guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

'Generally' they (Women) have garnered that reputation.

But like everything, generalisation are largely wrong. But then there are reasons why reputations are important.

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

@bolded.
This is where the problem is and it's unfortunate you having the same thought.

What happens if it's the woman's destiny to be a multi-millionaire?, the man must break sweats to be a billionaire?.

To avoid this kind of situation men should hustle.
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Uzomacharles:
Happens more often especially here in Nigeria

Happens in every country on this planet and in every extraterrestrial civilization unless it has uniform gender. Emasculation is a choice

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

For women that don't have character and manners YES. Fear them.

IF u marry such a woman then na u sabi. This is why it is important to TEST ur relationships and even friendship cos men also behave badly once they have money or doing well.

Nairaland me are selfish

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

it depends on how you handle her.

Emperor88:


You're wrong... society created this mindset not nature. Travel to South Africa and you will see that women give as much as men and there is no fuss about it, same as many european countries and even the Indians . It is just our culture and mentality we need to change. The only difference btw a man and woman is the sexual/physical aspect. If you raise a girl and a boy same way they will both give you same result.

Yet in those same countries, men also complain of women feeling resentful when they give. How come going Dutch is a term if it is common place. Women are selfish lovers worldwide. The feminist movement is an example of that selfishness. They want the good part but not the bad part. That a woman spends on a man in other climes, doesn't imply she enjoys doing it. if a western woman has to be the breadwinner , while the man lazies about, she becomes the head of the home and will complain when the man slacks around. its what it is sir.

In all you do ensure you earn more that your wife so you can be in charge of the family , once the wife earn more than you the chance of losing the family is very very high. Women mostly respect and honour you for what you provide. Once you can’t provide anymore or she can provide more than you the respect diminish.

As true as that can be, I would certainly my wife to have as much more as legally possible.

Most women do not have regards for their husband one way of the other, and that's irrespective of the financial position.
If the man has more money but not strong (not bully plz) some wives would disregard such a man a million times over
If a man has more money but is impaired or weakened by ailment or age, some wives would go full throttle on disregard drive
If a man has more, is heathy, strong willed and all that, some wives would roughshod in disregarding the hapless husband.

Las las, the wan wey no go regard no go ever regard. She may lie low for a while but sooner than later the true color go show!

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

Well spoken like a "girl" child..

A question was asked..you had to unwittingly derail and Cascade rubbish..

Unless the man is a sex god......woman will not regard him again.


That gender that bleeds monthly...it's only viable prick that humbles them

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

Àwọn tí Iyabo ojo dede

Capital NO.

If you see a woman who has money and doesn't regard her husband, it is an individual thing. It should never be generalized. either way, the husband doesn't regard her too, so she is trying to retaliate.

I take on this this, some of you men are confused.
You want to marry a woman who can contribute to the home, yet you are afraid of a woman doing better than you.

In other words, you want a working but poor or low earning woman. Someone you must be richer than.

If you need a house wife, pls say so. Don't go about looking for an ambitious women to marry and stress.

Samfloxin:
God did not create woman to be greater than man ,that's why whenever they have money more than their husbands,they start misbehaving

God created the Queen of Sheba to be greater than ALL men at the time...How's that

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

Air it louder

When money commands variety, and answers everything. Why will women have respect when they can control their man.

Eberex:
Not true
My wife doesn't fall in this category, all because of God's spirit that is possessing her.

Maybe that spirit is giving her doggy as we speak

Skullano:
Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

With all the information we have in 2022 ?
Use some of that money to buy Rational Male series and you'll understand. Women are the absolute easiest. It took me 3 years+ of constant detox of the go we've fed since little.

Yes, especially if they play the man's role in the house. In any case, the man should make sure he owns the house or pay the rent, play all his major role, when the woman stats playing the man's role, she can easily get confused about her gender and two captains go come dey one small ship.

Very true. Most times. Currently see wht happened to the actress husband (Funke). In the time past, in abroad, women get there (esp nurse) earn higher than d man and start mistreating their husband

And you know there, the court will always favour them.

My dear, it is rare to see a woman who will respect u. They exist bt few

It's their nature OP...

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

Is there any way I can like this post 1000 times?
Honest truth

Yes, don't let anybody fool u to think otherwise

Women are not program genetically, socially , divinely "to be the bread winner

When the pressure mount for too long they crack.. And they show u shege

They can withstand the bills for some time but not forever


Who pay the bills is the head_Economically

Be it a younger brother, a child, a girlfrd,

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

This kinda man will spend all his last kobo on his daughter(s) to be successful in life and be happy that a man isn’t allowing her to utilise the potential she has?

Moreover, don’t some men think of what their daughter(s) will inherit from their mothers after turning their wives to a dummy.

We women are our worst enemies... we keep on proving men right .... with what I have seen , I will never allow my son marry a woman thats more financially successful than him

Some , expecially those women from imo state.

Marriage is not something that one can fully understand. What works for couple A might not work for couple B.

However, it can be successfully managed if there is enough patience from both sides. If for any reason the patience is coming from one side of the divide, there will be problem.

No sane human being will want to suffer. But the quest for urgent or quick riches is the first thing couples should avoid. If either of them want to be like their comfortable neighbors with no opportunities alike, they should expect separation on the long run. No two ways about it.

Yep

Bmaster:
it haven't been true and will never ever be,.
See useless question.

Because some guys got data they now resort to turning an almost international forum to primary 5 students forum


Not y'all guys fault shaa,I blame mods

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