| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by bukatyne(f): 1:27pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
thorpido:
Are you Will Smith?He's the one that allows Jada play this kind of game.
Mister,no let money yab you o.This na game of dethrone.   |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Richy4(m): 1:32pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
olaitonto:
Honestly I wish I can define cheat at this point of my life, I just can't blv they had sex already
Honestly, this your story sounds unbelievable...I can't just imagine this kind of thing happening..
Since you knew about the whole thing, it sounds like you were aiding and abetting it for financial gains...
If you are really really upset about it, what do you think will happen if you decide to put your foot down and say enough is enough... what do you fear will happen? |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by advanceDNA: 2:19pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Richy4:
Honestly, this your story sounds unbelievable...I can't just imagine this kind of thing happening..
Since you knew about the whole thing, it sounds like you were aiding and abetting it for financial gains...
If you are really really upset about it, what do you think will happen if you decide to put your foot down and say enough is enough... what do you fear will happen? The guy has pímp trait in his blood?? Hes pimping out his wife for money...but he's in denial |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by iamezekwesiri: 2:31pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
you kid me not poster...
RED PILLERS finish him!!! 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by jimmychang: 3:28pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
You are the love-vendor or a cuck,she is the hoe. The difference is that you don looseguard. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Berezuski: 4:18pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Please permit me to call you "Mumu man".
Thank you! |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by IkeIgboNile(m): 6:28pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Please men try get money before you marry. Don't ever go into any marriage with the notion that things will get better along the way because in most cases,it never does.
For OP: divorce her if you can because it's obvious you're the only one in the marriage. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by azammi(m): 6:32pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
You don’t believe doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened already . Open your eyes . olaitonto:
Honestly I wish I can define cheat at this point of my life, I just can't blv they had sex already
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| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Uyoukowise: 6:47pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
A WOMAN BEST LOVE LETTERS ARE ALWAYS WRITTEN TO THE MAN SHE IS BETRAYING,BE PREPARED FOR BETRAYAL. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Durabest: 6:55pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Oga go and sit inside guta,u no get talk.u wan use ur woman dey run scam business u get luck sey no be me dey run things with her,i for Bleep her till she deny ever knowing you. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Emma2Seconds: 7:26pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Young Man Which Game Are You Talking About  |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Carcholce: 7:38pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
advanceDNA:
U mean you trusted her to be go out with other men?? I dont get...i can never get it...
I never knew there's this kind of simping level
Nigaa open your eyes..your wife is taking advantage of your love, trust and gentleness..she has zero respect for you...shes cheating on you but hiding it with zero effort...this manipulation is horrible man..
This is why some guys have been shouting redpill on nairaland and women think men here hate them..... The OP needs to do an AdvancedDNA for his kids, even if they turn out to be his, he should do another test and another one and another one. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Na wa |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by advanceDNA: 9:28pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Carcholce:
The OP needs to do an AdvancedDNA for his kids, even if they turn out to be his, he should do another test and another one and another one. You like violence |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by kapelvej: 9:46pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!
I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year! you are good man. Abi that is what you want hear ? I thought I was even a poor manager of marriage. Bro you are even worse |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by kapelvej: 9:47pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Zaheertyler:
Egbon wetin Dey sup? na real wetin dey sup. The thing tire person |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Fakbrown: 9:55pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
I no even believe the story |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by falcon01: 10:13pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind! Bruh, you bleeped up!. At this point, tell her to call it off. And if you can't or she doesn't, she doesn't respect you or value you. And you sir is a joke of a man. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by pansophist(m): 12:56am On Jun 04, 2022 |
You are a weak man, and weakness is not virtuous, weakness is weakness. A chicken is not virtuous, it can only be eaten against its wish, but a Tiger is virtuous, hence no one dares to mess with it. Be like a martial artist, that you are capable of destroying the whole damn place but chose not to unless your red line is crossed. Most importantly, you should live your life in a way that it is clear to everyone that being good is not the only method you use to relate with them, but you can be cruel as well. It is called having a backbone.
It is a natural law. The scientist calls it ''cause and effect'', the metaphysical calls it karma, Christians call it heaven and hell, or as Psquare colloquially puts it, ''do me I do you''. She is doing you, and you can't do anything, so why will she stop? you are easy, like a chicken, you will be eaten against your wish and all you do is shout and beg, and ask for help, instead of transform into a tiger and destroy the whole damn place.
The fact your wife could do this, and you come online to ask questions already gave me a clear impression about your kind of man, and the strength and extent of your backbone. There are men that will never suffer this kind of humiliation because their woman would have already sized him up and knew for sure that the marriage is over if she try such nonsense. My advice would be to find your strength, and it is by being financially independent.
Virtue is proven during times of hardship, not abundance. Any idiot can say "I do'' when money is in abundance, but in the absence of it, you get to know who you truly married. The lack of finance has already exposed who your wife is to you, so instead of thinking she will change back to being good, you may just thank your God that he has used this period of hardship to reveal the character of whom you married. I won't tell you what to do, because I will be too radical, but just realise you do not have a wive. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Mystery9(m): 1:15am On Jun 04, 2022 |
What foolishness. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by frozen70(f): 1:29am On Jun 04, 2022 |
olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!
