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I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Threesha(f): 10:57pm On May 26, 2022
From DM

I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter after that incident, I loved her. I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.

According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted, I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thought). I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real, they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

This girl lives in with me, I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same.

Few days ago, we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning. I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me. I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step, and I'm ime wtf,

What do I do? I'm confused. Should I let her go or keep her around knowing fully well she's gonna leave. Its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

I need help...I'm losing myself for a girl

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by wis3(m): 11:04pm On May 26, 2022
Relationships these days are a complete waste of time. Most people don't even know why they're in the relationship they're in today.

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Slynation(m): 11:04pm On May 26, 2022
A foolish simp...!! You don't need any advise, you need make they wire you Oraimo cord for neck

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by nawa4naija(m): 11:06pm On May 26, 2022
SIMPle man

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by doggedfighter(f): 11:08pm On May 26, 2022
Let me join others and use redpillers slogan. grin



Simp grin

Yes you're a simp ! grin


What a simple man ! grin

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Sergio104(m): 11:08pm On May 26, 2022
Slynation:
A foolish simp...!! You don't need any advise, you need make they wire you Oraimo cord for neck

Lol grin

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Adejo1(m): 11:13pm On May 26, 2022
Your wahala pass you, chai nawa o
You knew she was in a relationship before she met you, and you are still forcing.

You need better flogging with oraimo code

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Blakjewelry(m): 11:15pm On May 26, 2022
Threesha:
From DM

well you will have to take your stand even if it hurt, maybe she will finally come to her senses when you let her go and if she doesn't, there is always someone better out there waiting

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by IyaTola: 11:21pm On May 26, 2022
This the reason I hate long distance relationship.

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by PerfectStranger(m): 11:27pm On May 26, 2022
Slynation:
A foolish simp...!! You don't need any advise, you need make they wire you Oraimo cord for neck
Wich one be oraimo cord again abeg?

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:31pm On May 26, 2022
Threesha:
I met this girl sometime last year in school, we had issues in keke where in I asked her to drop down from the keke that I already paid for charter after that incident, I loved her.

MADNESS #1
how can you supposedly love a total stranger?! pls, stop bastardizing the word "love",,,you were infatuated at 1st sight, yeah!

I asked her out and she told me she was engaged and getting married, but I persisted. I made her come to my house, and we had s**.

MADNESS #2
if that bitch was engaged and ready to be married, yet fukced you, then she is obviously a low down dirty wh0re that you should possibly fukc all you want, but certainly not fall in love with. what she did with you, is what she will do TO YOU, when she becomes your woman.

According to her was that her intentions was to sleep with me and then leave being that it must be what I wanted, I had to let her know I needed her heart. It took a while but she eventually did love me ( or so I thought). I got to find out that her supposed engaged partner, she hasn't even met the guy for real, they met on Facebook and now they only talk on whatsapp but she loves him .

MADNESS #3
the bastardization of the word "love" again and again....do you even know what love means?! here is a clue: next time this stranger tells you she loves you, ask her to define exactky what she loves about you?
or better yet, why dont you tell us what you love about this stranger...

This girl lives in with me, I get pissed when the guy calls her.. she tells the guy she loves him and then come back to me to tell me the same.

MADNESS #4
you are what is called a "sidebrotha" on the streets...you are just here to warm up the toto, until the real brotha (she is waiting for) is coming to take her away.

Few days ago, we had issues again because of this and she called me selfish, that I don't care about the feelings of the guy and that I knew from the beginning. I love this girl deeply, and she says she loves me too, most of her sisters knows me but her feel she is lying to me. I feel she doesn't love me and I should let her go ..

MADNESS #5
you are not in the friendzone, you are officially the 1st dude in the MUMUZONE.... she has so little respect/value for you that she expects you to care for her MAIN BOBO, which isnt you. kai!

She has explicitly said she can't stop talking to this guy and I should have a heart attack if I want to, that I should take the relationship step by step, and I'm ime wtf,

MADNESS #6
any smart man would hear the above and jejely pack his shiit and get rid of that demon from their life....but as we can see that your mumu has no limit, i am sure you will be still hanging around that yeye woman.

What do I do? I'm confused. Should I let her go or keep her around knowing fully well she's gonna leave. Its very clear to me that she will leave although she says she's not so sure about that .
Lol, she tells this guy that she's dreams about him daily on whatsapp and yet Come back to sleep with Me.

