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Zabiboy:
So i've got a genuine question for the Virginity/hymen crew..
How would you know a Virgin, WHEN

1) scientifically, sex isnt the only thing that tears the hymen.
2) i mean, no wise virgin ( if they exist) would allow you fvck her just to prove she's one on the basis that you'll marry her if she is.
3) there are vagina tighteners rn and number one point above can be used as an excuse whilst using tightness as proof.
4) i even heard of artificial hymen( not confirmed yet by me) but i wont be surprised if it's invented anytime soon.
OR
5) you ok with someone whose hymen is intact but has done anals, B.J's, been urintated on and other dirty stuffs.

I'll love to know

_{N.B: as for me, i'm fully MGTOW. virginity,relationships,fertility,submissiveness,marriage is as useless as the P in psychology for me.}
But i honestly think anyone looking to marry a virgin shouldn't just consider marriage. Because it is far better not to marry than to be deceived into marrying someone you Vetted and thought was a virgin.

assinozick042:
br, please i need it : assinozick@gmail.com

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said alot hardcore things in this thread, and I totally agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much smart guy.

My problem with female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys alot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're high quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes female shit test, the solution to the problem is actually the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Wierd, right?

Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teachers test? First off, you view your teacher as higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be purnished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allow you have access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low quality guy, and then she'll not allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

Mtcheew...To be frank, there are lots things that's wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

Think of it, if you see of yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't really give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.


Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different form:
* it can come in form of her throw confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problem, and they often feel they are above men.



When a girl allow you sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've pass her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favour and non-financial favour, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favour for her.

Crazy as it sound, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the test like a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then then you later realize she's has giving you HIV or gonorrhea.

My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't really mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuse to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not an high quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving a good advice...because passing a woman's shit test actually shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are smart guy.


Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she want to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.

The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or act like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls from who act like entitled bitch. I am totally harsh when it comes to this. Infact I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl start saying nonsense or start misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid sentence talking. I don’t give a shit wether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that do not value me.

The funny things is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they be like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....."what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior, and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating actually feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guy hosted a little get together... so we were just chilling and have fun. They were couple of ladies around. I started interacting a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriend who was also present with us.

I and this girl conversation was actually flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for guy that'll buy her Brazilian wig; basically she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid sentence. I didn't even looked back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Through out the the rest of the get together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homie, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out on shopping...I didn't really mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me actually increase more after that incidence. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was walking away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

heartofcity12:
Modern women and hypergamy are like bread and butter. Kevin Samuels said enough about stuff like this. Same women that’ll smash the dudes they lust on for free are setting standards for betas.

Winnerautomatic:
Two reasons why many men simp:

A. High sexual drive
B. Need for validation

Possible cure

A. High Sexual Drive

1. Watch what you eat. Some foods increase sexual drive and make continence almost impossible

2. Fast or eat sparingly. Fasting is not only potent for killing desires of the flesh, it also rejuvenates your body and makes you look younger.

3. Watch what you watch and the songs you listen to especially naija songs. The only thing they sell is sex and simping. These songs and movies continue to manipulate you long after you finish watching or listening

4. Avoid porn. The magic of TV is such that whatever you see on the screen, there is a tendency for you to pedestalize and this includes sex

B. Need for validation

1. If you’re christian, read your bible to develop an identity which is not based on other people’s opinion

2. Meditate and ask yourself who you are. There are guided meditations for this on youtube but be careful not to be deceived by familiar spirits. It’s best to do this prayerfully.

How many people have actually spent an hour or more asking why they’re here and who they are? Wait, sit back and think! Are you really here to chase women? Why are you here? Who are you?

You come from a long line of ancestors and fore fathers and they are all behind you. Donot let them down. Think of it this way, any lady that rubbishes you has rubbished the large army of people standing behind you. Would you let this happen? GOD FORBID

3. Desist and flee from masturbation, gambling, excessive materialism and spending, excessive sex and all vices that cause a feeling of loss. Whatever you loose creates a void that translates into the need to be loved and or pampered.

