Couple of days to the D-day, I noticed a change in her attitude . No more calls, and doesn't return my calls. Anytime she decides to pick up, she apologises and claim busy.
I was getting tired of her excuses, so I demanded for a meeting. We met and she was all acting cold. What's happening? She said nothing, that everything is fine.
After pushing harder, she said we need to end the relationship. I wasn't surprised, but why keep me in suspense all this time?
I took it in good faith, thanked her for the good times spent and wished her well. And she did same, then I took my leave . On my way back home that night, many thoughts crossed my mind. I thank God that night for sparing my life because I crossed a major ever busy junction without knowing, not until I saw myself on the other side of the road.
Got home around 10pm, and was trying to see if I could replay the miracle of crossing the road. But Couldn't remember anything. Everywhere was quiet now, so I told myself EVERYTHING IS OVER NOW
Sleep japa leave me that night. I was turning in all directions on the bed, but sleep is nowhere to be found. Finally, I started shading tears of pain till dawn(one of my worst d of my life) .
In the morning, I took my bath and left the house without eating original breakfast. My colleague noticed the change and asked if all is well. So I opened up to her. I got consoled and felt better at the same time.

I find lunch.


After eating lunch, I realized the sadness was greatly induced by hunger.

Couple of days later, her call came in asking how I was coping with the breakup. We got talking for some minutes before ending the call. The calls became regular and on one occasion she asked if I could come to their house. I was at their house two days later and saw her in a bad shape. She admitted the breakup got her so bad, even though she was the one that asked for it.
We had a long conversation and decided at the end to continue with the relationship. But it was never like before again. I couldn't love her back the way I used to. After like two years or so, we finally went our separate ways. NEVER REALLY GOT HEALED FROM THE INITIAL BREAKUP TILL DATE AND ALSO FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO LOVE AGAIN

chatinent:
I find lunch.


After eating lunch, I realized the sadness was greatly induced by hunger.

Very funny

I believe I am a strong man and breakfast can't penetrate my heart. Right from secondary School if girls break up with me, they will start accusing me of not loving them enough because I won't show any sign of heartbreak.

But as I grew up a little, between Cynthia and Kadija, I don't know which one of them really terrorize my heart because while Cynthia was a bandit, Kadija was unknown gunmen. But it's all in the past now.

took me like 3 months to get over mine.
since then i no de ever try carry my heart give woman again.

Many Nigerian girls have nothing to offer besides sex.
Their lack of purpose and value in my life renders their breakfast useless.

Mine was during my 300l exams, as usual she started yo act strange and then opened up that it was over, it was heard to take in because I had few minutes to go into the Hall and write my exam, it was an afternoon paper, I was just weak, most of the things I read left within a second, I had to put myself together wrote my paper that day, called her back but no she wouldn't take my calls nor call back, e pain me shaa, but after some months, we got talking, but then I just had to free her and move on

As for me, I haven't ever asked for a breakup. I just reduce my attention amd care. You get tired and then you ask for the breakup.
In other words, they're always breaking up with me.

Demigod22:
I believe I am a strong man and breakfast can't penetrate my heart. Right from secondary School if girls break up with me, they will start accusing me of not loving them enough because I won't show any sign of heartbreak.

But as I grew up a little, between Cynthia and Kadija, I don't know which one of them really terrorize my heart because while Cynthia was a bandit, Kadija was unknown gunmen. But it's all in the past now.

Hahahahahaha

Badfinga:
Couple of days later, her call came in asking how I was coping with the breakup. We got talking for some minutes before ending the call. The calls became regular and on one occasion she asked if I could come to their house. I was at their house two days later and saw her in a bad shape. She admitted the breakup got her so bad, even though she was the one that asked for it.
We had a long conversation and decided at the end to continue with the relationship. But it was never like before again. I couldn't love her back the way I used to. After like two years or so, we finally went our separate ways. NEVER REALLY GOT HEALED FROM THE INITIAL BREAKUP TILL DATE AND ALSO FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO LOVE AGAIN

I had similar experience. Since then almost 6 years now,I never tried dating. If I'm ready I will really go for the so called evening newspaper. Cos we are both evening newspaper.

chatinent:
I find lunch.


After eating lunch, I realized the sadness was greatly induced by hunger.

Mine was when I was in 200l he started acting strange, well, it distance relationship but we call everyday n video call... He started acting strange won't pick calls even if he picked he will tell me he his busy that he will call me back but he won't... I wasn't really bothered coz m not a call person also... He will be online won't chat me and me too I got ego but if I can't stand it i will then chat him up... I started getting tired sef... He was my friend b4 bf i didn't even like him when we started dating till later... I was like m i using myself to beg him then I send him msg that's over... I wasn't really pained just missed him for week n we moveee. Then later he said it was bcoz he wasn't confident in himself that he felt insecure

My broke up happened Feb this year, she called it quit after couples of week of her acting cold and weird. She said it on phone of which I wish her best of luck. 3minutes after she declared the breakup she called my phone I refuse to answered the call and in the second day she sent me a long narrative essay entailing the reason she had to call it quit blah blah blah.

She tried to keep a neutral conversation with me right after the breakup but I told her straight up I don't want that I need my space.

Since Feb I've never mistakenly call her once in spite she had call me twice but I never welcome her with my hostile response.

If you don't want me avoid me why trying to stay around after breakup, for what benefit?

I went extremely silent up till now, I deleted her on WhatsApp to avoid stalking and went in no contact with her.

anonymuz:
I had similar experience. Since then almost 6 years now,I never tried dating. If I'm ready I will really go for the so called evening newspaper. Cos we are both evening newspaper.

