etrange:
You guys and this your gender dichotomy. We read about men who rape women both elderly and children, men who kill their girlfriends, men who maim and scam others, but we never say fear men. Then your wife does something terrible and you think it's a reason to fear women.

soo we should give women a hall pass because of ur reasons shey

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

you didn't make any sense bro!
read and understand according to what the OP wrote and not what you think he didn't write.
most times, too much smartness= foolishness

good moves...but don't say women.better ones are around according to elders but am yet to see

Maverick777:
you didn't make any sense bro!
read and understand according to what the OP wrote and not what you think he didn't write.
most times, too much smartness= foolishness

Until you explain how my comment is not logically connected to the post, you are a noisemaker.

postbmd:
soo we should give women a hall pass because of ur reasons shey

How did you come to this conclusion after reading my post? I am saying, if your wife messes up, hold her accountable not her gender. What do women do that a man has not done before? Bokoharam people are men, it's Fulani herdsmen and not Fulani herdswomen, men sleep with househelps, etc. But we don't go about saying "fear men", "that gender", "d!ck people", etc. These things are disgusting and they don't speak well of the family you come from.

Nigeria has religious bigotry, tribalism, classism, etc and now, y'all also want to add sexism to it? To what extent do you really want to keep dividing yourselves? You think insulting your women makes you any better? If your women are terrible, the men that bring into this world can never be better.

immortalcrown:
Until you explain how my comment is not logically connected to the post, you are a noisemaker.

I already told you that in my second line Sir.
get someone close to you who understands English, to decipher for you.

Nyascobar1414:


You ended up saying trash...
Chaii weak men everywhere.

Comr sir, are u seen what I'm reading so?
Comr sir, u see why en no go better for eve wherever she dey. All her daughters are after d downfall of son of men. Look at d type of daughters of eve we hv dis day.
Marriage no worth am at all, just born pikin mak I settle u, u go ur papa house. Well op get tolerance, me i no get joy at all, na straight to your papa house.

Maverick777:
I already told you that in my second line Sir. get someone close to you who understands English, to decipher for you.

Remain a noisemaker. You only claim my comment is irrelevant to the matter. You have not explained why you make the claim. And you are claiming to be better in English.

Nyascobar1414:


You ended up saying trash...
Chaii weak men everywhere.

That guy immortalcrown started well and ended up saying trash

When love diminishes in a marriage the fall is inevitable

nijaomegacode:
Na man you be.
If you eva go back to dat woman, you are finished.
Marry that your friend who gave u 1.5M

What an advice

etrange:
You guys and this your gender dichotomy. We read about men who rape women both elderly and children, men who kill their girlfriends, men who maim and scam others, but we never say fear men. Then your wife does something terrible and you think it's a reason to fear women.

what does any of the rubbish you wrote have to do with the OP post , you mumu i swear

Ballzproblemm:
what does any of the rubbish you wrote have to do with the OP post , you mumu i swear

I was referring to the part of his title that says "fear women". But then reading your the way to talk to people, it's understandable why you don't see anything wrong with such discriminatory expressions. Y'all are so crude.

Sorry, you married a bad wife and into a bad family. My marriage is direct opposite of yours. My wife pay the school fees of our son since he attends the school where she works, they just deduct it from her salary. We share all the bills in the house, her money always call her to warn her not to stress me since thins are to rosy for of financially. Her mother always send Yam for us from Benue at her expense. The only time we had issue over money is when i lend her money in my account to one of my friend, the idiot refuse to pay till today. So don't generalise all women are not the same.

Nna, you be MAN, you da BOSS. Continue this way on NO account should you back off your stance. Nonsense woman and non sense family she is from.

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

You are a stupid man
You are the kind of man that can die for a just a woman pant

Som1 just explained how tinz are going in his marriage and u are saying u hv not heard from the woman side bastard idiot

Even tho no b my marriage e day pain me
Is only in Nigeria they will oppress bills on a man mostly the married ones like us

But na sense I day use ooo
I open shop for my wife still yet she day use bills day disturb me I told her servrally she should take care of some of the responsibility
Abi she wan kill me ni....

I try as much as possible to avoid things like that....
Still on still I day take care of most responsibility...

