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ibkayee:
This is common with the ones with fragile egos, and we know that's a good portion of them

I don't think they hate it per se, I think they just prefer it to be regulated in a way that doesn't threaten them

LordKO:
No. However, demeanor of a narcissistic person, or demeanor people who have other personality disorders exhibits, shouldn't be mistaken for demeanor of a person with self-esteem (healthy self-esteem). Narcissism breeds illusory high self-esteem, a variant of low self-esteem, and demeanor of someone in this regard is at best self-arrogated high-esteem, it is always toxic - an uninformed/insane person can easily mistake such demeanor for that of a person with healthy self-esteem, but the difference is always clear to informed/sane people.

A self-arrogated high-esteem person usually justifies his/her illusory high self-esteem by exhibiting imperiousness, while propagating selfishness and subjugation of the opposite gender and meting out same against the ones he/she can - of course, toxicity and hypocrisy are their major hallmark. 

Meanwhile, self-esteem (healthy self-esteem) as an end product of dignity is earned when dignity is maintained and protected - to maintain and protect dignity, one must conquer egoism and egotism. Conscientiousness is the hallmark of someone with a healthy self-esteem - it is never toxic.

All wannabe alpha males and wannabe feminists - proclaimed or not - possess self-arrogated high-esteem, you know them through their hypocritical and toxic demeanor.

LordKO:
All wannabe alpha males and wannabe feminists - proclaimed or not - possess self-arrogated high-esteem, you know them through their hypocritical and toxic demeanor.

vandp:
I do not believe that everyone who thinks differently has high self-esteem.

pocohantas:
When I said this dude runs the OP’s account and vandp, I know what I was saying.

Create a topic with one, rush in to comment on the first page.

RightToReject:
Whenever you miss him to the point that you can't control the urge again, you find a flimsy excuse to draw his attention; anyway, anything in principle for the queen. He won't be surprised, however, if you wake-up one day and appropriate every moniker on nairaland to him - that's about someone living rent-free in your quasi-tiny head, Lol.

Well, just keep up with the step-by-step good transformation, you might . . . . very soon.

pocohantas:
I can see you logged into your female account. It is good you are not attacking anyone with it today. I am watching…

Have a nice day Vandp/Zmpp.

RightToReject:
Lol. So, he's also behind the "EmpressEnnie" moniker.

pocohantas:
I can see you logged into your female account. It is good you are not attacking anyone with it today. I am watching…

Have a nice day Vandp/Zmpp.

Ishilove:
I told zmpp to come to and say bullshit with his original moniker but the coward slithered away like a worm

RightToReject:
Lol. So, he's also behind the "EmpressEnnie" moniker.

pocohantas:
No need for deflections, vandp.

EmpressEnnie:
Ah please o. Nobody is behind me o. I'm just me abeg. I'm a student edakun

EmpressEnnie:
Pocohantas abeg o�. I'm just an innocent nairalander. Don't take me for someone else. You can go through my posts. I no dey like wahala abeg

RightToReject:
Don't mind her. Common a small heartbreak that was not even a result of an orchestration, she has failed to overcome it in good faith for more than two years, Lol. Her way of seeking closure since other means have failed is appropriating almost every moniker on Nairaland to him, especially any female moniker viewing or commenting at the same time he made a comment and campaign of calumny against him.

RightToReject:
Don't mind her. Common a small heartbreak that was not even a result of an orchestration, she has failed to overcome it in good faith for more than two years, Lol. Her way of seeking closure since other means have failed is appropriating almost every moniker on Nairaland to him, especially any female moniker viewing or commenting at the same time he made a comment and campaign of calumny against him.

RightToReject:
Dem go de pose! Well, he understands the pain she and some others alike who have tried everything possible to have him for a permanent keep but failed passes through; however, his hands are tied, so there is nothing he could do to make it possible for them. He can only continue praying that she in particular and them in general will see reasons to move on in good faith and stop harming themselves or hoping that he might later change his mind because he is not like the well-known polygamist King Solomon. Lol.