They are more mentally matured in dealing with relationships issues

Demigod22:
I believe I am a strong man and breakfast can't penetrate my heart. Right from secondary School if girls break up with me, they will start accusing me of not loving them enough because I won't show any sign of heartbreak.

But as I grew up a little, between Cynthia and Kadija, I don't know which one of them really terrorize my heart because while Cynthia was a bandit, Kadija was unknown gunmen. But it's all in the past now.

When you are truly in love, you will lose guard without knowing. Then the unthinkable will happen.

bukky1994:
Mine was during my 300l exams, as usual she started yo act strange and then opened up that it was over, it was heard to take in because I had few minutes to go into the Hall and write my exam, it was an afternoon paper, I was just weak, most of the things I read left within a second, I had to put myself together wrote my paper that day, called her back but no she wouldn't take my calls nor call back, e pain me shaa, but after some months, we got talking, but then I just had to free her and move on

She no try sha. She should have allowed you to finish the paper first

Sukkyy2010:
My broke up happened Feb this year, she called it quit after couples of week of her acting cold and weird. She said it on phone of which I wish her best of luck. 3minutes after she declared the breakup she called my phone I refuse to answered the call and in the second day she sent me a long narrative essay entailing the reason she had to call it quit blah blah blah.

She tried to keep a neutral conversation with me right after the breakup but I told her straight up I don't want that I need my space. Space is very important for proper healing.

Since Feb I've never mistakenly call her once in spite she had call me twice but I never welcome her with my hostile response.

If you don't want me avoid me why trying to stay around after breakup, for what benefit?

I went extremely silent up till now, I deleted her on WhatsApp to avoid stalking and went in no contact with her.

Space is very important for proper healing after breakup

Yoruba people will say " Te shi ma daninu, a ma n tun gun ni"

No too feel bad Op... Life continua

Dorwadora:
Yoruba people will say " Te shi ma daninu, a ma n tun gun ni"

No too feel bad Op... Life continua

Yeah

Sukkyy2010:
My broke up happened Feb this year, she called it quit after couples of week of her acting cold and weird. She said it on phone of which I wish her best of luck. 3minutes after she declared the breakup she called my phone I refuse to answered the call and in the second day she sent me a long narrative essay entailing the reason she had to call it quit blah blah blah.

She tried to keep a neutral conversation with me right after the breakup but I told her straight up I don't want that I need my space.

Since Feb I've never mistakenly call her once in spite she had call me twice but I never welcome her with my hostile response.

If you don't want me avoid me why trying to stay around after breakup, for what benefit?

I went extremely silent up till now, I deleted her on WhatsApp to avoid stalking and went in no contact with her.

nice one ,more men should learn from you, the moment you break up, that girl shouldn't exist to you anymore

Lets read more now... how long did it take you to finish your breakfast after it was served? Did you eat it hurriedly and moved on or it too you weeks, months or years to finish it.

Sukkyy2010:
My broke up happened Feb this year, she called it quit after couples of week of her acting cold and weird. She said it on phone of which I wish her best of luck. 3minutes after she declared the breakup she called my phone I refuse to answered the call and in the second day she sent me a long narrative essay entailing the reason she had to call it quit blah blah blah.

She tried to keep a neutral conversation with me right after the breakup but I told her straight up I don't want that I need my space.

Since Feb I've never mistakenly call her once in spite she had call me twice but I never welcome her with my hostile response.

If you don't want me avoid me why trying to stay around after breakup, for what benefit?

I went extremely silent up till now, I deleted her on WhatsApp to avoid stalking and went in no contact with her.

Most of situations like , is when you gave so much for the relationship and you got ralatively nothing and the person is trying to have a soft landing.
One guy did me like that too trying to be friends with me and it ended up in disaster from my own end.
Now I don't even communicate with exes sef

Last last
E done cast
Na everybody go chop breakfast
Shayooooooooo!!!! Egboooooo!!!

It's exactly 1 year today....

Badfinga:
She no try sha. She should have allowed you to finish the paper first

you know say if woman wan Bleep u up, she no go reason both sides

Mine is an epistle i really don't wana share it.... But am glad the redpill put me on the right path....

Dorwadora:
Yoruba people will say " Te shi ma daninu, a ma n tun gun ni"

No too feel bad Op... Life continua

You suppose translate the Yoruba to English na.

Medianna:

Most of situations like , is when you gave so much for the relationship and you got ralatively nothing and the person is trying to have a soft landing.
One guy did me like that too trying to be friends with me and it ended up in disaster from my own end.
Now I don't even communicate with exes sef

That's just it, don't keep contact with ex avoid ex like a plague.

Perfectbeing:
You suppose translate the Yoruba to English na.

I’m not Good at this
But here is it



When you fall off a horse, you get up and climb it’s back again

Sukkyy2010:
My broke up happened Feb this year, she called it quit after couples of week of her acting cold and weird. She said it on phone of which I wish her best of luck. 3minutes after she declared the breakup she called my phone I refuse to answered the call and in the second day she sent me a long narrative essay entailing the reason she had to call it quit blah blah blah.

She tried to keep a neutral conversation with me right after the breakup but I told her straight up I don't want that I need my space.

Since Feb I've never mistakenly call her once in spite she had call me twice but I never welcome her with my hostile response.

If you don't want me avoid me why trying to stay around after breakup, for what benefit?

I went extremely silent up till now, I deleted her on WhatsApp to avoid stalking and went in no contact with her.

Na man you be

Badfinga:
When you are truly in love, you will lose guard without knowing. Then the unthinkable will happen.

You are very correct,love makes one vulnerable.