₦airaland Forum

Elimon:
U wan go de date Secondary school girls or underage

If the sec school girl will guarantee me a happy home, why not?
Besides,
Where you dey wey one 21 year old girl dey celebrate her virginity?
Where you dey wey one church dey give Certificate of Virginity to her members?
You're simply ill-informed.

nijaomegacode:
Free the poster abeg. Most married women are loose and broken; they aren't happy in their marriages.
If you're married, I bet you're not happy too.

Back to sender

Nazgul:
Lol...have you forgotten that Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world?

Also the average salary of a Nigerian graduate is less than 150k, when you add inflation and other factors, you'll see that you're earning peanuts. Start up businesses are going through hell, unemployment is at it peak.

CBN openly stated last year that less than 10% of the average Nigerian has up to 500k in their account... what does that tell you? That means that despite all the packaging and smiling face, most people are suffering.

Finally it's not a secret that the average Nigerian girl is greedy and lacks contentment. So despite the efforts her husband is making to sustain the home, she will always want more, and if her ex can provide it, she'll be willing to open her legs and suck his cóck to get it. So yes your gender needs deliverance not me.

When you leave Nigeria you'll understand that most of the problems you feel needs prayers and fasting are solved by governments who know their jobs.

Thank God you said an average.

nijaomegacode:
If you want a happy lasting home please never ever in your gentle life marry a woman who has ex because, no matter how rich, how beautiful, how (temporarily) happy your home is, she will leave you the very moment her ex shows up.
Women are forever attached to the men who disvirgin them. If that man comes around after 30 years, she will still fall for him. It's only a matter of time.
You can date and bleep any woman but when it comes to marriage, find a woman who you will be her first.
Like I said, if you want a happy home, marry a woman that you're her first. Always be the first!
Be the first and be happy!

that means you no wan marry now. Every woman get ex

nijaomegacode:
1. There are many virgins on the planet. A handful here in Nigeria.
2. Let the foolish men who didn't read this advice marry those women who have exs and watch their marriage crash.
My child, try not to marrY a woman you did not disvirgin.
It is even better you go back and marry one of those girls you disvirgined in highschool.
Peace be upon you.

So what you saying is, for a guy who never deflowered a girl in his life, he has to keep looking for a virgin to deflower so he can marry her ?

Na wa for this ur theory o

jesmond3945:
that means you no wan marry now. Every woman get ex

You're wrong!

jesmond3945:
that means you no wan marry now. Every woman get ex

Are you happy Medianna?

Medianna:
Thank God you said an average.

If you deliberately choose to Ignore the obvious fact that average in this context simply means majority I'd take it that you're trolling me.

nijaomegacode:
Are you happy Medianna?

A piece of advice.
Don't work on you manner of approach.
I'm not even married yet.
So what is all these all about??

Nazgul:
Lol...have you forgotten that Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world?

Also the average salary of a Nigerian graduate is less than 150k, when you add inflation and other factors, you'll see that you're earning peanuts. Start up businesses are going through hell, unemployment is at it peak.

CBN openly stated last year that less than 10% of the average Nigerian has up to 500k in their account... what does that tell you? That means that despite all the packaging and smiling face, most people are suffering.

Finally it's not a secret that the average Nigerian girl is greedy and lacks contentment. So despite the efforts her husband is making to sustain the home, she will always want more, and if her ex can provide it, she'll be willing to open her legs and suck his cóck to get it. So yes your gender needs deliverance not me.

When you leave Nigeria you'll understand that most of the problems you feel needs prayers and fasting are solved by governments who know their jobs.

Be blessed my brother.

Medianna:
A piece of advice.
Don't work on you manner of approach.
I'm not even married yet.
So what is all these all about??

I mean no harm my child.

Nazgul:
If you deliberately choose to Ignore the obvious fact that average in this context simply means majority I'd take it that you're trolling me.

