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OlawaleBammie:
Mumu, even a woman u married for ten years can still dump u, anybody fit dump anybody at any fvcking time alaye.

Spending on u after i marry u is more sensible to hearing than spending on u before i marry u.

Use ur sense, oponu.

Didirin. You're contradicting your dumb self. There's absolutely nothing wrong in spoiling your partner before or after marriage. Anyone can screw you up at any time. Married or not. Nothing really makes sense.

Do something about your poverty mentality before you go and jump over 3rd Mainland Bridge because of peanuts you spent on some woman, ayirada.

Icebreeze:
I got a similar story here all although this wasn't me it was a neighbor of mine back then.
The man is rich and living good.
When he finally wants to settle down his taste was this tear rubber lady as a wife.
Well he finally got his dream wife in his village although she was a secondary school leaver.
After having two kids he enrolled her for jamb so that she could further her education.

To wrap up things, she got the cut off mark for her dream course in Uni Abj
As a big man and wealthy man that he is he feels there is no need of his wife joining public transport whenever she wants to go to school so he got her a car.
First semester was good but things got messy in the second semester of her 100level it could be due to peer pressure.

She start dishing out excuses to the husband of fixed class and all sort of make up stories.
The husband got over it until one day he got a call from one of his friend that his wife is on the street looking different and she is walking with someone of her age and with the look of things he thinks they might be having affair the man was so sad and upset with his friend that he is saying bad about his wife.

But his eyes got cleared up when one of his business partner called him and complained about the same issue. He was left with no choice than to see things for himself and to crown it all he caught her red handed and demand for a HIV test for himself and her and the outcome was on a different level when the results came out because she was HIV Positive the whole estate occupants had to clam him down. So that he won't do what he will regret later.

The next morning the draged her out of the house and locked her up in his car and he zoomed out of his compound he drove straight to his village and return the lady back to her parents and that's was the end of the marriage between them.

The thing here is that all this young ladies or tear rubber are easily influenced by peer pressure, and loves to explore the world with people around their age.
Neglecting the fact that they are married and they got limits to somethings in life.

Because the moment you make out with her you are exposing her to something new and it only takes a God fearing lady of our time to not go astray whenever that person start mingling with people of her age bracket.

This year rubber of a thing na double edged sword.
Na only woman who get fear of God and well raised that will avoid what goes on now.


Some men na only people wife Dem dey pursue
Woe betide you if your wife is not grounded
You are finished as a man

Daguga:
But when a girl of 16 or 18 fornicates about in the street, pple like you would keep quiet. Oga, there is nothing wrong in his choice.

I'm not stupid to keep quiet.. I will definitely report you to your parents.
Change your ways stop sleeping with those kids

Nyne:
You be Hausa ?

No be by Hausa o, though it's very prevalent among them. Other tribes are also in this to a little extent.
There's this incident last year August at one first bank branch in Lag. While sitting and waiting to be called up by customer care, I was chatting with a young woman and ended up finding out that the man she came with that I thought was her older brother was actually her husband. She should be 20/21 while the hubby is likely 45 & above.

Nyne:
You be Hausa ?

No be by Hausa o, though it's very prevalent among them. Other tribes are also in this to a little extent.
There's this incident last year August at one first bank branch in Lag. While sitting and waiting to be called up by customer care, I was chatting with a young woman and ended up finding out that the man she came with that I thought was her older brother was actually her husband. I heard them speaking Ibo. She should be 20/21 while the hubby is likely 45 & above.

baby124:
LMAO. So you married a NINETEEN year old. Well the 19yr old has shown you she wants to do what her mates are doing and has run away with her age mate. Try to find your age mate.

Modified*

Which means he married her at 16yrs is that not wickedness?
How old her you?

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

why would you even marry a 19yr old in the first place? at this stage of her life, responsibility is still far. she's exploring. we all went through this phase. at 19, did you ever think of responsibility? as a very educated individual, you shouldn't be putting yourself in such a mess

djon78:
this your English is new

Thanks.

Ishilove:
I've saw the thread before it was moved to the front page and it struck me as contrived. Like something dreamed up by the OP to create controversy.

The pay for front page fiction must be very good.

baby124:
LMAO. So you married a NINETEEN year old. Well the 19yr old has shown you she wants to do what her mates are doing and has run away with her age mate. Try to find your age mate.

Modified*

Men do not marry their age mates....if they do then the woman loses wife privilege which means she brings 50% of household finances and can't prevent me from having side chicks

Peter532:
well she's 20 next month, and yes companionship. not everyone is a fan of evening newspaper sorry if that offends you, considering your nature.

