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cumoverna:
r=cherryCola post=114421697] Nothing sweet like being in a relationship that the woman loves you most .

This is so true, I had a girl, who really loves me, funniest part is, I was so broke and believe that this her love will not last when she realize I am not rich.
Before I even wooed her, she kissed me on the lips while I was escorting her back home, I was so shocked that night.

Bae was ready to do anything I asked her, I later found out she was a troublesome girl, but she never ever fought with me on anything, she comes over whenever I ask her to, even at 9pm.

I regret letting her go till today. I hope I see another one

Swears bro! This your story is what happened to me. I really wish I meet someone like her again.

Op you're correct....
I believe no girl is broke, she only gives to the guy/man she loves....
Babe wey love you no go stress you, infact you go know say love sweet....she gives you maximum respect even if she's the one bringing most things to the table.......

My advice for guys today:
If you want to live long pls marry a woman that loves you very much

cumoverna:
r=cherryCola post=114421697] Nothing sweet like being in a relationship that the woman loves you most .

This is so true, I had a girl, who really loves me, funniest part is, I was so broke and believe that this her love will not last when she realize I am not rich.
Before I even wooed her, she kissed me on the lips while I was escorting her back home, I was so shocked that night.

Bae was ready to do anything I asked her, I later found out she was a troublesome girl, but she never ever fought with me on anything, she comes over whenever I ask her to, even at 9pm.

I regret letting her go till today. I hope I see another one

They are everywhere bro .a

All the relationships have entered, the ladies always made the first move .

CaveAdullam:
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him.

2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance.

This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support.

> Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A.

> To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough.

> Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud.

>However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A.

3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A.

Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date).

a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?"

b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women.

c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to.

d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for.

Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck.

e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment.

4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies".

> Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy.

> (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why?

a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle.

b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children.

On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness.

5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify.

6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them.

7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them.

8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and battering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure.


Thanks.

Always on point .

Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want. Has happened to me twice.

Women are not made, they are molded. The women you chase will never be loyal. But the one who chases you will be loyal. As a man you want a woman who will be loyal and submissive to your commitment, not one that you will be begging not to leave. Again, this doesn't mean that the relationship will be happily ever after, like love made in Disneyland, but that to a larger extent, you will enjoy the relationship while it lasts.

Women are first of all, loyal to their feelings, and they judge what is right or wrong based on their feelings at that particular moment.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Women are not made, they are molded. The women you chase will never be loyal. But the one who chases you will be loyal. As a man you want a woman who will be loyal and submissive to your commitment, not one that you will be begging not to leave. Again, this doesn't mean that the relationship will be happily ever after, like love made in Disneyland, but that to a larger extent, you will enjoy the relationship while it lasts.

Women are first of all, loyal to their feelings, and they judge what is right or wrong based on their feelings at that particular moment.

Thanks.

No, thank u.. This is insightful...

A better phrasing is "So many men in Nigeria!"


Future Is Female.


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Badboibipo:
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you!

Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her.

Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic?

Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it.

Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second.
Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman.

SIMPers won't agree with you.

Badboibipo:
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you!

Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her.

Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic?

Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it.

Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second.
Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman.

You are talking about dating,
The truth is that 80 if not 90% of married women don't like or love their husband

Nobe today nyash dey and the thing goes both ways

Always seperate your finances from all relationship wether platonic or intimate relationship

Money changes everything

Unfurnately most successful men don't give a fvck if you like them or not as long as you play your end of the bargain with your vagina and make yourself available when needed they are good

Infact Na girl wey no like you dey sweet fvck pass, as you have this funny feeling that your money paid for all her extra niceness and fake love


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All I can say is ... the Op is not far from the truth. Ladies experience similar too, loving the wrong man.

women by nature are born to destroy but only few manage to live like human being...

Generalwoodz:
The nugget you dropped here is what some nigga would pay 200$ for.

Shola don collect bullet

Nice thread.

Simps no go hear o.

They always wan play romeo forgetting say romeo die.

Your girl should always make sacrifices.

JBriel:
Preach my brother. You're so on point. Let me cap it up by saying to detect how a lady likes you

If she isn't spending on you

Yearning to see you and more of you

Reciprocating conversations

Bending over rules to meet you in the middle


My dear, you're by your self. Be it platonic or romantic relationships, if a woman falls into this category with you, you're wasting useful time.


Same lady stingy with a guy can be willing to collect loam for another.

Don't dig into the reasons. It's always filled with their nonsensical bullshit. Don't try to spin the reality before you, change them or be patient. Just move respectfully


Just withdraw your attention,end the chats, don't check the timeline. Walk away like you don't care.. e dey pain them die

Dating or actually getting married to them?

Same to guys too,Na we know girl we like not d one we just sample.

Someone had to say this ��

No be lie ooo... This women just want to leave the singles market by all means... And many good men at the recipient of this fake love....

As a guy , i go in there to have fun ..

You're very right.

LUAN1:
you are right bro, We don't have any woman who is entirely wicked or have bad character, it all depends whether she likes you all not, if she likes you she will respect you, her bad character will not manifest, but if you are not the kind of man she want, you will see all manners of drama and attitude that she will bring from the pit of hell. Same way you will meet a girl and tried to toast or ask her her for sex, she denied you, while the kind of guy she likes won't even stress himself before she fall for him.

This is so true! Women are the most generous people once they like you. Generous with money, time, attention, everything. Jeez! I sometimes spend more on the person I’m seeing than myself. When she starts making excuses, that woman doesn’t give two Bleep$ about you.

And to add, many men should work on themselves to be more appealing to women. No be by red pilled nonsense. When you find a woman that likes you, love her genuinely and you’ll realize that you are punishing yourself by listening to these red pilled retards. Na person wey never experience true love from woman Dey do redpill

Women are confused generally
I believe they don't really know what they want

Had a girl I loved dearly back in high school
We passed out and everything was kinda cool until she asked I moved on.... Just like that

Made advances on four occasions to make her change her mind buh she insisted. I did move on, not in the way anyone would expect but I did

Fast forward, 3 years later and she's asking if we're still cool?
I longer to Know why she said what she said and she's like, "I was confused back then"

Some would say, All men are scum but it's crazy cos y'all still want some Cum from that Scum

nijaomegacode:
Once it took you longer than 2 weeks to get a girl, she doesn't like you. Just bleep her and dump her when you're tired.
The one who loves you will not stress you.

Ni disagree. No rules or guidelines to all these.

Leepeak:
Let me see if you ladies will not automatic develop love for the bill gate

You're well on your way to becoming a rich simp. Congrats bruh

Have experienced this a lot, the girls who genuinely likes me never ask me for anything, they care genuinely and they are the ones who always sing praises of me! The one I showered love on made a fool of herself, now she's all over my social media accounts calling her head dear!.. One in my church is literally stalking me in a good way currently. She pays so much attention to me and never speak ill of me!