When i used to gamble, immediately after a loss, i’d either feel like wanking or going to a prossie or calling an ex or seeking for love and acceptance

crystalmoon:
for those that messaged me my WhatsApp number is in your mailbox do well to DM and get the books

Kudducini:
Very true, things these girls do when alpha calls them are mind blowing. My girlfriend once told me unknowingly about her alpha ex boy who called her to have sex but she was on period.

What she did before the kpanshing shocked me she had to get ice block and hid it in her pr*vte part for some minutes to stop the blood from coming out nigga did what he wanted and she left.


I was shocked she wasn’t cautious about her words until she saw my facial expression and I was like WTF never heard of such a thing in my entire life. Am going back to my normal life as MGTOW.


Very disgusting thing I’ve heard in my lifetime

MrEar:
Ubunja, I am not riding you or anyone's dick.

Please, stop making this young men think their masculinity is solely dependent on their ability to pick up and drill a woman or lay the pipe, as you put it . There's so much more to life than pussy.

Coochieking:
i sent you a pm this morning man, I'm not on whatsapp will appreciate if you send the book via the email i used.T
Thanks

MrEar:
Ubunja, I am not riding you or anyone's dick.

Please, stop making this young men think their masculinity is solely dependent on their ability to pick up and drill a woman or lay the pipe, as you put it . There's so much more to life than pussy.

Don't allow perverse individuals derail and scatter this thread. You were very much active here when certain people from ashawo thread wanted to turn this place to a beer palour were they can discuss about their dirty sexual escapades. Few individuals fought them and drove them out of this thread, Individuals like Martinez and if I recall correctly, he was attacked and called gay for doing the right thing, same way you're indirectly insinuating I am gay by telling me to stop dick riding.

Please, Dont bring back those miscreants.

As for that guy that said he practiced most of what men do in porn with his gf.... Please don't bring that kind of statement here. There are young boys that come to this thread to gain knowledge and some of them are sick and tired of their addiction to sex and porn. Don't make them feel watching porn or practising the acts and styles found there is a cool hip thing to do.

The oba of benin is an educated man, but still he believes in a deity and he worships that deity..Is he stupid and foolish for doing so? So why do some of you think I am stupid for believing in a Deity or a spirit world?

If I begin to tell you all the history of porn, those behind its production, the goal they aim to achieve and what they are currently achieving, you all will start insulting me because I believe in God and I link my points with scriptures.

Okay o... No wahala.

ubunja:
"there's more to life than pussy", this is the Red Pill, this is not life orientation. isn't this the Romance Section anyways? so what do you wanna talk about? jobs, business and education? please sit your ass down.

anyways how can we be shouting "Women have nothing to offer just pussy" and then at the same time make it a crime to talk about pussy?! doesn't make sense.

potland:
brothers in the house, what do we call this.

Martinez39s:
The guy is a clown and a big olodo.

Kolena:
On point!

Uglybwoi:
please stop quoting the whole post boss

Kipaji:
A woman who understood it and wants to teach her daughter right.

Sapy442:
How do we verify this information, this could be an evening newspaper trying to appear like a saint...

Skepticus:
As a matter of fact, when a Nigerian man is being described as a "womanizer" - Picture a man "simping" plates. 9 times out of 10, it never goes wrong.

Kipaji:
How do we verify this information? Well, how do you verify the information in all other posts here? You don't. Because it's not practically impossible and would be a waste of time anyway. But the message is there and that's what's we focus on.

ubunja:
it's true,,

Sex BEFORE a relationship= power to the man and the woman stays chasing.

