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Jowanonline:
I want to share something with you. You see women, fear them.
I dated my wife for four years before I got married to her. All through the relationship I was taking care of she and her family.

I was into crypto. So I was in money. When I got married to her, I told her I don’t want her to work until we have given birth and our child is 5 years old.

So I made her a full time house wife. Every month, I was depositing 20k in her account. I told her not to touch the money, that she will use the money to start a business of her own once our child is 5 years.

I am the one paying all the bills at home. Even pad. I was the one buying for her.

When our son became 2 years, I enrolled him in a private school all bills still on me.

During the crypto crash, I lost a huge sum of money. I decided to use the remaining money and start a business. I have not done business before, so within 6 months, the business started shaking and was on the brisk on collapsing.

I told one of my female friend who was into crypto too and she is also in my line of business, so she schooled me and I needed 1 million to close the loop holes in my business so that the business can bounce back.

I told my wife to borrow me 1 million naira from the money I have been saving in her account for she to start a business once our child gets to 5 years. Can you believe my wife refused?

I taught it was a joke until I checked where we normally keep our ATM card and I noticed she has removed her ATM card from there.

I tried everything to make her give me that money, she refused. Saying it’s now her money and not mine. I begged and begged she refused.

I called her mother and I explained things to her and she said where they come from, it is the man that gives the woman money and take care of the wife and not the other way round.

Oga JB, this is the reason why it is good to marry your tribe girl. I was gradually running into depression.

That my female friend saw it in my countenance and she asked me what the problem was? I just opened upto her and she transferred 2m to my account and told me to pay her back once my business bounced back.

I thanked her so much and within 6 months, I sent her 2.5m as appreciation because my business is now doing well.

I called my wife and I told her since she now has money, henceforth we will be sharing bills in the home. I told her if I pay house rent this year, she will pay the following year. If I pay our child school fees this term, she will pay the following term. If I drop feeding money this week, she will drop next week. She was laughing when I was telling her all these.

It was when the week came for her to feed the family and I left for work without dropping a dime that her eyes cleared. She did not cook throughout that week. Do I care? I was eating at a canteen. I just gave a stern warning that if anything happens to my child, she will have me to contend with.

The following week came, I dropped money. School fees came and when our child stayed at home for 2 weeks because his school fees has not been paid. She was forced to pay.

House rent came. Our rent is 1.5m per annum. She said over her dead body will she pay. I just told her no problem that once they eject us out. I will rent another place and collect my child, so that she can go and stay with her family.

She was forced to pay the rent. And her account balance was now 500k. Now she wants to make peace. Her parents can’t call me because I warned her to tell her parents not to ever call me nor step their foot in my house again because when I asked her for that money, her mother and father supported their daughter.

They can’t even call me because I have blocked and deleted their number for long. I will make sure she exhaust all the money in her account. I will now give her a go ahead to go and start working for her own money.

Even if she starts working, this is how we will be sharing bills in this marriage. I have already told her that if she can’t cope, she should send me divorce papers and I will gladly sign it.

I will rather earn my money and spend it on myself than give this woman my kobo.

That her attitude really opened my eyes. Oga JB had it been I was sick nkor? That was how this woman would have allowed me to die.

I even sent my parents and friends to beg this woman during my business crises, this woman refused.

I have lost love and value for her. I have lost value for marriage too because I did not in my widest imagination think this woman will do this to me.

I have not touched her for almost 2 years now. Am not even a sex person. When she is tired, she will leave this marriage herself

Prettygirl200:
Do I look like a prostitute to u Or hookup girls no dey your area?? Pls make do with them. U aren't in my league. Thank u.

sweethat dont ming that young boy called Silentgroper.u not a postitute jor.....anyways, i swaaar am a nice guy & has discussssed, please pleaase please can i mate wit u has a friend..I will all so fufil h epromise of 30k(30 thousand naira)..be nice, u wANt?(no ofeinse)

PumpumPrince:

sweethat dont ming that young boy called Silentgroper.u not a postitute jor.....anyways, i swaaar am a nice guy & has discussssed, please pleaase please can i mate wit u has a friend..I will all so fufil h epromise of 30k(30 thousand naira)..be nice, u wANt?(no ofeinse)

etrange:
You guys are not intelligent at all.

The point up there is that men and women do everything bad and good. And we don't go around shouting "fear men" on this platform. When we read about skull mining, we say "afonjas", when we read about killings in the North, we say "Muslims", when a man rapes, we call out the man in question or call out rapists in general. But the moment the culprit is a woman, everyone makes it about the gender "fear women!", "that gender", etc.. Yet men have been doing worse things. It's preposterous.

Prettygirl200:
Lies he has been cheating that's for sure, let me tell no matter how long a man jerks off one day that warmth juicy, deep and fleshy pussy go hungry am one day.
Yes he might be doing soapy but then I know that within these two years, he has cheated .

Prettygirl200:
Why do I feel like u are the one using this same monicker.

kenedyx:

PumpumPrince:
SALUTE!!
yor instinct is 100 correct altho am tryin to keep low key from one babe chassin me.......u may be right. but which same monica u refferin to?

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

Modified
Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

Femi8586:
In as much as you're trying so hard to be neutral, it is still obvious for any real man to see your biasness in favour of the wife..
You keep hitting on the man so hard. You blamed him for almost everything. Even for his wife's and in-laws stupid attitude, you still blamed the man.

No just that, instead of his wife who started the whole mess to make peace, you're still calling out the man to go and make peace with her as if he wronged her.

The man used the best method to discipline his wife till she regained her senses. Not by beating, abusing or sending her packing like some men do. Yet you still try to find means to blame him more for everything while trying to play neutral

It can be concluded that you're a simp. Female biased.

Prettygirl200:
Why do I feel like u are the one using this same monicker.

immortalcrown:
You just read with a biased mind. If I trivialize or deny the wife's wickedness, point it out. You are just pained that I balance my judgement. You are pained that I reveal the man's contribution to the crisis. If there is anywhere I blame the man wrongly, point it out.

Nyascobar1414:
StFU you Nicompoop

immortalcrown:
You only bark like a dog. You have not been able to prove I am biased. Keep barking.

Nyascobar1414:
Your simping disgust me like TF you simping??Huh

Prettygirl200:
Do I look like a prostitute to u Or hookup girls no dey your area?? Pls make do with them. U aren't in my league. Thank u.

Prettygirl200:
Question!!!!

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

Modified
Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

Shugavee:
a stingy man’s opinion

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

Modified
Nairaland fools have no remedy. They cannot decode an abridged comment. The same fools still go out of context when a detailed comment is provided. This poster just said he dated the wife for 4 years and made her comfortable because he was making much money. I pointed out that she would have shown her true colour if he was rational in spending on her during the dating or during the first few months in the marriage. He used too much spending on her to deprive himself the opportunity to know her true character. Those who quote and insult me should prove me wrong. Do not just say rubbish when you quote me.

Boomboost:
The rubbish you said was pamper her and pray...