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CaveAdullam:
Women are not made, they are molded. The women you chase will never be loyal. But the one who chases you will be loyal. As a man you want a woman who will be loyal and submissive to your commitment, not one that you will be begging not to leave. Again, this doesn't mean that the relationship will be happily ever after, like love made in Disneyland, but that to a larger extent, you will enjoy the relationship while it lasts.

Women are first of all, loyal to their feelings, and they judge what is right or wrong based on their feelings at that particular moment.

Thanks.

Another 500k to sort myself out. Thanks for your generosity.

They only want someone to take up responsibilities

Na mumu dey love.. Chase the bag never chase a bit*h....

Simp right now

cococandy:
I like how you spelled tolerate.

I’m serious not making fun of it.
It sounds like that’s how it’s supposed to be spelled

Eggxactly my brother

Everything don cast for naija...

Have u noticed that 9 is always at the back of bad bad things?

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No wonder iPhone ddnt produce iPhone9

Las Las we come find ourselves for 9ja

LUAN1:
you are right, any girl that likes you won't stress you from day one, don't forget that they are more concerned about physical attributes of a man more than they way we men are concern about theirs.

Oga I refuse on your last paragraph, Is you guys that pay too much attention to looks that's why you end up disappointed when she starts showing her character. That's one of the reasons many homes are broken because you choose beauty instead of attitude.

cumoverna:
r=cherryCola post=114421697] Nothing sweet like being in a relationship that the woman loves you most .

This is so true, I had a girl, who really loves me, funniest part is, I was so broke and believe that this her love will not last when she realize I am not rich.
Before I even wooed her, she kissed me on the lips while I was escorting her back home, I was so shocked that night.

Bae was ready to do anything I asked her, I later found out she was a troublesome girl, but she never ever fought with me on anything, she comes over whenever I ask her to, even at 9pm.

I regret letting her go till today. I hope I see another one

Good for you! That's how you guys take advantage of girls that love you genuinely. Now she's gone and you're regretting. But how do you know she loves you sef? Because of the sudden kiss ni?

Moh247:
Best feeling ever if you enjoy dominating them especially those who ordinarily don't rate you

The thrills you get bossing them around far outweighs that lovey Dovey romantic crap

To experience such , book a date with top class escort or model waaay out of your league just for cruise and compare it with the regular ups and down unstable unpredictable love based relationship

Ever wondered why Dangote is single, or why Donald Trump isn't with his first love?

Ever wondered why Ellon musk and CR7 are happier with just a girlfriend instead of a commited relationship like marriage

Do you think Atiku or Ned Nwoko seeks out love in women

Even Biblical mythological Solomon doesn't seem love, he want just about any woman that can give him comfort for a price

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Let me ask you a question,how can this feeling you are narrating be compared to controlling women out of your class without money

lastchild:
Let me ask you a question,how can this feeling you are narrating be compared to controlling women out of your class without money

To be honest with you I don't go for any women of any class if I don't have money.. money is part of dating for me

True. But it's better for her to like you more than you like her.


So... make peace with what you have.

Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want.. Has happened to me twice..

FarinolaFrances:
there is one here that has been sending me signals and greenlights for the past 1year now and it's obvious to people around my street and house......but we haven't talk ooo....can I send her letter making my intentions known coz I'm so so shy to go meet her at shop?

At this modern age, you are still shy!

georgemarcus:
If you like dont go and look for money. Women has gone beyond what you are writing up there as attributes and more women find in men to love them. Do your findings well and speak from experience. Don't wake up and pen down anything from your head. The world is changing from stone age to science and tech. What we most have now is Social media relationship that end up crashing in less than a month (breakfast everywhere). Young women do anything and i mean anything now to secure the bags from men. Just hold your money and then see who is rushing who!

It was our fore-parents and Parents who had those kind of love women shares with them when they see a man with intelligence, hard working and striving to make a home. Nowadays girls just want to use pressure to kill you and then fiam rush into another man with the easiest route available, if they find you weak and broke. They will be ther when its shiny, but once there is hard days they start giving you attitudes. . Most of them sleep with their boy friend's friend just because he has more money or most times not even the money, but high libido for sex due to hard drugs.

