Nigerian women don't know how to handle fame when they get small fame dey start to misbehave

Yes/no

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

this calls for a sober reflection

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

It is not true. As a man you must bring something to the table. Add value to your life. Something that your wife is lacking. Money is not only yardstick for success.

FORWARDEVERLY:



That your relation is wise..

VERY wise guy

Let me read comments

Women easily get moved by money...Then imagine when they have it in excess, arrogance sets in automatically .

Mostly true, if her motives of being with you was materialistic unless she truly loves you. Just had a friend go through this

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Not true. What is true is this:
When a woman is the one providing for the home fully or partially, the man should expect no regard.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Yes but not all

Sad but 95% true.

98.5% of them

Women and money
Money controls that specie

Money is their true god

ahnie:
Abegi
Men una get issues no be small.

It has been proven both biologically and scientifically that women have more issues than men. Men are the most straightforward creatures you can find. It is societal balance that is broken.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Your relative has crab mentality. I am sure you can count in single units how many people are doing well in his family....so much backwardness.

Anyways, financially independent women can't be easily manipulated by insecure lots.

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guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Not all

God knows its difficult for a woman to be submissive, that is why he commanded wives to be submissive to their husbands

God knows its difficult for a man to love his wife singly, that is why he commanded husbands to love their wives just as christ loved the church.

When you understand this, you'll find peace.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

True talk

Mark my words, never be at the mercy of any woman in terms of provision cos they gonna mess u uop and turn the world against you and if she is earning way higher, never ever allow her suit the bill cos neighbours gonna hear about all your little marriage secret. Make her feel her money isnt one bit of importance to u. By this way, u earn maximum respect.

Eddygourdo:
Women weren't created to give, but rather to receive. This is why when they have to give , they immediately start feeling resentful. Most men don't know where or on what their wives spend their salary on. When you realize this part about women , you will be more tolerable with them. That being said. A man must always work hard. Never relax simply because your wife is providing . Have your own shit you are doing to make a living. Women respect providers, no matter how small you are providing . But once you relax and she is providing , she must have resentment towards you. Women aren't grateful by nature, they don't understand logic as well. that you used to feed her or were nice to her , doesn't mean she will be nice to you. these are more reasons we laugh and men who carry women on their heads. Learn to love women , treat them rightly, understand their shortcomings, but don't carry them on your head. they will disappoint you.

You're wrong... society created this mindset not nature. Travel to South Africa and you will see that women give as much as men and there is no fuss about it, same as many european countries and even the Indians . It is just our culture and mentality we need to change. The only difference btw a man and woman is the sexual/physical aspect. If you raise a girl and a boy same way they will both give you same result.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

if a man makes enough money to take care of bills in the home front effortlessly, why would he want his wife to be answerable to another man because of meager sum that he can give his wife monthly.

Abi ori ntayin

Getting more money than your wife don't guarantee that she can't misbehave. Elonmusk is very capable financially, yet divorced three times. Likewise Okonjo Iweala is at the peak of her career, yet doesn't get ride of her husband. Let always pray to make right choice when we marry. No matter how rich your wife is than you, if she can submit, then you have no problem with the marriage.

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

its a bitter truth! Sometimes somewhere u gonna know the truth. But still women are differ

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

yours was even car but mine then was that she got admission before me, bros no be small thing oo a swear.

Madam Alakija(Happy Birth month to her) claims she still cooks for her husband , but she never invite me for dinner sha to verify that claim ..Anyway it depends on the man and woman too sha, but all I know where there is "true love" there would be no need for anyone disregarding each other but where there is "fake love" it is only a matter of time for true colors to show.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

The problem is u only her the failed ones. The successful ones are never heard.. Thing is change ur mentality as an african. An average african is very stupud and dumb. Change ur mentality. Question the logic of things then attain true freedom y

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Well, naturally money has pride and that applies to both men and women. Do you wonder why you behave differently when you have no money compared to when you have money. There is a confidence and arrogance that overrides your normal reasoning when you have money. Same happens to women.

However, it is not enough reason to stop your wife from working or earning more than you. You only have to find the best possible ways to manage her excesses and shortcomings.

However, if the disrespect, arrogance and pride becomes persistent and unbearable. Get help from marriage counselors, family or religious leaders; better still get a separation or divorce before you beat somebody.

It is not true. Men that do that are insecure and lack self esteem.

Don't know what to say but your relation should consider what happens if he looses his source of income or he's no more. Whether she works or not a woman that will not regard you will do so.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.