FINAL MADNESS
you are a toto warmer, keeping that toto warm for the other dude....and proud of it, as it seem. here is what you should do...go to the bathroom and look at the person you see in the mirror, then slap yourself and hopefuly you will stop being "confused" about being treated like garbage!

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by doggedfighter(f): 12:02am On May 27, 2022
MrBrownJay1:


MADNESS #1
how can you supposedly love a total stranger?! pls, stop bastardizing the word "love",,,you were infatuated at 1st sight, yeah!



MADNESS #2
if that bitch was engaged and ready to be married, yet fukced you, then she is obviously a low down dirty wh0re that you should possibly fukc all you want, but certainly not fall in love with. what she did with you, is what she will do TO YOU, when she becomes your woman.



MADNESS #3
the bastardization of the word "love" again and again....do you even know what love means?! here is a clue: next time this stranger tells you she loves you, ask her to define exactky what she loves about you?
or better yet, why dont you tell us what you love about this stranger...



MADNESS #4
you are what is called a "sidebrotha" on the streets...you are just here to warm up the toto, until the real brotha (she is waiting for) is coming to take her away.



MADNESS #5
you are not in the friendzone, you are officially the 1st dude in the MUMUZONE.... she has so little respect/value for you that she expects you to care for her MAIN BOBO, which isnt you. kai!



MADNESS #6
any smart man would hear the above and jejely pack his shiit and get rid of that demon from their life....but as we can see that your mumu has no limit, i am sure you will be still hanging around that yeye woman.



FINAL MADNESS
you are a toto warmer, keeping that toto warm for the other dude....and proud of it, as it seem. here is what you should do...go to the bathroom and look at the person you see in the mirror, then slap yourself and hopefuly you will stop being "confused" about being treated like garbage!




This must be a thesis grin

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Freelane33(m): 12:09am On May 27, 2022
Threesha:
From DM

Find God
@justwise pls unblock me from the travelling thread. 2024 is far bro Abeg

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Nobody: 12:18am On May 27, 2022
bro you need cord

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by czarr(m): 1:48am On May 27, 2022
No woman is that special.
It's all in your head.

If you hadn't met her would you be in the head space you are now? Understand and accept that the chemicals in your brain are working together to help reproduction and that is why you feel love or lust, it's not a divine/spiritual event.

Then since you know what it is you detach emotionally by talking to other girls and slowly you'll detach emotionally....and it may even work in your favour because girls love emotionally unavailable guys.

My son give not your strength to a woman _ proverbs

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Nobody: 4:07am On May 27, 2022
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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Nobody: 5:13am On May 27, 2022
This one no get sense who wan give you advice for this trash

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by ruffkenny: 5:42am On May 27, 2022
It is very clear from the beginning,nothing will come out of it,even though it does,she will be cheating on u and flirting with other men,so decide if that is the future u want..The truth is u can't do for her what the dude outside does ,that is what she has been trying to show u and u don't understand! She has no single respect for u as a man and u are not enough for her..

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by chinwong(m): 5:56am On May 27, 2022
This matter has cleared itself from the beginning.

You don go love up despite knowing that this girl already has a guy.

You suppose dey happy sef say you see her puna chop.

Bros, drop that your feelings aside, enjoy the moment while silently working on yourself.

Your love go soon show.

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Emma2Seconds: 6:25am On May 27, 2022
THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN. Girls with stupidity. They so called FB Guy will think he's dealing with Tear Rubber without knowing the girl is a community borehole. Being bleeped in another man's house and still dreaming about him in another man's house, what a nonsense will call relationship. GIRLS are the same.

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Flappy222: 7:22am On May 27, 2022
Pfft

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by SNEFF: 7:26am On May 27, 2022
is that why you used her name as your moniker ?

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Biafranodogwu55: 7:50am On May 27, 2022
Slynation:
A foolish simp...!! You don't need any advise, you need make they wire you Oraimo cord for neck
Oraimo cord kwa grin grin grin!!!
Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Rickmann: 8:42am On May 27, 2022
Threesha:
From DM


You don't love her, you think you do cos you have to battle another guy for her. Just man up and move on abeg.

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Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Nicepoker(m): 9:23am On May 27, 2022
You need her heart. Davy Jones and Calypso.

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