She only came for holidays, not as she stays over here with me. Moreover, this is not the first time of her coming to my place. My parents are aware of her.
if u r old enough to bring a girl home then stop disturbing your dad
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
instead of you looking for ways out of this you are blaming a man that has written his own story already, keep Blaming him because you want someone to blame for your own issues, Na so you go watch your life waste away and end up like him..... Pick yourself up and get out of that situation.. It is okay to tell him no, you do not give people until you have nothing left to give, that is a foolish giver
Focus your earnings EXCLUSIVELY on your schooling first.Your siblings will fend for themselves when the time comes like you did. Stop giving your father any money for now beyond what is left over after you have saved the majority of your earnings.He is merely a drag on your finances and more importantly mental wellbeing.But do not let resentment for him overwhelm you.Regardless of the present,he did his best for you and you must acknowledge it.
Keep speaking up along with the advise to take your education seriously. You are not responsible at 300L for your father and siblings and girlfriend. Live your youth first before being a man.
Buy a female and male Pig and start raising them at the back of your house give them whatever is left over from the Vegetable and Fruit stores in the market or Cassava Peels to eat they multiply fast God Almighty gave you 2 hands for a reason Use them
The mumu OP carefully neglected to tell us how much he is giving this girl in exchange for her honey pot. It is the one he is giving his father who is even helping with his fees that he is complaining about.
You even brought a girl home with out even having any reqard to your father as else militant, underminding that he has failed, you are a through son of your father for bringing a girl home, that really show how you are trading on your father part, you don't even have any ragard on your father, he has tried for sending you to university level. you think live is easy right?
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
You sef why you go carry woman join body? Suffer no dey taya you?
My point is.. at 300L you have a GF of 2 years whom you have been bringing home for a while now and your parents are allowing that? Coupled with your brokeness and boiling depression and the state of your house, bringing a girl home should not be in your books. If you impregnated that girl, na suffering pro max. You're accusing your father of being a failure and you're towing his path? No be juju be that? You think there wasn't a time your father hustled like you? Na by hustling?
Little things matter. A student, poor and depressed for that matter, having the audacity to bring a girl home is the big turn off for me. Like, you wan marry the girl like this? In this your condition? You no like yourself obviously.
Whatever that sails your boat. I'm gone
Bros Bros, I didn't know you're such an adviser. Wow I still remember our days at Gpay.... Miss u guys alot
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
Lol… You still get papa wey still dey train you for school and on top that one you carry LT come house and you still dey rant for here. Even if you help your father with the little you manage to make, is it enough reason to castigate him?? How much you dey carry come sef compared to how much he don spend on top your school fees?? Entitlement mentality fa!
Op, you're not even ashamed of yourself by bringing a lady to your father's house, while still at just 300 level student. You're recieving a grant to see you through school, but what matters most to you is nyash and name calling on a father that gave birth to you. You're the one that should be ashamed of your stu..pid life.
Your father demanding money from you is 'cus you came back from school with a lady.
That, to a sane person, is that you've money to throw arround, hence his request. Person wey dem carry 4 back no dey find person wey him go carry.
300l, broke and feeling depressed? And you're already bringing girl home?
I see you being like your father if you don't advice yourself
See the way you're addressing your father. Even if he failed, can't you take solace and continue? There are a lot of guys training themselves in school. A lot. You even have someone training you in school and you're here ranting
I won't reply you of course. Bye
Don't be deceive by those ones telling you they train themselves through the university.There is someone paying most of their school fees.They can't pay everything.Which work are they doing?Except you are talking of part time student.But a full time,Nah!
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
I can only tell you to be strong, what you are passing today could be the thing to make your breakthrough come at last. Pls don't give up.
Revolution2022: Don't be deceive by those ones telling you they train themselves through the university.There is someone paying most of their school fees.They can't pay everything.Which work are they doing?Except you are talking of part time student.But a full time,Nah!
What you don't know is bigger than you. My cousin brother trained himself in school. Like, everything about fees, he paid it from the proceeds from his mason work.
His parents were peasants. They only provided foodstuffs when it's available
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!!
Why are giving him money to smoke? You are contributing to his laziness You have no right to give him money until you graduate and started working. Concentrate on your siblings for now
What you don't know is bigger than you. My cousin brother trained himself in school. Like, everything about fees, he paid it from the proceeds from his mason work.
His parents were peasants. They only provided foodstuffs when it's available
A full time students won't have that time.How him won take concentrate for class?Na so-so sleep he go dey sleep during lectures.A part time student only attends classes on weekends.Leave that talk.I no believe you no matter how you explain.
You have all this financial problem and you still have libido to take a girl home. Since are grown enough to take a woman to your fathers house, why cant you feed ur father? You are not different from ur dad bro. Niger delta has a bunch of lazy and non ambitious men, always thinking of women, Ogogoro and smoke.
LMAO! You never chop beleful. You don adopt another mouth to feed. And you are frustrated that your father is not caring for you and your dependent. Something is wrong with you! You have shown your father that you are now a man with standing prick, so he is asking you rightly to pay for things in the house and things he needs, as you and your dependent are in his house.
You better send that girl back to where you got her before she starts giving birth. You never see suffer yet till children start coming and you have no money to feed them. Na you go run. Focus on your education and survival in your father’s house for now and leave girl matter alone. If you cannot survive without the girl, then get your own place if e easy! You and the girl are extremely foolish and lazy.
boyfwend Yes your dad is lazy but how can you claim you have no money when you bring a girl home to stay with you? You must have surplus or else, you won't try that?
If your dad is lazy, it's probably because he has enjoyed easy money before as a militant and to now start working for a pittance under someone else is gross. And he earned generously despite not having much education.
Rather than focus on your dad, focus on yourself. Do your hardest to graduate. You have only one year. Once you graduate, you're basicly free.
Once you graduate, don't stay at home. Rent a place outside or squat with friends while you look for a job or start a business. You can start as an estate agent. You only need a black board or a banner.
Once you start making money and savings, don't be generous to your siblings until you stabilize firmly. Many successful first borns have credited that for their success. Your parents and siblings have an entitlement mentality that can crush anyone.
[quote author=boyfwend post=113995692]Sorry to bother y'all.
So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.
First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University. The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again. Let me clear y'all a lot about him.
Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children. He's a stay-at-home dad, lol! My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.
Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there. The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.
I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me. I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.
I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc. All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.
I'm tired!
School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school. Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.
Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.
I'm tired!