See ehn..
The thing about life is not everyone is the same.
And environment matters a lot.
I didn't find myself in this kind of circle so what most guys say here about women and money and all of that is strange to me.
Not like I don't believe it OK..
My point is its not as bad as you portray it to be. Simple
You don't just expect me to agree with everything I see or hear, do you?

nijaomegacode:
I mean no harm my child.

Yes papa medianna

Medianna:
Yes papa medianna

Then I am happy for you.
Listen to this my dear.
When you get married, please do not entertain any of your exs. Know within you that what the saw has improved. You're not the same person the met. You're better now!
Focus on your husband alone and build a good family.
Finally, when the time comes for you to select a man, do not choose:
a man who is active on social media, a man who is popular or a man who needs the approval of others.
God be with you my daughter.

nijaomegacode:
Then I am happy for you.
Listen to this my dear.
When you get married, please do not entertain any of your exs. Know within you that what the saw has improved. You're not the same person the met. You're better now!
Focus on your husband alone and build a good family.
Finally, when the time comes for you to select a man, do not choose:
a man who is active on social media, a man who is popular or a man who needs the approval of others.
God be with you my daughter.

Daddy your advice is good. Thanks

Karleb:
It's funny how you people talk about alpha, beta and all those shits.

A woman can cheat on her alpha male husband with a simp.

This thing has no rule.

Give me an example where a lady cheats on his alpha's husband to a beta male. You don't have clue about women dynamics so shut your trash.

YinkaOlusesi16:
You are right because that am talking from experience, that ex`s of a thing is a threat to everywhere men because sometimes women behaved as if they lacked sense of humour.

Lol really?
@sense of humour

Medianna:
Daddy your advice is good. Thanks

You're welcome my girl.

helinues:
How is it possible for a woman not to have an ex?

You did not think this through my guy

Very possible. Some women are so decisive and lucky that they quickly stay true to the responsible men who approached them.
I have met lots of women who only dated one man in their life. My mom is one. Her entire community attested to it that my dad was the only man she dated. It is the most peaceful marriage I have ever seen. They're now 83 years old and they're still in love.
Marry a woman without ex if you want peace.

kenedyx:
Lol. Pelvic hunters.

There are other laws that will usurp that okafors law you guys always go on and on about on here.
If you're better than her ex, there's no way she's going back to him.

If she finds someone better than you, ex or not, she will definitely leave... or cheat.

Karleb:
It's funny how you people talk about alpha, beta and all those shits.

A woman can cheat on her alpha male husband with a simp.

This thing has no rule.

Both confused. The solution is to marry a woman whom you're her first.

Aaaaaaaahhhhhhh:
the problem is boundaries,setting defined an unshakable boundaries with an ex .
Women these days see sex as nothing, with the whole feminist bullshit , they see cheating as nothing and thus cannot be trusted by their husbands it's very sad and tbh scares me a lot .

You're right to be scared. Marriages last in the days of our fathers because the man would be given a woman who has not slept with anyone (no ex). He will harvest her directly from her father's house and settle her in his own house.
These days, girls are fvcked from secondary school, some from primary school and others from the street. Few make it to University. They don't listen to their parents. However, some are protected under their parents. These are the ones you should go and marry.

nijaomegacode:
Both confused. The solution is to marry a woman whom you're her first.

You're ignorant. Same mistake the OP was making.

You naively think a girl can only cheat on you with her exes. Or that because you're her first she can't cheat on you.

Obviously you are the confused one here.

etrange:
Lol... you guys are not intelligent. Sometimes, I wonder if you're all budding teenagers on this app. You just say the stupidest things.

keep revealing yourself more....

All thee evening newspapers.

Nazgul:
Lol...you clearly don't have any married ex you chat with.

Most of them are the ones who initiate sex talk due to loneliness. I had an experience with one like that, the only reason why I used to reply her nasty chats back then was because we were far from each other, she's in Abj while I'm in lagos.

She literally tells me about her sexual life with her husband, that most times he can't go more than 2 rounds...etc. This kinds of discussion automatically prepares the ground for sex, her requesting for favours from you is just to see you, she has already made up her mind to sleep with you so once you make an attempt she wouldn't resist...it's that bad.