My dear OP, am not condemning your write up. I am only saying, make your findings well before you conclude. A lot of men go through shege in the hands of women. Not like they are too cheap to be cajoled into the lyrics women used on men to seduce them or their pockets. Most men are weak when it comes to a woman they have fallen for and truly want to sleep with ,thereafter their eye would open.

Again ,most women became wicked not through birth, but overtime terrible experiences from men who took advantage of them, because they fell cheap for them and also submit with a serious motive, but ended up been used and dumped. While some, through the choice they made from bad friends who only do not negotiate feelings in relationship but focuses on eating your money, flirting and then shielding their emotions to get you into confusion. This life has changed drastically now. People are not finding much love from relationships. While some, who finds wont trade equals to build it due to too many complains from not trusting each other.

The society is already polluted with so much terrible experiences. The bottom line now is, if you dont have money i wonder how a woman wants to settle with you .Especially when she thinks you cant even provide her needs. her love, if at all she will give to you, wont be up to 50%, except the ones who just want to stay because of your sex drive or physique. God help us

Whata honest and brutal review. You should do a more thorough and expanded form of these concerns and create a thread. While I agree with all, I repeat all your points, red pilling is the panacea for mehn to not get killed in the game of love

There isn't any need trying too hard to win this genders heart. Just live and enjoy your life like they don't exist... She would want to understand why you didn't notice her.. Never force any lady to like you.. Ladies like guys for different or maybe stupid reasons... Get your shit together...

cococandy:
That’s the problem most of you have.

you see the ones that like and want you as cheap girls. Because they didn’t play hard-to-get for you.

Messed up mentality

Nah. In my own case, that's nt how it seems.. I just wasnt attracted to them like romantically.. Nothing irks me more than a chick playing hard to get. I'd drop her like a bad habit with the speed of light..

Okay

Silentgroper:
Nah. In my own case, that's nt how it seems.. I just wasnt attracted to them like romantically.. Nothing irks me more than a chick playing hard to get. I'd drop her like a bad habit with the speed of light..

Badboibipo:
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you!

Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her.

Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic?

Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it.

Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second.
Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman.

Words of wisdom

CaveAdullam:
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him.

2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance.

This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support.

> Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A.

> To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough.

> Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud.

>However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A.

3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A.

Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date).

a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?"

b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women.

c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to.

d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for.

Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck.

e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment.

4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies".

> Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy.

> (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why?

a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle.

b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children.

On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness.

5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify.

6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them.

7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them.

8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure.


Thanks.

CaveAdullam for President

Silentgroper:
But most times, d woman who wants us are not the one we want.. Has happened to me twice..

Absolutely, lemme not lie to you your best bet is to find a woman that loves you, I have seem loads of women I.love and admire but they don't feel thesame way until I meet this special woman,when your woman loves you more than you do then you are lucky.

Shugargal:
Good for you! That's how you guys take advantage of girls that love you genuinely. Now she's gone and you're regretting. But how do you know she loves you sef? Because of the sudden kiss ni?

Nope not kissing na, not even sex sef, I just said I was so broke like a church rat then, the most important thing was she was so loyal to me, with the way things were going, I think she was ready to follow me anywhere.
I Bleep up so much, now I am not broke, girls easily say yes to me now.

Badboibipo:
Girls are really not so bad. Yes many of them have attitude issues and bad personalities but the truth is every girl have genuine kindness and goodness in her but they hardly show it because they DONT like you!

Yes, your girlfriend or even your wife may not like you as much as you like them. You bought her and you may never experience the best version of that girl because she’s not as into you as you are into her.

Have you heard a girl complain about a guy saying hello to her and calling him a “stalker” ? Do you know that same girl will tell her friends that another “perfect gentleman” is following her everywhere and she thinks he’s so romantic?

Two guys doing the same thing to the same girl but different reactions. That’s the life of women, they love the same thing they complain about, it all just depends on who is doing it.

