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Kaiair:
Chai! watabombshell

So wetin come happen?? Abi zelensky deport you?

If laughter kill me , make somebody arrest this dude

angelfallz:
Wow

My ex before we met she was a terrible cook, but becos she wanted to do everything to keep me, she took a one month culinary course on nigerian dishes, when I began eating her food I suddenly lost interest in restaurants

zimdante:
If laughter kill me , make somebody arrest this dude

Hehehehe

LILTJAY:
when chinese become white?

are they black?

pansophist:
Yes. One of the most beautiful women on earth in my book (after black women of course). South America has the most mixture of slave. For example Brazil has every single shade of human being as their citizens. So no matter how you look, you can be Brazilian. It's the most multi racial country on the planet. With every shades of beauty thereis.

Brazilian women are the best of both worlds(black+white) due to interracial mixture.
But their major problem is poverty so many of their women are into prostitution

pansophist:
Confirm, that someone has validated my point. As for me, I am the first black person a lot of white people have seen because I have traveled far and deep into the hinterlands of Europe. Not only kids, but even old people that haven't seen a black person before, but I was also their first. If you want the experience to last, then try speaking the language. This might sound surprising, but I consider them more hospitable that the west. The slavs are my favorite Europeans, and if I will ever live in Europe permanently, it will probably be a Slavic country.

I speak a bit of Polish, and I cant imagine the joy in the eyes of lots of old people when they speak to a black person they have never seen before in their native language. I cant count how many homes and parties I have visited, and how many drinks I have been given for free, just because they could connect with me deep in their native tongue. Russia was the best for me. That big ass country spanning three continents, that will fit in the whole 29 EU countries x3 with space left, has so many regions that everyday will be an adventure. I have tried speaking Russian through my knowledge of Polish to a KAzakh woman, and just cant help it and was so happy. Mehn, experiences are wonderful.

chief, pls tell me you have a diary here on nairaland?

emmaodet:
Well, my experience with Slavs is not a good or memorable one. They are the biggest modafvcking racist have ever met.
70% of my workplace mates or boss are slavs and they treat us africans as shits. Tbh, i don't like them 1 dime except polish and croatians.

they like to bully.

pansophist:
The people from a particular group you meet abroad are not a good representation of the ones back home. In the UK for example, the Polish and slavs generally are disliked there, because it seems like the shittiest one goes abroad due to lack of opportunities back home. So you may have to live in their country to have an organic experience.

you might be right.

YourFavorite21:
are they black?

they are not white

JayReeMai:
chief, pls tell me you have a diary here on nairaland?

Should I?

angelfallz:
Well said. Honestly, the heroics of the then Soviet Union during World War 2 has been downplayed significantly. The way WW2 is being narrated these days, you would think the US defeated Germany, when in fact it was the Soviet Union.

It's all part of the game. Lies, propaganda, brainwashing, indoctrination, misrepresentation, all just to sustain the Anglo empire that have impoverish the world.

That's why Putin called them "empire of lies". You'll never get any single truth from western sources. No matter how much they lie and cover up the truth, the evidence is in the flag below when soviet soldiers was waving their flag right in Berlin after defeating the nazist, and seizing Berlin.

Maxxim:
But sir if the ladies in these countries you mentioned are really that good why do most Naija guys still come to marry ladies here, seeing how most girls here don turn fish bone

Lots of reasons. People usually want to marry those from similar cultures. Even in the west, interacial marriage is the minority. Most black Americans are married to other black people.

Another one is lack of adaptability. Few naija men can stand a woman that will demand equal household responsibilities from them. So you'll sweep, clean, push the trollies and be domesticated. These women will not be traditional as he may expect, and will order pizza for your parents when they comes to visit.

You won't be able to pass your culture to the kids, and most will grow to dissociate themselves with Africa, so when you're old, it's bye bye dad. Go to Africa if you can't stay back, but don't expect anyone to give you African style treatment of cuddling aged people. Lots of reasons. But you get the point.

You don't mean it! And she is white?

Kaiair:
My ex before we met she was a terrible cook, but becos she wanted to do everything to keep me, she took a one month culinary course on nigerian dishes, when I began eating her food I suddenly lost interest in restaurants

pansophist:
Should I?

If you do, people would stay glued to your thread. You write so well you i was living the experience with you

ChizzyBuna:
Her line switched off since war started

Awwww! So sorry for you. I just hope she's alive and well and you both reconnect. You seem to like her. Putin truly is an A**hole!

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angelfallz:
You don't mean it! And she is white?

Yh, swedish

pansophist:
Lots of reasons. People usually want to marry those from similar cultures. Even in the west, interacial marriage is the minority. Most black Americans are married to other black people.

Another one is lack of adaptability. Few naija men can stand a woman that will demand equal household responsibilities from them. So you'll sweep, clean, push the trollies and be domesticated. These women will not be traditional as he may expect, and will order pizza for your parents when they comes to visit.