As he has always said, truth reigns supreme, do not bother to prove it, especially to small-minded people, because it is an exclusive preserve of conscientious people. More so, his attention is not meant to be given constantly to small-minded people.

pocohantas:
Oga shut up. I don’t know you from anywhere. I can never be yoked with a filthy and slimy being like you! No lady here is interested in you. Definitely not me, Pocohantas.

Wetin I dey use you do? If I get you, na to use you for sacrifice straight!

kayperry:
can you repeat that with ur real voice ... its for ur own good nobody takes you serious

cococandy:
Na only you date all the nairaland notable ladies. Come break their hearts join. How hot are you? Hot cake. Most eligible bachelor.

Please make it believable.

He's my Cinderella oooo. I chased him for two good years like masters degree unfortunately I couldn't have him.
No one on Nairaland has, none is befitting of his beauty in heaven and on earth !

Narcissus of our time!

kayperry:
can you repeat that with ur real voice ... its for ur own good nobody takes you serious

Nobody but you Oga Kay this your obsession strong o

Persephone1:
He's my Cinderella oooo. I chased him for two good years like masters degree unfortunately I couldn't have him.
No one on Nairaland has, none is befitting of his beauty in heaven and on earth !

Narcissus of our time!

Abi it is you?

Magnoliaa:
Abi it is you?

I am oblivious of whom thou speaketh

Magnoliaa:
Abi it is you?

Persephone1:
[i] He's my Cinderella oooo.

Persephone1:
I am oblivious of whom thou speaketh

Persephone1:
He's my Cinderella oooo. I chased him for two good years like masters degree unfortunately I couldn't have him.
No one on Nairaland has, none is befitting of his beauty in heaven and on earth !

Narcissus of our time!

RightToReject:
https://www.nairaland.com/5952750/covid-19-pandemic-family-man/1#91222464

With reference to the thread above

Ariza: (now Persephone1 aka Marialavina/Palema007)
Should I send mine too? I'm serious o

LordKO:
Send me your CV through this email, if truly you studied Computer Engineering; you can also include your Whatsapp number. Don't include this email if quoting this message because I'll remove it afterward.

Ariza:
"Seen. But I didn't study computer Engineering though." And she went ahead to send her email and Whatsapp number; when she did not get a response from him because he was not interested in allowing her to mingle with him outside here for any other reason, given that she has always professed her love for him and wished to have him to herself for about two years prior, she came back here and started antagonism against him, Lol.

Ordinary REJECTION, this one cannot handle, Lol. Anyway, I know that some of you are looking for a way to have a MOD ban this moniker.

By the way (on a general note), I still reserve exclusive reserve to whom I give attention and the duration to give when I do, Lol.

Ah! So I had chased you earlier for three years before you registered with LordKO. Lol here was i thinking i only did for two years, so in total i profess love and marriage to you for 5 years . Ahh enough time to be awarded a doctorate degree not Masters.

Oh beautiful Cinderella your beauty must have held me spell bound! What can I say, you ran out of the hall with your flowing ball gown leaving your shining shoe behind,I searched and searched, five years of my life for the feet that fits but only yours, beautiful damsel with balls, only yours fits well. Oh my Cinderella! Let not your shoe hang with me, lest I pass it on to Magnoliaa.

But shey you know say you don ment sha? Aside suffering from acute narcissism you now refer to yourself in third person, isn't that a sign of schizophrenia? .

You come here to type trash after your peace offering was rejected thrice offline, abi you want receipt? Lol you don't know me , when I told you to go your way i meant that and it's with all you can ever offer. Please stop pestering me with WhatsApp messages and annoymous job offers. I no want oooo. Certainly not from you!

cococandy:
is that where the title came from?

When I hear Cinderella I’m always wondering how and why?

Yes it is. I gave him the name surprising it stuck.

He's such a Cinderella