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MrEar:
Ubunja, I am not riding you or anyone's dick.

Please, stop making this young men think their masculinity is solely dependent on their ability to pick up and drill a woman or lay the pipe, as you put it . There's so much more to life than pussy.

Don't allow perverse individuals derail and scatter this thread. You were very much active here when certain people from ashawo thread wanted to turn this place to a beer palour were they can discuss about their dirty sexual escapades. Few individuals fought them and drove them out of this thread, Individuals like Martinez and if I recall correctly, he was attacked and called gay for doing the right thing, same way you're indirectly insinuating I am gay by telling me to stop dick riding.

Please, Dont bring back those miscreants.

As for that guy that said he practiced most of what men do in porn with his gf.... Please don't bring that kind of statement here. There are young boys that come to this thread to gain knowledge and some of them are sick and tired of their addiction to sex and porn. Don't make them feel watching porn or practising the acts and styles found there is a cool hip thing to do.

The oba of benin is an educated man, but still he believes in a deity and he worships that deity..Is he stupid and foolish for doing so? So why do some of you think I am stupid for believing in a Deity or a spirit world?

If I begin to tell you all the history of porn, those behind its production, the goal they aim to achieve and what they are currently achieving, you all will start insulting me because I believe in God and I link my points with scriptures.

Okay o... No wahala.

crystalmoon:
golden 100 best essay I have seen today I hereby award 5 Grammies for best written word of the day
If you like marry but as for me and my dawg marriage is a no no

Nyascobar1414:
Funny guy.. Why do you think they wont meet a virgin that has not done anal and bj...
Why do you also think sane redpill guys will take the excuses of rape and ......!

Brunosamel:
Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic.


This guy’s father’s responses are endemic to men who are Blue Pill Alphas. These men can be some of the worst White Knights you’ll ever encounter. Their reactions are behaviorally Alpha, but their reasoning is rooted in their investments in Blue Pill conditioning. It’s always an effort to display higher value by identifying with and qualifying for women they believe should have authority above men.
This manifests as an exaggerated form of AMOGing any guy who doesn’t reaffirm his Blue Pill ego investment. So you get a guy who bristles at Red Pill awareness. Expressing anything Red Pill becomes an opportunity to prove his value as a White Knight and resist any truths that would challenge his Blue Pill ego.
I’ve known several men who anyone would consider Alpha. They default to action, dominance, authority, and control of whatever life puts in front of them. They handle their shit. They own their business ventures; they have all the Dark Triad traits you’d expect from guys like this – but put them in a social setting with an attractive girl, and they go as Beta as any Blue Pill guy you’ll ever know.
Their Blue Pill conditioning preempts all Alpha-ness. They compartmentalize the Alpha aspect of their personality to put their Beta-for-women-Alpha-for-men element to the forefront. This can be incredibly annoying when a Blue Pill Alpha bases his brand on Beta-for-women-Alpha-for-men. They literally cannot afford to be anything but an Alpha Simp.

Dliquidmetal:
you don't need marriage before you get kids though and even going mgtow dosent also mean you can't/won't have kids.

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

Meedon:
Last year, a pastor took someone's wife from the church he went to minister (he usually come there for Crusades) and married her.

The husband was heartbroken, but he couldn't do anything. This said woman have given birth to 5 children before this pastor took her.


Everything Ubunja revealed here is valid. Pastors are very rich in pussy and resources.

Pukkalolo:
CaveAdullam, you've said alot hardcore things in this thread, and I totally agree with most, if not all of them. I must say, you are pretty much smart guy.

My problem with female shit test is that many guys see it the wrong way.

Yes, Girls test guys alot. In summary, she's shit testing you to find out if you're high quality guy she can mate with. If you pass her test, I guess she'll allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

If you do a quick Google search on how to pass the female shit test, you'll see hundreds of search results of different ways to pass the woman's test. But there lies the problem.

When it comes female shit test, the solution to the problem is actually the problem.

The problem isn't that a woman is testing you; the problem is that you are trying to pass her test.

Wierd, right?

