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Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by VIKTO83(m): 6:35am On May 30, 2022 |
I bet to disagree that any Nigerian will taken his or life for such lousy reason. Surrogacy is an option. There is more to that and I know case had closed as soon as the family takes d corpse for burial. Nigeria is 7th world. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by oweniwe(m): 6:36am On May 30, 2022 |
lailo: Sometimes it's not the women's fault. What if the men she meets are the irresponsible ones? The types that will promise marriage for 5 years and do nothing. A lady only has to date one of such guys to ruin her life 2 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by wonder233: 6:38am On May 30, 2022 |
She was murdered. Spare us the bull crap reasons they hurriedly put together. This is the new way to hide murder, term it as suicide and push out a narrative |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by badboyTee(m): 6:46am On May 30, 2022 |
OloYeOfEgbE:dumb ass nigga |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by OJURONGBE1(m): 6:54am On May 30, 2022 |
joyandfaith: That western world is the mother of loneliness. Have you travelled out or ask single people how tough it is for them over there? Here in Nigeria, you could meet someone on the street and strike a conversation, make friends with them and start checking up on each other, but you'd become a bother if you try such overseas. Nigeria is the best place for socialization. Take it from me. 4 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Bigzigg(m): 7:02am On May 30, 2022 |
lailo: Come on, this is unnecessary. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by BRATISLAVA: 7:03am On May 30, 2022 |
lailo: What do you know about the deceased lady? Nothing. Is every dead single and childless man a former red pill advocate? Have some respect for the dead. 3 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by BRATISLAVA: 7:04am On May 30, 2022 |
Bigzigg: Not just unnecessary. But there are over 40 fools who think the way that person does. 2 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by BRATISLAVA: 7:06am On May 30, 2022 |
Skyview01: How do you know that she didn't want to adopt a child? Are you the partner she never had? 3 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Bigzigg(m): 7:07am On May 30, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: I pity them for the way they reason. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Blessiing(f): 7:08am On May 30, 2022 |
[quote author=aycorporat post=113295517]That is why I don't blame ladies who party hard just to keep sane. Sincerely, the society is not fair to the women folk at times owing to the pressure of marriage. Besides, I always advise ladies, once you are done with the first degree, settle down. However, some keep chasing more degrees and building careers thereby making the men folk to be scared of them as being too independent. I wish the police can dig.deeper into the case of sniper ingestion, possibly murder. But Nigerian police....story for another day There's no lie in what you have said....being too independent or educated isn't a crime nor is it my fault....its painful sometimes when I realise men don't want to have anything to do with me all because of that,one even said he would feel threatened if ever we get married because I would be bringing more to the table than him,another said he won't even stress himself to work because he knows he can't compete with me,another said I will become arrogant when we get married because once a woman is too educated she becomes another thing...well all in all God will do the best... 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by BRATISLAVA: 7:09am On May 30, 2022 |
PROPEACE: Don't mind Nigerians. They always know more than what they read, especially when it is clearly stated. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by akinade28(f): 7:13am On May 30, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:Don't mind those ignorant folks you quoted. They are always looking for means to bully and belittle women |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Barristter07: 7:14am On May 30, 2022 |
Okobola146: Thank you. Been looking for someone who will make this point. Exactly what's in my mind. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Hafizah(f): 7:18am On May 30, 2022 |
Such a beautiful lady... Happy pictures in a sad generation. There is always something missing in ones life. Spouse, children, finances, relationship, health and so. May we truly find pure happiness. Getting a good spouse these days is difficult, because some men dont know how to actually love, all they want to do is use you and move on. Its well. May her soul rest in peace 3 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by johhnnie(m): 7:21am On May 30, 2022 |
chigoizie7: Same shoes here. The loneliness here is so brutal. I would have gone same route many times over. There was a period of time I researched into the most painless way to commit suicide. Cutting one's wrist, jumping off an edge ( people used to jumpnoff the Brooklyn, Manhattanand the StatenIsland bridges), gun to the head or hearth, drinking poisonous substances etc. You try to bury yourself in your work. You work long hours until you can see no more . However, when you get to your dwelling place, the emptiness stares back at you. NYC is worst. I discovered ultimately, that you can be surrounded by a mammoth of crowd; and yet, be very lonely. I know lots of people won't believe this.... Less than 2 months, the corpse of a Nigerian guy was evacuated from a house not too far from me. Around the same time a lady in Staten Island. In some cases, lots of these people would have no known relations. Their pictures would be circulated on the social media And again, it's sad that the relationship that most Nigerians have with people in the diaspora starts and ends with money. It's a bitter experience! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Qatar2022: 7:25am On May 30, 2022 |
aycorporat:Society is not fair to every gender , when you reach to marry as a man your family and friends will put pressure on you too 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Nigeriainpeace: 7:28am On May 30, 2022 |
Really sad, may her soul find rest |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Gkemz: 7:30am On May 30, 2022 |
So many things to consider which triggered her action. She may have been directly or indirectly involved in a big fraud as most accountants do and instead of her to see her reputation as an accountant be put to mud she chose to end her life. Secondly, her constant loneliness and lack of husband may have compounded the effect. Finally, emotional abuse and torture from her neighbors for her inability to marry and have a child before menopause may also be part of it. |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by baby124: 7:35am On May 30, 2022 |
This woman was suffering from a mental illness. Loneliness did not kill her. She had depression. Which is not sadness but a chronic mental illness. 5 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f): 7:36am On May 30, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:don’t marry 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by anonymuz(m): 7:37am On May 30, 2022 |
edoman2016:loneliness is bad, I have experienced it and it was like a mental trauma. I started going out to curb it. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f): 7:38am On May 30, 2022 |
baby124:her “family member” done open mouth waa talk nonsense as if they were present in the room when she died and gave them the reason why she did it. That’s if she wasn’t even murdered. NL association of single lady shamers have now seen something to talk about. 3 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by BRATISLAVA: 7:42am On May 30, 2022 |
cococandy: But you will be surprised that the biggest male advocates for no marriage are actually married and giving out the worst advice to angry little boys. He is married with a pot belly. 4 Likes |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Nephilim: 7:42am On May 30, 2022 |
Ladies when you get to 40-45, and no one is forth coming, go and adopt a baby, and look after him/her as yours. Those children in orphanage home are there for a purpose. That's what I will do, if I find myself in that shoe. The Prophecies in the scripture must be fulfilled. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by IamAsiri: 7:42am On May 30, 2022 |
Fearme344: I don't get you |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f): 7:43am On May 30, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA:I know he’s married. And his wife is presumably one of the good ones. I don’t know why he thinks other men don’t have it good too. 1 Like |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Jamesbiodun(m): 7:48am On May 30, 2022 |
She just lost her life for nothing, why? |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Kajaard: 7:50am On May 30, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: The Pot Belly part had me rolling on the floor |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Bruno3000(m): 7:51am On May 30, 2022 |
Money can't buy love and a happy home oga. grafixdon: |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by Nobody: 7:54am On May 30, 2022 |
With all the money and connection at lekki, she could have adopted children, no! This can't be the cause of suicide, she must have lost money. |
Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by JJoce: 7:56am On May 30, 2022 |
The "redpillers" are yet to remind us about how "man is the price" RIP to the dead though. |
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