Any decent girl who respects her home and her husband wouldn't ask any kind of favour from an ex she had countless sex with. I mean she has inlaws, family and friends, even the church...so why go to your ex for favours?

Why not cut off and focus on your marriage if truly you've moved on? Truth is most girls want to eat their cake and have it.

That depends on the kind of ladies you have as ex anyway.
Where I come from, married ladies don't fvck outside; there's grave consequences for anyone that engage in extra marital affairs.

nijaomegacode:
You can date and bleep any woman but when it comes to marriage, find a woman who you will be her first.

You must be a joker. So who are you leaving these ones for? After you have slept with people's daughters, you are now looking for a virgin to marry. You have soiled yourself in the pit of illicit sex and now, you want to take that pollution to taint a sexually pure person.

Karma doesn't work that way. Only virgin men deserve virgin women. If you are not a virgin man then you have no right to a virgin woman.

I always pity simps that marry all these ex ash@woos and girls that had many ex bfs....

I mean how does a sane man wanna commit to a girl that had many sexual partners,even thought the same eex bfs didnt commit to her...
I mean they prolly recycled her and gave it to the last guy whic are the simps to take home.. This even comes with paying a bride price sef...



The only medium of exchange for a ring is an Hymen...

No Hymen.. No Marriage...

Ishilove:
You must be a joker. So who are you leaving these ones for? After you have slept with people's daughters, you are now looking for a virgin to marry. You have soiled yourself in the pit of illicit sex and now, you want to take that pollution to a taint a sexually pure person.

Karma doesn't work that way. Only virgin men deserve virgin women. If you are not a virgin man then you have no right to a virgin woman.

I'm dammned surprise cos you being old enough to think karma still exist is what makes me laugh my gut out....

Karma doesn't exist, karma wouldn't and cant exist...
I can give you many scenarios to prove it..


Also about being a virgin man to marry a virgin woman...

How about saying that only rich girls should look for rich husbands..

Cos all dammnn,frustrated broke girls are always looking forward or are getting married to rich men..


Broke girls= broke men...
Rich girls=rich men...

But since this equation is not reality. That definitely means non virgin can get married to virgin.

Non virgin man= virgin girl..
Virgin man= Non virgin girl...

Virginity to men is likewise useless as the 'p' in psychology

nijaomegacode:
If you want a happy lasting home please never ever in your gentle life marry a woman who has ex because, no matter how rich, how beautiful, how (temporarily) happy your home is, she will leave you the very moment her ex shows up.
Women are forever attached to the men who disvirgin them. If that man comes around after 30 years, she will still fall for him. It's only a matter of time.
You can date and bleep any woman but when it comes to marriage, find a woman who you will be her first.
Like I said, if you want a happy home, marry a woman that you're her first. Always be the first!
Be the first and be happy!

you no be person ex?

ukaface:
you no be person ex?

The way you as a woman is wired not the same way we men are wired..

Nyascobar1414:
The way you as a woman is wired not the same way we men are wired..

so what are you saying?
The women that are your exes shouldn't get married, but you are okay to be married to someone who has never been in a relationship??
You must be kidding yourself.

ukaface:
so what are you saying?
The women that are your exes shouldn't get married, but you are okay to be married to someone who has never been in a relationship??
You must be kidding yourself.

The goodnews is that there are simps and weak men that will go round and wife up these ex babes...
Real guys dont take used up products...


That is the game....
Same way girls leave men that did so many things for them and their family to go get married to a new rich suitor...



Hate the game, dont hate the player.

Yusufisraelj:
Trash. At this point in my life I'm highly opposed to premarital sex however this your post is very childish.

Very few ladies have this tendencies and that's bkos they've shared so much deep memories with the ex (which may be a product of sacrifices he made, or emotional connections from pleasure or cheerful times together) that the current guy is playing below par.

Most ladies are faithful wives, how many married as virgins?

she might be in your house, the home might look happy, but I can bet my two his and my two balls that' her mind no dey with you.