₦airaland Forum

Oturatetuala:
Guy you jst have to brace up and pray to God.
I lost my dad 22years ago, I went through hell to train my myself in secondary school and university, no helper but I had the best of all.

Don't be depressed atleast he still dey pay ur school fees.

I only see u as a weak man and not brave enough, stand up to challenges and defeat it.

You read he works all day and night and trues to provide things for even more than himself. What do you expect him to do? Kill himself?

Your type are people who try to set unreasonable standards that lead to unproductive live for young men. Very pathetic

This same mindset has kept a lot of so called strong men bottled up in what is called a nightmare and till date most of their issues is left unaddressed.

stanliwise:
You read he works all day and night and trues to provide things for even more than himself. What do you expect him to do? Kill himself?

Your type are people who try to set unreasonable standards that lead to unproductive live for young men. Very pathetic

This same mindset has kept a lot of so called strong men bottled up in what is called a nightmare and till date most of their issues is left unaddressed.

Who doesn't work day and night then, I was a bricklayer when I was struggling and I do feed my mom and still pay part of younger ones school fees, so he should now fall into depression because the father is giving him headache, oh boy pack well and let the boy understand how life goes.

ASUU strike no affect your school??

You are broke and going through stress of life and you still have the strength to be catering for a Nigerian girlfriend?


You never suffer enough!

EmiDon11:
Boogyman557, abeg borrow me ur old KALA

That Kala dey very precious to Boogeyman o, I doubt say him go borrow you.

Rickmann:
That Kala dey very precious to Boogeyman o, I doubt say him go borrow you.

na his old one i dey beg am o.
No be the new onne

Noted.

Lol

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

As a struggling student, you don't need a girl for now. Move away from negative environment

I'm not surprised, an average Niger Delta person is lazy, including yourself.

My room mate in school is an Ikwerre boy.
He was damn lazy, and he used mock his dad for being lazy, coz the dad doesn't work. The mum provides for the family.
The day his dad sent 1500 recharge card, he laughed his ass out.

In your situation, you can start by changing the narrative.
Keep that your girlfriend aside first, even if you must have a girlfriend, you shouldn't be bold to be parading her at home

You already carried a girl on your head ? You will spend time in trenches

Being a student before, I feel your pains, hold on, try to be more enterprising, try buying and selling too to get you by. I feel your pains, hold on, don't burden yourself with liabilities.

EmiDon11:
Boogyman557, abeg borrow me ur old KALA

WTF MAN!

What is nootropics?

Na your papa matter you carry come here so

Mumu First Son.

You have 4 younger siblings and you are bringing a woman home, you are going to be worse than your father, infact you seem cursed, bro you aren't supposed to have a girlfriend (liability).

I paid my entry school fees into the university and I am still paying it even though ASUU dae looseguard, I never had the luxury of my parents catering for my needs. When I see people like you whose parents pay their educational fees , I envy you guys.

A lazy father won't see you through the university, learn to appreciate him more and discharge that girlfriend of yours, abi your sense dae your leg wey you dae carry am match ground.

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

I see that you are lazier than your father - This I have seen!

You even bring girl come home, you come dey blame ur papa.
U know ur problem and solution and you are shouting.

See dis Manchi, u dey jonze?? Ur papa send u go school go bring woman come back him house? Better do well, make your future bright. Shior. Some people no get papa oo, dey dere dey zuzu.

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

I'm.facing something similar...but have decided to lockup ..u no longer care..see,u have your own life to leave, forget fist born shit,if u die today,life will go on for them .if God blesses me ,fine it's no big deal..but for now, I can't kill myself
.my own life and need is more important for now.

My brother calm down .... Don't bogg your mind over issues that will still pass ...
Tell him how much you intend giving him...
Tell him what you're going through in school ...
As for the girl I am sure you planned marrying her..
Don't go extramile of dissing your family because you want to please her because I know that's were you are likely going to end up ....

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I'm tired!!

Did I actually read well that you brought a girl home? Or was that a typo?
And do you mean your dad pays your school fees, up till your 300level?

Did I hear you say you brought a girl home?

The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home.

Your father is better than you...
In fact you ain't better than him.
With all these predicament, you still have the effrontery to bring a girl home?

As what exactly? Girlfriend, fiance abi na wife....

Smh

You get issues still carry Daughter of Eve join am
You never see problem at all

Don't give up bro, No matter what, he is still your father. The problem of your father is that he don't have any experience. Any money that comes through violence" Militancy" will definitely go through violence

You are settling girl, u can settle ur course... Once he's paying for ur school fees do the others ur self na

You are a bastard for bringing your father issues here. Omo to ni Baba Ohun oola ti no Baba Ohun ko lowo loowo enu lo waa yeh... my father only send all of us to only secondary school my sister graduated from Unnad nah house help she do until she graduated. I sell popcorn to send myself to polytechnic... You can’t feed yourself you deh carry girl you are not even shamed of yourself. I have seen a lot of people that’s they do have any parent they send there self to school from secondary to university you come here talking trash odee

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

A lot of them (Ijaws) that received amnesty are lazy and languishing especially in Abuja, from living in state houses seized from the late Bayelsea state governor.

With their entitlement mentality, they do nothing other than sleep, smoke, drink and make more children.

The ones that would work, will only go to about asking money from any rich persons from their state.

It's an appalling situation I must say.

To you too, you're not far from leading same life if you at 300L have a girlfriend instead of being focused to alleviate yourself from poverty.

You are not a serious type either instead of you to face your studies and hustle well you are bringing a lady home.

My advice to you:
1. Appreciate your Dad
2. You don't don't need girl friend now
3. Think on handiwork you can learn which will pave way for you after graduation.
4. Stay clear from what will take you back.

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

You never stable, you still carry another person join body. You are the source of your own problem