My dear the dynamics of marriage has changed over the past several decades. You went for what is good and right - every man wants a young woman. Due to many changes in society marriage isn't what it used to be before. For example it's her parents that supposed to tell her to stay in her husband house but I bet the parents didn't do that....

Today girls are wild so let them be.... just don't spend money your wife again and let them make their own moni...

And if they say they wanna enjoy their youth, enjoy urs too.... we go see who go win....

Daguga:
But when a girl of 16 or 18 fornicates about in the street, pple like you would keep quiet. Oga, there is nothing wrong in his choice.

Don't mind them....there's nothing wrong with his choice

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

Are you sure you are truly educated as you claim, because i see no reason why an educated folk would go for an underage and uneducated girl for a wife, knowing fully well that situations like this stands a chance to happen by 80%

Born2Breed:
Not again!!!

Would you be comfortable, if any man compare your sister to a thing, especially her private parts?

"tear rubber"

He married an adolescent because her wanted to tear open her hymen.

Females should be kept far away from such creatures.

Theres an equation many guys and girls don't understand.

1. Wife treatment is a privilege and not a right.
2. A man can marry his age mate yes but there's a caveat: she has to be meeting her financial needs and I won't be giving her any money and she can't prevent me from seeing young girls even if I'm not married to them.
3. The responsibilities of being a husband to a woman are enormous and there are only three incentives for it: youth, character (including prudence and hardwork) and virginity.... once any of these incentives aren't there the woman has to compensate for it in the relationship....if she's old then she need to hv moni and if she's not a virgjn she can't ask me not to hv a side check.

BigBashiru:
Theres an equation many guys and girls don't understand.

1. Wife treatment is a privilege and not a right.
2. A man can marry his age mate yes but there's a caveat: she has to be meeting her financial needs and I won't be giving her any money and she can't prevent me from seeing young girls even if I'm not married to them.
3. The responsibilities of being a husband to a woman are enormous and there are only three incentives for it: youth, character (including prudence and hardwork) and virginity.... once any of these incentives aren't there the woman has to compensate for it in the relationship....if she's old then she need to hv moni and if she's not a virgjn she can't ask me not to hv a side check.

You are delusional. Lol. Don’t go and turn off the light and go to bed. Where are your parents?

baby124:
You are delusional. Lol. Don’t go and turn off the light and go to bed. Where are your parents?

I just told you the truth tho many guys won't be as direct. The reason most guys go for young girls is so the husbanding burden is worth it....

An 18 yr old girl can command being relaxed and taken care of but the age mate of a 50 yr old man can't command the same....

Put simply:

Why should I dedicate my time and resources to a girl that has been around the block (multiple boyfriends and sex) that's in her early 30s?? What's in it for me?? It would only make sense in dis scenario if financial resources are 50 50. No wife privilege for such a woman meaning she gotta be bringing 50% of household expenses. And I can't be stopped from having side chicks since she herself no be virgin.....

According to your story, she's presently 19 with a 3yr old baby. That means you impregnated her when she was 16 or 15 sef and you get the mind to come public forum to complain of her escapades. E be like say jail dey hungry you.

You robbed the innocent girl of her youth even though you tried to legalize it las las. She's still a child and presently in her hoeing phase. You better get a mature lady, preferably a widow with kids to take care of you, your daughter and atone for your pedophilic action make thunder no visit you.

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

Kwin Pocohantas, what advice do you have for this husband?

Daxray07:
According to your story, she's presently 19 with a 3yr old baby. That means you impregnated her when she was 16 or 15 sef and you get the mind to come public forum to complain of her escapades. E be like say jail dey hungry you.

You robbed the innocent girl of her youth even though you tried to legalize it las las. She's still a child and presently in her hoeing phase. You better get a mature lady, preferably a widow with kids to take care of you, your daughter and atone for your pedophilic action make thunder no visit you.

It is better for youth to get married than sleep around...are u jealous of OP?? If men are saying wat u saying then no hope for marriage....

Currently in my concubine I hv:

Sixty seven - 18 year old wives (girlfriends)

Twenty 28 yr old wives

Two 35 yr old wives

I love mylife

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

And tear rubber is giving you problem now. That's where most men missed it, focusing on physical attributes instead of inward character when choosing a woman

BigBashiru:
I just told you the truth tho many guys won't be as direct. The reason most guys go for young girls is so the husbanding burden is worth it....

