mariahAngel:


Choose life.
Stop worrying.
Trust in God steadfastly, and God will keep you(your soul) in perfect peace.

frozen70:


That's true, but she could have adopted a child

LastProphet:


That's how dumb our majority are, very very dumb race this our race. I was happier when i had no kids or wife. Sorry for this continent

IyaTola:
it's not as easy as you say it.

SeriouslySense:
Maybe she did not have any person that she can count on or loved ones, not everyone has loved ones.

The same family might have been tormenting her too.

Moz22:
ofcourse I definitely can't, I've got my dad to get outta jail.. it's wearing me

UyaiIncomparabl:


We can't say.

It's not enough to guess that from the comfort of your keypads.

OJURONGBE1:


That western world is the mother of loneliness.
Have you travelled out or ask single people how tough it is for them over there?
Here in Nigeria, you could meet someone on the street and strike a conversation, make friends with them and start checking up on each other, but you'd become a bother if you try such overseas.

Nigeria is the best place for socialization.
Take it from me.

cococandy:

I know he’s married. And his wife is presumably one of the good ones. I don’t know why he thinks other men don’t have it good too.

planetE:
she was single and childless at 47. That is very disheartening.

doggedfighter:


You will be surprised that even the foolish family members that came out to tell the public her death is because she's not married don't know anything about her life . Her life may actually be better than most of them that are married.

Here , everyone must be forced to be married so as to present a picture of a fulfilled life.

mariahAngel:


The solution to that lies within your spirit.
When you let God into your soul, God fills up that void/space in you that no human or anything can permanently fill.
With God, you can never feel lonely and depressed no matter where you are or go, because wherever you are, God is right there within you(your spirit).
Anybody can leave you at any time, but God can never and will never leave you(unless you leave God).

Moz22:
These days, I just come here to find succor really. I'm not a happy man. I just can't take my life now cos I've got my dad to get outta jail for a crime non existent. I feel choked, out of ideas.. weak, can't even think right. His bail some is worrisome.. u don't expect me to feel well when my dad's behind bars?

Dawn91:


First of all the same message made it to front osgem you see the added part about contrary claims to her loneliness? It's all for press face. Everyone knows that's why she commited suicide? Her colleagues alluded to this hence the family had to create a new narrative to clean up her memory which is understandable.

U need to broaden ur cognitive ability .. stop thinking like a 2 year old

azpekuliar:


You are just one of the many dumb bloggers littered all over Nairaland constantly dishing out falsehood disguised as facts to the public.

ebute3:


Bro, the main valid point is in your last paragraph. The police should dig deeper cos she might have been killed or probably committed suicide for another reason entirely.

I don't believe "partying hard" is a solution to anything, it would only make the person more depressed when there is no party. Life isn't fair on ladies you say, but is it fair on men? Try not having money and see if the society would pay attention to you or respect you.

Also doing MSc or PhD isn't a bad idea, many have met their husbands in postgraduate school.

I just believe a lot of women don't invest their early years (especially early 20s) in a good relationship with the right person. Some take advantage of their prime and decide to flex until they discover they're no longer young and desired once they cross into their late 20s or early 30s. Some were not very sociable, some had poor character, some were busy looking for rich guys, fine boy, some were into sugar daddies and some were food mongers, always eating anyhow when guys take them out

Regardless, nothing is too late for God to do.

RIP to the dead.

aycorporat:


You nailed it.

Owo meji loke tuale

UyaiIncomparabl:


How come did this happen?

doggedfighter:
I don't believe the reason for her suicide.



There maybe more to it.
Bankers dey face hell






It's usually easy to think that not having a

husband and children is the reason for anything that happens to an unmarried lady.

mariahAngel:


Believe it or not, worrying isn't going to solve anything, neither does worrying make you more responsible or means that you care more.
Worry only brings anxiety, which leads to desperation, then depression.
Free yourself.

You can decide to stop worrying, then ask God to lead you to where solution is, then guide you on what to do.

Everything will fall into place and be alright eventually, you'll see.

mariahAngel:


The solution to that lies within your spirit.
When you let God into your soul, God fills up that void/space in you that no human or anything can permanently fill.
With God, you can never feel lonely and depressed no matter where you are or go, because wherever you are, God is right there within you(your spirit).
Anybody can leave you at any time, but God can never and will never leave you(unless you leave God).

Moz22:
thanks

edoman2016:
Loneliness is not good. As humans, we all want to feel loved and desire a companion. There is no point being rich and no children to inherit your sweat. Its just vanity.

Wittydreh:
It will be my turn to do this. I'm just frustrated about everything. I'm tired of this life