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Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by GloriousGbola: 5:31pm On May 18, 2022 |
cococandy: This right here If I am doing Anything that may have consequences down the line, I better get the MAXIMUM satisfaction from it. So when the consequences come, I can still be like yeah but I rocked! |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by sisisioge: 5:37pm On May 18, 2022 |
That's how wahala has worn cardigan for you o....what a snowy day in Oshodi! Biko can you talk to her truthfully about how you feel so she could be on the same page with you? It is well fa....dont ever get rushed when your head and heart isnt in, it never ends well! |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Richy4(m): 5:38pm On May 18, 2022 |
To summarise << You are 37 years old.. << You do not want to get married.. << There was a girl u were interested in then but she wasn't interested in u << Now she was interested in you, u were not interested in her.. << Your sibling reminded u of your age, then u feel ok let me have a kid and a baby mama.. << Now u picked that same girl u were no longer interested in as baby mama << And she is pregnant...Full stop... So in all these, how do we come in or help u? 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Tripleoluwa(m): 5:40pm On May 18, 2022 |
Saintmary: This is not a shakara matter. Far from it. If I had known, I should have just lock up completely and continue my life |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Ishilove: 5:44pm On May 18, 2022 |
Tripleoluwa:What do you mean by 'top the pregnancy'? 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Ishilove: 5:44pm On May 18, 2022 |
Richy4:I don't quite understand what he wants from us o 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Klass99(f): 5:46pm On May 18, 2022 |
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Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On May 18, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: Our people say if you want to eat a frog, eat a fat one so that you can proudly say I did that! 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On May 18, 2022 |
Stop Ishilove: |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Cutehector(m): 6:18pm On May 18, 2022 |
Klass99:as in eh, i agree with your first paragraph So here is the thing i think about your question. Some people really shy away from conversations like this, as a lady, you get to know the kind of guy you dealing with when you bring up topics that have to do with babies and watch his reaction. Of course not everyone is baby friendly, even some ladies too so it all boils down to communication like, my guy, if we fück and i carry belle, wetin you go do? I no want wahala o. You watch his countenance, listen to his responses. If he tries to change topic then such hints would give you an answer about the guy you fvcking with, shey you grab? Well i think you are a wise lady so no fear. |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Klass99(f): 6:20pm On May 18, 2022 |
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Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Ishilove: 7:00pm On May 18, 2022 |
cococandy:E reach to ask o |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Ishilove: 7:02pm On May 18, 2022 |
Mikeeytools:I saw it, but I did not understand it 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Ishilove: 7:03pm On May 18, 2022 |
Tripleoluwa:Na wa o. Which kind of radarada is this na? 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Tripleoluwa(m): 7:13pm On May 18, 2022 |
[quote author=Ishilove post=112955271] What do you mean by 'top the pregnancy' To continue to copulate with her as always advised by doctors |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Raalsalghul: 7:14pm On May 18, 2022 |
OreoPaschal: What the Bleep is wrong with you people? You want him to accept someone who didn't give him a chance during his hustling days? Isn't it obvious said lady is trying to take in for him because everywhere don soft? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Raalsalghul: 7:20pm On May 18, 2022 |
Saintmary: Why she no love am three years ago? 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Tripleoluwa(m): 7:48pm On May 18, 2022 |
Mikeeytools: Women usually have who they love during spinster days. But they mostly go with who's ready to settle down. Her boyfriend of then that I know is yet to marry. And she's my older sister |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by laivwire(m): 8:18pm On May 18, 2022 |
Tt |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by toujurs: 8:24pm On May 18, 2022 |
cococandy:What sort of comment is this, why won't he cum, what then was the essence of the sex . Do ur boyfriend beat yours up, without cumin, is that even possible . |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by bigbauer(m): 8:53pm On May 18, 2022 |
Mikeeytools: He was the most promising option. |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Saintmary(f): 3:36am On May 19, 2022 |
Tripleoluwa: Bro, she is already pregnant and you want to have the kid. See, I'm responding to your case specifically, and I'm giving you the objective view you needed when you posted your story asking for advice. Don't compare yourself to others, don't run other people's race, look inwards, find the energy to have compassion and I assure you, it will affect your next few years positively. Try to be cordial with your baby mama, be kind to her even before she puts to bed, I'm not asking you to marry her, and that child will become a consolation to you to bring you happiness in spite of your mistake of impregnating the mother. Don't tow the path of war, pursue peace and you will have peace too. What I'm telling you is what I would tell my own brother. If you can no longer have sex with her, tell her to give you some time and step back a bit, but assure her that you will support her throughout. What makes you a man is foresight (which is a feature of wisdom). I hope you will do things right so that the next few years can be peaceful for you. I know what I'm saying, and I wish I could explain everything to you, but a word is supposed to be enough for the wise. Omi ò kín hó ruru, ká wàá ruru. |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Saintmary(f): 3:38am On May 19, 2022 |
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Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:30am On May 19, 2022 |
cococandy:And d lady accepted his cum too |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:45am On May 19, 2022 |
Klass99:So u no no say most of d Nairaland aunties dun tire to d pray to Jah for husb? Also, some dun tire to dey go shiloh since their main purpose of going to shiloh no cum get head, na en mak dem dey pour out their frustration here on nairaland |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 9:51am On May 19, 2022 |
Saintmary:She never loved her and u didn't read d writeup at all. U just jump up to comment with emotion. 3 years ago, op was interested in her and she rejected d proposal. Down d line, she started picking interest in op either bcs level dun change or aunty dun tire to dey sample dick, she never loved op and I so much love d role op played, simple get her pregnant mak all man for himself. 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by meobizy(f): 10:02am On May 19, 2022 |
Seun Must Chop. Seun Must Survive. 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 10:09am On May 19, 2022 |
Tripleoluwa:U did what guys hv being doing without any issue, so why are u so troubled? U didn't commit any crime U didn't rape her It was all mutual agreement, Infact she even enjoyed d sex more than u. And I ask again Son of man why are u troubling yourself? Your impression shows that u are capable of taken care of d unborn child. So, why trouble yourself son of man? |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 10:23am On May 19, 2022 |
Klass99:What crime did he commit? D lady agreed on d condition brother man gave, which was, she can get pregnant for him without getting married to him All these daughters of eve and their madness |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by emmanuelbrown26: 10:27am On May 19, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:Ohhhhh, u see waiting I dey talk since, she rejected guy man 3years ago. She now wan d guy man 3 years later all bcs guy man dun dey okk. When u see all these daughters of eve, my brother, they are terrible. Serpent dey learn work where all of dem dey. After all, she was d one that started d whole thing and even agreed to be a baby mama, so why d noise |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Raalsalghul: 1:38pm On May 19, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Exactly what I gleaned from the story. Assuming brother man was still broke, she for thank her stars say she don avoid poverty. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Girl I Don't Love. Anyone In My Shoes? by Tripleoluwa(m): 1:45pm On May 19, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: The wahala for me is that I've kind of zeroed my mind that I dont like her and its affecting how I relate with her. For example, I cant sleep with her normally as required for a pregnant woman. 1 Like |
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