An 18 yr old girl can command being relaxed and taken care of but the age mate of a 50 yr old man can't command the same....

Put simply:

Why should I dedicate my time and resources to a girl that has been around the block (multiple boyfriends and sex) that's in her early 30s?? What's in it for me?? It would only make sense in dis scenario if financial resources are 50 50. No wife privilege for such a woman meaning she gotta be bringing 50% of household expenses. And I can't be stopped from having side chicks since she herself no be virgin.....

Sounds excellent. That’s why you’ll raise her sons from another man down the block too

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

Lol,ur *tear rubber* wife wants to explore,she might want to get torned u know

Peter532:
You think everyone is like your father who gave birth to multitudes before finally paying your mother's dowry at 65years old?.

Sorry boy, have already done all necessary things so keep your silly assumptions to yourselves.

With the way you talk I doubt you were even matured for marriage yourself because if you were you would understand marriage is not just about virginity,you robbed that kid of her childhood and innocence I’m surprised no one around you advised you, wanting a virgin isn’t bad there are many matured virgins out there you could have gotten to know because real mature virgins don’t say it but as judgmental as you are,you looked for a child oya what if on wedding night you realized she wasn’t you for chase her? You were just looking for a kid to control,vocational training ko na so them they marry? As if you na tear rubber,Now she has shown you, the best thing you can do right now if talk to her and give her space if needed if she comes back after some years fine, if she doesn’t you move on the girl wants to explore and feels like she has missed out,if you try to force her you go get bp,I know someone like you the wife ran away 8 years later without the kids too,go and check your values

Sorry bro. But this one you called her 19yrs old, it sounds like you
are 40-50 yrs old.
My father in- law will always advice a man to marry a lady that is not too far from his age because of things as this.

BRATISLAVA:
His response to you proves it.

Guess it's a thread to promote paedophilia in the guise of red pill tendencies.

were you molested at a tender age?

Ishilove:
This story seems fake.

i've you being molesting little boys?

folake4u:
Unfortunately,I think so too.

Op wants to instigate quarrels and fight on Nairaland.

you are too innocent for my liking

sisisioge:
Dearest Lord in heaven! 19years old wife with a 3 year old daughter! Dang! She was 16yrs when she had the baby and 15years when she got pregnant.


Haaaaa! You did not beat her. You enrolled the girl in tailoring! Seh na like that them dey address wife? Did you read what you wrote? I will refrain from insulting you! Broke aszzz phidophily oshi! Robbing the cradle up and down! You havent seen anything! Her boyfriend will one day come and beat you up! Whew! Dirtbag!

at what age did you start riding gbola? My little girl likes you alot. Advice her

You're cautioning a 19-year old that she's a woman? With a 3-year old kid?

Bruh, you're talking nonsense. If you have no one to tell you, I'm telling you.

Peter532:
This is a girl I signed for tailoring work, her attitude towards me this year changed drastically because of hard times am going through. I have seen her at the far end of my street standing with boys of same age with her holding her anyhow in the waist and every time I caution her that she's no longer a small girl but a woman.

I thought maybe she will grow up, but since on Sunday afternoon she left for her mother's place, she was supposed to come back in the evening, I waited till on Monday morning I couldn't call her because the last time I bought phone for her, she lied she lost it, I later found out that she gave it to one guy who is a Yahoo boy, it nearly caused a big issue that the community chairman had to be involved to settle the whole matter and the money of the phone was paid back to me.

I had to go to her mother place only to see my daughter there and she wasn't in sight. Though her mom was trying to hide it from me but I know what's going on, this isn't the first time she's done something like this

I Just left there this evening, all her mother was saying is I should take it easy.

I didn't beat her

We didn't quarrel, she just left on Sunday afternoon to drop my 3 year daughter at her mothers place.

I'm ashamed of the whole thing, everyone in my compound keeps asking me of her whereabouts, til it has gotten to the far end of our street.

I can't even come out in peace, if I do they must be one person to ask me what happened just to find my mouth, and the shame of explaining everything to them of her she dumped my daughter since on sunday is not easy.

Note: please those Ladies thinking I toke advantage of her, I didn't.
I'm a very educated individual, I did introductions with her parents before she came to live with me.
Then her dowry was paid.
It was my choice, every man dreams to get married to a tear rubber. If I want to remake that choice I probably do it again, this was never to discourage those who wants a young wife.

teeshet:
were you molested at a tender age?

Were you?