THE GIST.

I have a residential neighbor. He is in his 40's while I am in my 30's. He lives upstairs, while I live downstairs. He is a banker, divorced with his first, now ex wife with two children and became single again for a long time. From our conversation, his first marriage failed due to immaturity from both side. It became very difficult for him to re-marry because he wanted a help mate. A career / business / market wise woman that will help and build his life.

He told me the problem he is facing today was as a result of his first marriage, and the ease in his life will be determine by his next marriage. He told me he will not settle for the less and I believed him.

He had a lot of conversation with me about his life, although I never told him about myself. I just gave him few advice and prayed for him not to make another bombshel of a mistake.

Someone recommend for him a very young girl which he seem to like. Paid her dowry - traditional marriage in a hurry and brought her home as married couple.

To him, he has caught a fresh young fish.

When this young woman came, he was so curious about me which I seem to understand. One day I told her not to worry if I don't give her attention or always converse with her the way she want. I made her understand I don't speak much in person unless it is very important. I did this just to put her at ease.

THE PROBLEM

The problem right now, my neighbor is having serious headache. I mean extreme headache because the girl he married is still behaving like a child.

He just realize that he has made another huge bombshell. When he first brought her home after the dowry, I myself was secretly concern because the girl was just too small and immature for him. I mean too young to be his daughter age mate.

Yesterday he was shouting and willing to lay hand on her or send her back home. He married her without courtship for the very wrong reasons below.

●He married her because she is young and innocent.
●He married her because he needed someone that will be under his total influence and control.
● He married her because of total submission from a woman.
●He married her because she has orange breast. We men like female breast too much . We just love to suck female breast and she has nice standing fan boobs.

Right now he is seeing the opposite and not the character he thought he paid for. Instead of character or fine personality, man foolishly lusted after tight vagina and hot breast.

I tried to communicate with the young babe, letting her know she need to be smart and acknowlege herself as now a married young woman. She is no longer in her parents house, but her own house.

Her response to me shows that, she is just a typical village girl who was convince into marriage by her parents. She blame her father.

I am secretly concern about her well being.

My only secret worrries right is that, her hubby should not lay hands on her, by slapping her. I don't like when a man beats a woman.

She is very young and small like that of a 17 years old girl.

MEN will always go for curves and breast and not for mature mind or character

I won just do small aproko on marriage section.

Any man or woman who tells you that, physical beauty is not that important to them, they are chronic liars.

Jokes apart men are going through a lot

Na your neighbor matter you carry put for head like this?

He is a banker in his 40s, married a 17/18 year old adolescent......he deserves what he is experiencing.

PlayMaker14:
Na your neighbor matter you carry put for head like this?

As a jobless man, I say make I just do small aproko.

Lostchild:


As a jobless man, I say make I just do small aproko.

On a serious note, focus on your own issues...

PlayMaker14:
On a serious note, focus on your own issues...

Of course I will.

Without being told, it seems the girl was married in the village on behalf of the man and "posted" like a parcel to him in the city . We are in a modern world, I wonder why a man will marry a woman or girl he knows absolutely nothing about. Courtship is very important in every marriage.

I no wan dey put mouth for marriage matter again

PlayMaker14:
Na your neighbor matter you carry put for head like this?

Here is the reason why op carry him neighbor matter put for head

●He married her because she has orange breast. We men like breast too much tongue. We love to suck breast and she has nice standing fan boobs.

Bobloco:


Here is the reason why op Carry him neighbor matter put for head

●He married her because she has orange breast. We men like breast too much tongue. We love to suck breast and she has nice standing fan boobs.

Lmao


I love it when men marry a mistake the second time, thinking they are "peppering" the ex wife in the process, the regret and end result is always sweet

Lostchild:
GIST.

I have a residential neighbor. He is in his 40's while I am in my 30's. He lives upstairs, while I live downstairs. He is a banker, divorced with his first, now ex wife with two children and became single again for a long time. From our conversation, his first marriage failed due to immaturity from both side. It became very difficult for him to re-marry because he wanted a decent woman that will help and build his life.

He had a lot of conversation with me about his life, although I never told him about myself. I just gave him few advice and prayed for him not to mak another mistake.