You won't be able to pass your culture to the kids, and most will grow to dissociate themselves with Africa, so when you're old, it's bye bye dad. Go to Africa if you can't stay back, but don't expect anyone to give you African style treatment of cuddling aged people. Lots of reasons. But you get the point.

You're right. All these Black American acts like Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Taye Diggs, Eddie Murphy, Samuel L. Jackson are married to blacks like themselves. It got me wondering that racism really never got away. It's easier though when you are married to someone you are most comfortable with.

And talking about you having a diary, yes, you should.

ChizzyBuna:
Dated a ukrainian girl for 2 years

1. Their pussy gets WET easily
2. If they love you, They fit die for you
3. They know how to knack well well
4. They love to show off their black boyfriend
5. She will take her time and buy you precious or expensive gifts on your birthday
6. They love outdoor adventure, hiking..etc
7. They take time to look Good and Clean
8. Looking into her blue sexy eyes go make you fall in a trance.They are sooo beautiful
9. Their love be like fairytale in real life

I miss you Natasha

This one don experience heaven on earth sha

E pain me alot, that so many comrade will not experience the pure, innocent and majestic love of a woman. Where she treats you with nothing but care like her child. The kind of love that elevates you, makes you feel free, and validate your being.

To be seen in your true essence, no need to wear a mask, and you can be yourself in her presence and its okay. To be valued for things that are intrinsic to you such as your humour, intellect, mind and soul, and not extrinsic such as your wallet, social status, job or if you just came from abroad.

If you ever find such love, never let it go. It's hardly comes around, and if it comes once, it might never come again. Shout out to all the wonderful ladies out there that loves for real.

placeofallure:
And talking about you having a diary, yes, you should.

Will you read it? What should I write about? Can you handle how direct, blunt and no forks given of my writing Style?

Be careful for what you ask. But I'm a good guy sha, just that I'll rather shut up than say what I don't mean, in the exact temperature that I feel it.

I guess that is my appeal on this forum. If you want pure fact brewed from my series of anecdotal, empirical and academic experience, go to pansophist. If you want comfortable lies, go to CNN

placeofallure:
You're right. All these Black American acts like Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Taye Diggs, Eddie Murphy, Samuel L. Jackson are married to blacks like themselves. It got me wondering that racism really never got away. It's easier though when you are married to someone you are most comfortable with.

There is racial tension in the west, but of course football, advertisements and media makes it seems like we now live a world where everyone is equal. It's a lie.

Black and white people live in a different reality, and as someone that have dated a white lady, there are things she will never understand no matter how you try. For example, living in a white man's land has made blacks to be conscious of themselves in a way whites are not.

For example, everytime I'm denied a job, an opportunity, a date, or landlord refuse to rent me a house, there is always that voice in my head that tells me it's because of my skin colour.

WEB du Bois, the afro-American sociologist termed it as "double consciousness". Every minorities feel it, but I've been asked by white people to explain it to them. It's like a fish that never experienced hot water, and no matter how you explain, the fish will never understand that the water it lives in, is also used to cook it, and it's his hell.

For example, I'm a European citizen, but even if the constitution considers me equal, there are some post I won't apply for, because I know the answer is no. For example contesting to be the prime minister.

Also, if you're a black man with a white lady, she better be freaking hot. Or else people will think you're with her for papers. And also that she is with you because you have a PhD (pretty huge deeek). Its more but I'll pause here.

pansophist:
Confirm, that someone has validated my point. As for me, I am the first black person a lot of white people have seen because I have traveled far and deep into the hinterlands of Europe. Not only kids, but even old people that haven't seen a black person before, but I was also their first. If you want the experience to last, then try speaking the language. This might sound surprising, but I consider them more hospitable that the west. The slavs are my favorite Europeans, and if I will ever live in Europe permanently, it will probably be a Slavic country.

I speak a bit of Polish, and I cant imagine the joy in the eyes of lots of old people when they speak to a black person they have never seen before in their native language. I cant count how many homes and parties I have visited, and how many drinks I have been given for free, just because they could connect with me deep in their native tongue. Russia was the best for me. That big ass country spanning three continents, that will fit in the whole 29 EU countries x3 with space left, has so many regions that everyday will be an adventure. I have tried speaking Russian through my knowledge of Polish to a KAzakh woman, and just cant help it and was so happy. Mehn, experiences are wonderful.

what about asians like the Chinese? Can they be called white?

pansophist:
Lots of reasons. People usually want to marry those from similar cultures. Even in the west, interacial marriage is the minority. Most black Americans are married to other black people.

Another one is lack of adaptability. Few naija men can stand a woman that will demand equal household responsibilities from them. So you'll sweep, clean, push the trollies and be domesticated. These women will not be traditional as he may expect, and will order pizza for your parents when they comes to visit.

You won't be able to pass your culture to the kids, and most will grow to dissociate themselves with Africa, so when you're old, it's bye bye dad. Go to Africa if you can't stay back, but don't expect anyone to give you African style treatment of cuddling aged people. Lots of reasons. But you get the point.