Ok, let's go back to school for a moment. Why do you try to pass your teachers test? First off, you view your teacher as higher authority so If you don't pass the teacher's test, you'll be purnished.
Secondly, if you pass the teacher's test you'll be rewarded by being promoted to the next class or something.

Why are men so concerned about passing a girl's shit test? Well, because when you pass her test, you demonstrate to her that you're a strong guy, then her attraction for you goes up and she'll reward you by allow you have access to her sexual companionship. Isn't it?
If you fail her test, she assumes you're a low quality guy, and then she'll not allow you have access to her sexual companionship.

Mtcheew...To be frank, there are lots things that's wrong with this kind of thinking.

Paradoxically, trying to pass a woman's test means you perceive her as higher authority than you. It means you feel she's has more value than you. It means you feel she's above you.

Think of it, if you see of yourself as more valuable than the woman, then you won't really give a shit about her passing her shit test. You'll even get irritated when you sense that she's trying to test you.


Wait, let me throw light on what shit test is.
A female shit test can come in different form:
* it can come in form of her throw confrontational questions/statements at you.
* it can come in form of her insulting or criticizing you.
* It can come in form of her giving you attitude or disrespecting you.
* It can come in form of trying to bait you to do things for her or spend for her.

If you look at these different forms of shit test, you see that she's just acting like an entitled bitch.

Remember most young girls in their prime have entitlement problem, and they often feel they are above men.



When a girl allow you sleep with her, that doesn't necessarily mean you've pass her test. Even if you fail her shit test by doing foolish things for her, she can still reward you with the pussy. For example if you act like a simp towards her by treating her with lots of financial favour and non-financial favour, she can still reward you with the pussy for doing all those favour for her.

Crazy as it sound, a girl might shit test you, and you pass all the test like a bad guy, then she gives you the pussy as a reward. After getting the pussy you feel like an alpha male, but then then you later realize she's has giving you HIV or gonorrhea.

My point is, getting a girl to give you sex doesn't really mean shit. A girl agrees to sleep with Desmond but she refuse to sleep with Smith. But that doesn't mean Desmond is a better person than Smith. That doesn't mean Smith is not an high quality guy.
Getting sex from a girl doesn't automatically mean you are an amazing guy. You should never define your self-worth by your ability to get a girl to date you or sleep with you.

Back to female shit test talk.

The thing is, if I say "stop trying to pass a female shit test"..... then I'm not giving a good advice...because passing a woman's shit test actually shows you're a strong guy.

The real question is, why are you trying to pass her test?

If you're trying to pass her test so she can like you more and give you access to her pussy, then you are of all men most miserable.

But if you're trying to pass her test because you hate being dominated by a lady and you feel that by passing her test she would see that you she can't easily play you, manipulate you or exploit you.... then you are smart guy.


Instead of trying to pass her shit test, you should be the one testing her to see if she's worth your attention.

You might find it hard to believe, but the truth is, Not every girl is worth your attention:
*Maybe she just wanna add burden and problems to your life.
* Maybe she want to give you STD.
* Maybe she's just looking to manipulate you and exploit you.

The idea is not to try to pass her shit test, the idea is to walk away from her as soon as she tries to messes with you.

When I'm interacting with a lady, my mentality is, "once she bleeps up or act like an entitled bitch, I'm dismissing her immediately"

When a girl is acting like an entitled bitch, I'm not thinking "how will l pass her test so I can sleep with her?" Instead I'm thinking "Is it not time for me to dump this entitled bitch?"

Guys always think I’m fronting or exaggerating when I say that I never date manipulative or entitled ladies. I only roll with sweet girls who are respectful, submissive and supportive.

How do I accomplish that?
Because I'm willing and always ready to walk away from girls from who act like entitled bitch. I am totally harsh when it comes to this. Infact I'm a huge jerk when it comes to this.

When a girl start saying nonsense or start misbehaving, I just walk away like that. I wouldn't even tell her I'm leaving. I’ll walk away when she's still mid sentence talking. I don’t give a shit wether she gets upset or not. I value myself and therefore I will not spend a second with a lady that do not value me.

The funny things is, attractive ladies in their prime can’t take this. In their mind, they be like, "who's the hell does this guy think he is"....."what is he even feeling like"

Some of the ladies often try to change their behavior, and try to get my attention back.

