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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by frank317: 3:25pm On May 31, 2022
Since its a small house of F**ck why not bring ur own girl friend... your sister and her husband on one corner, your sister's husband's brother and his girl friend on one corner and u and ur girl on the other side of the room... everyone moaning all through the night.


in the morning the men can have a drink and discuss who hit it hardest last night

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Lepon02: 3:25pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.

Fast forward he has been wanting to let his girlfriend come stay with us since ASUU is on strike, my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.

Today makes it one week since she came, she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked even sleep naked, but with duvet.

Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.

I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.

Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.



Ok.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by GloriousGbola: 3:27pm On May 31, 2022
Mindlog:


Just reading it made me feel claustrophobic, imagining that confined space with 5 adults moving around! sad

tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue

Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Edyice: 3:29pm On May 31, 2022
Acidosis:



What manner of living arrangement is that?


5 different people inside one room and a parlour shocked
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by pocohantas(f): 3:29pm On May 31, 2022
ImaIma1:
Lol...this is funny. One room self contain has husband, wife, wife's sister, husband's brother and husband's brother's girlfriend.

When is your boyfriend moving in?

grin grin

Make e just complete ba?
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Emperor88(m): 3:29pm On May 31, 2022
As long as there is a roof Lagos babes no send. When I was staying with my friends na different girls the pack clothes come.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Streetmovement(m): 3:31pm On May 31, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

I don't subscribe to rubbish

Them no born that girl well, infact them no even born my brother well make he carry woman come lodge for my house even if I give am permission, no matter how big the house might be....that shenkes sef no get shame, (ashawo) for inside house wey pipo wey marry the live, she even get mind dey off cloth dey use duvet cover body.

Fuckery of the highest order

Wetin people dey give birth to dis days sef, no more respect.

Tueh...

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Edyice: 3:32pm On May 31, 2022
frank317:
Since its a small house of F**ck why not bring ur own girl friend... your sister and her husband on one corner, your sister's husband's brother and his girl friend on one corner and u and ur girl on the other side of the room... everyone moaning all through the night.


in the morning the men can have a drink and discuss who hit it hardest last night



grin

The hardest is the winner
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Mcslize: 3:33pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:

They both spend majority of their time at work, its only twice a week all of us are gathered

Even at that. That your brother in-law is supposed to rent his personal apartment as he is working.

Some things are not just right. A grown up who is working still coming to stay with his brother and was still bold to drag his gf along and he is working.

What is he using his money to do that he can't rent a house.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by mariahAngel(f): 3:33pm On May 31, 2022
Some people's mental capacity to accommodate/stay in a cramped up space is...admirable. sad
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Mindlog: 3:34pm On May 31, 2022
Ishilove:

Which kind of oyibo disorder is this? We are Nigerians. We don't panic disorder; we disorder panic. angry tongue

'We disorder panic" cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by DKM123: 3:36pm On May 31, 2022
When the ungrateful and poverty stricken boyfriend who can't afford an apartment brought his girlfriend, what did you think will happen? That they will be holding hands and saying the rosary?

But, how can you the OP carry your property to go live in a ONE bedroom apartment with a married couple?

How can your brother in-law come and join you to squat in a one bedroom apartment with a married couple?

How can the stewpid brother in-law now add his girlfriend to live with you and a married couple in a fkuking one bedroom apartment?

All of you are sha mad. The only sane person here is the husband but for allowing this madness, he too is mad!

Finally, those blaming ONLY the girlfriend and not the ungrateful goat who brought his girlfriend to live with those he is squatting with inside one room, are also mad.

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Originalsly: 3:37pm On May 31, 2022
Mindlog:


You mean the entire space where your sister, her husband, his younger brother, you and now the girlfriend stay, is a room and parlour self-contain?


With all these grown people in such small space how can there be space for clothing? Brother in law and his gf trying to create more space and he is complaining. Why are you there?.... not working... not schooling... girlfriend helping out... what is left for you to do?... besides peeping and monitoring?

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by kamez(m): 3:37pm On May 31, 2022
U all are mad..inside one bedroom flat...

I repeat u all are mad
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Moneyyman: 3:37pm On May 31, 2022
Op, come explain something.

You said it's a room and parlour self-con.

Does it mean that you, your sister, her husband, and his brother all stay in that self-con?

If that's so, your brother-in-law then brought his babe to join you all?

Omohhhhhhhhh x10000000000000.


Some ladies should have shame abeg! No class, no taste. How can you go and sleep in that kind of place?

Even if the guys are stupid, ladies get sense abeg.


What am I saying?

I remember back at school, girl come spend the night with their bf on the same bunk (student bunk) in a hostel with 6 - 8 occupants.

They'll bathe in those really dirty hostel toilets and run home by early morning.


Tueh!


Please, OP try and move out soon. You guys are cramping your sister and her husband!

Move out and leave that dude and his babe there abeg.


1 bedroom self-con for 5 people? Haba!
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by darkstar6971(m): 3:37pm On May 31, 2022
when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked.. so person dey take bath with cloth ni?? sad
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by drlateef: 3:38pm On May 31, 2022
Mindlog:
You mean the entire space where your sister, her husband, his younger brother, you and now the girlfriend stay, is a room and parlour self-contain?


Oga o!!! And some people are shagging naked in such place? What sort of moral decadence is this. Very soon that your brother in law will call you in to join in the party if his girlfriend is not around. Orisirisi!!!
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by tctrills: 3:39pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.

