mama-gee:

If I were a man, I wouldn't do it.

Any man who does that is[b] dumb[/b] as well as[b] ignorant[/b].

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mama-gee:

If I were a man, I wouldn't do it.

Any man who does that is dumb as well as ignorant.

Mr Black:

@ mama_gee, why would you say that?

Lord_Reed:

mama-gee am surprised! I thot dis was every gurls dream, a man who loves unreservedly?!

190:

mama but i can spend my life saving just 2 slip a ring in2 your finger

mama-gee>
190 knees down
will u marry me!!

Don't you ever get tired

190:

why should i?
did adam ever get tired of eve!!
mama-com on'
gimme 2 chances!

kashmo:

Mr Black, I say give it a try! At least you are a man & nothing should deterred you from what your heart desires. If your heart leans towards her coming over, why not! If vice versa then just keep her posted till u have enough means to fund her air fare. Good luck man!

Mr Black:

Hello Nairalander's,

I am about to take a decision and would really appreciate your candid opinions on this Issue. I am a young man who happens to be a student, but work during the holidays. I have a girlfriend based in the US whom i have been dating for 5 years. She has only resided in the US for 1 1/2 years and intends to come visit but cannot afford to buy her air fare ticket.

I was able to save some money from my last vacation job and if i have to get her air ticket, then i will be left with only 25% of my savings which will still be spent upon her arrival and stay with me. I am not too comfortable with the long period we have stayed apart and believe this is an opportunity for us to define our relationship. I do intend to ENGAGE her when she arrives and then plan for marriage towards the end of next year when i must have graduated from school.

Now the Question is, if you were in my shoes, would you spend almost all of your savings for your girlfriend? And if you must know i really care about her and love her a lot. Keep your honest comments coming.

Mr Black:

Meaning, you would not do such a thing?

saintneo:

Given the situation, I'll advice you to get that imagination of your mind. I am aware that the male species then to sacrifice all in other to get to the female kind; however, this is not a Shakespearian novel.