As soon as they know I'm willing to move on at any moment, they try not to mess with me.

And the funny is that dating actually feels easier with this mindset because I don't waste time, money and energy trying to convince her to like me. I'm not stressing myself wondering whether I'm saying or doing the right thing.

If I'm not impressed with her behavior or she's not giving me the vibe I want, I simply walk away. No making excuses. No arguing. No apologies. I just bounce away.

Here's a real life example to explain what I'm talking about. 2 weeks ago, during the weekend, I was hanging out with my homies at a cool joint. One of my guy hosted a little get together... so we were just chilling and have fun. They were couple of ladies around. I started interacting a lady who was with us. She is a friend to one of my homie's girlfriend who was also present with us.

I and this girl conversation was actually flowing well, I was liking her already. Before I knew it, she said something that turned me off. She said she's looking for guy that'll buy her Brazilian wig; basically she said "Mehn, the only guy that can win my heart right now is the guy that buys me Brazilian wig and a big large pizza, then take me go shopping."

Before she even completed her sentence, I had already started walking out of her. I left her mid sentence. I didn't even looked back to see how she reacted, but I was sure she's was shocked by my behavior.
Through out the the rest of the get together, I tried my best to avoid her like plague.

Right there at the get-together, she was already telling one of my homie, that 'I'm so cocky and so full of myself, and that what's even special about me.'

Funny enough, about 40 minutes later, after I walk away from her, she approach me and try to initiate conversation with me again. She asked why I left her just like that. I confidently told her, "I got bored talking to you."

She was shocked by my response: no guy has ever told her something like that.

Then she said, "If it was because of what I said about Brazilian wig and a guy taking me out on shopping...I didn't really mean it... It's just normal girls talk, and I was just trying to pull your legs."

Lolz...I accepted her indirect way of apology. After that, we started flowing again. Her respect and attraction for me actually increase more after that incidence. Before I started writing this, she just left my place.

You might say I passed her shit test. But passing her test was not the goal. The goal was walking away from her silly ass once she says or does something I don't like.

Remember guys, Never tolerate bullshit from women. Getting respect is better than getting sex. Put your self-respect over anything else.

Stay blessed brothers.

Kipaji:
"Before I started writing this, she just left my place"
Lol, what was she doing there man?

ProphetJeroboam:
What happens when you wife a hoe that still has unfinished business with the streets. If you think marriage is binding to the average woman then you’re as naive as they come. A woman’s hypergamy simply does not care. It’s how they’ve survived for years since the early cave men. I will always advise keeping your level of investment below hers, it helps to steady the power structure in your favor. Let her be the one to say “After all I have done for you” not you. Do not settle for a woman that still has her best life to live. Michael B Jordan’s story with Lori Harvey comes to mind, Michael completely ignored the fact that Lori got down with a father and son.

A woman’s behavior with a man is inversely proportional to how he sees her, give her the whole world and she will ask for space, treat her like a queen and she will treat you like her subject, treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan, wife up a hoe and thou shall watch her blow 7 niggas in a row.

Uptheante:
What of prostitutes who Bleep hundreds & thousands of men?
If we are to go by your analysis, can we conclude that they show love by offering sex?
Or are they some kind of exception from what u are saying?

luminouz:
That's what you call disgusting?

You clearly havent seen what's disgusting bro. You revealed your card too early. That girl was on a roll, she would have told you more hidden shiit if you kept your moral face deadpanned. If she can do the ice-block-flow stopper move, she has done much worse than that but you will never know because your face judged her and that made her know she fuqed up. I love deadpanning my face to hear a woman's true nature


What that girl did gave me an idea already and I love it

ubunja:
"there's more to life than pussy", this is the Red Pill, this is not life orientation. isn't this the Romance Section anyways? so what do you wanna talk about? jobs, business and education? please sit your ass down.

anyways how can we be shouting "Women have nothing to offer just pussy" and then at the same time make it a crime to talk about pussy?! doesn't make sense.

emmaodet:
Humans are very very very funny.
Someone will use their own hand to switch on a tv, pickup the remote and tune to Sound city or Channel O and then wonder why they play only music 24/7 there. What else are you looking for? Yoruba movie on sound city? Are you crazy?
If you are tired of music, switch to african magic for movies or supersport for sports only.
Why will someone complain regularly that NatGeo station only shows Animal documentaries. What else are you looking for there?
You picked your phone, logged in into nairaland, switched to Romance section and then wonder why all what they talk about is sex, women and romance. What else are you looking for? Sport?
Mtcheewww

Nyascobar1414:
Funny guy.. Why do you think they wont meet a virgin that has not done anal and bj...
Why do you also think sane redpill guys will take the excuses of rape and home accidents that puntured the hymen...