Based on these points If I am the one, I won't do that too.
I'm deeply rooted here.

pansophist:
There is racial tension in the west, but of course football, advertisements and media makes it seems like we now live a world where everyone is equal. It's a lie.

Black and white people live in a different reality, and as someone that have dated a white lady, there are things she will never understand no matter how you try. For example, living in a white man's land has made blacks to be conscious of themselves in a way whites are not.

For example, everytime I'm denied a job, an opportunity, a date, or landlord refuse to rent me a house, there is always that voice in my head that tells me it's because of my skin colour.

WEB du Bois, the afro-American sociologist termed it as "double consciousness". Every minorities feel it, but I've been asked by white people to explain it to them. It's like a fish that never experienced hot water, and no matter how you explain, the fish will never understand that the water it lives in, is also used to cook it, and it's his hell.

For example, I'm a European citizen, but even if the constitution considers me equal, there are some post I won't apply for, because I know the answer is no. For example contesting to be the prime minister.

Also, if you're a black man with a white lady, she better be freaking hot. Or else people will think you're with her for papers. And also that she is with you for the PhD (pretty huge deeek). Its more but I'll pause here.

I got it 100%

Lol @ PhD

pansophist:
Will you read it? What should I write about? Can you handle how direct, blunt and no forks given of my writing Style?

Be careful for what you ask. But I'm a good guy sha, just that I'll rather shut up than say what I don't mean, in the exact temperature that I feel it.

I guess that is my appeal on this forum. If you want pure fact brewed from my series of anecdotal, empirical and academic experience, go to pansophist. If you want comfortable lies, go to CNN

I'm a literature enthusiast, I've read and written all sorts too. Talk of Theatre of the Absurd!

pansophist:
There is racial tension in the west, but of course football, advertisements and media makes it seems like we now live a world where everyone is equal. It's a lie.

Black and white people live in a different reality, and as someone that have dated a white lady, there are things she will never understand no matter how you try. For example, living in a white man's land has made blacks to be conscious of themselves in a way whites are not.

For example, everytime I'm denied a job, an opportunity, a date, or landlord refuse to rent me a house, there is always that voice in my head that tells me it's because of my skin colour.

WEB du Bois, the afro-American sociologist termed it as "double consciousness". Every minorities feel it, but I've been asked by white people to explain it to them. It's like a fish that never experienced hot water, and no matter how you explain, the fish will never understand that the water it lives in, is also used to cook it, and it's his hell.

For example, I'm a European citizen, but even if the constitution considers me equal, there are some post I won't apply for, because I know the answer is no. For example contesting to be the prime minister.

Also, if you're a black man with a white lady, she better be freaking hot. Or else people will think you're with her for papers. And also that she is with you because you have a PhD (pretty huge deeek). Its more but I'll pause here.

That's a pretty valid point. Those who feel the racial tension knows it exists. Those who don't can never imagine it. I always thought it was enough to just give a 100% each time and you'll get what you want. However, it's just impossible to deny that there is systemic racism, whereby one's color just immediately creates ideas in other people's heads that shouldn't be there. Sometimes I feel like it's their past experiences that have conditioned them to draw immediate conclusions from the color white people see. Perhaps, they have once been assaulted by a black person? Even Liam Neeson couldn't hide his own bias informed by an attack on a female friend by a black person. Nevertheless, an argument can be made that this goes both ways. Black folks also inform some of their interactions with white people squarely based on the color they see. It's unfortunate what the world has come to where color becomes a strongly dividing line. I have a theory which I think will resolve the color problem the world faces. I think increasingly interracial marriages could eventually make the world one color over several centuries so that color never becomes a defining feature anymore.

Harrykn:
All the whites I’ve dated online are crazy, honest and worth the stress searching. I easily get tired of too much messaging, calls and checks, maybe because I’m a Nigerian and Nigerian girls has shown me shege before upgrading.
Don’t ask me how i got them, go and buy Facebook dating. It’s 50k below, you use it for scams nah your business. You use it legit, na still your business but note that there are so many benefits attached.

Urgent 2k is not worth the stress, At all!
I still have 4 left, you need number and email? Tarrrrr... Allahu Akbar

Send me one to be my female friend...

Kaiair:
Chai! watabombshell

So wetin come happen?? Abi zelensky deport you?

Mine was a virgin she wan kill me with BJ my dick wan peel. Never knew I could get sick of getting head.

pansophist:
Should I?

Please do... I'm begging you in the name of God!!

In my experience, dating white girls hasn’t been about race as much as personality and shared values. The connections that worked best were built on communication, humor, and mutual respect. I once connected with someone through a cultural dating site while browsing profiles on Slavic Women, and what stood out most wasn’t her background but how open and family-oriented she was. Like in any relationship, understanding differences in upbringing or traditions can actually make things more interesting. I’ve learned that keeping an open mind and avoiding stereotypes makes a huge difference. Every person is unique, and meaningful relationships really come down to compatibility and emotional maturity.