Fast forward he has been wanting to let his girlfriend come stay with us since ASUU is on strike, my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.

Today makes it one week since she came, she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked even sleep naked, but with duvet.

Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.

I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.

Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.
It's not even your house but you want to be calling shots. Mr big man.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by IamGreen1(f): 3:40pm On May 31, 2022
faithfull18:
Ladies! This is all shades of wrong. No self-respect. This girl doesn't have parents If I was your sis, I wouldn't allow her. They are not even married.

But wait oh, a room and parlor self-contain, where do the owners of the apartment sleep


If your see how I opened my mouth, God! How some ladies throw away their self worth and pride is crazy. Abi she fell from the sky ni, what did I just read.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Capernum: 3:40pm On May 31, 2022
All shades of wrong. The marriage is too young to accommodate others in the small self con. Let alone of disdaining the sacred matrimonial bed. Even you should not be there! It's disrespectful... Report them and you too leave.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Kobicove(m): 3:41pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.

Fast forward he has been wanting to let his girlfriend come stay with us since ASUU is on strike, my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.

Today makes it one week since she came, she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked even sleep naked, but with duvet.

Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.

I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.

Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.

Are they supposed to bath with their clothes on? cool
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by mariahAngel(f): 3:41pm On May 31, 2022
Emperor88:

One babe find me come Lagos from Delta state. Online babe ooo... My mum went for vigil then came back and meet the girl the next morning. Na so she question the girl o then my mum called secretly and she was like you invite girl from far delta state, random girl o. If anything happen to her na me go bring police cum arrest u. I go lodge the girl for hotel for two days. The girl sef get parents o...most Nigeria parents are just too irresponsible.

"One babe find me come Lagos from Delta..."
Who invite her?
Who give her address?
When una wan talk, make una try dey talk the whole truth.

You wey go invite online babe from Delta all the way to Lagos...you ge' mind O!
undecided

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by tctrills: 3:41pm On May 31, 2022
faithfull18:
Ladies! This is all shades of wrong. No self-respect. This girl doesn't have parents If I was your sis, I wouldn't allow her. They are not even married.

But wait oh, a room and parlor self-contain, where do the owners of the apartment sleep
Some of you pretend as if women are robots who don't enjoy having sex. These are adults with a sex life. As long as the owners of the apartment don't have an issue with the girlfriend being around, Who am I to judge.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Shevchenkko: 3:42pm On May 31, 2022
Mindlog:
You mean the entire space where your sister, her husband, his younger brother, you and now the girlfriend stay, is a room and parlour self-contain?
The matter tire me ooo
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by bullabong(m): 3:43pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.

Fast forward he has been wanting to let his girlfriend come stay with us since ASUU is on strike, my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.

Today makes it one week since she came, she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked even sleep naked, but with duvet.

Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.

I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.

Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.
poverty is bad!! All these people in that cubicle?

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by nuele(m): 3:45pm On May 31, 2022
Obviously, it would be disturbing to you. Kindly communicate your concerns to your brother-in-law.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by TruthinAction: 3:46pm On May 31, 2022
Your husband brother bringing his girlfriend to stay in that home is unwise. He wants to have girlfriend and he can't afford to rent his own apartment. The whole arrangement is wrong. The girlfriend too has no shame. Two homeless lovers.
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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Mcslize: 3:49pm On May 31, 2022
Emperor88:


Are you surprised? A typical 9ja babe no dey accountable to anyone.

The husband brother gf is shameless. She couldn't even advise the guy to look into renting a house. Most girls lack the wisdom to advise guys they are dating. So I am not even surprised.

All majority think about is shoes, bag, make up and nothing else.

Very minimal number of ladies can give a guy proper advice that will better the life of the guy they are dating.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Cutehector(m): 3:49pm On May 31, 2022
You, your brother in law and the girl should get the fùck out of that house and leave married couple alone

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Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Akhee: 3:51pm On May 31, 2022
Gabby2022:
I stay with my sis and her husband,most of the time I am always home due to the nature of their job.My sis husband younger brother stays with us but he is hardly home because of work.

Fast forward he has been wanting to let his girlfriend come stay with us since ASUU is on strike, my sis was relunctant but she finally agreed.

Today makes it one week since she came, she has been helping with chores and cooking but the only issue is when her bf (my bro-in-law) is around they bath naked even sleep naked, but with duvet.

Mind you it is a room and parlour self-contain and i feel they shouldn't fornicate knowing fully well i am around.

I haven't told my sis yet because I don't want my sis to kick her out.Right now she has monopolized the bed at night when my sis is not around.

Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.
What do you mean by you? Abeg next time use THEY or THEM not you. Its looking as if I am among.
Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by Ishilove: 3:52pm On May 31, 2022
Emperor88:

One babe find me come Lagos from Delta state. Online babe ooo... My mum went for vigil then came back and meet the girl the next morning. Na so she question the girl o then my mum called secretly and she was like you invite girl from far delta state, random girl o. If anything happen to her na me go bring police cum arrest u. I go lodge the girl for hotel for two days. The girl sef get parents o...most Nigeria parents are just too irresponsible.
Hian. You sef you took a risk. Supposing something happened to her on the way or in your house and they check her phone and see your number as her frequently dialed number? No be gbege be that? Please let us be careful. The girl too is lucky you are not a bad person. Na so all these girls dey take miss because they fell into the hands of a bad person. Imagine traveling 8 hours to another state for preek.

Nigerian parents need to do more. seriously.

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