We dont take these excuses, lol, can a girl take excuses of a guy being broke?hell no she wont take that... Its either you successful,you will be successful or you broke..


About you guys saying marriage is a no no, I'm not Opposing your stand with MGTOW...

My Uncle thats a Retired Reverend Father in the U.S is even more concerned about us to make sure we marry cos he is somehow regretting why he didnt have kids(marry) cos the loneliness he is experiecing ehh.. I mean this man is rich,well to do with many properties across Nigeria but is major regret is him not using his money to train his own kids cos he gad no Child.. Also he is lonely though through his facial expression(always smiling) you will think he is doing fine but atleast if he could turn the hands of time he will definitely father kids,though One of the thing that took him to Priesthood was cos of severe maltreatment from his aunt,thats why he hated females..
Apart from that my Mum told me Guys dont experience loneliness when they are young Its when you ageing you will have to fill a void in your life...

Do what his best for you..
MGTOW or marriage..


Live and lets live!

crystalmoon:
well said I would have children but not within the confine of marriage and to me only a loser is eager to get married

MrEar:
Ubunja, I am not riding you or anyone's dick.

Please, stop making this young men think their masculinity is solely dependent on their ability to pick up and drill a woman or lay the pipe, as you put it . There's so much more to life than pussy.

Don't allow perverse individuals derail and scatter this thread. You were very much active here when certain people from ashawo thread wanted to turn this place to a beer palour were they can discuss about their dirty sexual escapades. Few individuals fought them and drove them out of this thread, Individuals like Martinez and if I recall correctly, he was attacked and called gay for doing the right thing, same way you're indirectly insinuating I am gay by telling me to stop dick riding.

Please, Dont bring back those miscreants.

As for that guy that said he practiced most of what men do in porn with his gf.... Please don't bring that kind of statement here. There are young boys that come to this thread to gain knowledge and some of them are sick and tired of their addiction to sex and porn. Don't make them feel watching porn or practising the acts and styles found there is a cool hip thing to do.

The oba of benin is an educated man, but still he believes in a deity and he worships that deity..Is he stupid and foolish for doing so? So why do some of you think I am stupid for believing in a Deity or a spirit world?

If I begin to tell you all the history of porn, those behind its production, the goal they aim to achieve and what they are currently achieving, you all will start insulting me because I believe in God and I link my points with scriptures.

Okay o... No wahala.

ubunja:
imagine someone walking into a fashion boutique and shouting "there's more to life than clothes". dude here we sell clothes I don't know what you looking for.

Oshokhai69:
Wait until you are in your 50s and 60s without a spouse. Then you will understand. Don’t forget that at that point, you are just an old man to every young desirable woman. If you have money, they will date or marry you for your money. If you are not rich, they won’t touch you at all.

As for having kids without being married, forget it. Better not to have kids at all. You cannot raise kids on your own as a man. So you may as well forget your kids because they will be with their mothers. And their mothers will say things to them that will make them hate you. Look at Elon Musk. He pretends to be happy but that is the loneliest man in the world with all his money. His kids hate him and he cannot keep a serious relationship. But he always wants to be in one.

Dliquidmetal:
you don't need marriage before you get kids though and even going mgtow dosent also mean you can't/won't have kids.

Nyascobar1414:
Yea.. Those kinda men exist bro...


I really wanna possess this dark triad traits bu I too the pity people..

Uptheante:
What of prostitutes who Bleep hundreds & thousands of men?
If we are to go by your analysis, can we conclude that they show love by offering sex?
Or are they some kind of exception from what u are saying?