Find a girl that likes you genuinely, stop buying women with money, very wrong move. You will never get the best version of her like that, they will use you and once a better option comes they will dump you in a second.
Don’t impress girls with money, if you truly want a good woman make sure she likes you for anything but not because of your pocket! That’s the worse way to get a woman.

All you said are valid points but i have seen people fall out of love. A lady might be head over you at some particular time... And might do and undo for love. This same lady can wake up tmrw and be inlove with someone else. I believe it also happens in marriages. My point is that people do fall out of love and stilll be in the relationship for maybe financial gain, children or just good nacks.

cherryCola:
They are everywhere bro .a

All the relationships have entered, the ladies always made the first move .

I do hope so, were you so broke to the extent that you can't buy airtime for your self, not to talk of buying for your babe.

Iamolukorede:
Absolutely, lemme not lie to you your best bet is to find a woman that loves you, I have seem loads of women I.love and admire but they don't feel thesame way until I meet this special woman,when your woman loves you more than you do then you are lucky.

Word!!

Shugargal:
Good for you! That's how you guys take advantage of girls that love you genuinely. Now she's gone and you're regretting. But how do you know she loves you sef? Because of the sudden kiss ni?

Good for me, I really deserve it. She was so happy when we were together and she believed in me so much even when I didn't have a single plan. It was scary.

JBriel:
Preach my brother. You're so on point. Let me cap it up by saying to detect how a lady likes you

If she isn't spending on you

Yearning to see you and more of you

Reciprocating conversations

Bending over rules to meet you in the middle


My dear, you're by your self. Be it platonic or romantic relationships, if a woman falls into this category with you, you're wasting useful time.


Same lady stingy with a guy can be willing to collect loam for another.

Don't dig into the reasons. It's always filled with their nonsensical bullshit. Don't try to spin the reality before you, change them or be patient. Just move respectfully


Just withdraw your attention,end the chats, don't check the timeline. Walk away like you don't care.. e dey pain them die

Being an intelligent and women attitude expert myself, I can conclusively say that you're absolutely on point. Especially, that aspect of withdrawing attention.

cumoverna:
I do hope so, were you so broke to the extent that you can't buy airtime for your self, not to talk of buying for your babe.

Lol...... .

Some days I can afford and some days I couldn't.

Justsylvia:
yes is sweet, but the guy abuses the love shown to him most by his woman

For other guys ?, maybe.

For me ?, NO .

cumoverna:
Nope not kissing na, not even sex sef, I just said I was so broke like a church rat then, the most important thing was she was so loyal to me, with the way things were going, I think she was ready to follow me anywhere.
I Bleep up so much, now I am not broke, girls easily say yes to me now.

I see! Ndo oo? Now I understand a lot of women love guys now because of money, I have a friend that said she can never date broke guys, her reason is that, how can she be giving you her puna and you gat no money to take care of her, I laughed because you guys are the cause of it too. Una like to show off. Lol @broke as church rat.

U willing to spend d rest of ur live wit a man u dont love all because of d benefit that comes wit it

More oil bro

CaveAdullam:
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him.

2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance.

This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support.

> Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A.

> To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough.

> Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud.

>However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A.

3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A.

Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date).

a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?"

b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women.

c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to.

d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for.

Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck.

e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment.

4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies".

> Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy.

> (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why?

a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle.

b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children.

On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness.

5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify.

6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them.

7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them.

8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure.


Thanks.

I'll screenshot this

kogof51050:
Baba I can attest to this.... No call, no text just full black out... e dey pain dem die.

This only applies if she likes you.

If you like, you can relocate to Alaska and give her total blackout from there. If she doesn't like you she'll be relieved that you're no longer "stalking" her.

True story.

MyAmericandream:
Gbam! you don talk am finish . Omo I go soon hit 30. Ha I go be 37 next year if I no marry this guy sharply who go kan marry me? These are one of the reasons some women get hooked with one innocent guy. Once she gets married are true color begins the surface, the guy will begin to wonder but I thought this girl truly loves.

You just finished the point I stated...... Vividly