employ a manager to help you take care of it while you sit in your chair, with your legs crossed and a glass of wine on the table as a CEO.
You want to marry right?
But can i ask you some questions? These questions are for both the bachelors and spinsters.
1. What is marriage? Can you explain to us without making it look like a primary school topic and definition gotten from the syllable?
2. How good are you in management? I mean home management, emotional management, time management, Etc.
3. How patient are you?
4. What can you offer, outside sex and making babies?
5. How emotionally, spiritually and intellectually equipped are you?
6. Are you ready to keep your marriage secrets away from your parents? Definitely, they never told you everything that took place in their own union.
Some single ladies soak their panties for more than one week without washing them. Is that one wife?
Some men find it difficult to shave their armpits, their moustache is so bushy and unkept. Is that one the husband to be?
From year to year, you can't change your boxer, wear an ironed cloth, look neat and attractive but you want a neat woman who is talented and skilled.
With your bushy and smelly armpit?
You attract your match.
That is the truth.
Iron sharpens iron and not ceramics.
Whatever you want, you must be.
If you want a neat woman, then be neat because that neat woman you are crushing on is still looking for a neat man who is her match.
Marriage is not all about sex, you can get it anywhere!
It is not all about children, you can adopt!
It is not all about the change of name, the Government can help you change your name if you want!
It is beyond what you call it. You call it marriage, but i call it a union!
It is a new covenant with an individual from a different background and staying with this individual as a new family member.
So what is your reason for marriage?
The wedding gown?
The traditional marriage look?
The name "BRIDE'"?
To have free access for sex?
To just make babies?
To get the ring and flaunt it?
To face a new beginning and responsibility?
Your reason for marriage has a lot of influence on your marriage.
So think well before you move in.
Those who rushed in, rushed out too.
I bet you don't want to rush out.
Have a clue, it helps equip your heart.
Nice. kiss

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by klasys(m): 8:25am On Oct 26, 2018
There are some guys in her shoe, looking for lady to marry, why can't you connect her with such men

I have someone if you don't mind, 08059904321

ikihealthplus:
There's this female colleague I met at my work place when I joined in June this year. She was giving me all the green light but I just settled to be her bestie because I don't like office romance. Now the issue is she's 29 and still single and she confided in me that most of her relationship always go sour and its the men always breaking up with her. She's just an average lady in terms of looks but too slim,, she doesn't have much flesh. I've advised her to eat well..she has anyway but she just added Weight a little..from what I understand..it's like she acts too desperate for marriage for any man that comes her way and some of the men use it to their advantage by wanting to sleep with her. Her mum is also on her neck to get married ASAP as she's the only daughter and she's way depressed..I've told her often to face other things and look up to God but she said she's lost hope in God and she doesn't even attend church on Sunday.. please I need your contributions on what I can tell her for her to be focused or else one day I pray not..she may do more harm to herself..
Mods.. lalasticlala..fp things

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by oluwasegun007(m): 9:58am On Oct 26, 2018
SORRY, I CAN'T HELP YOU ON THIS ONE........
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by alignacademy(m): 9:59am On Oct 26, 2018
ikihealthplus:
There's this female colleague I met at my work place when I joined in June this year. She was giving me all the green light but I just settled to be her bestie because I don't like office romance...

Please I need your contributions on what I can tell her for her to be focused or else one day I pray not..she may do more harm to herself..

Thanks for sharing

You seem to care about her. Look at all the time you've invested in knowing her already.

(Be real: the only reason you can see any "green light" is because of some interest on your part)

Are you scared of commitment?

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Nobody: 9:59am On Oct 26, 2018
Mind ya business
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by yeyeboi(m): 10:00am On Oct 26, 2018
OK
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by SoNature(m): 10:00am On Oct 26, 2018
I hate it when we 'spiritualize' a lot of things in this part of the world.

Hear this: that many girls are single today has nothing to do with spirituality, NO! The reason is that the economy of this country is in a state of total mess.

Come to think of it, why would I get married when I cannot feed myself? While many people can't get decent jobs, others cannot even get at all. And the implication is that if any of those categories of people get married tomorrow, they will end up living in vicious circle of poverty.

Don't be deceived; we all need money to run our homes so that we don’t live a life of misery and perpetual denial of basic things of life. I have seen men come to me to lend them money to pay their kids' school fees. You ask yourself if that's the life you want to live.

Love is a chemistry; marriage is cage of eternal responsibility

To OP, you may introduce her to your pals who are ready to settle down

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by DonFreshmoney(m): 10:00am On Oct 26, 2018
Like this

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Heywhizzy(m): 10:00am On Oct 26, 2018
Give Her Better Stew
Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by MartinsD12(m): 10:01am On Oct 26, 2018
CreepyBlackpool:
promise her marraige

fvck the living daylights out of her

clean mouth and run away






if she kills you lalasticala them will move the news of your death to fp for us grin
If it's your daughter would you advice same

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by alphaconde(m): 10:01am On Oct 26, 2018
my advice

let every body face their own problems

imagine u are becoming depressed for her from the way u write.

but if i must advice you to advice her

i would say since sex is available she should enjoy it from there a man would taste it and stay

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Offpoint: 10:01am On Oct 26, 2018
I just found this thread funny... I just can't help it.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by BigGuyMan: 10:02am On Oct 26, 2018
ikihealthplus:
There's this female colleague I met at my work place when I joined in June this year. She was giving me all the green light but I just settled to be her bestie because I don't like office romance.

Now the issue is she's 29 and still single and she confided in me that most of her relationship always go sour and its the men always breaking up with her. She's just an average lady in terms of looks but too slim, she doesn't have much flesh. I've advised her to eat well. She has anyway but she just added Weight a little. From what I understand..it's like she acts too desperate for marriage for any man that comes her way and some of the men use it to their advantage by wanting to sleep with her. Her mum is also on her neck to get married ASAP as she's the only daughter and she's way depressed.

I've told her often to face other things and look up to God but she said she's lost hope in God and she doesn't even attend church on Sundays.

Please I need your contributions on what I can tell her for her to be focused or else one day I pray not..she may do more harm to herself..
We like them chubby, slim girls can go to the dogs embarassed

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by Gangster1ms: 10:02am On Oct 26, 2018
From your description i imagined an ugly and very skinny girl, guys in this country like yansh well and it's hard to find one willing to settle with a stock fish that isn't pretty.
Let her go do yansh and boobs implant, you will see her life change automatically cheesy

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Re: How Do I Handle My Female Colleague? by eddyigbute: 10:02am On Oct 26, 2018
Stingy nairalander you don't like her then link her up to me
Whatsapp number
08169679259

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