Relationship BEFORE sex = power to the woman and the man stays chasing.

in other words consider yourself single until sex. don't even trust your own feelings for a girl you have never slept with cause it can happen that after sleeping with her you may feel different. Post Nut Clarity is real.

men are built in such a way that they don't know whether their love for a woman is genuine or not until they sleep with her. Its what remains after the sex has happened that shows a man if he loves a woman or not. if you feel hot for a girl and you sleep with her but after sex you feel cold, it was never love just lust. if you feel hot for a girl and you sleep with her and after sex you still feel hot for her, its love.
it is a woman's difficult task then to work out which guys love her and which guys lust her WITHOUT sleeping with any of them. and a woman's default method is to push sex further and further into the future -delaying it as much as possible- as a way to separate the Wheat from the Chaff. but that's an amateur move. veterans in the game make the man spend on them in addition to denying him sex, leaving everything in the hands of the infallible sunk cost fallacy.
what is the Sunk cost fallacy? when someone is too invested in something to walk away.
examples of Sunk cost fallacy? when you sit at a bus terminus waiting for a bus. the longer you wait the harder it is to move cause you figure you've already spent too much time waiting you may as well sit until the very end. its a psychological trap. resources (costs) already sunk (invested) prevent a person from giving up and starting over elsewhere. sunk cost fallacy is another way of saying "invested costs fallacy" where fallacy means a "lie". the lie being that you can't start over elsewhere. yes you can. but it will cost you plenty.

when a woman makes a man spend money on herself without giving him sex, the man becomes trapped in a similar psychological situation. its the key to gold digging and getting a man who has money to commit. another example of sunk cost fallacy, If a company constructs a million dollar building but then just before finishing the roofing a grave error is discovered in the building plan, will the company scrap the problem and demolish the building? no. most times they'll conceal the mistake and finish the project. cause scraping the project would mean heavy losses. a man with money is trapped into a relationship/marriage the same way. gold diggers make him spend heavily until he's too invested to leave that even when a woman's liabilities start popping up (eg it turns out she's older than previously mentioned or she has a child etc) the man is forced to accept it cause to back out now will mean all the monies he's spent on that woman have been money down the drain.

CAPSLOCKED:
AND THAT'S WHY THERE ARE MANY OF US TALKING ABOUT DIFFERENT THINGS.
WHILE UBUNJA IS FOCUSED ON GAME AND PIPE LAYING, 39S TALKS ABOUT UNDERSTANDING MANIPULATION, HEART SHARES INFO FROM AROUND THE WEB, CAVE GIVES US DAILY REFRESHING LESSONS WHILE CAPS MOSTLY TALK ABOUT SELF-BETTERMENT.

THE REDPILL IS TOO BROAD FOR IT TO BE FOCUSED ON JUST YOUR CHOICES. A SELF-BETTERED MAN LIKE ODET WOULD PREFER UBUNJA'S TEXTS ON LAYING THE PIPE BECAUSE HE'S ESTABLISHED AND NEEDS JUST THAT. NEWLY MARRIED MEN MAY PREFER 39S, AND YOUNGER BOYS MAY WANT TO PAY MORE ATTENTION TO CAPS.

IT'S REALLY SIMPLE. YOU PICK WHAT BEST APPLIES TO YOU AND YOUR CURRENT SITUATION AND STAGE IN LIFE AND LEAVE THE REST. THE GOAL IS SIMILAR: HELPING MEN UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF PUTTING THEMSELVES FIRST IN ALL THINGS.

Oshokhai69:
Guy you are giving yourself too much credit. When people write the way you have written up there, they are usually fakes. You know this deep down in your heart of hearts.

ubunja:
you're just a troll. you literally created this account 2 days ago to be a nuisance. smh. guys ignore this loser.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT HE'S SAYING IS INCOHERENT WITH ANYTHING. JUST ONE LOUSY LOSER WITH NO PERSONAL LIFE AGENDAS LOOKING FOR ENGAGEMENT THE WRONG WAY ON THE WRONG THREAD. SMH.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT HE'S SAYING IS INCOHERENT WITH ANYTHING. JUST ONE LOUSY LOSER WITH NO PERSONAL LIFE AGENDAS LOOKING FOR ENGAGEMENT THE WRONG WAY ON THE WRONG THREAD. SMH.