I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year! Only her knows the reason she is playing the game and she doesn't want to tell you the reason How are we even sure those tow kids are yours What kind of money does she need thst will make her play game to get the connection You actually gave her freedom so early and am not sure how far she has gone with this man Just get her pregnant if you can let's see how she will be free to match her game You guys are not poor but if she needs money, both of you can plan on how to source for the money Some women matter tire me |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by SavageBoy: 2:42am On Jun 04, 2022 |
pansophist:
You are a weak man, and weakness is not virtuous, weakness is weakness. A chicken is not virtuous, it can only be eaten against its wish, but a Tiger is virtuous, hence no one dares to mess with it. Be like a martial artist, that you are capable of destroying the whole damn place but chose not to unless your red line is crossed. Most importantly, you should live your life in a way that it is clear to everyone that being good is not the only method you use to relate with them, but you can be cruel as well. It is called having a backbone.
It is a natural law. The scientist calls it ''cause and effect'', the metaphysical calls it karma, Christians call it heaven and hell, or as Psquare colloquially puts it, ''do me I do you''. She is doing you, and you can't do anything, so why will she stop? you are easy, like a chicken, you will be eaten against your wish and all you do is shout and beg, and ask for help, instead of transform into a tiger and destroy the whole damn place.
The fact your wife could do this, and you come online to ask questions already gave me a clear impression about your kind of man, and the strength and extent of your backbone. There are men that will never suffer this kind of humiliation because their woman would have already sized him up and knew for sure that the marriage is over if she try such nonsense. My advice would be to find your strength, and it is by being financially independent.
Virtue is proven during times of hardship, not abundance. Any idiot can say "I do'' when money is in abundance, but in the absence of it, you get to know who you truly married. The lack of finance has already exposed who your wife is to you, so instead of thinking she will change back to being good, you may just thank your God that he has used this period of hardship to reveal the character of whom you married. I won't tell you what to do, because I will be too radical, but just realise you do not have a wive. @op think about this |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Cheasystickylov: 3:26am On Jun 04, 2022 |
pansophist:
You are a weak man, and weakness is not virtuous, weakness is weakness. A chicken is not virtuous, it can only be eaten against its wish, but a Tiger is virtuous, hence no one dares to mess with it. Be like a martial artist, that you are capable of destroying the whole damn place but chose not to unless your red line is crossed. Most importantly, you should live your life in a way that it is clear to everyone that being good is not the only method you use to relate with them, but you can be cruel as well. It is called having a backbone.
It is a natural law. The scientist calls it ''cause and effect'', the metaphysical calls it karma, Christians call it heaven and hell, or as Psquare colloquially puts it, ''do me I do you''. She is doing you, and you can't do anything, so why will she stop? you are easy, like a chicken, you will be eaten against your wish and all you do is shout and beg, and ask for help, instead of transform into a tiger and destroy the whole damn place.
The fact your wife could do this, and you come online to ask questions already gave me a clear impression about your kind of man, and the strength and extent of your backbone. There are men that will never suffer this kind of humiliation because their woman would have already sized him up and knew for sure that the marriage is over if she try such nonsense. My advice would be to find your strength, and it is by being financially independent.
Virtue is proven during times of hardship, not abundance. Any idiot can say "I do'' when money is in abundance, but in the absence of it, you get to know who you truly married. The lack of finance has already exposed who your wife is to you, so instead of thinking she will change back to being good, you may just thank your God that he has used this period of hardship to reveal the character of whom you married. I won't tell you what to do, because I will be too radical, but just realise you do not have a wive. Abeg na man you be. Please I have sent you an email request thanks |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by sunnymighty(m): 3:50am On Jun 04, 2022 |
olaitonto:
But she claim its just a game and if I don't trust her she may be forced to delve in
Is this a threat from your wife or what did I just read? 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by ruggedtimi(m): 4:22am On Jun 04, 2022 |
I just confirm say a man can actually be a "simp" |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by pansophist(m): 11:40am On Jun 04, 2022 |
Cheasystickylov:
Abeg na man you be. Please I have sent you an email request thanks Whats the point of email request when my email address is on my profile? |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by AjiBussu(m): 12:27pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Sometimes I wonder when grown ups say this like this. SMH |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Cheasystickylov: 3:33pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
pansophist:
Whats the point of email request when my email address is on my profile? i saw that and i sent you a mail already |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Commenting, so I can come & read later |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Octopusssy(f): 10:43pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
I thought I saw 'olatoto'. Phew!  |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Octopusssy(f): 10:44pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!
I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year! Stay there make dem run you street. Very soon, the man will 'la' your wife's legs and 'la' her 'toto'. |
| Re: I Feel Insecure In My Marriage by Mryacks: 10:56pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
olaitonto:
I feel insecure in my mind!
I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year! What did I just read? For God's sake what is going in this generation....kaii |
