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pocohantas:
Yes. I got a mortar gift. A big one. Everyone that has seen it is marveled at the size and beauty . I love it a lot and it cost just 7k. My friends know I love the kitchen. So they give me a lot of kitchen utensils.

I use it to pound palm kernel.

One day one day, I go chop your Ofe akwu.

This I have seen.

pocohantas:
Any gift would be APPRECIATED, but I think every normal and wise human should strive to give gifts that are not just APPRECIATED, but USEFUL.

A friend bought me a coloured shoe despite knowing I don’t do colours. I APPRECIATED it. Then I worked and bought what I want as you have advised. Her gift has been on ky shelf for 2 years- NEVER WORN, but APPRECIATED still. It is common sense really.

flowers are quite important to human life in alot of ways

guobe:
flowers are quite important to human life in alot of ways

Okay.

folake4u:
One day one day, I go chop your Ofe akwu.

This I have seen.

Lol. Small something babe.

guobe:
An African man loves several wives too,hope you won't also be annoyed with a Yul Edochie treatment.And for plastic flowers or the other,both have their unique features so far they are flowers.

And I hope you also know that Western men love to drill each other's asshole. In all right sense don't you think a polygamist is better than a Gay?

... The uniqueness of potted plants and flowers are underestimated.... The provide clean air and makes the room look more natural and cool.

Ximenez:
Yes, if she's is rich and also not from a poor background.

Some poor Nigerian parents tell their female children not to return home after NYSC, what will those ones do with flowers?

parents telling their kids not to return home from home from NYSC are not good parents.Good parents won't say that to their kids.

Dorwadora:
And I hope you also know that Western men love to drill each other's asshole. In all right sense don't you think a polygamist is better than a Gay?

... The uniqueness of potted plants and flowers are underestimated.... The provide clean air and makes the room look more natural and cool.

okay it means you are OK with a polygamist.nice one.

pocohantas:
Lol. Small something babe.

Yesssssss!

pocohantas:
Any gift would be APPRECIATED, but I think every normal and wise human should strive to give gifts that are not just APPRECIATED, but USEFUL.

A friend bought me a coloured shoe despite knowing I don’t do colours. I APPRECIATED it. Then I worked and bought what I want as you have advised. Her gift has been on my shelf for 2 years- NEVER WORN, but APPRECIATED still. It is common sense really.

UTILITY!

I focus on functionality/utility over luxury

Anything you buy should have function that improves some aspect of your life. If it is just sitting around, it is wasted, much like our politicians building or buying assets that are left to rot away.

I guess it is important to really understand the person you are buying gifts for

guobe:
okay it means you are OK with a polygamist.nice one.

And where did I say I'm okay with a polygamist.... Quoting me out of context sir?

Anyways some evil are greater than eachother.... So don't you think an African polygamist is better than your western Gays?

Dorwadora:
And where did I say I'm okay with a polygamist.... Quoting me out of context sir?

Anyways some evil are greater than eachother.... So don't you think an African polygamist is better than your western Gays?

won't really place a blame on any of them.for me it's their life they can do whatever they like with it so far it does not endanger people.

GloriousGbola:
UTILITY!

I focus on functionality/utility over luxury

Anything you buy should have function that improves some aspect of your life. If it is just sitting around, it is wasted, much like our politicians building or buying assets that are left to rot away.

I guess it is important to really understand the person you are buying gifts for

Exactly. This is not about working to get what I want. Omo, give me something that I can use every other day. Even if na bathroom slippers, e better for me abeg.

guobe:
won't really place a blame on any of them.for me it's their life they can do whatever they like with it so far it does not endanger people.

With the way you were laying emphasis on polygamy... I thought you'll put the same emphasis on homosexuality : .... Since you feel indifferent about the disease plaguing your beloved western culture then you should feel the same about some of Africa culture

Dorwadora:
With the way you were laying emphasis on polygamy... I thought you'll put the same emphasis on homosexuality : .... Since you feel indifferent about the disease plaguing your beloved western culture then you should feel the same about some of Africa culture

It's their life both African men marrying several wives and homosexuals.if that is what they want what can you do when it isbacked by law.

Dorwadora:
All those flower nonsense .... I really don't get it. Nah American and European culture. Not for us in Africa here.... Though some Africa women jump in delight and cradle flowers like a new born baby nowadays.


Ugu is even better than flower to me.... At least I can use Ugu to cook soup

Wotoporiously speaking

You be werey I swr

BoredBerry:
Definitely! It's thoughtful...

Many Nigerian men would never offer a girl flowers, so...

Even birthday gifts... They just take you out... Never give you something you would treasure like a good book... If you like someone, you try to know them... And what you offer suits their likes... It's simple...

Person that's not Happy can't give Happiness

Know this and know Peace:

Trust Me, Don't Expect London from Oshodi

guobe:
If you say tradition,will you traditionally serve the gods of your forefathers?definitely no.so one has to evolve from those traditions not favourable

Why should one now Evolve into Flowers?
Oyinbo too should Evolve into Jellof Rice na

guobe:
It is good the Nigerian girls mentality is changed.They should know that they can work hard and have all they want for themselves instead of being dependent on others.

Imagine you talking about evolution and you still got mad at the same time in devolution:

The thread is talking about "Gift" and those girls provided their feelings only for you to still come at them like Rats!

The culture here is Money, if you no get Money don't love and love yourself till God Blesses You!