Someone recommend for him a young girl which he seem to like. Paid her dowry - traditional marriage in a hurry and brought her home as married couple.

She is like a fresh young fish.

When this young woman came, he was so curious about me which I seem to understand. One day I told her not to worry if I don't give her attention or always converse with her the way she want. I don't speak much in person unless it is very important, just to put her at ease.

THE PROBLEM

The problem right now, my neighbor is having serious headache. I mean extreme headache because the girl he married is still behaving like a child.

He just realize that he has made another huge bombshell. When he first brought her home after the dowry, I myself was secretly concern because the girl was just too small for him. I mean too young to be his daughter age mate.

Yesterday he was shouting and willing to lay hand on her or send her back home. He married her without courtship for the very wrong reasons below.

●He married her because she is young and innocent.
●He married her because he needed someone that will be under his total influence and control.
● He married her because of total submission from a woman.
●He married her because she has orange breast. We men like breast too much . We love to suck breast and she has nice standing fan boobs.

Right now he is seeing the opposite and not the character he thought he paid for. Instead of character and personality, he lusted after youthfulness and hot breast.

I tried to communicate with the babe, letting her know she need to be smart and acknowlege herself as now a married young woman. She is no longer in her parents house, but her own house.

Her response to me shows that, she is just a typical village girl who was talk into marriage by her parents. She blame her father.

My only secret worry right is that, her hubby should not lay hands on her, by hitting her. I don't like when a man beats a woman.

She is very young and small like that of 17 years old.

MEN will always go for looks and not character

Us taking to you doesnt help the two people involved, if they had asked for help from you then you would picked 1 or 2 from our inputs

Based on what you said you are worried and the issue doent concern you. dont worry about things you cant control or change

His first marriage crashed because of immaturity on both sides.

Somehow, Einstein thought marrying a more immature girl-woman would solve his problem.

He better start joining the girl in Snapchat & TikTok.

We need to query his performance at work.

Hmmm this one serious o

I don't pity him or her, especially him cos he already has experience ... U can't just marry someone you have zero compatibility with.

How will someone even marry a 17 yr old kwanu?

The parents sold their child to him. He thought he could control a child. Now he is in hot soup. He deserves what he gets. I pray he does not hurt the young girl and ruin her chance of remarriage.

The man did not clarify his expectations before going into another marriage.

But all hope is not lost. I believe the marriage can be salvaged if both of them are ready to work at it.

What they need is to see a professional marriage counselor.

We deal with cases that seems worse than this.

Do not cry more than the bereaved

The "orange breast" shows the OP has desires to suck and handle and maybe more, reason why he is concerned, ashawo strong prick



Anyways,
That ur neighbors is the problem
Marrying a teenager is a suicide mission,

When his teenage wife now gets social media upgrade.
Hehe

Banker go get stroke..
He never knw what's up..
Even u the neighbors can be piping the wife, qnd she will be enjoying the affair and store it in her dangerous fuqs diary.
She is in the adventure stage
What she wants is good sex,nothing more
Wen so ial media join what she will want will be good life and sex for good life.

Tell ur neighbor to count his losses and move on to the third,

Your neighbor wife no young pass d gals dem dey marry for here North, maturity no b by age..

The girl wey he marry na mumu gal.

Socratiz:
The man did not clarify his expectations before going into another marriage.

But all hope is not lost. I believe the marriage can be salvaged if both of them are ready to work at it.

What they need is to see a professional marriage counselor.

We deal with cases that seems worse than this.

When they go for marriage therapy, it will become clearer to both that they have no business remaining married to each other.

The core purpose of marriage therapy is to achieve clarity. Clarity on either the need to work on the marriage as the couples still has something between them worth resuscitating and nurturing or the clarity to accept the reality that moving on away from each other and continuing their lives away from each other is the best.

you carry another person matter come gist for public forum what if you Friend finds out.. he won't be happy with you cus it's not as if this place have the solution to his problem
.
meanwhile at a cheap price DM me for your logo and flyer design

Small girls and wahala. Marry matured ones and live long.

17yrs old wife?
Na wao, 17 and already a wife?
17 and already giving wahala?
Wonders shall never seize

17 you say? That girl is too small, even if she wanted the marriage

Union gone wrong
Is there anything/phrase like a wise woman?