And this period of time na she day hot with money
But she still they oppress me with Bill

Somtimes I will shout for her mk her brain correct

I will mk her understand that in marriage man should not be the only one on this


If it was then not now again things don change for this life


Women ehhh

Most men na them day do their self

If u get money u don't have to show up that u hv money

Showing up u hv money won't make u see a good woman
She's just after ur money
Sorry oo na u make her feel too comfortable with ur money so na ur fault too

Even if my woman day bill me
She can't act like the way ur wife acted
Even her family can't


U came in the money way so that's wat u get

Nice Jnr .. stories I love to hear .. you handled it perfectly..

I do only one way to believeI do only one way to believe...

VeryWickedMan:
...but you're still referring to her as "my wife"

she's still his wife...

Israeldan1:



You are a stupid man
You are the kind of man that can die for a just a woman pant

Som1 just explained how tinz are going in his marriage and u are saying u hv not heard from the woman side bastard idiot

Even tho no b my marriage e day pain me
Is only in Nigeria they will oppress bills on a man mostly the married ones like us

But na sense I day use ooo
I open shop for my wife still yet she day use bills day disturb me I told her servrally she should take care of some of the responsibility
Abi she wan kill me ni....

I try as much as possible to avoid things like that....
Still on still I day take care of most responsibility...

And this period of time na she day hot with money
But she still they oppress me with Bill

Somtimes I will shout for her mk her brain correct

I will mk her understand that in marriage man should not be the only one on this


If it was then not now again things don change for this life


Women ehhh

Was he prudence and rational in spending on her when they were dating? Answer this question or continue with your noise. It is not about insulting me. It is not about forming an opinion based on what is happening now. How did he lay the foundation of what is happening now?

Popesuccess:
Sorry, you married a bad wife and into a bad family. My marriage is direct opposite of yours. My wife pay the school fees of our son since he attends the school where she works, they just deduct it from her salary. We share all the bills in the house, her money always call her to warn her not to stress me since thins are to rosy for of financially. Her mother always send Yam for us from Benue at her expense. The only time we had issue over money is when i lend her money in my account to one of my friend, the idiot refuse to pay till today. So don't generalise all women are not the same.

hug ur wife for me, my ex is a bitch

etrange:


I was referring to the part of his title that says "fear women". But then reading your the way to talk to people, it's understandable why you don't see anything wrong with such discriminatory expressions. Y'all are so crude.

My own is, since you teach French language and spend most of your evenings thinking of what you could do to make people more tolerant and loving towards one another....It'll be cool to learn from you. So, I want to learn French language....

etrange:
You guys and this your gender dichotomy. We read about men who rape women both elderly and children, men who kill their girlfriends, men who maim and scam others, but we never say fear men. Then your wife does something terrible and you think it's a reason to fear women.

sharap women are more evil with all the good he did to her look at how she paid him back. How many times do you hear a man maltreating a good women? it is always women not appreciating good men, evil gender.

Ohraykon:
sharap women are more evil with all the good he did to her look at how she paid him back. How many times do you hear a man maltreating a good women? it is always women not appreciating good men, evil gender.

And men thar kill, rape, scam, etc. are saints. Dude, his wife and then women in your life are the evil ones. One thing common about all of you is the way you chat, it's very evident the kind of families y'all come from.

I respect you man. I think say I dey craze, I duh see person wey craze pass me o

many married men are emotionally suffering from various types of abuses from their wives.




I blame the society for this




@op,you na real man

Lol when we say all men bring to the table is money, we are right, cos without money, most men are nothing, you all lack substance and personality, for real

Op mumuishly spoilt his wife and her family with money before he even married her, and you expect them to be nice and dandy when you were broke? Naa it doesn't work that way, they will definitely show their true color las las, but will you men listen? No, so keep attracting your kind of women with money, that way you're helping women like that experience marriage even if it won't last, so pls continue

@OP you say fear women, yet na woman help you out with 2M.. smh
You people really derive pleasure in this women bashing..

Congrats!
You made the right moves.

Op your wife no try, that's the truth. I can never withold my money from my husband weder it's his or not yes that's for sure. But then u spoilt her, pls forgive her for the sake of your child. U said u haven't been touch her for over two years that means u have been sleeping outside that is bad, of u.

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

Modified
Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

What kind fo stupid, dirty and senseless comment is this?
This shows that your brain is empty. You're indeed a monumental fool.
Tueh!