DonroxyII:
Imagine you talking about evolution and you still got mad at the same time in devolution:

The thread is talking about "Gift" and those girls provided their feelings only for you to still come at them like Rats!

The culture here is Money, if you no get Money don't love and love yourself till God Blesses You!

ah watin I do,na flower I talk about I no kill person lol

DonroxyII:
Why should one now Evolve into Flowers?
Oyinbo too should Evolve into Jellof Rice na

The world is evolving into westernization the earlier you know thisits just the norm.like valentine is celebrated by most lovers in Africa and I know u do valentine too.

guobe:
ah watin I do,na flower I talk about I no kill person lol

Here, guys take care of girls but You guys wants to have you cake and eat it at the same time:

If you have what it takes Carry 20women Nigerian Women will stay with you provided you can give Saturations to her regardless of the 19women !

But a guy who can't feed himself nor have IQ enough to even break himself out of poverty planning polygamy no make sense na:

A guy complaining on "gifting" a Nigerian Woman and westernising every conversations but when same Western lady divorce your ass and take away your properties and still put you on salary for the next 18years, You will still come and Wail

Dude, Leave Nigerian girls alone... Me I like them for real!

guobe:
The world is evolving into westernization the earlier you know thisits just the norm.like valentine is celebrated by most lovers in Africa and I know u do valentine too.

Dude pack one side, I'm also evolving too but there are still better part of my culture to preserve like I love spending for my own woman yeah it makes me feel a Man:

It will be very strange to me to be spilling bills carrying western girl to eatery, Keep Your money Bae, that's My Job!

I'm only evolving in Western Education(Scientific-Facts and Artistry-Beauties) and Technologies with Technicalities

Not flowers bro:

Maybe a good flowers for interior decor like full sets her kinda colour that matches her room hell yeah ...

Women must be Spoilt then Disciplined if she misbehaves and viceversa for you too:

DonroxyII:
Here, guys take care of girls but You guys wants to have you cake and eat it at the same time:

If you have what it takes Carry 20women Nigerian Women will stay with you provided you can give Saturations to her regardless of the 19women !

But a guy who can't feed himself nor have IQ enough to even break himself out of poverty planning polygamy no make sense na:

A guy complaining on "gifting" a Nigerian Woman and westernising every conversations but when same Western lady divorce your ass and take away your properties and still put you on salary for the next 18years, You will still come and Wail

Dude, Leave Nigerian girls alone... Me I like them for real!

There is what you call prenuptial agreements between couples which takes care of divorce issues so that's not an issue.couples abroad don't see marriage as big deal,take for example ASAP and Rihanna,they just had a baby but ain't married
Yes Nigerian girls are good too ,I am not bashing them just pondering on an issue.

If I hear say Nigerian girls collect flower.

DonroxyII:
Imagine you talking about evolution and you still got mad at the same time in devolution:

The thread is talking about "Gift" and those girls provided their feelings only for you to still come at them like Rats!

The culture here is Money, if you no get Money don't love and love yourself till God Blesses You!

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pocohantas:
That is exactly how they are. They don’t ask questions to understand your perspective. They simply want to attack.

I usually Blame Background, Orientations and Civilisations for some Horrible posts on Nairaland! Mobile phone and Internet doesn't truly connote Exposures!

Unreasonableness comes with Stubbornness sha!

guobe:
Down in the states,most white girls and black American girls prefer flowers as gifts than money.I keep wondering is there any Nigerian girl that prefers flowers to monetary gifts.just pondering.

You too get flowers as your wages or salary. Get paid in flowers.
Son of Gurumaharatji!

OP lol, I guess that you are based in the States. Mate, you need to understand that the concept of love in Nigeria is different from the concept of love in the West. For Nigerian women, the only way you can show that you love them is by spending money on them. Relationships here is based on survival not compatibility/love. Most women see marriage as a way to escape poverty or responsibilities. They have been indoctrinated since childhood that men are meant to pamper them and they don't have to contribute anything to the relationship. The men themselves don't help matters. Trust me, if you have spent most of your life in a western society, it will be difficult for you to relate to women here. I've been there. Just take them out. That's how they will appreciate you.

gforce5:
OP lol, I guess that you are based in the States. Mate, you need to understand that the concept of love in Nigeria is different from the concept of love in the West. For Nigerian women, the only way you can show that you love them is by spending money on them. Relationships here is based on survival not compatibility/love. Most women see marriage as a way to escape poverty or responsibilities. They have been indoctrinated since childhood that men are meant to pamper them and they don't have to contribute anything to the relationship. The men themselves don't help matters. Trust me, if you have spent most of your life in a western society, it will be difficult for you to relate to women here. I've been there. Just take them out. That's how they will appreciate you.

so so true but a little reorientation can change that perspective.

Naija girls na just money dey make dem love.if you give her flowers,that's the end of the relationship.

guobe:
Down in the states,most white girls and black American girls prefer flowers as gifts than money.I keep wondering is there any Nigerian girl that prefers flowers to monetary gifts.just pondering.

Nigeria women only understand money.

With their tradition mentality.

I agree but not this generation of Nigerian women. They are too far gone with that mentality. The younger ones, it is possible. They are some Nigerian women that don't have that mentality but they are rare/exception. Those ones have already been snapped up by smart guys.

guobe:
so so true but a little reorientation can change that perspective.